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I may have a problem!
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"Do you think i am just over thinking things, i just dont know anymore" Are you OK xxxx | |||
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"I dont actually know" do you have anyone to talk too why u upset? | |||
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"Just relax. Nothing turns a woman off like a man gagging to get his end away. You have to be cool. Ice cool. If this means you increase your wanks then so be it. In the meantime, don’t make Fab your soul place of looking for ladies. There are other sites. Spread yourself about a bit. If you get some interest, go have fun - a night out, some chat, some company. Don’t make sex the obvious end goal. If it happens, great, if it doesn’t then so be it. Don’t over think things. Don’t assume folk are thinking one thing and doing another. Just " relax 
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"Jeez.. Just because you’re here isn’t a ticket to getting laid, I’m sure the ladies here will tell you to change your photos as they won’t be for the large majority, you say you only meet with a couple which won’t be for a lot and at that it’s only every few months plus you can only give less than a weeks notice, add in your desperation.. You’re closing a lot of doors for yourself before you even chat to someone that might be interested.. " That is not what i am saying in the least, im not desperate anymore, i havent been that desperate for nigh on 6 years i think when i had a multi-year gap with absolutely nothing, back then i was desperate, not now. I am not closing doors, they are being closed for me before i have a chance of stepping in the door and i am trying to understand why. What is the dynamic, how can i change said dynamic and what you have said is not very helpful in my eyes and mind. Also i never expect to get laid ever, if it happens it happens, simple as! | |||
"Jeez.. Just because you’re here isn’t a ticket to getting laid, I’m sure the ladies here will tell you to change your photos as they won’t be for the large majority, you say you only meet with a couple which won’t be for a lot and at that it’s only every few months plus you can only give less than a weeks notice, add in your desperation.. You’re closing a lot of doors for yourself before you even chat to someone that might be interested.. That is not what i am saying in the least, im not desperate anymore, i havent been that desperate for nigh on 6 years i think when i had a multi-year gap with absolutely nothing, back then i was desperate, not now. I am not closing doors, they are being closed for me before i have a chance of stepping in the door and i am trying to understand why. What is the dynamic, how can i change said dynamic and what you have said is not very helpful in my eyes and mind. Also i never expect to get laid ever, if it happens it happens, simple as!" My apologies, I’ve obviously misunderstood the meanings of “sex has taken over my life”.. “my inability to get a meet” and “ I’m pining for the female form in all its varieties”...  | |||
"Just relax. Nothing turns a woman off like a man gagging to get his end away. You have to be cool. Ice cool. If this means you increase your wanks then so be it. In the meantime, don’t make Fab your soul place of looking for ladies. There are other sites. Spread yourself about a bit. If you get some interest, go have fun - a night out, some chat, some company. Don’t make sex the obvious end goal. If it happens, great, if it doesn’t then so be it. Don’t over think things. Don’t assume folk are thinking one thing and doing another. Just relax
(I got carried away)"Could you elaborate what other sites there are, i know of this and Dogging but not any others im afraid | |||
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"We are local and see your constant status updates, it's a fine line between notifying your free and pleading and to be honest it comes across the later Try and be more up beat and positive, probably hard when u are down but certainly worth a try " Yes i am trying to change that dynamic currently. | |||
"So what problem do you have x" No paragraphs I think. | |||
"So what problem do you have x No paragraphs I think. "Sorry not an English Teacher, no offence intended. | |||
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"My eyes hurt. Could we have a synopsis, please?" Sorry it was a lot and i had to get it out of my head whilst i was thinking it and like you it hurt my head to write let alone read it as i wrote it | |||
