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Whats more personal - sex or oral?

By *r Oreo OP Man over a year ago

Croydon

We were having a chat... and i said i thought oral was a lot more personal as u can taste the person, and sex was less so.

Chatted to this with mates before and mixed opinions - wondered what people thought?

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

If I had to pick one, I'd say giving oral... but not receiving.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple over a year ago

hexham

oral, recieving....for me its a massive trust thing and i would rather not with meets.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"oral, recieving....for me its a massive trust thing and i would rather not with meets."

now this is the same for me giving it no but recieving really personal and more personal for a woman as her parts aren't just hanging there xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definitely oral.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

if its so personal why r women fine to give a bj but not have sex on meets? xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A fully loaded sensual kiss is probably the most personal thing for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We were having a chat... and i said i thought oral was a lot more personal as u can taste the person, and sex was less so.

Chatted to this with mates before and mixed opinions - wondered what people thought?"

I am all messed up on this one... lol

I LOVE to give oral to guys.. find it great.. dont think its more personal either.. HOWEVER, if a man is trying to give it to me I find it very intimate.. and would rather not.. lol (there a whole host of other reasons too but)

Sex to me is very impersonal with meets.. its purely fucking..

Cali

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By *thwalescplCouple over a year ago

brecon

Kissing.

We love it, and find it much more personal than either sex or oral.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never really thought about it but we are happy with everything on meets - the more intimate the better but kissing while fucking is probably the most personal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A fully loaded sensual kiss is probably the most personal thing for me. "

+1 and the most delicious if done right

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i find oral more personal but still love to give and receive as well have sex. but have noticed lots of swingers dont kiss (althou we love it) so maybe that is more personal for most?!?

Em x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think some people feel the need to "keep something special for them" ie something they only do with each other physically, and not with swing partners, we find that a bit limiting, we know how we feel and open to most things and don't feel the need to have a physical expression of the fact that we are special to each other, we just love each other, and in a relationship with each other, that's the special thing.

Each to their own, we don't really get the whole soft swing or "we don't kiss" thing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't find sex that personal. The only act that I hold back on is anal as I don't do it that often and not usually on a first meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Never really thought about it but we are happy with everything on meets - the more intimate the better but kissing while fucking is probably the most personal "

I will agree with that but even me with my dont kiss mostly rule.. ( its not a rule I actually dont like kissing others ) I find it almost impossible to recieve oral sex from someone other than my partner.. even though I love it..

I have only kissed one playmate while having sex... and he was actually the 3rd in our relationship.. so it was different.. I would never ever kiss a meet while having sex.. to be fair a meet I am more likely to be fucked on my knees or me on top facing away from him.

Cali

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple over a year ago

hexham

"i find oral more personal but still love to give and receive as well have sex. but have noticed lots of swingers dont kiss (althou we love it) so maybe that is more personal for most?!?

Em x"

i wouldnt say lots, most we have met do.

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By *amslam1000Man over a year ago

willenhall

a bonk is just that. But making love is kissing, toutching, arousal and giving = much more intimate than just getting off

that includes oral and sex, I can go down on a guy or girl and its just sex but sharing love is soo intimate

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i dont see either is personal, its just sex, i find what makes something personal is who your playing with and how you feel about them not the act itself, be it sex, oral or even kissing if its just someone i have met off here i dont feel its personal its just all part of good sex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i find oral more personal but still love to give and receive as well have sex. but have noticed lots of swingers dont kiss (althou we love it) so maybe that is more personal for most?!?

Em x

i wouldnt say lots, most we have met do.

we now check in advance so we all know whether we can kiss or not lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Both are one in the same are they not as both part of up close and personal sex making.

Most thing that I take personal is when the dam passengers on the bus want to keep interupting by getting on and off at various stops. The bloody raw nerve of some people hey!

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By *ighorn2006Man over a year ago

Ceredigion / N France

Well this one confused me when the subject came up with a girlfriend . . .

She said if she was to have a random encounter she would go for full sex rather than just a blow job.

I was surprised because to me a bj is less intimate than full penetrative sex.

So at her last Christmas party someone probably fucked her rather than getting a quick bj !!!

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By *arnaclebillMan over a year ago

Robin Hood County

"Never really thought about it but we are happy with everything on meets - the more intimate the better but kissing while fucking is probably the most personal "

Mmmmm makes me wonder why some women won't kiss me but glady give me a blow job

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mmmmm makes me wonder why some women won't kiss me but glady give me a blow job

easy.. oral isnt personal to me. but kissing is.. I enjoy oral with others.. but not kissing.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

kissing is most personal

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