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By *eah Baby OP Couple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
Messaging lol just seems it’s a way of getting attention of someone instead of messaging them, couples are ignored in most conversations and isn’t that what a chat forum is conversation? Not having a dig so don’t get niggly just saying have two separate ones  |
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By *eah Baby OP Couple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"Think maybe a good idea to have a singles and couples separate chat forum as it seems it’s mainly singles trying to cop off on the forum instead of sending a message lol
Why?"
Then couples can join a conversation. Have a look through a lot of the topics single people ignore couples posts and do a reply and quote on another single person instead so think it would be better if there were two forums |
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By *lan157Man
over a year ago
a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex |
"Think maybe a good idea to have a singles and couples separate chat forum as it seems it’s mainly singles trying to cop off on the forum instead of sending a message lol
Why?
Then couples can join a conversation. Have a look through a lot of the topics single people ignore couples posts and do a reply and quote on another single person instead so think it would be better if there were two forums "
Anyone who posts a forum contribution has joined the conversation whether they are single or part of a couple . |
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By *eah Baby OP Couple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"Think maybe a good idea to have a singles and couples separate chat forum as it seems it’s mainly singles trying to cop off on the forum instead of sending a message lol
Why?
Then couples can join a conversation. Have a look through a lot of the topics single people ignore couples posts and do a reply and quote on another single person instead so think it would be better if there were two forums
Anyone who posts a forum contribution has joined the conversation whether they are single or part of a couple . "
I know that, what I’m saying is in a lot of topics couples are just ignored, it’s like they shouldn’t be there, I got blocked by a single guy because I reply & quoted on his message and I was being complimentary to him, would have been different story if I was single and complimented him |
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"Think maybe a good idea to have a singles and couples separate chat forum as it seems it’s mainly singles trying to cop off on the forum instead of sending a message lol
Why?
Then couples can join a conversation. Have a look through a lot of the topics single people ignore couples posts and do a reply and quote on another single person instead so think it would be better if there were two forums
Anyone who posts a forum contribution has joined the conversation whether they are single or part of a couple .
I know that, what I’m saying is in a lot of topics couples are just ignored, it’s like they shouldn’t be there, I got blocked by a single guy because I reply & quoted on his message and I was being complimentary to him, would have been different story if I was single and complimented him "
Can't say I've ever noticed this. I think there are more singles profiles on the forum but I could be wrong as unless the profile name makes it obvious I don't often notice if a comment is by a single or couples profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Messaging lol just seems it’s a way of getting attention of someone instead of messaging them, couples are ignored in most conversations and isn’t that what a chat forum is conversation? Not having a dig so don’t get niggly just saying have two separate ones "
Im a single male and i get ignored most of the time... well when i say ignored i mean people dont quote and reply, that doesnt mean they havent taken on board what ive said or had a little chuckle to themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But the majority of couples also want to meet single people, so separating the two cuts off a whole demographic of people they would want to interact with surely. "
And this is an excellent point too. Stick with it OP, I’ll interact if I ever see a contribution from you  |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Messaging lol just seems it’s a way of getting attention of someone instead of messaging them, couples are ignored in most conversations and isn’t that what a chat forum is conversation? Not having a dig so don’t get niggly just saying have two separate ones
Im a single male and i get ignored most of the time... well when i say ignored i mean people dont quote and reply, that doesnt mean they havent taken on board what ive said or had a little chuckle to themselves. "
You're right, you made a gollum comment earlier I saw that made me laugh.
Just because people aren't directly quoted and replied to doesn't mean they're not noticed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Messaging lol just seems it’s a way of getting attention of someone instead of messaging them, couples are ignored in most conversations and isn’t that what a chat forum is conversation? Not having a dig so don’t get niggly just saying have two separate ones
Im a single male and i get ignored most of the time... well when i say ignored i mean people dont quote and reply, that doesnt mean they havent taken on board what ive said or had a little chuckle to themselves.
You're right, you made a gollum comment earlier I saw that made me laugh.
Just because people aren't directly quoted and replied to doesn't mean they're not noticed "
I rest my case your honour...
Now wheres my precious gone?  |
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"Think maybe a good idea to have a singles and couples separate chat forum as it seems it’s mainly singles trying to cop off on the forum instead of sending a message lol "
Just stick to "swingers chat". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What i do see a lot of is when 2 profiles (i say profiles because it happens a lot between men women and couples) get caught up their own little two and fro and kinda kill a thread because maybe they should have taken the conversation somewhere more private, but they arent intentionally ignoring anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can sort of see what you are saying.
The kind of posts like, rate the pic above attract a lot of men getting over excited about seeing a lady with nice pictutes. The couples may not get as much attention. I may be wrong....
But most of the topics on here seem to be open to whoever wants to contribute.Singles or couples.
I've chatted to a few couples on here that I wouldn't have done otherwise if they were not in the forums. It's good to mingle all together. |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
"Think maybe a good idea to have a singles and couples separate chat forum as it seems it’s mainly singles trying to cop off on the forum instead of sending a message lol "
I get what you are saying but like so many things on here it would be impossible to police. I have pretty much given up posting on the forums these days as 90% of it is repetitive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I understand what you're saying, but like so many things on here it would be impossible to police. I have basically given up posting on the forums these days as 90% of it is repetitive."
Well played |
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"Think maybe a good idea to have a singles and couples separate chat forum as it seems it’s mainly singles trying to cop off on the forum instead of sending a message lol "
I think a singles chat could be good, after all, there is swinger's chat, so why not singles? |
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By *eah Baby OP Couple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"Think maybe a good idea to have a singles and couples separate chat forum as it seems it’s mainly singles trying to cop off on the forum instead of sending a message lol
Just stick to "swingers chat"."
Do people still do that |
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"Think maybe a good idea to have a singles and couples separate chat forum as it seems it’s mainly singles trying to cop off on the forum instead of sending a message lol
Just stick to "swingers chat".
Do people still do that "
Not many... |
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By *eah Baby OP Couple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"Think maybe a good idea to have a singles and couples separate chat forum as it seems it’s mainly singles trying to cop off on the forum instead of sending a message lol
I think a singles chat could be good, after all, there is swinger's chat, so why not singles?"
That’s what’s happening already just not got a heading, I get it’s majority singles on here now that’s proved day in day out |
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By *eah Baby OP Couple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"No flirty on forum, you naughty singles get back in the corner 
Flirting***"
Ah here we go lol....like I said singles ignore what couples say read what I said I’m not having a go so get over yourself xx |
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By *eah Baby OP Couple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"But the majority of couples also want to meet single people, so separating the two cuts off a whole demographic of people they would want to interact with surely.
And this is an excellent point too. Stick with it OP, I’ll interact if I ever see a contribution from you "
Ah thank you but don’t think I’ll bother anymore, just watch from afar haha |
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By *eah Baby OP Couple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"What i do see a lot of is when 2 profiles (i say profiles because it happens a lot between men women and couples) get caught up their own little two and fro and kinda kill a thread because maybe they should have taken the conversation somewhere more private, but they arent intentionally ignoring anyone."
Ah yes come to think of it that’s what's going on, well can people stop it haha and take their ping pong messaging to personal messaging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No flirty on forum, you naughty singles get back in the corner
Flirting***
Ah here we go lol....like I said singles ignore what couples say read what I said I’m not having a go so get over yourself xx"
I’m over it |
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"But the majority of couples also want to meet single people, so separating the two cuts off a whole demographic of people they would want to interact with surely. "
This.
I interact with profiles. Including ones that don't interest me! Heavens above. |
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"Think maybe a good idea to have a singles and couples separate chat forum as it seems it’s mainly singles trying to cop off on the forum instead of sending a message lol
Why?
Then couples can join a conversation. Have a look through a lot of the topics single people ignore couples posts and do a reply and quote on another single person instead so think it would be better if there were two forums "
Why would it be better... |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
I dont agree with your answer OP but I do think that couples often can be marginalised to a degree.
In general I think that many singles don't know how to interact with couples, many aren't really swingers, don't grasp the dynamics involved, so they avoid the conversations.
I think that there's enough exclusion and fragmentation already in the swinging community though. A bit of understanding on both sides goes a long way. |
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The forum could be split into many subdivisions of types of people etc but I think it works well with us all together. There could perhaps be one sub area, for singles to date but that's similar to a meet now option, if it's sex and dating |
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By *eah Baby OP Couple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"There's so many subjects I can't keep up half the time.. I post random stuff, get ignored, blocked etc... I aint crying about it 
Just keep on posting and do wat ya good at.... If ya build it, they will com "
Ooooh I’m not crying lol, nothing to cry about, just making a suggestion |
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"I dont agree with your answer OP but I do think that couples often can be marginalised to a degree.
In general I think that many singles don't know how to interact with couples, many aren't really swingers, don't grasp the dynamics involved, so they avoid the conversations.
I think that there's enough exclusion and fragmentation already in the swinging community though. A bit of understanding on both sides goes a long way. "
It can definitely be challenging! There's a learning curve. I take the profile and output at face value and go from there |
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By *nnnikCouple
over a year ago
Walsall |
"There's so many subjects I can't keep up half the time.. I post random stuff, get ignored, blocked etc... I aint crying about it
Just keep on posting and do wat ya good at.... If ya build it, they will com
Ooooh I’m not crying lol, nothing to cry about, just making a suggestion "
Shouldn't have to really, looked at profile beautiful pics... Wish I lived in Spain lol oh an it's titch that's typing here lol |
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By *eah Baby OP Couple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"Think maybe a good idea to have a singles and couples separate chat forum as it seems it’s mainly singles trying to cop off on the forum instead of sending a message lol
Why?
Then couples can join a conversation. Have a look through a lot of the topics single people ignore couples posts and do a reply and quote on another single person instead so think it would be better if there were two forums Why would it be better... "
Why would it not? Like a previous poster said singles take over a thread with just the banter between themselves so obviously there is the need for an area for singles chat ??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think maybe a good idea to have a singles and couples separate chat forum as it seems it’s mainly singles trying to cop off on the forum instead of sending a message lol "
lol oi knee   |
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By *eah Baby OP Couple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"There's so many subjects I can't keep up half the time.. I post random stuff, get ignored, blocked etc... I aint crying about it
Just keep on posting and do wat ya good at.... If ya build it, they will com
Ooooh I’m not crying lol, nothing to cry about, just making a suggestion
Shouldn't have to really, looked at profile beautiful pics... Wish I lived in Spain lol oh an it's titch that's typing here lol "
Hello Titch, thank you for the compliment, looking very sexy on your profile and yes we are lucky and nothing to cry about for sure lol. Seems you can’t make a suggestion these days without people think it’s a dig when it’s not, I ask myself where’s the fun gone in people they always seem to be in attack mode |
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By *eah Baby OP Couple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"There's so many subjects I can't keep up half the time.. I post random stuff, get ignored, blocked etc... I aint crying about it
Just keep on posting and do wat ya good at.... If ya build it, they will com
Ooooh I’m not crying lol, nothing to cry about, just making a suggestion
Shouldn't have to really, looked at profile beautiful pics... Wish I lived in Spain lol oh an it's titch that's typing here lol
Hello Titch, thank you for the compliment, looking very sexy on your profile and yes we are lucky and nothing to cry about for sure lol. Seems you can’t make a suggestion these days without people think it’s a dig when it’s not, I ask myself where’s the fun gone in people they always seem to be in attack mode "
Oh and sorry it’s AJ posting here but not for much longer haha |
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"Think maybe a good idea to have a singles and couples separate chat forum as it seems it’s mainly singles trying to cop off on the forum instead of sending a message lol
Why?
Then couples can join a conversation. Have a look through a lot of the topics single people ignore couples posts and do a reply and quote on another single person instead so think it would be better if there were two forums Why would it be better...
Why would it not? Like a previous poster said singles take over a thread with just the banter between themselves so obviously there is the need for an area for singles chat ??? "
totally disagree. Its a forum.. you dont need anymore sub divisions. There are couples that post that a single could give advice for. I think it would make it a much less inclusive forum |
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By *nnnikCouple
over a year ago
Walsall |
"There's so many subjects I can't keep up half the time.. I post random stuff, get ignored, blocked etc... I aint crying about it
Just keep on posting and do wat ya good at.... If ya build it, they will com
Ooooh I’m not crying lol, nothing to cry about, just making a suggestion
Shouldn't have to really, looked at profile beautiful pics... Wish I lived in Spain lol oh an it's titch that's typing here lol
Hello Titch, thank you for the compliment, looking very sexy on your profile and yes we are lucky and nothing to cry about for sure lol. Seems you can’t make a suggestion these days without people think it’s a dig when it’s not, I ask myself where’s the fun gone in people they always seem to be in attack mode "
Wasn't trying to make dig.... Was trying to be funny, too many up tight fannies on here lately and thks for ya compliment |
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By *eah Baby OP Couple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"Think maybe a good idea to have a singles and couples separate chat forum as it seems it’s mainly singles trying to cop off on the forum instead of sending a message lol
Why?
Then couples can join a conversation. Have a look through a lot of the topics single people ignore couples posts and do a reply and quote on another single person instead so think it would be better if there were two forums Why would it be better...
Why would it not? Like a previous poster said singles take over a thread with just the banter between themselves so obviously there is the need for an area for singles chat ??? totally disagree. Its a forum.. you dont need anymore sub divisions. There are couples that post that a single could give advice for. I think it would make it a much less inclusive forum "
I’m talking an addition |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Damn it. Wrong forum.
Apologies, I'm in the swingers chat and I'm single.
I'll get my coat. Sorry again.
Groan another one read what I said if possible "
It's called sarcasm. Sorry you don't speak it. |
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By *eah Baby OP Couple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"There's so many subjects I can't keep up half the time.. I post random stuff, get ignored, blocked etc... I aint crying about it
Just keep on posting and do wat ya good at.... If ya build it, they will com
Ooooh I’m not crying lol, nothing to cry about, just making a suggestion
Shouldn't have to really, looked at profile beautiful pics... Wish I lived in Spain lol oh an it's titch that's typing here lol
Hello Titch, thank you for the compliment, looking very sexy on your profile and yes we are lucky and nothing to cry about for sure lol. Seems you can’t make a suggestion these days without people think it’s a dig when it’s not, I ask myself where’s the fun gone in people they always seem to be in attack mode
Wasn't trying to make dig.... Was trying to be funny, too many up tight fannies on here lately and thks for ya compliment "
I wasn’t talking about you making a dig lol I was generalising, sorry if it came over I meant you as I didn’t think I best go haha |
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"Think maybe a good idea to have a singles and couples separate chat forum as it seems it’s mainly singles trying to cop off on the forum instead of sending a message lol
Why?
Then couples can join a conversation. Have a look through a lot of the topics single people ignore couples posts and do a reply and quote on another single person instead so think it would be better if there were two forums Why would it be better...
Why would it not? Like a previous poster said singles take over a thread with just the banter between themselves so obviously there is the need for an area for singles chat ??? totally disagree. Its a forum.. you dont need anymore sub divisions. There are couples that post that a single could give advice for. I think it would make it a much less inclusive forum
I’m talking an addition"
still think it would be pointless just my opinion |
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By *eah Baby OP Couple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"Damn it. Wrong forum.
Apologies, I'm in the swingers chat and I'm single.
I'll get my coat. Sorry again.
Groan another one read what I said if possible
It's called sarcasm. Sorry you don't speak it."
Prefer fun really but each to their own |
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By *eah Baby OP Couple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"Ok bored now...as you were have a fab night all lol youre not a stayer then
Probably sick of being ignored... oh wait..  "
HaHa yes that’s it...going to tootle off to my messages instead given me a headache you lot, need some light entertainment instead  |
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By *nnnikCouple
over a year ago
Walsall |
"There's so many subjects I can't keep up half the time.. I post random stuff, get ignored, blocked etc... I aint crying about it
Just keep on posting and do wat ya good at.... If ya build it, they will com
Ooooh I’m not crying lol, nothing to cry about, just making a suggestion
Shouldn't have to really, looked at profile beautiful pics... Wish I lived in Spain lol oh an it's titch that's typing here lol
Hello Titch, thank you for the compliment, looking very sexy on your profile and yes we are lucky and nothing to cry about for sure lol. Seems you can’t make a suggestion these days without people think it’s a dig when it’s not, I ask myself where’s the fun gone in people they always seem to be in attack mode
Wasn't trying to make dig.... Was trying to be funny, too many up tight fannies on here lately and thks for ya compliment
I wasn’t talking about you making a dig lol I was generalising, sorry if it came over I meant you as I didn’t think I best go haha "
Oooooooo boy...... Nevernind enjoy ya evening.. I'm going to get laid lol |
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By *eah Baby OP Couple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"There's so many subjects I can't keep up half the time.. I post random stuff, get ignored, blocked etc... I aint crying about it
Just keep on posting and do wat ya good at.... If ya build it, they will com
Ooooh I’m not crying lol, nothing to cry about, just making a suggestion
Shouldn't have to really, looked at profile beautiful pics... Wish I lived in Spain lol oh an it's titch that's typing here lol
Hello Titch, thank you for the compliment, looking very sexy on your profile and yes we are lucky and nothing to cry about for sure lol. Seems you can’t make a suggestion these days without people think it’s a dig when it’s not, I ask myself where’s the fun gone in people they always seem to be in attack mode
Wasn't trying to make dig.... Was trying to be funny, too many up tight fannies on here lately and thks for ya compliment
I wasn’t talking about you making a dig lol I was generalising, sorry if it came over I meant you as I didn’t think I best go haha
Oooooooo boy...... Nevernind enjoy ya evening.. I'm going to get laid lol "
HaHa don’t blame you, have fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have a wank!!
This usually solves lot of problems
With the exception of erectile dysfunction im not sure i can help with that "
Thankfully I don't need help |
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"Have a wank!!
This usually solves lot of problems
With the exception of erectile dysfunction im not sure i can help with that
Thankfully I don't need help "
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