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So, you open the door......
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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I would say, can I help you? And completely make out I had no clue who they were as they were not who I was expecting.
If they then said they were from fab I would say 'unfortunately you don't seem to match your profile so I won't be taking this any further. Have a good evening," and then I would close the door.
It wouldn't happen to me though as that's not how I meet. But if it did that's what I would do |
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"And this person looks nothing like you expected, what do you do? What do you say? Do you just get on with it? how do you get out of it? "
Lol happened to is once, met a couple but only the guy was there at first. 1.5 hours later (waiting for his partner to arrive) he started to make a move on the Mrs and she stopped him. Ten minutes later his partner arrived, we were both shocked to the core. Her photos were clearly 20-25 years old. We kept polite and chatted but told them we would not be playing and left, her face looked like thunder. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would say, can I help you? And completely make out I had no clue who they were as they were not who I was expecting.
If they then said they were from fab I would say 'unfortunately you don't seem to match your profile so I won't be taking this any further. Have a good evening," and then I would close the door.
It wouldn't happen to me though as that's not how I meet. But if it did that's what I would do"
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"Wouldn't happen because social only first.
At the social I'd be polite and chat for a bit but cut it short. "
This. Or I’d happily chat but then decline to take it further.
But I wouldn’t be in the situation OP described. |
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It wouldn't be my door!
But, a social I had in a pub
Guy walks in
"Oh, you're a lot shorter than I expected"
He was supposed to be 6'
He was 5'9.. In his biker boots
Needless to say, it was a very short social
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"It wouldn't be my door!
But, a social I had in a pub
Guy walks in
"Oh, you're a lot shorter than I expected"
He was supposed to be 6'
He was 5'9.. In his biker boots
Needless to say, it was a very short social
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In more ways than one |
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You learn from experience always to have a social with new people. We met a female who's pictures were clearly ancient and she never looked like herself. We were too polite and went ahead but it was a disaster. She could sense we were not happy with her. She said she was going to the loo after a bit of half hearted play and just walked out the front door! Not so much as a goodbye making it like we were at fault. Never again . |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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If you don't arrange a social first then you can't have any physical preferences or apply any importance to them, so it shouldn't happen - and if it does pat yourself on the back and congratulate yourself for being a prize twat! |
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Slightly off topic......
I met a lovely lady for a social yesterday, she was gorgeous.
A few minutes before our agreed meeting time though I was sat awaiting her arrival and there was a lady clearly also waiting for someone who kept making eye contact. I was starting to panic thinking the pics of my date might not be too accurate and thinking what I was going to say or do!!
A few moments later the person she was waiting for appeared and then my gorgeous date arrived. Happy guy then but for a few minutes I thought I was in trouble!  |
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I’m a short arse but would never pretend to be taller than I am, I can’t magically grow a few inches before I meet anyone! So no surprises come from me, assuming someone reads the profile properly!
There shouldn’t be any surprises physically, a social meeting can then just be to work out whether you click or not!
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By (user no longer on site)
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I went for a social last Yr. Met me at my car on carpark to go into pub.
I got a cold shudder locked my car doors and said your not for me and drove home. Didn't get out of car didn't drink.
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