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Whould you flash your milkman

By *aughtyangie OP Couple over a year ago

Brighton

I have just started working as a milkman in Burgess Hill I going to over 600 house some of them have got to be swingers !

Whould you flash your milkman?

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By *penbicoupleCouple over a year ago

Northampton

Alice *regularly* answers the door in a very revealing state.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing. Don't have one. But the woman postie we have is hot as hell. Got some great ink too. If she wasn't gay she could help herself to anything I have. But she is

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I wouldn't flash anyone unless it was prearranged. I don't want to end up on a register.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have just started working as a milkman in Burgess Hill I going to over 600 house some of them have got to be swingers !

Whould you flash your milkman? "

I don't have a milkman. But I find involving other people in my kinks without their consent a bit fucked up.

Although I'm aware that even in a scene where consent is so incredibly important that my opinion is not universal and certainly not when the context is women flashing men

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple over a year ago

Cumbria

Stop watching movies from 1975 and get that milk delivered...

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By *lanwoodMan over a year ago

Alton

I open the door in my pyjamas, which is a silly place to have a door really.

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By *thena123Woman over a year ago

Swansea

I have a few times and the dpd man...they shouldn't look through my windows.xxx

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I open the door in my pyjamas, which is a silly place to have a door really."

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By *aughtyangie OP Couple over a year ago

Brighton

I 100 % agree but I was talking swingers to swingers not just random flash

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

No, you’d never get me up early enough

But no. They might drop a bottle.

In shock.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope

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By *cloversCouple over a year ago

Hull

Don't have one & I don't think the guy stacking the dairy shelves in Morrison's would be best please if I did

The window cleaner's had a few crafty looks though!

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!

Considering I buy milk at the local spar, not bloody likely!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple over a year ago

Stockport

"I have just started working as a milkman in Burgess Hill I going to over 600 house some of them have got to be swingers !

Whould you flash your milkman? "

Our milkman delivers about 4am so there’s no way I’ll be flashing him!

Mrs J

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nah, don't think they'd appreciate it

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple over a year ago

South East Wales

No, but I did accidentally flash an old man that peered through my living room window a few years ago when I had my son and was trying to breastfeed him...although I don’t think that was particularly sexy for anybody!

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By *owithflow321Man over a year ago

Molesey

Is it pervy for a man to flash or be seen naked, I like being watched and tease

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just before we moved from our last house knowing we wouldn’t see them again Lucy answered the door to the Chinese delivery guy in just stockings and heels. The guy went to pieces and didn’t know what to do with himself

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I have just started working as a milkman in Burgess Hill I going to over 600 house some of them have got to be swingers !

Whould you flash your milkman?

I don't have a milkman. But I find involving other people in my kinks without their consent a bit fucked up.

Although I'm aware that even in a scene where consent is so incredibly important that my opinion is not universal and certainly not when the context is women flashing men"

This.

Consent, consent, consent. If I don't have it, it's not happening.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was a milkman for many years in the 80's & 90's & was flashed at quite a lot, I also had plenty of sex with women customers, so you never know.

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By *innie The MinxWoman over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Not on my to do list.

Plus 4am is far to early for me to be flashing my bits.

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By *otsossieMan over a year ago

Chesterfield

Ted, those women were in the nip!

I got flashed on my paper round as a teen. Naked yoga, no less. I think it had a profound impact upon me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

milkman, whats that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We don't have one and wouldn't anyway.

All a bit Robin Asquith Confessions Of but funny all the same

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

also i will throw this in

ernie

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By *pertureTV/TS over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

I would if it was prearanged, doubt it would be appreciated otherwise.

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By *moothdickMan over a year ago

stoke

I would but I live in a 3rd floor flat .. so if I do it through the window I might get nicked for flashing at the top deck of a bus

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just before we moved from our last house knowing we wouldn’t see them again Lucy answered the door to the Chinese delivery guy in just stockings and heels. The guy went to pieces and didn’t know what to do with himself "

Mrs flashed to a delivery guy few years ago as she lost a bet and I dare her to do it ...she opened the front door in her lingerie... frankly speaking nothing came out of it , since the guy stood there in utter shock and didn’t know how to react .. it all got over in few seconds ...

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By *lbinoGorillaMan over a year ago

Redditch

"Ted, those women were in the nip!"

Damn it, I came here to say the same thing!

But I had a feeling someone would have beaten me to it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

the only thing I find surprising about this thread is that there are still milk deliveries! Thought they died out in the eighties

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By *aughtyangie OP Couple over a year ago

Brighton

"the only thing I find surprising about this thread is that there are still milk deliveries! Thought they died out in the eighties"
no we are still out there just the times have changed more over night then early morning

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Did it feel good embarrassing him like that?

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By *inkycreamCouple over a year ago

manchester

We don’t have a milkman, but we regularly treat the takeaway guy improves service. One nearly fell over

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By *penbicoupleCouple over a year ago

Northampton

"We don’t have a milkman, but we regularly treat the takeaway guy improves service. One nearly fell over

Same. I reckon they fight over themselves to deliver to our house!

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By *inkycreamCouple over a year ago

manchester

"We don’t have a milkman, but we regularly treat the takeaway guy improves service. One nearly fell over

Same. I reckon they fight over themselves to deliver to our house!

Last time was the pool table outfit

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By *aughtyTwoCouple over a year ago

Southampton

"We don’t have a milkman, but we regularly treat the takeaway guy improves service. One nearly fell over

How do you do it? Who is wearing or not wearing what? X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have just started working as a milkman in Burgess Hill I going to over 600 house some of them have got to be swingers !

Whould you flash your milkman?

I don't have a milkman. But I find involving other people in my kinks without their consent a bit fucked up.

Although I'm aware that even in a scene where consent is so incredibly important that my opinion is not universal and certainly not when the context is women flashing men"

I totally agree

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By *inkycreamCouple over a year ago

manchester

"We don’t have a milkman, but we regularly treat the takeaway guy improves service. One nearly fell over

How do you do it? Who is wearing or not wearing what? X"

Better with the missus wearing near nothing, take the food shout for the cash and the guy turns up naked proper cock drop lol

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By *p478Man over a year ago

norfolk

"Don't have one & I don't think the guy stacking the dairy shelves in Morrison's would be best please if I did

The window cleaner's had a few crafty looks though! "

So would if cleaning your windows

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Stop watching movies from 1975 and get that milk delivered...

That's the idea it get delivered

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We don’t have a milkman, but we regularly treat the takeaway guy improves service. One nearly fell over

Same. I reckon they fight over themselves to deliver to our house!

Just out of curiosity who flashes who? If I came your house and I was flashed I’d have you reported! And why do people seem to yhink it’s ok if a woman does it to a man!

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By *ood girl2010Couple over a year ago

crewe

"I have a few times and the dpd man...they shouldn't look through my windows.xxx"

I got caught by the window cleaner I was on my bed vib up me legs up and he started to clean window I did not have time to stop before he looked. all I did you carry on and cum I looked up and he was gone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nah,but I'd drink his milk

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nah,but I'd drink his milk

Oh I like that lol

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

I don't understand the allure of deliberately flashing total strangers, particularly delivery people, and causing them significant embarrassment.

A genuinely accidental flash, different.

A discrete but apparently accidental flash, maybe.

Deliberately and full on personal exposure, it's a no from me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love flashing!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wife did it once when we lived in London. Cost us 2 pints of milk and a box of eggs.... His face was a picture.

Strange we got more freebies off him after that, Can't think why lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't understand the allure of deliberately flashing total strangers, particularly delivery people, and causing them significant embarrassment.

A genuinely accidental flash, different.

A discrete but apparently accidental flash, maybe.

Deliberately and full on personal exposure, it's a no from me."

I agree. But everyone seems to think otherwise, woman flashing seems to be ok.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't understand the allure of deliberately flashing total strangers, particularly delivery people, and causing them significant embarrassment.

A genuinely accidental flash, different.

A discrete but apparently accidental flash, maybe.

Deliberately and full on personal exposure, it's a no from me."

It angers me that couples who say they love flashing have for one second considered how the person they are flashing feels!! Most assume they will be made up and flattered but no what if they feel awkward and shy ? Do you stop and yhink about any one else in your kink? Because no consent has been given but hey ho your kink fook anyone else hey.

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By *hoot45Man over a year ago

Ramsgate

I got flashed by a guy when I worked on a milk round and after realised it was my biology teacher’s boyfriend lol

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By *aughtyangie OP Couple over a year ago

Brighton

OMG

Can you all please just take a breath I didn't suggest randomly flashing anyone

I'm a swinging I was looking for other swingers on my round just wanted a funny way of saying it I wish I didn't bother now

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By *eerobCouple over a year ago

solihull

Why cant people be sensible over this issue.

If someone answered their door to us naked it would not worry us.

The more prudish everyones attitude towards it the more sexualised it is.

If some one was trying to offend with overtly sexual acts..then maybe we can see why it upsets. Well there are laws against this to protect people...there is no offence of being just naked...so just everyone put it into proportion...

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Why cant people be sensible over this issue.

If someone answered their door to us naked it would not worry us.

The more prudish everyones attitude towards it the more sexualised it is.

There is no offence to being naked, however that's not what's being proposed is it.

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By *eerobCouple over a year ago

solihull

"Why cant people be sensible over this issue.

If someone answered their door to us naked it would not worry us.

The more prudish everyones attitude towards it the more sexualised it is.

There is no offence to being naked, however that's not what's being proposed is it.

What is being proposed then?

Flashing could mean a multitude of actions...

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By *ymrocruMan over a year ago

penygroes

I did accidentally answer the door and my gown fell open revealing me in stockings and tiny knickers which the delivery man was pleased to see. His cock soon grew hard and I was on my knees in no time.

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By *ncognito!Woman over a year ago

falkirk

I once flashed the Gardner in error of course. I was getting some juice out the fridge and he looked in my kitchen window as he was passing it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Being a gardener for last 7/8 years I have my fair share of stories, some accidental others planned..”would you like to come in for a glass of water love”

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By *ncognito!Woman over a year ago

falkirk

"Being a gardener for last 7/8 years I have my fair share of stories, some accidental others planned..”would you like to come in for a glass of water love”

Really- I try to hide from mine he’s a creepy type talks to your Boobies but my garden looks amazing. Though !! I hide if I am in and hear the mower . I leave the other half to pay him too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Being a gardener for last 7/8 years I have my fair share of stories, some accidental others planned..”would you like to come in for a glass of water love”

Really- I try to hide from mine he’s a creepy type talks to your Boobies but my garden looks amazing. Though !! I hide if I am in and hear the mower . I leave the other half to pay him too "

Ah see I’m lovely

haha, usually 98% of the time I will just carry on a do my job but sometimes if I meet someone they ask my job and want to play a little role play

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Why cant people be sensible over this issue.

If someone answered their door to us naked it would not worry us.

The more prudish everyones attitude towards it the more sexualised it is.

There is no offence to being naked, however that's not what's being proposed is it.

What is being proposed then?

Flashing could mean a multitude of actions...

The answers in the OPs opening post.

What do you think it means?

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By *aughtyangie OP Couple over a year ago

Brighton

What is being proposed then?

Flashing could mean a multitude of actions...

The answers in the OPs opening post.

What do you think it means?

I was just looking for swingers in Burgess Hill

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nah I have respect for people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have just started working as a milkman in Burgess Hill I going to over 600 house some of them have got to be swingers !

Whould you flash your milkman?

I don't have a milkman. But I find involving other people in my kinks without their consent a bit fucked up.

Although I'm aware that even in a scene where consent is so incredibly important that my opinion is not universal and certainly not when the context is women flashing men"

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

What is being proposed then?

Flashing could mean a multitude of actions...

The answers in the OPs opening post.

What do you think it means?

I was just looking for swingers in Burgess Hill

There's nothing wrong with consenting adults in a controlled environment doing this.

It's the people who deliberately and blatantly flush unsuspecting people, who are going about their daily business who are the problem.

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By *penbicoupleCouple over a year ago

Northampton

It's interesting that swingers can be just as judgemental as the rest of society.

I don't see anyone advocating flashing passers-by in a raincoat on the high street. I think most people are talking about opening the door in a revealing state of dress.

For those who've spoken of reporting such behaviour, I'd be interested to know what crimes they think have taken place. Police have a difficult time securing convictions against doggers, so I'd be surprised if you could charge someone with wearing what they want in their own house!

And can someone clarify for me what the limit is? Would a bikini be ok? Negligee? Mini-skirt? Bath towell? Burka?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Did someone mention milkmen?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's interesting that swingers can be just as judgemental as the rest of society.

I don't see anyone advocating flashing passers-by in a raincoat on the high street. I think most people are talking about opening the door in a revealing state of dress.

And can someone clarify for me what the limit is? Would a bikini be ok? Negligee? Mini-skirt? Bath towell? Burka?"

Judgemental because we aren’t keen on making other people uncomfortable and using them for our own kinks. Okaaaaay

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well no milkman has been flashed, but we did feel naughty one evening mid-play and ordered a takeaway?

When the guy called at the door P answered in a very short silky robe that just skimmed her buttocks, acted completely naturally, then "accidentally" dropped some of the change on the floor? Naturally she turned away from him to pick it up and took her sweet time doing so, treating him to an uninterrupted view of her delightful bottom and bare vagina for a good few seconds...

Then again completely naturally she stood up straight, turned back around and said "There you go, that's the right money love..."

Thing was before he knew she was bare underneath her robe he turned his torch on to helpfully help her see the change meaning her rudeness was illuminated in even more excellent detail!

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By *irty doggXXXMan over a year ago

Milton keynes

Well though I wouldn't do it as I'm a guy and would prob get reported by some prude. I'd quite like someone to give me a little flash if I was a delivery guy or window cleaner etc. And I personally couldn't imagine any guy not liking, or getting upset by someone flashing them.

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Well though I wouldn't do it as I'm a guy and would prob get reported by some prude. I'd quite like someone to give me a little flash if I was a delivery guy or window cleaner etc. And I personally couldn't imagine any guy not liking, or getting upset by someone flashing them. "

You think people who report flashers are prudes?

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By *aughtyYorkGentMan over a year ago

Yorkshire

"It's interesting that swingers can be just as judgemental as the rest of society.

I don't see anyone advocating flashing passers-by in a raincoat on the high street. I think most people are talking about opening the door in a revealing state of dress.

And can someone clarify for me what the limit is? Would a bikini be ok? Negligee? Mini-skirt? Bath towell? Burka?"

I don't think that flashing (as in exposing your genitals to a stranger) wouldn't be treated any differently, legally speaking, whether you did it while standing inside your own home with the door open or in the street. It's about whether members of the public might "reasonably" be able to see you in your state of undress. Dogging, on the other hand, isn't illegal itself, provided you're not seen by someone other than a willing participant.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

why on earth would i want someone flashing at me?

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By *eerobCouple over a year ago

solihull

What is being proposed then?

Flashing could mean a multitude of actions...

The answers in the OPs opening post.

What do you think it means?

I was just looking for swingers in Burgess Hill

There's nothing wrong with consenting adults in a controlled environment doing this.

It's the people who deliberately and blatantly flush unsuspecting people, who are going about their daily business who are the problem.

Now I really would not want to be 'flushed' by someone...that is one step too far

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By *penbicoupleCouple over a year ago

Northampton

"I don't think that flashing (as in exposing your genitals to a stranger) wouldn't be treated any differently, legally speaking, whether you did it while standing inside your own home with the door open or in the street. It's about whether members of the public might "reasonably" be able to see you in your state of undress. Dogging, on the other hand, isn't illegal itself, provided you're not seen by someone other than a willing participant."

I disagree. I cannot imagine any scenario where someone would be charged for what they are wearing in their own home.

I'm not sure, but I don't think the law is around someone seeing you in a state of undress. I *think* it's about seeing them in such a state and it causing distress.

There's a beach in Brighton, where members of the public can easily see people bathing topless, so it's not as simple as whether someone can see your naughty bits.

Nevertheless, no conviction could ever be secured in the type of situations I have described.

"I thought the curtains were closed..."

"I thought it was my bf at the door..."

Etc. Thus, it comes down to what someone is wearing in their own home. And, as my series of questions at the end sought to highlight, where do you draw the line? Can my gf answer the door in a bikini? Topless? In silky pyjamas?

I don't see any situation (excepting those involving minors) where law enforcement would get involved.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I frankly am unbothered by the legalities. A milkman, delivery person, etc, hasn't consented. Therefore I feel it's immoral to involve them in your sexual activity/display.

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

I disagree. I cannot imagine any scenario where someone would be charged for what they are wearing in their own home.

I'm not sure, but I don't think the law is around someone seeing you in a state of undress. I *think* it's about seeing them in such a state and it causing distress.

There's a beach in Brighton, where members of the public can easily see people bathing topless, so it's not as simple as whether someone can see your naughty bits.

Nevertheless, no conviction could ever be secured in the type of situations I have described.

"I thought the curtains were closed..."

"I thought it was my bf at the door..."

I don't see any situation (excepting those involving minors) where law enforcement would get involved. "

Give it a go then, go flash a total stranger, please report back the outcome.

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By *penbicoupleCouple over a year ago

Northampton

"Give it a go then, go flash a total stranger, please report back the outcome.

Please see the posts I am responding to. I don't flash anyone.

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By *penbicoupleCouple over a year ago

Northampton

"I frankly am unbothered by the legalities. A milkman, delivery person, etc, hasn't consented. Therefore I feel it's immoral to involve them in your sexual activity/display. "

Can you then explain what level of clothing is "moral" to wear when answering the door?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I frankly am unbothered by the legalities. A milkman, delivery person, etc, hasn't consented. Therefore I feel it's immoral to involve them in your sexual activity/display. "

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By *orbidden eastMan over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Honestly I don’t think he would like what he sees

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I frankly am unbothered by the legalities. A milkman, delivery person, etc, hasn't consented. Therefore I feel it's immoral to involve them in your sexual activity/display. "

I said similar in a post above.

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By *ebjonnsonMan over a year ago

Maldon

I’m really shocked by this thread. I can’t remember when I last saw a milkman, or milk person as I guess we should say these days.

Thought they were a thing of the past?

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By *otsossieMan over a year ago

Chesterfield

"Well no milkman has been flashed, but we did feel naughty one evening mid-play and ordered a takeaway?

Then again completely naturally she stood up straight, turned back around and said "There you go, that's the right money love..."

Thing was before he knew she was bare underneath her robe he turned his torch on to helpfully help her see the change meaning her rudeness was illuminated in even more excellent detail!

Lmk if you need anything delivering in future.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I frankly am unbothered by the legalities. A milkman, delivery person, etc, hasn't consented. Therefore I feel it's immoral to involve them in your sexual activity/display.

Can you then explain what level of clothing is "moral" to wear when answering the door? "

I’d say any type just not half dressed or in suggestive clothing!! Just wrong

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not sure the milkman would wanna see what I have!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't have a milkman, but wouldn't flash a stranger anyway. On the other hand, a little pre-arranged discreet flashing to a chap as part of a role play can be fun. Very important not to have any collateral damage though.

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By *penbicoupleCouple over a year ago

Northampton

So, no bikinis? Men in swimming trunks, if they were having a pool party in the back garden? A woman in a bath towel? Sexy dress, if they've just got back from a party and ordered a take-away? Pyjamas?

Please explain what is 'suggestive' and what is not.

I think the morality you speak if is not so easily defined.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So, no bikinis? Men in swimming trunks, if they were having a pool party in the back garden? A woman in a bath towel? Sexy dress, if they've just got back from a party and ordered a take-away? Pyjamas?

Please explain what is 'suggestive' and what is not.

I think the morality you speak if is not so easily defined."

I’d say anything above is fine. It’s when you involve others in your kinks I find wrong.

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Please explain what is 'suggestive' and what is not.

I think the morality you speak if is not so easily defined."

If I can see your tits, dick or vagina, you're not wearing enough.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I frankly am unbothered by the legalities. A milkman, delivery person, etc, hasn't consented. Therefore I feel it's immoral to involve them in your sexual activity/display.

Can you then explain what level of clothing is "moral" to wear when answering the door? "

One that's unlikely to make an average person in your area uncomfortable. One that doesn't indicate trying to involve unconsenting people in your sexuality or sexual activity.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Please explain what is 'suggestive' and what is not.

I think the morality you speak if is not so easily defined."

And I don’t know about you but I’d never answer my door in just a towel or bikini I’d always cover up.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Please explain what is 'suggestive' and what is not.

I think the morality you speak if is not so easily defined.

And I don’t know about you but I’d never answer my door in just a towel or bikini I’d always cover up. "

Just because it isn't black and white, doesn't mean that certain intentions aren't clearly wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Please explain what is 'suggestive' and what is not.

I think the morality you speak if is not so easily defined.

And I don’t know about you but I’d never answer my door in just a towel or bikini I’d always cover up.

Just because it isn't black and white, doesn't mean that certain intentions aren't clearly wrong. "

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By *argaret James200TV/TS over a year ago

Birmingham

"I have just started working as a milkman in Burgess Hill I going to over 600 house some of them have got to be swingers !

Whould you flash your milkman? "

I did, now I have to go to the shop for my milk.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Please explain what is 'suggestive' and what is not.

I think the morality you speak if is not so easily defined.

And I don’t know about you but I’d never answer my door in just a towel or bikini I’d always cover up.

Just because it isn't black and white, doesn't mean that certain intentions aren't clearly wrong. "

I think the morality is largely defined by the intent behind the act. E.g. A woman in her back garden in a bikini who is not intending to flash anyone and simply wants to sunbathe who, say, quickly pops to her front door to answer it (I’d never do this personally but just to make the point); versus someone who opens their front door to a non consenting and unsuspecting person, with the *intent* of revealing their genitalia. For me, that’s the moral / ethical difference. As far as legality, I’m genuinely not sure where the lines are ... but I’d hazard a guess that intent does play a part, again.

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By *argaret James200TV/TS over a year ago

Birmingham

"It's interesting that swingers can be just as judgemental as the rest of society.

I don't see anyone advocating flashing passers-by in a raincoat on the high street. I think most people are talking about opening the door in a revealing state of dress.

And can someone clarify for me what the limit is? Would a bikini be ok? Negligee? Mini-skirt? Bath towell? Burka?"

This thread has gone far to serious but for clarification it is not an offence to be seen naked anywhere as long as you are not in a state of sexual arousal, as far as answering the door is concerned, whome ever is at your door is in the act of attracting your attention to answer the door not you answering the door to attract their attention the law sees two distinct action here. It's intent.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's interesting that swingers can be just as judgemental as the rest of society.

I don't see anyone advocating flashing passers-by in a raincoat on the high street. I think most people are talking about opening the door in a revealing state of dress.

And can someone clarify for me what the limit is? Would a bikini be ok? Negligee? Mini-skirt? Bath towell? Burka?

It is most definitely an offence to expose your genitals in a public area - you don’t have to be remotely sexually aroused to be charged with indecent exposure.

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"OMG

Can you all please just take a breath I didn't suggest randomly flashing anyone

I'm a swinging I was looking for other swingers on my round just wanted a funny way of saying it I wish I didn't bother now"

You may find other swingers but it doesn’t mean they want to flash you or vice versa.

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Give it a go then, go flash a total stranger, please report back the outcome.

Please see the posts I am responding to. I don't flash anyone."

You said, and I quote; "I don't see any situation (excepting those involving minors) where law enforcement would get involved"

I challenged you to test your statement and "Give it a go then, go flash a total stranger, please report back the outcome."

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By *ornycpl2000Couple over a year ago

Swansea

Once while delivering in London, a rang the door bell and a Beautiful woman opened it wrapped in a towel, while signing my paperwork her towel opened and dropped to floor, she just carried on with the paper work saying well you’ve seen it all now so I’ll just carry on, I did offer to carry the parcel into the house for her, but she refused my offer lol

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"It's interesting that swingers can be just as judgemental as the rest of society.

I don't see anyone advocating flashing passers-by in a raincoat on the high street. I think most people are talking about opening the door in a revealing state of dress.

And can someone clarify for me what the limit is? Would a bikini be ok? Negligee? Mini-skirt? Bath towell? Burka?

You're wrong. It's indecent exposure.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's interesting that swingers can be just as judgemental as the rest of society.

I don't see anyone advocating flashing passers-by in a raincoat on the high street. I think most people are talking about opening the door in a revealing state of dress.

And can someone clarify for me what the limit is? Would a bikini be ok? Negligee? Mini-skirt? Bath towell? Burka?

You're wrong. It's indecent exposure. "

Yep. If it causes alarm or distress to the victim (which will be a subjective judgement on the victim’s part assuming they have capacity to make that judgement), then you can most definitely be charged with indecent exposure and there is no need at all for the offender to have been sexually aroused.

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"It's interesting that swingers can be just as judgemental as the rest of society.

I don't see anyone advocating flashing passers-by in a raincoat on the high street. I think most people are talking about opening the door in a revealing state of dress.

And can someone clarify for me what the limit is? Would a bikini be ok? Negligee? Mini-skirt? Bath towell? Burka?

You're wrong. It's indecent exposure. "

The lack of understanding of what constitutes indecent exposure here is astounding.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's interesting that swingers can be just as judgemental as the rest of society.

I don't see anyone advocating flashing passers-by in a raincoat on the high street. I think most people are talking about opening the door in a revealing state of dress.

And can someone clarify for me what the limit is? Would a bikini be ok? Negligee? Mini-skirt? Bath towell? Burka?

You're wrong. It's indecent exposure.

The lack of understanding of what constitutes indecent exposure here is astounding.

it genuinely worries me

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By *inkycreamCouple over a year ago

manchester

"We don’t have a milkman, but we regularly treat the takeaway guy improves service. One nearly fell over

Same. I reckon they fight over themselves to deliver to our house!

Just out of curiosity who flashes who? If I came your house and I was flashed I’d have you reported! And why do people seem to yhink it’s ok if a woman does it to a man! "

Is there a delivery driver who doesn’t like seeing a naked woman?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's interesting that swingers can be just as judgemental as the rest of society.

I don't see anyone advocating flashing passers-by in a raincoat on the high street. I think most people are talking about opening the door in a revealing state of dress.

And can someone clarify for me what the limit is? Would a bikini be ok? Negligee? Mini-skirt? Bath towell? Burka?

You're wrong. It's indecent exposure.

The lack of understanding of what constitutes indecent exposure here is astounding.

And the fact that because your a woman with tits makes it ok to expose yourself without consent, because all men love all that don’t they!! Some people hey

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We don’t have a milkman, but we regularly treat the takeaway guy improves service. One nearly fell over

Same. I reckon they fight over themselves to deliver to our house!

Just out of curiosity who flashes who? If I came your house and I was flashed I’d have you reported! And why do people seem to yhink it’s ok if a woman does it to a man!

Is there a delivery driver who doesn’t like seeing a naked woman?"

Yes probably. There are ones that might feel highly embarrassed and uncomfortable

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We don’t have a milkman, but we regularly treat the takeaway guy improves service. One nearly fell over

Same. I reckon they fight over themselves to deliver to our house!

Just out of curiosity who flashes who? If I came your house and I was flashed I’d have you reported! And why do people seem to yhink it’s ok if a woman does it to a man!

Is there a delivery driver who doesn’t like seeing a naked woman?"

And here’s my point !!! How do you know ? Seriously!!

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"It's interesting that swingers can be just as judgemental as the rest of society.

I don't see anyone advocating flashing passers-by in a raincoat on the high street. I think most people are talking about opening the door in a revealing state of dress.

And can someone clarify for me what the limit is? Would a bikini be ok? Negligee? Mini-skirt? Bath towell? Burka?

You're wrong. It's indecent exposure.

The lack of understanding of what constitutes indecent exposure here is astounding.

it genuinely worries me "

Ignorance, arrogance, entitlement?

All 3?

There's a huge difference between a bit of consensual role play between all party's.

And getting your bits out in front of an unsuspecting total stranger.

I'm not sure what people don't grasp......

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think a common misunderstanding on these threads is that we're kink shaming.

You can have any kink you want to, honest to goodness. But if you don't have consent (from those who can meaningfully consent, so people of legal age), then you might be violating their rights. Their rights trump your kink. Leave other people out of your stuff.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think a common misunderstanding on these threads is that we're kink shaming.

Well said. It’s not about the act itself - it’s about the forced and non consensual nature of it. That’s why there is an offence called indecent exposure. To protect non-consenting people from this behaviour.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple over a year ago

North west ish

"I think a common misunderstanding on these threads is that we're kink shaming.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think toffee popcorn tonight

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think a running theme oh here seems to be that it’s ok for woman to flash man as obviously all men love that shit! But if a man was to do it how is that different?

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I think a running theme oh here seems to be that it’s ok for woman to flash man as obviously all men love that shit! But if a man was to do it how is that different? "

It shouldn't be different.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think a running theme oh here seems to be that it’s ok for woman to flash man as obviously all men love that shit! But if a man was to do it how is that different?

It shouldn't be different. "

I agree but by reading through this thread it seems some women think it’s fine to flash their tits of fandango at any Tom dick or Harry and it’s perfectly fine !! Because their woman

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By *inkycreamCouple over a year ago

manchester

"We don’t have a milkman, but we regularly treat the takeaway guy improves service. One nearly fell over

Same. I reckon they fight over themselves to deliver to our house!

Just out of curiosity who flashes who? If I came your house and I was flashed I’d have you reported! And why do people seem to yhink it’s ok if a woman does it to a man!

Is there a delivery driver who doesn’t like seeing a naked woman?

And here’s my point !!! How do you know ? Seriously!! "

Because it’s takes twenty minutes of my just eat delivery time, most people know the statics of such success

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think toffee popcorn tonight

I would totally flash you with your consent

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By *ilthy and ProudCouple over a year ago

Stratford upon Avon

I accidentally flashed my boobs at the roofer who turned up early. Initially embarrassed, I was then very turned on. Ellen

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"We don’t have a milkman, but we regularly treat the takeaway guy improves service. One nearly fell over

Same. I reckon they fight over themselves to deliver to our house!

Just out of curiosity who flashes who? If I came your house and I was flashed I’d have you reported! And why do people seem to yhink it’s ok if a woman does it to a man!

Is there a delivery driver who doesn’t like seeing a naked woman?

And here’s my point !!! How do you know ? Seriously!!

Because it’s takes twenty minutes of my just eat delivery time, most people know the statics of such success "

I don't really understand this answer.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We don’t have a milkman, but we regularly treat the takeaway guy improves service. One nearly fell over

Same. I reckon they fight over themselves to deliver to our house!

Just out of curiosity who flashes who? If I came your house and I was flashed I’d have you reported! And why do people seem to yhink it’s ok if a woman does it to a man!

Is there a delivery driver who doesn’t like seeing a naked woman?

And here’s my point !!! How do you know ? Seriously!!

Because it’s takes twenty minutes of my just eat delivery time, most people know the statics of such success

I don't really understand this answer. "

Me either

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By *eerobCouple over a year ago

solihull

"We don’t have a milkman, but we regularly treat the takeaway guy improves service. One nearly fell over

Same. I reckon they fight over themselves to deliver to our house!

Just out of curiosity who flashes who? If I came your house and I was flashed I’d have you reported! And why do people seem to yhink it’s ok if a woman does it to a man!

Is there a delivery driver who doesn’t like seeing a naked woman?

And here’s my point !!! How do you know ? Seriously!! "

How do you they dont?

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"We don’t have a milkman, but we regularly treat the takeaway guy improves service. One nearly fell over

Same. I reckon they fight over themselves to deliver to our house!

Just out of curiosity who flashes who? If I came your house and I was flashed I’d have you reported! And why do people seem to yhink it’s ok if a woman does it to a man!

Is there a delivery driver who doesn’t like seeing a naked woman?

And here’s my point !!! How do you know ? Seriously!!

How do you they dont?"

If I was a delivery driver I wouldn't want flashed at.

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By *inkycreamCouple over a year ago

manchester

"We don’t have a milkman, but we regularly treat the takeaway guy improves service. One nearly fell over

Same. I reckon they fight over themselves to deliver to our house!

Just out of curiosity who flashes who? If I came your house and I was flashed I’d have you reported! And why do people seem to yhink it’s ok if a woman does it to a man!

Is there a delivery driver who doesn’t like seeing a naked woman?

And here’s my point !!! How do you know ? Seriously!!

Because it’s takes twenty minutes of my just eat delivery time, most people know the statics of such success

I don't really understand this answer. "

Simple on notes to restaurant bit add knock hard I’m naked in the bath, translates to hurry the fuck up im starving

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We don’t have a milkman, but we regularly treat the takeaway guy improves service. One nearly fell over

Same. I reckon they fight over themselves to deliver to our house!

Just out of curiosity who flashes who? If I came your house and I was flashed I’d have you reported! And why do people seem to yhink it’s ok if a woman does it to a man!

Is there a delivery driver who doesn’t like seeing a naked woman?

And here’s my point !!! How do you know ? Seriously!!

Because it’s takes twenty minutes of my just eat delivery time, most people know the statics of such success

I don't really understand this answer.

Simple on notes to restaurant bit add knock hard I’m naked in the bath, translates to hurry the fuck up im starving "

Seriously!! Face palm.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

"We don’t have a milkman, but we regularly treat the takeaway guy improves service. One nearly fell over

Same. I reckon they fight over themselves to deliver to our house!

Just out of curiosity who flashes who? If I came your house and I was flashed I’d have you reported! And why do people seem to yhink it’s ok if a woman does it to a man!

Is there a delivery driver who doesn’t like seeing a naked woman?"

Only good looking women are acceptable.

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By *eerobCouple over a year ago

solihull

"We don’t have a milkman, but we regularly treat the takeaway guy improves service. One nearly fell over

Same. I reckon they fight over themselves to deliver to our house!

Just out of curiosity who flashes who? If I came your house and I was flashed I’d have you reported! And why do people seem to yhink it’s ok if a woman does it to a man!

Is there a delivery driver who doesn’t like seeing a naked woman?

And here’s my point !!! How do you know ? Seriously!!

How do you they dont?

If I was a delivery driver I wouldn't want flashed at. "

But how do you know that the recipients dont want to be involved....

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"We don’t have a milkman, but we regularly treat the takeaway guy improves service. One nearly fell over

Same. I reckon they fight over themselves to deliver to our house!

Just out of curiosity who flashes who? If I came your house and I was flashed I’d have you reported! And why do people seem to yhink it’s ok if a woman does it to a man!

Is there a delivery driver who doesn’t like seeing a naked woman?

And here’s my point !!! How do you know ? Seriously!!

How do you they dont?

If I was a delivery driver I wouldn't want flashed at.

But how do you know that the recipients dont want to be involved...."

Jesus......

You just don't get it do you.....

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

You don't assume consent!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We don’t have a milkman, but we regularly treat the takeaway guy improves service. One nearly fell over

Same. I reckon they fight over themselves to deliver to our house!

Just out of curiosity who flashes who? If I came your house and I was flashed I’d have you reported! And why do people seem to yhink it’s ok if a woman does it to a man!

Is there a delivery driver who doesn’t like seeing a naked woman?

And here’s my point !!! How do you know ? Seriously!!

How do you they dont?

If I was a delivery driver I wouldn't want flashed at.

But how do you know that the recipients dont want to be involved...."

Because that’s yhe point. Seriously when someone is sexually abused they don’t give consent! So your saying how do you know ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You don't assume consent! "

This.

Like I said, genuinely concerned.....

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"You don't assume consent!

This.

Like I said, genuinely concerned..... "

Yeah... This is very, very troubling.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We don’t have a milkman, but we regularly treat the takeaway guy improves service. One nearly fell over

Same. I reckon they fight over themselves to deliver to our house!

Just out of curiosity who flashes who? If I came your house and I was flashed I’d have you reported! And why do people seem to yhink it’s ok if a woman does it to a man!

Is there a delivery driver who doesn’t like seeing a naked woman?

And here’s my point !!! How do you know ? Seriously!!

How do you they dont?"

Arrogant or ignorant or stupid?

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"You don't assume consent! "

I can't actually believe this needs to be said, but apparently it does.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only if it’s soya milk. No flash for dairy

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"We don’t have a milkman, but we regularly treat the takeaway guy improves service. One nearly fell over

Same. I reckon they fight over themselves to deliver to our house!

Just out of curiosity who flashes who? If I came your house and I was flashed I’d have you reported! And why do people seem to yhink it’s ok if a woman does it to a man!

Is there a delivery driver who doesn’t like seeing a naked woman?

And here’s my point !!! How do you know ? Seriously!!

How do you they dont?

If I was a delivery driver I wouldn't want flashed at.

But how do you know that the recipients dont want to be involved...."

I've been the "recipient" of a flash. Trust me, I did not "want to be involved"

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"You don't assume consent!

I can't actually believe this needs to be said, but apparently it does. "

Yeah. It's a bit terrifying...

If you don't have consent, you don't have consent.

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By *eerobCouple over a year ago

solihull

"We don’t have a milkman, but we regularly treat the takeaway guy improves service. One nearly fell over

Same. I reckon they fight over themselves to deliver to our house!

Just out of curiosity who flashes who? If I came your house and I was flashed I’d have you reported! And why do people seem to yhink it’s ok if a woman does it to a man!

Is there a delivery driver who doesn’t like seeing a naked woman?

And here’s my point !!! How do you know ? Seriously!!

How do you they dont?

Arrogant or ignorant or stupid? "

You are making assumptions....maybe correctly....but maybe not. I'm making the presumption that you are calling me arrogant....? Ignorant or stupid? Am I right?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We don’t have a milkman, but we regularly treat the takeaway guy improves service. One nearly fell over

Same. I reckon they fight over themselves to deliver to our house!

Just out of curiosity who flashes who? If I came your house and I was flashed I’d have you reported! And why do people seem to yhink it’s ok if a woman does it to a man!

Is there a delivery driver who doesn’t like seeing a naked woman?

And here’s my point !!! How do you know ? Seriously!!

How do you they dont?

Arrogant or ignorant or stupid?

You are making assumptions....maybe correctly....but maybe not. I'm making the presumption that you are calling me arrogant....? Ignorant or stupid? Am I right?"

Who’s making assumptions. If you don’t have consent you don’t assume on their behalf. Ffs.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If they might like it, then you don't know they would like it, let alone in that specific instance.

Therefore You. Do. Not. Have. Consent.

If you don't have consent, you don't do sexual things that effect other people.

If you don't understand that, please revisit consent and bodily autonomy, sharpish.

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By *inkycreamCouple over a year ago

manchester

"We don’t have a milkman, but we regularly treat the takeaway guy improves service. One nearly fell over

Same. I reckon they fight over themselves to deliver to our house!

Just out of curiosity who flashes who? If I came your house and I was flashed I’d have you reported! And why do people seem to yhink it’s ok if a woman does it to a man!

Is there a delivery driver who doesn’t like seeing a naked woman?

And here’s my point !!! How do you know ? Seriously!!

How do you they dont?

Arrogant or ignorant or stupid?

You are making assumptions....maybe correctly....but maybe not. I'm making the presumption that you are calling me arrogant....? Ignorant or stupid? Am I right?

Who’s making assumptions. If you don’t have consent you don’t assume on their behalf. Ffs. "

Sometimes it’s best to wind the neck back in, the forum is a bit of fun, as can be answering the door in your underwear

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We don’t have a milkman, but we regularly treat the takeaway guy improves service. One nearly fell over

Same. I reckon they fight over themselves to deliver to our house!

Just out of curiosity who flashes who? If I came your house and I was flashed I’d have you reported! And why do people seem to yhink it’s ok if a woman does it to a man!

Is there a delivery driver who doesn’t like seeing a naked woman?

And here’s my point !!! How do you know ? Seriously!!

How do you they dont?

Arrogant or ignorant or stupid?

You are making assumptions....maybe correctly....but maybe not. I'm making the presumption that you are calling me arrogant....? Ignorant or stupid? Am I right?

Who’s making assumptions. If you don’t have consent you don’t assume on their behalf. Ffs.

Sometimes it’s best to wind the neck back in, the forum is a bit of fun, as can be answering the door in your underwear

What would happen if you answered your door and a child was standing there ? Is that ok? I’d have you reported no problem

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"You don't assume consent!

This.

Like I said, genuinely concerned..... "

I'm shaking my head in bewilderment and rolling my eyes so hard.

It's predatory.

How can people NOT see this behaviour is wrong.

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By *eerobCouple over a year ago

solihull

"We don’t have a milkman, but we regularly treat the takeaway guy improves service. One nearly fell over

Same. I reckon they fight over themselves to deliver to our house!

Just out of curiosity who flashes who? If I came your house and I was flashed I’d have you reported! And why do people seem to yhink it’s ok if a woman does it to a man!

Is there a delivery driver who doesn’t like seeing a naked woman?

And here’s my point !!! How do you know ? Seriously!!

How do you they dont?

Arrogant or ignorant or stupid?

You are making assumptions....maybe correctly....but maybe not. I'm making the presumption that you are calling me arrogant....? Ignorant or stupid? Am I right?

Who’s making assumptions. If you don’t have consent you don’t assume on their behalf. Ffs. "

As you it appears you are starting to get offensive I'll leave you to it...its also a sign that you are perhaps losing the the ability for a reasoned adult debate.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just posted a pic of me waiting for an Ocado delivery

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn't flash anyone unless it was prearranged. I don't want to end up on a register. "
this

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"We don’t have a milkman, but we regularly treat the takeaway guy improves service. One nearly fell over

Same. I reckon they fight over themselves to deliver to our house!

Just out of curiosity who flashes who? If I came your house and I was flashed I’d have you reported! And why do people seem to yhink it’s ok if a woman does it to a man!

Is there a delivery driver who doesn’t like seeing a naked woman?

And here’s my point !!! How do you know ? Seriously!!

How do you they dont?

Arrogant or ignorant or stupid?

You are making assumptions....maybe correctly....but maybe not. I'm making the presumption that you are calling me arrogant....? Ignorant or stupid? Am I right?

Who’s making assumptions. If you don’t have consent you don’t assume on their behalf. Ffs.

As you it appears you are starting to get offensive I'll leave you to it...its also a sign that you are perhaps losing the the ability for a reasoned adult debate."

This type of behaviour is predatory.

The way you're defending it is quite frankly a bit *icky.

You ask for reasoned adult debate.

There's really no need for debate, it shouldn't even be up for discussion.

An adult would know this behavious is just plain wrong.

*icky isn't actually the word I want to use......

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"We don’t have a milkman, but we regularly treat the takeaway guy improves service. One nearly fell over

Same. I reckon they fight over themselves to deliver to our house!

Just out of curiosity who flashes who? If I came your house and I was flashed I’d have you reported! And why do people seem to yhink it’s ok if a woman does it to a man!

Is there a delivery driver who doesn’t like seeing a naked woman?

And here’s my point !!! How do you know ? Seriously!!

How do you they dont?

Arrogant or ignorant or stupid?

You are making assumptions....maybe correctly....but maybe not. I'm making the presumption that you are calling me arrogant....? Ignorant or stupid? Am I right?

Who’s making assumptions. If you don’t have consent you don’t assume on their behalf. Ffs.

As you it appears you are starting to get offensive I'll leave you to it...its also a sign that you are perhaps losing the the ability for a reasoned adult debate."

There's no debate to be had. Consent trumps all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn't flash anyone unless i was pregnant. "

Who said that ?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You don't assume consent!

This.

Like I said, genuinely concerned.....

I'm shaking my head in bewilderment and rolling my eyes so hard.

It's predatory.

How can people NOT see this behaviour is wrong.

I suppose the sad fact is that some people justify offending behaviour.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

No.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think a running theme oh here seems to be that it’s ok for woman to flash man as obviously all men love that shit! But if a man was to do it how is that different? "

Erm, because women as a rule DON'T love that shit? Would be the obvious answer...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think a running theme oh here seems to be that it’s ok for woman to flash man as obviously all men love that shit! But if a man was to do it how is that different?

Erm, because women as a rule DON'T love that shit? Would be the obvious answer...

I thought the obvious answer was no one should flash anyone unless they want to risk being charged with an offence. But I seem to be on a different planet.....

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By *inkycreamCouple over a year ago

manchester

"I think a running theme oh here seems to be that it’s ok for woman to flash man as obviously all men love that shit! But if a man was to do it how is that different?

Erm, because women as a rule DON'T love that shit? Would be the obvious answer...

Seconded

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think a running theme oh here seems to be that it’s ok for woman to flash man as obviously all men love that shit! But if a man was to do it how is that different?

Erm, because women as a rule DON'T love that shit? Would be the obvious answer...

Seconded

I’m sure you were saying different earlier in this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Once got dared by the mrs to answer the door butt naked to the takeaway delivery driver (usually a woman), takeaway arrived, opened the door rather sheepishly, was a guy - thankfully we burst out laughing at the same time and he asked me if it was a dare - which obviously I explained it was. He still delivers to the house now, but he’s started winking at me as he leaves....awkard...although he’s fit. Haha.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But to expand on that, the majority of women would feel uneasy in the least or feel threatened to be confronted by a naked person who is probably bigger and stronger than they are, and they have a point tbf.

Whereas not only are men much more sexually driven than women when it comes to visuals, they wouldn't tend to find most naked women threatening. There is a very slim chance if the driver was extremely religious and hadn't seen ladies with less on than a burka, was gay to the point of finding all ladies actually repulsive or had an extremely bad heart condition or such like that they'd be against it, but the clear majority would find a woman flashing them as either arousing, titillating or comedic? It would also be an interesting tale to tell to their mates at work no doubt!

Whereas the overwhelming majority of women would feel either highly endangered, fearful or traumatised.

As an indicator, there's been plenty of women coming forward on here saying they'd be straight on the phone to the police if they were flashed by a man. By contrast, unless actually arguing the point strongly there's not been many men commemting that if a woman flashed them while they delivered something they'd be hitting 999 on their phone right that instant.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We don’t have a milkman, but we regularly treat the takeaway guy improves service. One nearly fell over

How do you do it? Who is wearing or not wearing what? X

Better with the missus wearing near nothing, take the food shout for the cash and the guy turns up naked proper cock drop lol

Does it feel good making others feel uneasy?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But to expand on that, the majority of women would feel uneasy in the least or feel threatened to be confronted by a naked person who is probably bigger and stronger than they are, and they have a point tbf.

Whereas the overwhelming majority of women would feel either highly endangered, fearful or traumatised.

Ahh right ho. Male flashing a no no! Illegal but woman flashing go for it,,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think a running theme oh here seems to be that it’s ok for woman to flash man as obviously all men love that shit! But if a man was to do it how is that different?

Erm, because women as a rule DON'T love that shit? Would be the obvious answer...

Seconded

I’m sure you were saying different earlier in this "

Assumed of us or Kinkycream? As if it was to our post we didn't say anything different at all. Takeaway driver was male not female. Plus he did love that shit, he had a bemused grin on his chops as he trotted off back to his vehicle...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think a running theme oh here seems to be that it’s ok for woman to flash man as obviously all men love that shit! But if a man was to do it how is that different?

Erm, because women as a rule DON'T love that shit? Would be the obvious answer...

No wasn’t you

Seconded

I’m sure you were saying different earlier in this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think a running theme oh here seems to be that it’s ok for woman to flash man as obviously all men love that shit! But if a man was to do it how is that different?

Erm, because women as a rule DON'T love that shit? Would be the obvious answer...

Seconded

I’m sure you were saying different earlier in this

No wasn’t you I meant

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't understand the allure of deliberately flashing total strangers, particularly delivery people, and causing them significant embarrassment.

A genuinely accidental flash, different.

A discrete but apparently accidental flash, maybe.

Deliberately and full on personal exposure, it's a no from me.

Some people are just vile. This is why Swingers get a bad name. They don't give a shit about anyone else, they just care about getting their sexual kicks any way they can.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think a running theme oh here seems to be that it’s ok for woman to flash man as obviously all men love that shit! But if a man was to do it how is that different?

Erm, because women as a rule DON'T love that shit? Would be the obvious answer...

Seconded

I’m sure you were saying different earlier in this

But how can you assume every person would ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Whereas the overwhelming majority of women would feel either highly endangered, fearful or traumatised.

Ahh right ho. Male flashing a no no! Illegal but woman flashing go for it,, "

Double standards perhaps. But very true when it comes to the differences between the majority of the sexes, because men and women ARE different in general. See also "relevant prices for each gender to attend swinging clubs alone". Gender disparity yes, but it's a fact of life....

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"I don't understand the allure of deliberately flashing total strangers, particularly delivery people, and causing them significant embarrassment.

A genuinely accidental flash, different.

A discrete but apparently accidental flash, maybe.

Deliberately and full on personal exposure, it's a no from me.

Some people are just vile. This is why Swingers get a bad name. They don't give a shit about anyone else, they just care about getting their sexual kicks any way they can. "

Truth bomb.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think a running theme oh here seems to be that it’s ok for woman to flash man as obviously all men love that shit! But if a man was to do it how is that different?

Erm, because women as a rule DON'T love that shit? Would be the obvious answer...

Seconded

I’m sure you were saying different earlier in this

But how can you assume every person would ?"

Didn't. Just assumed of the overwhelmingly vast majority.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Whereas the overwhelming majority of women would feel either highly endangered, fearful or traumatised.

Ahh right ho. Male flashing a no no! Illegal but woman flashing go for it,, "

What about a woman flashing at a vulnerable adult man with a learning disability? That ok??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Whereas the overwhelming majority of women would feel either highly endangered, fearful or traumatised.

Ahh right ho. Male flashing a no no! Illegal but woman flashing go for it,,

What about a woman flashing at a vulnerable adult man with a learning disability? That ok??"

Not at all. As said man has the mind of a child so it would be like a woman flashing at a minor.

Though tbf if I owned a takeaway I wouldn't put any child in charge of driving a motor vehicle, navigating successfully and cash transactions in one fell swoop. Though it may go on in some underprivileged countries.

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I think a running theme oh here seems to be that it’s ok for woman to flash man as obviously all men love that shit! But if a man was to do it how is that different?

Erm, because women as a rule DON'T love that shit? Would be the obvious answer...

Seconded

I’m sure you were saying different earlier in this

But how can you assume every person would ?

Didn't. Just assumed of the overwhelmingly vast majority.

I don't think the potential thrill of maybe getting a delivery driver who does welcome it, is worth the risk of exposing yourself to someone who doesn't like it and definitely didn't consent to it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Whereas the overwhelming majority of women would feel either highly endangered, fearful or traumatised.

Ahh right ho. Male flashing a no no! Illegal but woman flashing go for it,,

What about a woman flashing at a vulnerable adult man with a learning disability? That ok??

Not at all. As said man has the mind of a child so it would be like a woman flashing at a minor.

You have absolutely no way of knowing that person’s vulnerabilities. That’s why informed consent exists.

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By *inkycreamCouple over a year ago

manchester

Whereas the overwhelming majority of women would feel either highly endangered, fearful or traumatised.

Ahh right ho. Male flashing a no no! Illegal but woman flashing go for it,,

What about a woman flashing at a vulnerable adult man with a learning disability? That ok??"

Our takeaway driver isn’t slow he drives really fast

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By *tripandteaseCouple over a year ago

Barnsley

One of my fantasy's with the different takeaway drivers but I keep bottling it pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Whereas the overwhelming majority of women would feel either highly endangered, fearful or traumatised.

Ahh right ho. Male flashing a no no! Illegal but woman flashing go for it,,

What about a woman flashing at a vulnerable adult man with a learning disability? That ok??

Our takeaway driver isn’t slow he drives really fast "

If that’s an indirect offensive remark about people with learning disabilities then you are actually repulsive. As well as having committed a hate crime. Well done

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