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Having been fortunate enough to have met some lovely couples, I realise that each couple has their own tastes, kinks, desires
Some dont want any kissing, others do, for some couples, hubby will watch (take pics) and not get involved and other couples hubby gets involved. For others, hubby isnt even there but hears about if afterwards..
I was wondering what determines what couples like /dont like...do or dont do |
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"We find the dynamic is different with every guy. Sorry that doesn't help much!"
I got you - thats what interests me - because like you i find the dynamic very different with each couple . one couple I know well - love the good lady flirting in bar with me while hubby watches. With others, I don’t do that - |
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"Our own preferences and desires I would say.
What are your preferences /desires? And did they change as you played more...
No, they haven't changed...we are happy as we are."
Thats interesting to know - its hard for single guy to know what a couple like and then how their tastes may change in teh future. Its also interesting to know what each couples “kink” is |
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"Our own preferences and desires I would say.
What are your preferences /desires? And did they change as you played more...
No, they haven't changed...we are happy as we are.
Thats interesting to know - its hard for single guy to know what a couple like and then how their tastes may change in teh future. Its also interesting to know what each couples “kink” is"
I guess we all have a kink or we wouldn't be on here but that's what profiles are for. |
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"Having been fortunate enough to have met some lovely couples, I realise that each couple has their own tastes, kinks, desires
Some dont want any kissing, others do, for some couples, hubby will watch (take pics) and not get involved and other couples hubby gets involved. For others, hubby isnt even there but hears about if afterwards..
I was wondering what determines what couples like /dont like...do or dont do"
Over the years, I've played with couples in all of the above situation, and that's all been part of the fun - variety is the spice of life!  |
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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago
Coventry |
"Having been fortunate enough to have met some lovely couples, I realise that each couple has their own tastes, kinks, desires
Some dont want any kissing, others do, for some couples, hubby will watch (take pics) and not get involved and other couples hubby gets involved. For others, hubby isnt even there but hears about if afterwards..
I was wondering what determines what couples like /dont like...do or dont do"
Their own individual couple preference and everyone is different. No common theme |
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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago
Coventry |
"Our own preferences and desires I would say.
What are your preferences /desires? And did they change as you played more...
No, they haven't changed...we are happy as we are.
Thats interesting to know - its hard for single guy to know what a couple like and then how their tastes may change in teh future. Its also interesting to know what each couples “kink” is
I am guessing as we are all different we all want/ like different things. When we started we thought we knew what we wanted out of it, that changed over time and even with each man.
What turns you on sometimes can't be explained so I never try to understand it  "
Good answer. We agree
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Our own preferences and desires I would say.
What are your preferences /desires? And did they change as you played more...
No, they haven't changed...we are happy as we are.
Thats interesting to know - its hard for single guy to know what a couple like and then how their tastes may change in teh future. Its also interesting to know what each couples “kink” is
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I am guessing as we are all different we all want/ like different things. When we started we thought we knew what we wanted out of it, that changed over time and ended up different with an individual meet.
What turns you on sometimes can't be explained so I never try to understand it |
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"Our own preferences and desires I would say.
What are your preferences /desires? And did they change as you played more...
No, they haven't changed...we are happy as we are.
Thats interesting to know - its hard for single guy to know what a couple like and then how their tastes may change in teh future. Its also interesting to know what each couples “kink” is
I am guessing as we are all different we all want/ like different things. When we started we thought we knew what we wanted out of it, that changed over time and ended up different with an individual meet.
What turns you on sometimes can't be explained so I never try to understand it "
Ah. - thats interesting to hear that your tastes change. What do you like doing now that you didnt in the past.... |
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"That's a tough one as each guy / girl would be different.
We just tend to go with the flow."
Agreed - i changed my mind about things...as i became more relaxed (thought would only do MFM but then did MMMF (ie 3 men and lady) it wouldnt go to clubs - then did that..
Its just interesting to hear from couples side what they like and how that changed.. |
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We like to try different scenarios. Feel this site allows us to arrange meets that are very different. Can’t speak for others but the cliches about trying first and variety is the spice ring true. |
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... for instance, last night at the club one guy wanted to play with my wife alone in a locked room, we know him well. So that was fine, later on, another guy was happy to play in an area open to be viewed by anyone and everyone! It was all good!! |
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"... for instance, last night at the club one guy wanted to play with my wife alone in a locked room, we know him well. So that was fine, later on, another guy was happy to play in an area open to be viewed by anyone and everyone! It was all good!!"
Yes - i thought I would never go to a club - but then went to Libs. Had good time. Then thought at clubs would only play in room but then played in the open area. Just interested from the couples point of view - what things they like in MFM, what they dont and how what they like has changed |
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comunication is key here, just ask them what they are looking for, and if it doesnt suit your move on, dont try and be what they want if its not for you, they will know and it will ruin the meet, so be honest with them abd all will be good. |
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"comunication is key here, just ask them what they are looking for, and if it doesnt suit your move on, dont try and be what they want if its not for you, they will know and it will ruin the meet, so be honest with them abd all will be good."
and never forget its as much for your fun as it is for thiers |
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"comunication is key here, just ask them what they are looking for, and if it doesnt suit your move on, dont try and be what they want if its not for you, they will know and it will ruin the meet, so be honest with them abd all will be good.
and never forget its as much for your fun as it is for thiers"
Yes i always ask before meeting couples/people what they like /dont like - its just interesting to see how their “kinks” have evolved... |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Our own preferences and desires I would say.
What are your preferences /desires? And did they change as you played more...
No, they haven't changed...we are happy as we are.
Thats interesting to know - its hard for single guy to know what a couple like and then how their tastes may change in teh future. Its also interesting to know what each couples “kink” is
I am guessing as we are all different we all want/ like different things. When we started we thought we knew what we wanted out of it, that changed over time and ended up different with an individual meet.
What turns you on sometimes can't be explained so I never try to understand it
Ah. - thats interesting to hear that your tastes change. What do you like doing now that you didnt in the past...."
For meets it wasn't so much the tastes changed, more the boundaries changed as we went along
My taste changes all the time depending on what I fancy doing that week |
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