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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Had it last week! We just ghost them, they'd have more luck with us as a single guy to be fair. Don't understand why they do it! "
Exactly it’s just a waste of time. I guess some people get off on it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont entertain those, if im looking for a couple then i want a couple not half of one, and before anyone says anything yes it would be the same response if only the lady was available. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"All the time. My personal favourite is the apparent note from the female asking for other females to fuck the husband while she is unavailable. "
Someone’s actually tried using a note? Haha that’s the best one! Remember doing a note for the shopkeeper when I was 14 saying the cigs were for my mum |
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"All the time. My personal favourite is the apparent note from the female asking for other females to fuck the husband while she is unavailable.
Someone’s actually tried using a note? Haha that’s the best one! Remember doing a note for the shopkeeper when I was 14 saying the cigs were for my mum "
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The thing is that it bypasses filters that you set that don't include single males, yet you can see right through their intent. So we just block them now, if it's genuine, oops, there goes one, but hey, we won't lose any sleep because of it.
From our pov, if she's not playing, then we would rather not know about it, and those who do have an open and honest arrangement to play solo do so on a singles profile. We know people of both sexes who do this and consider them to be stand out people who deserve respect and have usually got it from those who know them.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"the best is when the m half suddenly changes profile from straight to bi to meet a bi couple"
Haha yeah and the amount of straight profiles that message me is amazing, I’m bi and listed as bi, no point hiding it |
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Might these be the same guys, more often than not referring to themselves as 'cuck' or similar, that send me messages asking if I want to see photographs of their 'hotwife/girlfriend' and talk about her on the phone?
Or, even better, the guys that expect me to rush to seduce the wife/girlfriend in a bar because she 'would be definitely up for it'.
Actually, no I don't.
More than happy to meet for a social with both partners but I'm not providing some kind of weird telephone jerk off service for a bloke with issues.
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We get this all the time. Plus we watch "status" where it's the same couples, advertising "Mr" is free to play. Never the female half, and all veris refer to Mr no mention of Mrs.
My fella has a single account, if and when I can't play. He uses that account. So not a single male hiding as a couple. He will give, if asked our couple profile name to prove he's not playing behind any ones back ect. Then anyone can see we're full players, with full consent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the best is when the m half suddenly changes profile from straight to bi to meet a bi couple
Haha yeah and the amount of straight profiles that message me is amazing, I’m bi and listed as bi, no point hiding it "
but it stops them getting meets from women aparently |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the best is when the m half suddenly changes profile from straight to bi to meet a bi couple
Haha yeah and the amount of straight profiles that message me is amazing, I’m bi and listed as bi, no point hiding it "
Fab straight makes me laugh, instant block |
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"All the time. My personal favourite is the apparent note from the female asking for other females to fuck the husband while she is unavailable. "
Yep! 
We hear from these charitable women all the time! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All the time. My personal favourite is the apparent note from the female asking for other females to fuck the husband while she is unavailable. "
Got to love a note to Teacher. Do you think they write it with their left hand? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"the best is when the m half suddenly changes profile from straight to bi to meet a bi couple
Haha yeah and the amount of straight profiles that message me is amazing, I’m bi and listed as bi, no point hiding it
but it stops them getting meets from women aparently"
Yeah there’s many women who have said they aren’t interested in me as I’m bi, I just find the woman who like bi guys, people should just be themselves |
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but it stops them getting meets from women aparently"
Oh well, I'm sure they'll survive.
As I told a "discreet" bi guy today, he's either lying to us (by saying he's actually bi), or he's lying to the women (by saying he's straight). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the best is when the m half suddenly changes profile from straight to bi to meet a bi couple
Haha yeah and the amount of straight profiles that message me is amazing, I’m bi and listed as bi, no point hiding it
but it stops them getting meets from women aparently"
it kinda does go against us but id rather meet someone whos happy to play with a bi male rather than trick someone into doing something theyre not comfortable with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All the time. My personal favourite is the apparent note from the female asking for other females to fuck the husband while she is unavailable. "
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Yep, you can see right through the fake status can’t you, especially when they sign it off with a kiss (x) |
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"All the time. My personal favourite is the apparent note from the female asking for other females to fuck the husband while she is unavailable. "
As written in pencil in the style of a twelve year old attempting to get out of PT/PE class.
You have to admire their determination and desperation.
Or, maybe, not. |
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We are most definitely a couple....and there are times (particularly when Mother Nature is visiting or if I'm working) that we'll say that Mr is available if anyone does want to meet.
So from that side of things, some 'might' be genuine....however, we've so been bitten by the 'she can't come as the babysitter has let us down, I can still come and play though' moments.
So I guess it's just fine tuning your bs filters, using kik vid chat to prove that it's genuine, or just wait for the Mrs to become available. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are most definitely a couple....and there are times (particularly when Mother Nature is visiting or if I'm working) that we'll say that Mr is available if anyone does want to meet.
So from that side of things, some 'might' be genuine....however, we've so been bitten by the 'she can't come as the babysitter has let us down, I can still come and play though' moments.
So I guess it's just fine tuning your bs filters, using kik vid chat to prove that it's genuine, or just wait for the Mrs to become available. "
we would meet the m of a couple, aslong as the two women have a phone chat first, but as soon as you mention that, then funny it tends to go quiet lol |
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"We are most definitely a couple....and there are times (particularly when Mother Nature is visiting or if I'm working) that we'll say that Mr is available if anyone does want to meet.
So from that side of things, some 'might' be genuine....however, we've so been bitten by the 'she can't come as the babysitter has let us down, I can still come and play though' moments.
So I guess it's just fine tuning your bs filters, using kik vid chat to prove that it's genuine, or just wait for the Mrs to become available.
we would meet the m of a couple, aslong as the two women have a phone chat first, but as soon as you mention that, then funny it tends to go quiet lol"
It is usually that point that a fake would go quiet or come out with all sorts or excuses. Genuines don't mind verification at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are most definitely a couple....and there are times (particularly when Mother Nature is visiting or if I'm working) that we'll say that Mr is available if anyone does want to meet.
So from that side of things, some 'might' be genuine....however, we've so been bitten by the 'she can't come as the babysitter has let us down, I can still come and play though' moments.
So I guess it's just fine tuning your bs filters, using kik vid chat to prove that it's genuine, or just wait for the Mrs to become available.
we would meet the m of a couple, aslong as the two women have a phone chat first, but as soon as you mention that, then funny it tends to go quiet lol
It is usually that point that a fake would go quiet or come out with all sorts or excuses. Genuines don't mind verification at all. "
agreed, that was kind of what we were saying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have had this...but food for thought that comes to mind that perhaps the mrs doesnt want to see their partner participating in a bi situation. Although if they are to play straight that doesnt really apply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are most definitely a couple....and there are times (particularly when Mother Nature is visiting or if I'm working) that we'll say that Mr is available if anyone does want to meet.
So from that side of things, some 'might' be genuine....however, we've so been bitten by the 'she can't come as the babysitter has let us down, I can still come and play though' moments.
So I guess it's just fine tuning your bs filters, using kik vid chat to prove that it's genuine, or just wait for the Mrs to become available.
we would meet the m of a couple, aslong as the two women have a phone chat first, but as soon as you mention that, then funny it tends to go quiet lol
It is usually that point that a fake would go quiet or come out with all sorts or excuses. Genuines don't mind verification at all. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bisexual male here, definitely part of a couple
think you might be missing the point of this thread"
Think the point of the thread is how many fake couple profiles there are when in reality it's a bisexual male. I'm just proving that many people on here are actually genuine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're playing separately for the foreseeable future. Mr has his own profile but I didn't want the hassle of setting up a singles profile. It seems to be the general consensus from here that perhaps that's what I should do? We have got it on our profile that we're looking to play separately but couples still seem to get pissed off when they message and find out. I just feel there aren't enough hours in the day to block half of the local vacinity all over again! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're playing separately for the foreseeable future. Mr has his own profile but I didn't want the hassle of setting up a singles profile. It seems to be the general consensus from here that perhaps that's what I should do? We have got it on our profile that we're looking to play separately but couples still seem to get pissed off when they message and find out. I just feel there aren't enough hours in the day to block half of the local vacinity all over again! "
it only takes a few mins to set up a single profile tbh, and you will come across as more genuine, just my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bisexual male here, definitely part of a couple
think you might be missing the point of this thread
Think the point of the thread is how many fake couple profiles there are when in reality it's a bisexual male. I'm just proving that many people on here are actually genuine"
thats true, and dont want to offend, but would your oh be happy to conferm this on the phone etc, if so, i hope you have some fun, the thread is also about alot of couples who have a joint profile that the fem has no idea about |
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I don’t think we’ve ever had this. But we don’t get many messages. I guess the men must feel they stand a better chance by pretending to be a couple, or they are a couple only their partner just isn’t into it much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bisexual male here, definitely part of a couple
think you might be missing the point of this thread
Think the point of the thread is how many fake couple profiles there are when in reality it's a bisexual male. I'm just proving that many people on here are actually genuine thats true, and dont want to offend, but would your oh be happy to conferm this on the phone etc, if so, i hope you have some fun, the thread is also about alot of couples who have a joint profile that the fem has no idea about"
Rach would be very happy to confirm, I'll go one step further and say she loves watching me have fun with men. I'm very lucky in that respect and I do meet alone but always with her knowledge, as a couple it's the only way swinging can work in our opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bisexual male here, definitely part of a couple
think you might be missing the point of this thread
Think the point of the thread is how many fake couple profiles there are when in reality it's a bisexual male. I'm just proving that many people on here are actually genuine thats true, and dont want to offend, but would your oh be happy to conferm this on the phone etc, if so, i hope you have some fun, the thread is also about alot of couples who have a joint profile that the fem has no idea about
Rach would be very happy to confirm, I'll go one step further and say she loves watching me have fun with men. I'm very lucky in that respect and I do meet alone but always with her knowledge, as a couple it's the only way swinging can work in our opinion"
Is there something about our profile that makes you suspect otherwise? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep, seen it many times.
I've put in my profile that if I'm meeting a couple I'd want the man and woman to be present.
I still get a few guys trying it on though.
Normally quite easy to spot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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deletes moves on not a problem unless they keep on then its block delete move on not a problem its what my block button is for .... block all those who piss you off then guess what ..no longer a problem |
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Experienced this twice in the last two months. Always want to meet separately and of course always the male is first to meet. Normally profiles with no previous meets or last verified over three years ago. As soon as it comes up we simply delete message and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we are a real couple but work opposing shifts,she will not play alone but has no problem letting him play alone and mr is bi.we are only together weekends saturday and sunday so get very little time to meet together but still we ARE A REAL COUPLE |
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I am part of a couple. My wife K ows I am on here. I have a singles profile. But We have a couples profile. She does not want to meet. So we use the couples one for webcaming and chatting etc... She suffers from fibromyalgia so sex for her can be painful and uncomfortable so she allows me to meet others. She is also happy to confirm this with the others that I meet. Works for us although as yet not met anyone from that profile. Only through here. |
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"Had one not long back, said it was the female messaging me but the way 'she' was complimentary towards me, was how Men message. She wanted for him to meet me first as 'he travels all over the country' (heard that before) and then later as a couple. Eventually he said that I was living too close to a work colleague 
They're not the first and won't be the last, what's more annoying than the amateur deception is thinking I'm so stupid to believe them.  "
Oh, that was us. Alass you felt you we're being messaged by a man. I assure you I am very much female. He dose travel with work. See our veris which are from differant parts of the county. Yes, true you live too close to his colleaque's patch. Therefore not giving my fella reason to be in your area. I didn't realise you lived in his colleauques patch, or I would not have treid setting the meet up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just report em we do, single guys just scamming.
When Mrs was on as a single, she went to meet a couple and just a bloke turned up in a car in the dark, he said his Mrs was in the back seat and she should jump in, luckily she could see no one was in the car.
Exactly why they get reported now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I see this many many times.
At least I’m honest it is just me and I’m cheating behind my wife’s back. "
thats fair enough, although your profile should say that, not just that you are married |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a meet with a couple the other week at hotel. 40 minute drive to hotel, message from car park and ‘the female’ messaged to say,”I’ve just gone dogging with a load of black guys, hubby’s all lubed up so can you go in and fuck him”. Apart from the ridiculous excuse, which actually made me laugh, I was very annoyed. Thanked them for wasting my time and left. Have had it loads of times where couples are actually bi guys trying to meet a (fab)straight guy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone else seem to find MF couples only have the M available, especially when they are listed as bisexual "
yes probably just a single guy on a couples profile   |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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The thing that surprises me about using this as an approach, is that the obvious response to "just me at the moment", is "can your OH confirm on a call", which instantly snookers the fakes.
And yet they've gone to the trouble of setting up the profile, continuously posting the same status updates, presumably sending messages, all to (presumably) circumvent the "no single men" filter and contact people who are actively trying to filter him out - that's actively making your odds worse!
(And I'm aware that not every couple with this kind of status is a fake) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All the time. My personal favourite is the apparent note from the female asking for other females to fuck the husband while she is unavailable. "
And hilarious! |
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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago
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Happens to us all the time... particularly the Male half visiting the area for work and wanting to play whilst he's here.
We just don't respond. I think some single guys use couples profiles to get round filters to be honest. Thing is we arent against single guys just not playing with them at present |
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"Anyone else seem to find MF couples only have the M available, especially when they are listed as bisexual "
yes they say its the lady when you send messages but you soon get the messages that say she has just popped out |
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