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Friends request and no message..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey them all the time (2 today), and no messages are all. We never accept them as usually it's just then wanting to see pictures, and we have plenty public already |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey them all the time (2 today), and no messages are all. We never accept them as usually it's just then wanting to see pictures, and we have plenty public already"
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Can't see a problem with it as u always have the power to accept or not and continue power to repeat after,granted we all use the site differently but for us it saves wasting time messaging for some not to reply,we believe there must be an attraction firstly so adding as friends is a way of seeing more pics especially face pics and then we know weather to proceed with a view to meeting,we won't meet anyone without face pics or that hasn't took the five mins to fill their profile in,we are all here for fun end of day,we do add people early doors and a small percentage do think its rude but this helps us out as we just think would we really want to meet these type where we are watching what we say or do.like we say ur always in the power button seat to repeat but need face pics early doors to proceed |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Can't see a problem with it as u always have the power to accept or not and continue power to repeat after,granted we all use the site differently but for us it saves wasting time messaging for some not to reply,we believe there must be an attraction firstly so adding as friends is a way of seeing more pics especially face pics and then we know weather to proceed with a view to meeting,we won't meet anyone without face pics or that hasn't took the five mins to fill their profile in,we are all here for fun end of day,we do add people early doors and a small percentage do think its rude but this helps us out as we just think would we really want to meet these type where we are watching what we say or do.like we say ur always in the power button seat to repeat but need face pics early doors to proceed"
But do many people accept your unsolicited friend request? |
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Not many reject,this site is full of fakes and time wasters and we haven't got all day to waste messaging to and throw to find out its a pic collecter or man pretending tobe a woman,and then we feel we have tobe real and honest here but we are by for no oil paintings or up our own are but some profiles are just not for our preference and by getting to the face pics quickly ensures a way forward.like a lot on here we ask for a face pic on first contact but a lot seem not to read profiles or forget to send.we don't mean to come across rude or arrogant but been swinging over 20 years and some just want to mess u about,someone who is serious on meeting will not have a problem accepting friends to view more pics |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Can't see a problem with it as u always have the power to accept or not and continue power to repeat after,granted we all use the site differently but for us it saves wasting time messaging for some not to reply,we believe there must be an attraction firstly so adding as friends is a way of seeing more pics especially face pics and then we know weather to proceed with a view to meeting,we won't meet anyone without face pics or that hasn't took the five mins to fill their profile in,we are all here for fun end of day,we do add people early doors and a small percentage do think its rude but this helps us out as we just think would we really want to meet these type where we are watching what we say or do.like we say ur always in the power button seat to repeat but need face pics early doors to proceed"
But you don't know that they have face pics in their friends pics. Maybe they have 20 pics of their arsehole. Wouldn't it be easier messaging people with your face pics and they will reciprocate if they're interested? |
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Very true and as u will also know single men seem to think their cock requires 12 shots from different angles without any face pics so this doesn't offer us any indication on how they look.we believe is someone is serious on meeting then why not fill ur profile in proper to offer some details,face pics can be hidden in friends for all reasons we accept that hence adding early,everyone's got plenty of choice on here and any profile can be ignored or repeated without a care in the world,if someone doesn't want to add us if we have sent,then we respect their wishes and their reasons behind it,we just find its a fast track to a suitable meet,its no different to a single fem getting hundreds of messages only to delete half not even opening them or going on opening line, |
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But you don't know that they have face pics in their friends pics. Maybe they have 20 pics of their arsehole. Wouldn't it be easier messaging people with your face pics and they will reciprocate if they're interested? "
Exactly this.. Our friends pictures are mainly just vanilla face pictures, with a few x rated with faces in, to show us as a real couple..
When we eventually accept a friend request, its often dissapointing to see so many pictures showing varying angles of a male member.
If we want to show someone our faces we just send a picture privately..
A friends invite is a privlege, and a way of us establishing who we are genuinely interested in or have already met.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they have friends pics, I accept, have a look then block them... It says on my profile, people that send requests, without recent conversation with me, will be blocked, so... |
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"Very true and as u will also know single men seem to think their cock requires 12 shots from different angles without any face pics so this doesn't offer us any indication on how they look.we believe is someone is serious on meeting then why not fill ur profile in proper to offer some details,face pics can be hidden in friends for all reasons we accept that hence adding early,everyone's got plenty of choice on here and any profile can be ignored or repeated without a care in the world,if someone doesn't want to add us if we have sent,then we respect their wishes and their reasons behind it,we just find its a fast track to a suitable meet,its no different to a single fem getting hundreds of messages only to delete half not even opening them or going on opening line,"
We don’t have any face pictures in our friends only gallery so you still wouldn’t know if there was an attraction without sending a message and asking for face pictures.
Seems an odd way to go about things tbh... |
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90% of our friends list are people we have already met, and plan to meet again, the rest are people we’ve spoken to, and exchanged face pics, who we plan to meet in the future. If they go quiet or we don’t meet within a certain time they get deleted. |
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So although it suits us and its not for everyone even though u always have the delete button,while ever ur typing 30 messages and only getting 10 replays then half of these reject,fake,man pretending tobe women,time waster,pic collected wasting ur time taking the trouble to mail then ask for pics,we will have wasted very little time and effort plus sorting out early doors seeing face pic to enable weather to progress to chat or save everyone's time by ending early doors,we are not saying anyone's way is wrong its each to their own and a good debate,we can say if u compare it to a club ur first opinion on weather to chat is what they look like if ur looking for play partners, |
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"90% of our friends list are people we have already met, and plan to meet again, the rest are people we’ve spoken to, and exchanged face pics, who we plan to meet in the future. If they go quiet or we don’t meet within a certain time they get deleted. "
Ur profile pic clearly shows 95% of ur face lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes wait till they go offline,look at their pics and delete. Or i just leave them there so they can't resend one."
This for me but as a guy I don't get lots of them.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wouldn't even think of sending a friend request unless I chatted with them first. I get quite a few requests, and to be honest, I will accept if I like the look of their profile |
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"90% of our friends list are people we have already met, and plan to meet again, the rest are people we’ve spoken to, and exchanged face pics, who we plan to meet in the future. If they go quiet or we don’t meet within a certain time they get deleted.
Ur profile pic clearly shows 95% of ur face lol x"
Aye, but I could only have one eye, or be horribly disfigured from the nose up  ya never know...  |
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"90% of our friends list are people we have already met, and plan to meet again, the rest are people we’ve spoken to, and exchanged face pics, who we plan to meet in the future. If they go quiet or we don’t meet within a certain time they get deleted.
Ur profile pic clearly shows 95% of ur face lol x
Aye, but I could only have one eye, or be horribly disfigured from the nose up ya never know... "
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I think its worth mentioning it alters with who is sending and recieving,our preference we dont add any single men unless met and know when they send a invite,as for cples we only add if they look suitable for meets and have a fully filled in profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For some, it's a way if allowing YOU to see their face pic. It would make more sense if they messaged you too though.
Cal"
I also think some people assume the site works like Facebook and you have to be 'Friends' before you can message each other. (Because no-one ever replies.) |
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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago
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I just delete and move on, if they keep re-sending they just get added to the block list.
I never accept friends requests till we have exchanged a few messages, seen face pics and interested in meeting. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unsolicited winks and friends requests get deleted straight away. I only become friends with someone I got to know a bit with a vision of meeting. Those who send friend requests without a prior chat obviously just want to see private pictures. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unsolicited winks and friends requests get deleted straight away. I only become friends with someone I got to know a bit with a vision of meeting. Those who send friend requests without a prior chat obviously just want to see private pictures."
I think winks are a whole different ball game... We get plenty of those, but never do anything with that. I suppose it's a way for people to say to you "hey, I'm interested" and if you wink back then a conversation should then be struck up. But to send a wink and then a friends request, still with no conversation is just weird and rude, and is exactly "let me look at your privates!!" |
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
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We only accept friends request if we have messaged and there's a chance of meeting. It's not Facebook where folk like to notch up their friends list. We are here to meet people, not just swap messages and pictures. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We only accept friends request if we have messaged and there's a chance of meeting. It's not Facebook where folk like to notch up their friends list. We are here to meet people, not just swap messages and pictures. "
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