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"Try not too, think it comes across as creepy in the gym when people are trying to exercise without people ogling and putting them off, I prefer to look at the people who are staring at someone else it’s prettt funny " This | |||
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"There is definitely a lot of sexual tension that goes on in most gyms! Hence why I train every day lol " lol... it’s certainly a motivator | |||
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"Try not too, think it comes across as creepy in the gym when people are trying to exercise without people ogling and putting them off, I prefer to look at the people who are staring at someone else it’s prettt funny " ha ha... that’s funny too. Watching the watchers | |||
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"Alisha gets this a lot and I find it so horny... especially when I act as if I don’t know her and then others are perving on her arse... gets me so hard " I never thought about that .. training couples. | |||
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"There is definitely a lot of sexual tension that goes on in most gyms! Hence why I train every day lol lol... it’s certainly a motivator" Really? I find it a distraction as my mind begins to wander | |||
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"Try not too, think it comes across as creepy in the gym when people are trying to exercise without people ogling and putting them off, I prefer to look at the people who are staring at someone else it’s prettt funny " Agree. People go to gym for a few reasons. Obviously get fit or build muscle. But for a lot it’s a get away and blow out stress. | |||
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"It’s good going together at the weekend as i get to perve on her as I know what she is wearing underneath. Plus when she squats and guys are watching it turns me on lol... nothing like a Asian girl in a training bra and leggings... " I get where you’re coming from. She certainly would turn a few heads | |||
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"Interestingly..... I’m not gym fit, I’m fat but curvy. I went for a taster session at a local gym last week.... tight leggings that smoothed me out and controlled my jiggle, big sports bar under a baggy but low necked t shirt, so you could see cleavage.... pretty much no make up and hair up, but I’ve never had so many men obviously, sexually ogle me ! Just goes to show that it’s not always about being slim..... " Hell no! Curves are sexy. | |||
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"To be fair we are going on a hours time...lol see if we can get some cheeky pics and upload them " I’m away go in 20 mins aswell to my Gym, have a good workout : ) | |||
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"Interestingly..... I’m not gym fit, I’m fat but curvy. I went for a taster session at a local gym last week.... tight leggings that smoothed me out and controlled my jiggle, big sports bar under a baggy but low necked t shirt, so you could see cleavage.... pretty much no make up and hair up, but I’ve never had so many men obviously, sexually ogle me ! Just goes to show that it’s not always about being slim..... " Great point... The main thing is to get healthy. It’s great for the mind as well as the body. You’re also spot on about body shape. It would be a boring world if we were all the same. | |||
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"Interestingly..... I’m not gym fit, I’m fat but curvy. I went for a taster session at a local gym last week.... tight leggings that smoothed me out and controlled my jiggle, big sports bar under a baggy but low necked t shirt, so you could see cleavage.... pretty much no make up and hair up, but I’ve never had so many men obviously, sexually ogle me ! Just goes to show that it’s not always about being slim..... " First of all, fair play as I’m guessing that took a lot of guts to do that and secondly, I wish I could’ve seen you wearing that! | |||
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"To be fair we are going on a hours time...lol see if we can get some cheeky pics and upload them I’m away go in 20 mins aswell to my Gym, have a good workout : ) " You too | |||
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"MrD said he wants to go to gym with me..just so he can watch my ass. And watch other people perving my ass!!! We live in 2 different locations & 2 gyms. Be nice to gym together though. " lol.. you should take him up on that gym share offer. See if the watchers are out in full flow. | |||
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"It’s good going together at the weekend as i get to perve on her as I know what she is wearing underneath. Plus when she squats and guys are watching it turns me on lol... nothing like a Asian girl in a training bra and leggings... " I wouldn't mind seeing the Mrs squat | |||
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"MrD said he wants to go to gym with me..just so he can watch my ass. And watch other people perving my ass!!! We live in 2 different locations & 2 gyms. Be nice to gym together though. lol.. you should take him up on that gym share offer. See if the watchers are out in full flow. " I dont think my OH would get a good workout in that day...too distracted. | |||
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"Dont need to be slim at all. I see all sorts of shapes & sizes getting checked out. I get looks because of my tattoo's. " Not just because of your tattoos, I'd say that sexy ass gets plenty of subtle glances. Maybe you're in my gym...now there's a thought! | |||
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"Interestingly..... I’m not gym fit, I’m fat but curvy. I went for a taster session at a local gym last week.... tight leggings that smoothed me out and controlled my jiggle, big sports bar under a baggy but low necked t shirt, so you could see cleavage.... pretty much no make up and hair up, but I’ve never had so many men obviously, sexually ogle me ! Just goes to show that it’s not always about being slim..... " your worth an ogle for sure... | |||
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"Dont need to be slim at all. I see all sorts of shapes & sizes getting checked out. I get looks because of my tattoo's. Not just because of your tattoos, I'd say that sexy ass gets plenty of subtle glances. Maybe you're in my gym...now there's a thought! " I wouldnt be easy to miss. 5ft8 full of tatts. | |||
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"Who goes to their local gym and can’t help but watch other gym users in a sexual way. Some of the gear that the ladies are wearing now is just down right sexual ... Wow What about you ladies’ Do you have a good stare ? Have you ever been caught having a good look lol" My gym is an old school bouncers gym where I’m one of only a handful of girls that train there. And the reason I train there is because the meatheads are focussed on what they’re doing instead of staring at me. Used to be a m_mber of David Lloyd and it was fucking awful. Skinny guys in vests and baseball caps staring at me when it’s leg day...really off putting | |||
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"Who goes to their local gym and can’t help but watch other gym users in a sexual way. Some of the gear that the ladies are wearing now is just down right sexual ... Wow What about you ladies’ Do you have a good stare ? Have you ever been caught having a good look lol" It's the only reason i do yoga. | |||
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"Who goes to their local gym and can’t help but watch other gym users in a sexual way. Some of the gear that the ladies are wearing now is just down right sexual ... Wow What about you ladies’ Do you have a good stare ? Have you ever been caught having a good look lol My gym is an old school bouncers gym where I’m one of only a handful of girls that train there. And the reason I train there is because the meatheads are focussed on what they’re doing instead of staring at me. Used to be a m_mber of David Lloyd and it was fucking awful. Skinny guys in vests and baseball caps staring at me when it’s leg day...really off putting " | |||
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"Nope! I'd probably lose my job if I did! And if I'm training myself, I'm there to train, not put on a show. " Yup. Don't be creepy. | |||
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"Dont need to be slim at all. I see all sorts of shapes & sizes getting checked out. I get looks because of my tattoo's. Not just because of your tattoos, I'd say that sexy ass gets plenty of subtle glances. Maybe you're in my gym...now there's a thought! I wouldnt be easy to miss. 5ft8 full of tatts. " I'll have to pay more attention next time I'm in there! | |||
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"No. I find it creepy when men are clearly staring at me. I’m not at the gym to be ogled at " I'd never stare. The odd quick admiring glance maybe.. | |||
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"I'm too busy being a sweaty dying mess to ogle anyone. But I enjoy the grunts and noises from the weights corner " This! Bright red, sweaty and my hair stuck to my face. Please don't look at me . I tend to buy my gym t-shirts at least two sizes up so they're baggy to hide a little more. Especially if it makes it a bit longer to cover my bum a bit as gym leggings really go show off your ass and thighs! | |||
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"I'm too busy being a sweaty dying mess to ogle anyone. But I enjoy the grunts and noises from the weights corner " Ive never understood how folk can do a good workout without the sweat bit. I must be doing something wrong | |||
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"This is why I have a home gym I want to chill out and concentrate on what I'm doing when I exercise. I get my sexier workouts in other ways " You’re a sad loss to the gym community;) | |||
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"No. I find it creepy when men are clearly staring at me. I’m not at the gym to be ogled at " I probably meant fleeting glances rather than cold long stare if you know what I mean... | |||
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"I stopped going to the gym because I was made to feel uncomfortable " That’s sad to hear...it was all meant and said in a bit of fun.. You’d probably still get eyed up in a supermarket or your work surely ? | |||
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"I stopped going to the gym because I was made to feel uncomfortable That’s sad to hear...it was all meant and said in a bit of fun.. You’d probably still get eyed up in a supermarket or your work surely ?" They shouldn't be doing it there, either... But unfortunately we don't have a choice about groceries or food | |||
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"I stopped going to the gym because I was made to feel uncomfortable That’s sad to hear...it was all meant and said in a bit of fun.. You’d probably still get eyed up in a supermarket or your work surely ? They shouldn't be doing it there, either... But unfortunately we don't have a choice about groceries or food " Or work | |||
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"I'm not sure why every place is open season for this kind of crap. I wear tight clothes to the gym for my confort, not for your viewing pleasure. " It was intended as a bit of light hearted banter and open to both sexes to comment. We are talking about fleeting glances and not cold long stares. But if you can interact with your sexual preference without eye contact then crack on | |||
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"I don't like being watched in gym so stopped going. Had to get equipment to use at home instead " I’m sure the majority of folk that go to the gym just get their head down and crack on with their workout...there’s gyms & there’s Gyms if you know what I mean | |||
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"I'm not sure why every place is open season for this kind of crap. I wear tight clothes to the gym for my confort, not for your viewing pleasure. It was intended as a bit of light hearted banter and open to both sexes to comment. We are talking about fleeting glances and not cold long stares. But if you can interact with your sexual preference without eye contact then crack on " Alot of people are very fragile, you must have noticed? | |||
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"I'm not sure why every place is open season for this kind of crap. I wear tight clothes to the gym for my confort, not for your viewing pleasure. It was intended as a bit of light hearted banter and open to both sexes to comment. We are talking about fleeting glances and not cold long stares. But if you can interact with your sexual preference without eye contact then crack on " I crack on in the gym doing gym stuff and leave my libido for elsewhere. | |||
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"I'm not sure why every place is open season for this kind of crap. I wear tight clothes to the gym for my confort, not for your viewing pleasure. It was intended as a bit of light hearted banter and open to both sexes to comment. We are talking about fleeting glances and not cold long stares. But if you can interact with your sexual preference without eye contact then crack on I crack on in the gym doing gym stuff and leave my libido for elsewhere. " Thats great... Like I said nobody should be made to feel uncomfortable doing a workout. It’s good for the mind also. | |||
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"Who goes to their local gym and can’t help but watch other gym users in a sexual way. Some of the gear that the ladies are wearing now is just down right sexual ... Wow What about you ladies’ Do you have a good stare ? Have you ever been caught having a good look lol" This is so fucking creepy. Every gym has it's fair share of lecherous men who go far beyond a casual glance. The wording of this post though. Just wow | |||
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"When doing cardio I'm sometimes guilty of taking the odd sneak peek. Women in leggings are just too damn sexy. When I'm doing weights I train with more intensity so I just zone out." Bang on while doing cardio takes the bordom outnof it but not stare them out lol but weights is my time i dont look at anyone its grow time lol | |||
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"I don't do it, I'm there to train. I have caught women checking me out though " The one time I was "caught", I was stunned by how much this guy was lifting. I wasn't perving (I don't). | |||
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"The irony reaction of some of the respondents on this light hearted post is farcical, hypocritical & comical...They are on a swingers site. Probably have some very raunchy pictures of themselves or their partner that targets their sexual preference. The intention of their pics is to draw a positive response to their body. They then pore scorn on others for the heinous offence of sneaking a peek at them at a gym whilst working out. Now I know one or two of you have had a very uncomfortable experience & I do feel your angst But some people really need to have a long hard look in the mirror, probably a gym one at that Now where’s my gym gear " Okay you weren't talking about a quick peep were you? You, in your own words sexualized your staring. You also sexualised women's outfits. However you look at it those words are as creepy as fuck. As for people beibg hypocrites for being on a swinging site. Seriously? Do you not understand context? Or consent for that matter? People on here have chosen to be here. Chosen to post pics. The women you stare at in a sexual way while having a work out haven't. It's not even comparable | |||
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"The irony reaction of some of the respondents on this light hearted post is farcical, hypocritical & comical...They are on a swingers site. Probably have some very raunchy pictures of themselves or their partner that targets their sexual preference. The intention of their pics is to draw a positive response to their body. They then pore scorn on others for the heinous offence of sneaking a peek at them at a gym whilst working out. Now I know one or two of you have had a very uncomfortable experience & I do feel your angst But some people really need to have a long hard look in the mirror, probably a gym one at that Now where’s my gym gear Okay you weren't talking about a quick peep were you? You, in your own words sexualized your staring. You also sexualised women's outfits. However you look at it those words are as creepy as fuck. As for people beibg hypocrites for being on a swinging site. Seriously? Do you not understand context? Or consent for that matter? People on here have chosen to be here. Chosen to post pics. The women you stare at in a sexual way while having a work out haven't. It's not even comparable " I'm so glad some men really get it. | |||
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"Who goes to their local gym and can’t help but watch other gym users in a sexual way. Some of the gear that the ladies are wearing now is just down right sexual ... Wow What about you ladies’ Do you have a good stare ? Have you ever been caught having a good look lol" And here ladies and gentlemen is why there’s a need for ladies only gyms.. | |||
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"The irony reaction of some of the respondents on this light hearted post is farcical, hypocritical & comical...They are on a swingers site. Probably have some very raunchy pictures of themselves or their partner that targets their sexual preference. The intention of their pics is to draw a positive response to their body. They then pore scorn on others for the heinous offence of sneaking a peek at them at a gym whilst working out. Now I know one or two of you have had a very uncomfortable experience & I do feel your angst But some people really need to have a long hard look in the mirror, probably a gym one at that Now where’s my gym gear Okay you weren't talking about a quick peep were you? You, in your own words sexualized your staring. You also sexualised women's outfits. However you look at it those words are as creepy as fuck. As for people beibg hypocrites for being on a swinging site. Seriously? Do you not understand context? Or consent for that matter? People on here have chosen to be here. Chosen to post pics. The women you stare at in a sexual way while having a work out haven't. It's not even comparable " This. All men should understand this the same as you | |||
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"Try not too, think it comes across as creepy in the gym when people are trying to exercise without people ogling and putting them off, I prefer to look at the people who are staring at someone else it’s prettt funny " Totally agree with this. I'm a coach and have had to say to a couple of guys in the past to wise up. | |||
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"Who goes to their local gym and can’t help but watch other gym users in a sexual way. Some of the gear that the ladies are wearing now is just down right sexual ... Wow What about you ladies’ Do you have a good stare ? Have you ever been caught having a good look lol My gym is an old school bouncers gym where I’m one of only a handful of girls that train there. And the reason I train there is because the meatheads are focussed on what they’re doing instead of staring at me. Used to be a m_mber of David Lloyd and it was fucking awful. Skinny guys in vests and baseball caps staring at me when it’s leg day...really off putting " Mines old school as fuck. Mainly boxing and everyone's there to train. | |||
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"The irony reaction of some of the respondents on this light hearted post is farcical, hypocritical & comical...They are on a swingers site. Probably have some very raunchy pictures of themselves or their partner that targets their sexual preference. The intention of their pics is to draw a positive response to their body. They then pore scorn on others for the heinous offence of sneaking a peek at them at a gym whilst working out. Now I know one or two of you have had a very uncomfortable experience & I do feel your angst But some people really need to have a long hard look in the mirror, probably a gym one at that Now where’s my gym gear " Seriously? Your lack of understanding is quite pathetic. It can be a very hard for people to attend a gym at the best of times let alone when some oddball is sitting staring at them. And as for your bit about irony. This is a swingers site, the gym isn't. You wouldn't last at my gym. | |||
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"Always have a perv at my Angel whilst she is working out she looks amazing in her gym gear " Don’t blame you mate she’s fit | |||
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"Men aren’t as subtle as they think they stare FYI" Yup. "Subtle" = creepy, not super creepy. | |||
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"Men aren’t as subtle as they think they stare FYI" This was meant to say ‘they think they are’ but hey it sort of fits | |||
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"I’ll say this once again. It was a light hearted post and I made several mentions throughout the various posts that it was intended as such. A casual glance which is often unavoidable in certain gyms up & down the land. I even encouraged others to get out there and get to the gym regardless of their shape size or perceived reason for not going. Yet once again, we have the thought police and moral crusaders looking to be offended and the dashing hero’s rushing to the damsel in distress trying to win favour with the female m_mbers. I’d say get a life. Your on a swingers site. I won’t take lessons on sexual behaviours or morality from folk that are every bit as sexually permissive as I’m perceived to be. GUFFS and lighten up. " Fuck yeah you tell ‘em, fuck feeling self conscious, nervous, anxious, threatened, uncomfortable etc. We all love sex!!!! | |||
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"I’ll say this once again. It was a light hearted post and I made several mentions throughout the various posts that it was intended as such. A casual glance which is often unavoidable in certain gyms up & down the land. I even encouraged others to get out there and get to the gym regardless of their shape size or perceived reason for not going. Yet once again, we have the thought police and moral crusaders looking to be offended and the dashing hero’s rushing to the damsel in distress trying to win favour with the female m_mbers. I’d say get a life. Your on a swingers site. I won’t take lessons on sexual behaviours or morality from folk that are every bit as sexually permissive as I’m perceived to be. GUFFS and lighten up. " So men only show respect for women to get laid? Gotcha. | |||
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"Glancing is one thing, I'm sure we all do that from time to time, being stared at and followed as your using different pieces of equipment is quite different. Time and a place, as someone said earlier. I no longer use my local pool as a result of being harassed when I went for a swim. " Exactly...You should have reported that. Way too far | |||
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"So you're being creepy, celebrating being creepy, can't tell the difference between consensual activity on an appropriate site and the rest of our lives... And we're the ones with the problem because that behaviour is gross? Right. " You need to get out more.. I think you know the context in which the post was made. Don’t try and conflate a light hearted post on a swingers site with sexual predators. There has been posts from both female & males who quite like the idea of both watching and being watched. You don’t have the right to judge others sexual preferences. Go check your profile. Did somebody judge you or tell you couldn’t like certain individuals or sexual practice. That’s why this site exists. It gives people the choice and freedoms to express themselves without the need to be judged. THINK ABOUT IT. | |||
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"I'm thinking about it. I'm thinking about 20+ years of creepers making me feel uncomfortable or unsafe. I'm thinking about, to this day, the compromise I make between correct form in the gym and what might accidentally be a provocative pose. About how I wore baggy clothes to the gym for a long time because of creeps. I get out plenty. To the gym, to swinging clubs, to private sex parties. And I'm sick and tired of oh love it's just a joke/ compliment! I'm not a sex object, I'm a person. You can express your sexuality. You're doing so! But I'm entitled to respond. And if it goes out of your head it affects more than just you. " | |||
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"I’ll say this once again. It was a light hearted post and I made several mentions throughout the various posts that it was intended as such. A casual glance which is often unavoidable in certain gyms up & down the land. I even encouraged others to get out there and get to the gym regardless of their shape size or perceived reason for not going. Yet once again, we have the thought police and moral crusaders looking to be offended and the dashing hero’s rushing to the damsel in distress trying to win favour with the female m_mbers. I’d say get a life. Your on a swingers site. I won’t take lessons on sexual behaviours or morality from folk that are every bit as sexually permissive as I’m perceived to be. GUFFS and lighten up. " You dont understand swinging either do you? | |||
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"I’ll say this once again. It was a light hearted post and I made several mentions throughout the various posts that it was intended as such. A casual glance which is often unavoidable in certain gyms up & down the land. I even encouraged others to get out there and get to the gym regardless of their shape size or perceived reason for not going. Yet once again, we have the thought police and moral crusaders looking to be offended and the dashing hero’s rushing to the damsel in distress trying to win favour with the female m_mbers. I’d say get a life. Your on a swingers site. I won’t take lessons on sexual behaviours or morality from folk that are every bit as sexually permissive as I’m perceived to be. GUFFS and lighten up. So men only show respect for women to get laid? Gotcha." Well said. | |||
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"So you're being creepy, celebrating being creepy, can't tell the difference between consensual activity on an appropriate site and the rest of our lives... And we're the ones with the problem because that behaviour is gross? Right. You need to get out more.. I think you know the context in which the post was made. Don’t try and conflate a light hearted post on a swingers site with sexual predators. There has been posts from both female & males who quite like the idea of both watching and being watched. You don’t have the right to judge others sexual preferences. Go check your profile. Did somebody judge you or tell you couldn’t like certain individuals or sexual practice. That’s why this site exists. It gives people the choice and freedoms to express themselves without the need to be judged. THINK ABOUT IT. " Good grief. Terrible. | |||
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"Who goes to their local gym and can’t help but watch other gym users in a sexual way. Some of the gear that the ladies are wearing now is just down right sexual ... Wow " Okay op you keep maintaining it was light hearted. So I have sone questions, firstly how is staring at someone in a sexual way (your words, in context) not a lecherous comment? How is this meant in a light hearted way. Secondly, these sexual gym outfits, what are0 they about? What did you mean | |||
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"I’ll say this once again. It was a light hearted post and I made several mentions throughout the various posts that it was intended as such. A casual glance which is often unavoidable in certain gyms up & down the land. I even encouraged others to get out there and get to the gym regardless of their shape size or perceived reason for not going. Yet once again, we have the thought police and moral crusaders looking to be offended and the dashing hero’s rushing to the damsel in distress trying to win favour with the female m_mbers. I’d say get a life. Your on a swingers site. I won’t take lessons on sexual behaviours or morality from folk that are every bit as sexually permissive as I’m perceived to be. GUFFS and lighten up. So men only show respect for women to get laid? Gotcha." | |||
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"So you're being creepy, celebrating being creepy, can't tell the difference between consensual activity on an appropriate site and the rest of our lives... And we're the ones with the problem because that behaviour is gross? Right. You need to get out more.. I think you know the context in which the post was made. Don’t try and conflate a light hearted post on a swingers site with sexual predators. There has been posts from both female & males who quite like the idea of both watching and being watched. You don’t have the right to judge others sexual preferences. Go check your profile. Did somebody judge you or tell you couldn’t like certain individuals or sexual practice. That’s why this site exists. It gives people the choice and freedoms to express themselves without the need to be judged. THINK ABOUT IT. " But you are talking about the gym. Which isnt this site. And isnt a sexual environment is it? | |||
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"I'm thinking about it. I'm thinking about 20+ years of creepers making me feel uncomfortable or unsafe. I'm thinking about, to this day, the compromise I make between correct form in the gym and what might accidentally be a provocative pose. About how I wore baggy clothes to the gym for a long time because of creeps. I get out plenty. To the gym, to swinging clubs, to private sex parties. And I'm sick and tired of oh love it's just a joke/ compliment! I'm not a sex object, I'm a person. You can express your sexuality. You're doing so! But I'm entitled to respond. And if it goes out of your head it affects more than just you. " Like I’ve said, I can only apologise if my post has some how offended you but I will not be held accountable or be answerable for another person misdeeds towards you. It is a site open to all and caters for everyone’s sexual preference no matter how distasteful that may seem to you or others. Please feel free to express your disdain for my post but don’t make inferences that I am a creep or my actions are creepy. I wouldn’t judge your sexual preferences. What you do is your business. If individuals in your private life have overstepped the mark then hold them directly to account. Next you’ll be judging white gals on this site that like black clock only, | |||
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"So you're being creepy, celebrating being creepy, can't tell the difference between consensual activity on an appropriate site and the rest of our lives... And we're the ones with the problem because that behaviour is gross? Right. You need to get out more.. I think you know the context in which the post was made. Don’t try and conflate a light hearted post on a swingers site with sexual predators. There has been posts from both female & males who quite like the idea of both watching and being watched. You don’t have the right to judge others sexual preferences. Go check your profile. Did somebody judge you or tell you couldn’t like certain individuals or sexual practice. That’s why this site exists. It gives people the choice and freedoms to express themselves without the need to be judged. THINK ABOUT IT. But you are talking about the gym. Which isnt this site. And isnt a sexual environment is it?" | |||
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"So you're being creepy, celebrating being creepy, can't tell the difference between consensual activity on an appropriate site and the rest of our lives... And we're the ones with the problem because that behaviour is gross? Right. You need to get out more.. I think you know the context in which the post was made. Don’t try and conflate a light hearted post on a swingers site with sexual predators. There has been posts from both female & males who quite like the idea of both watching and being watched. You don’t have the right to judge others sexual preferences. Go check your profile. Did somebody judge you or tell you couldn’t like certain individuals or sexual practice. That’s why this site exists. It gives people the choice and freedoms to express themselves without the need to be judged. THINK ABOUT IT. But you are talking about the gym. Which isnt this site. And isnt a sexual environment is it?" Wow... read the post below. Do you read books do you have a fantasy. Are you the thought police now. This site belongs to everyone and their sexual preference. Like I said Think about it. | |||
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"I'm thinking about it. I'm thinking about 20+ years of creepers making me feel uncomfortable or unsafe. I'm thinking about, to this day, the compromise I make between correct form in the gym and what might accidentally be a provocative pose. About how I wore baggy clothes to the gym for a long time because of creeps. I get out plenty. To the gym, to swinging clubs, to private sex parties. And I'm sick and tired of oh love it's just a joke/ compliment! I'm not a sex object, I'm a person. You can express your sexuality. You're doing so! But I'm entitled to respond. And if it goes out of your head it affects more than just you. Like I’ve said, I can only apologise if my post has some how offended you but I will not be held accountable or be answerable for another person misdeeds towards you. It is a site open to all and caters for everyone’s sexual preference no matter how distasteful that may seem to you or others. Please feel free to express your disdain for my post but don’t make inferences that I am a creep or my actions are creepy. I wouldn’t judge your sexual preferences. What you do is your business. If individuals in your private life have overstepped the mark then hold them directly to account. Next you’ll be judging white gals on this site that like black clock only, " Your OP comes across as sexualising the gym which is a public space and ogling ladies isn't cool and not all (most in my experience) don't like it ... you've compared it to this site but it isn't it's public ... my daughter goes to the gym, and its, quite frankly, horrible to think about! We are all responsible for our own behaviour ... how do you think yours comes across? | |||
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"So you're being creepy, celebrating being creepy, can't tell the difference between consensual activity on an appropriate site and the rest of our lives... And we're the ones with the problem because that behaviour is gross? Right. You need to get out more.. I think you know the context in which the post was made. Don’t try and conflate a light hearted post on a swingers site with sexual predators. There has been posts from both female & males who quite like the idea of both watching and being watched. You don’t have the right to judge others sexual preferences. Go check your profile. Did somebody judge you or tell you couldn’t like certain individuals or sexual practice. That’s why this site exists. It gives people the choice and freedoms to express themselves without the need to be judged. THINK ABOUT IT. But you are talking about the gym. Which isnt this site. And isnt a sexual environment is it? Wow... read the post below. Do you read books do you have a fantasy. Are you the thought police now. This site belongs to everyone and their sexual preference. Like I said Think about it." See this 'wow', 'think about it' and general everyone is mental except me attitude, its rather disturbing. Your lack of education on this subject is terrifying and I urge you to change your thought process. | |||
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"So you're being creepy, celebrating being creepy, can't tell the difference between consensual activity on an appropriate site and the rest of our lives... And we're the ones with the problem because that behaviour is gross? Right. You need to get out more.. I think you know the context in which the post was made. Don’t try and conflate a light hearted post on a swingers site with sexual predators. There has been posts from both female & males who quite like the idea of both watching and being watched. You don’t have the right to judge others sexual preferences. Go check your profile. Did somebody judge you or tell you couldn’t like certain individuals or sexual practice. That’s why this site exists. It gives people the choice and freedoms to express themselves without the need to be judged. THINK ABOUT IT. But you are talking about the gym. Which isnt this site. And isnt a sexual environment is it? Wow... read the post below. Do you read books do you have a fantasy. Are you the thought police now. This site belongs to everyone and their sexual preference. Like I said Think about it." But your fantasy isnt restricted to the site is it? And I'm not sure leeching at girls in the gym is a fantasy is it. It's more of a fetish, and the people you are fetishising aren't consenting or even aware. And I think the constant "think about it" passive aggeessibe comments aren't strengthening your argument, to be honest given your seeming unwillingness to consider another viewpoint or even consider why this post has received the reaction it has it just seems ironic suggesting other people need to think about your posts... | |||
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"Best wear my old trackie bottoms and baggy tshirt next time then lol. " Wish that worked. My 15 year old sister wears that and people still make comments...to my dad | |||
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"OP, if you're looking at women sexually in the gym, you're being creepy, and you are part of the problem. Even if you've never made me feel uncomfortable specifically. I think everyone here would like more sexually liberated women. Part of that is allowing us to have spaces to express ourselves, *and* spaces where we can be just regular people, rather than pieces of arse. " You are wanting to make this personal now. I have explained my rational and even apologised to you directly. You either have not read through my response to you or you’ve chosen to disregard it. Go to the fantasy story section and tell every poster on it to withdraw all their stories and comments because you have a problem with their take on their sexual habits and fantasies. This site exists for people who want to indulge their sexual fantasies or physically participate in real sex. It’s their choice. Don’t judge others by your standards, sexual tastes or self perceived unwanted attention. Would you go onto an openly gay site and tell the participants that their habits were wrong. Would you openly judge them. Would you complain because they never found you attractive. I Think not. Listen, have a nice weekend and go enjoy life. Stop taking yourself so serious. Oh, and if a guy over steps the mark with you then call him out. | |||
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"Best wear my old trackie bottoms and baggy tshirt next time then lol. Wish that worked. My 15 year old sister wears that and people still make comments...to my dad" Seeiously? | |||
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"Best wear my old trackie bottoms and baggy tshirt next time then lol. Wish that worked. My 15 year old sister wears that and people still make comments...to my dad" Jesus christ. | |||
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"Best wear my old trackie bottoms and baggy tshirt next time then lol. Wish that worked. My 15 year old sister wears that and people still make comments...to my dad Seeiously? " Yep. Well, they made comments, my dads a scary guy. They didn’t do it again | |||
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"Best wear my old trackie bottoms and baggy tshirt next time then lol. Wish that worked. My 15 year old sister wears that and people still make comments...to my dad Seeiously? Yep. Well, they made comments, my dads a scary guy. They didn’t do it again" Someone said something sexual to your dad about his 15 year old daughter? Jeeeeez | |||
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"OP, if you're looking at women sexually in the gym, you're being creepy, and you are part of the problem. Even if you've never made me feel uncomfortable specifically. I think everyone here would like more sexually liberated women. Part of that is allowing us to have spaces to express ourselves, *and* spaces where we can be just regular people, rather than pieces of arse. You are wanting to make this personal now. I have explained my rational and even apologised to you directly. You either have not read through my response to you or you’ve chosen to disregard it. Go to the fantasy story section and tell every poster on it to withdraw all their stories and comments because you have a problem with their take on their sexual habits and fantasies. This site exists for people who want to indulge their sexual fantasies or physically participate in real sex. It’s their choice. Don’t judge others by your standards, sexual tastes or self perceived unwanted attention. Would you go onto an openly gay site and tell the participants that their habits were wrong. Would you openly judge them. Would you complain because they never found you attractive. I Think not. Listen, have a nice weekend and go enjoy life. Stop taking yourself so serious. Oh, and if a guy over steps the mark with you then call him out. " Honestly you are making no sense. Your argument seems to be "I'm on a swingers site I can sexualise any situation however mundane and shouldn't be criticised". Or am I missing something? | |||
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"OP, if you're looking at women sexually in the gym, you're being creepy, and you are part of the problem. Even if you've never made me feel uncomfortable specifically. I think everyone here would like more sexually liberated women. Part of that is allowing us to have spaces to express ourselves, *and* spaces where we can be just regular people, rather than pieces of arse. You are wanting to make this personal now. I have explained my rational and even apologised to you directly. You either have not read through my response to you or you’ve chosen to disregard it. Go to the fantasy story section and tell every poster on it to withdraw all their stories and comments because you have a problem with their take on their sexual habits and fantasies. This site exists for people who want to indulge their sexual fantasies or physically participate in real sex. It’s their choice. Don’t judge others by your standards, sexual tastes or self perceived unwanted attention. Would you go onto an openly gay site and tell the participants that their habits were wrong. Would you openly judge them. Would you complain because they never found you attractive. I Think not. Listen, have a nice weekend and go enjoy life. Stop taking yourself so serious. Oh, and if a guy over steps the mark with you then call him out. " "This site exists for people who want to indulge their sexual fantasies or physically participate in real sex. It’s their choice." But... The gym (or any other public place for that matter), is not this site. It's not the choice of those who happen to be there to be ogled at. There is a time and place for everything. | |||
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"OP, if you're looking at women sexually in the gym, you're being creepy, and you are part of the problem. Even if you've never made me feel uncomfortable specifically. I think everyone here would like more sexually liberated women. Part of that is allowing us to have spaces to express ourselves, *and* spaces where we can be just regular people, rather than pieces of arse. You are wanting to make this personal now. I have explained my rational and even apologised to you directly. You either have not read through my response to you or you’ve chosen to disregard it. Go to the fantasy story section and tell every poster on it to withdraw all their stories and comments because you have a problem with their take on their sexual habits and fantasies. This site exists for people who want to indulge their sexual fantasies or physically participate in real sex. It’s their choice. Don’t judge others by your standards, sexual tastes or self perceived unwanted attention. Would you go onto an openly gay site and tell the participants that their habits were wrong. Would you openly judge them. Would you complain because they never found you attractive. I Think not. Listen, have a nice weekend and go enjoy life. Stop taking yourself so serious. Oh, and if a guy over steps the mark with you then call him out. Honestly you are making no sense. Your argument seems to be "I'm on a swingers site I can sexualise any situation however mundane and shouldn't be criticised". Or am I missing something?" I see it the same as you. | |||
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"OP, if you're looking at women sexually in the gym, you're being creepy, and you are part of the problem. Even if you've never made me feel uncomfortable specifically. I think everyone here would like more sexually liberated women. Part of that is allowing us to have spaces to express ourselves, *and* spaces where we can be just regular people, rather than pieces of arse. You are wanting to make this personal now. I have explained my rational and even apologised to you directly. You either have not read through my response to you or you’ve chosen to disregard it. Go to the fantasy story section and tell every poster on it to withdraw all their stories and comments because you have a problem with their take on their sexual habits and fantasies. This site exists for people who want to indulge their sexual fantasies or physically participate in real sex. It’s their choice. Don’t judge others by your standards, sexual tastes or self perceived unwanted attention. Would you go onto an openly gay site and tell the participants that their habits were wrong. Would you openly judge them. Would you complain because they never found you attractive. I Think not. Listen, have a nice weekend and go enjoy life. Stop taking yourself so serious. Oh, and if a guy over steps the mark with you then call him out. Honestly you are making no sense. Your argument seems to be "I'm on a swingers site I can sexualise any situation however mundane and shouldn't be criticised". Or am I missing something?" Love this guy haha x | |||
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"I'm thinking about it. I'm thinking about 20+ years of creepers making me feel uncomfortable or unsafe. I'm thinking about, to this day, the compromise I make between correct form in the gym and what might accidentally be a provocative pose. About how I wore baggy clothes to the gym for a long time because of creeps. I get out plenty. To the gym, to swinging clubs, to private sex parties. And I'm sick and tired of oh love it's just a joke/ compliment! I'm not a sex object, I'm a person. You can express your sexuality. You're doing so! But I'm entitled to respond. And if it goes out of your head it affects more than just you. Like I’ve said, I can only apologise if my post has some how offended you but I will not be held accountable or be answerable for another person misdeeds towards you. It is a site open to all and caters for everyone’s sexual preference no matter how distasteful that may seem to you or others. Please feel free to express your disdain for my post but don’t make inferences that I am a creep or my actions are creepy. I wouldn’t judge your sexual preferences. What you do is your business. If individuals in your private life have overstepped the mark then hold them directly to account. Next you’ll be judging white gals on this site that like black clock only, Your OP comes across as sexualising the gym which is a public space and ogling ladies isn't cool and not all (most in my experience) don't like it ... you've compared it to this site but it isn't it's public ... my daughter goes to the gym, and its, quite frankly, horrible to think about! We are all responsible for our own behaviour ... how do you think yours comes across? " I wonder what your daughter would think of her mother if she knew you were on this site. I’ve already went into long winded explanation to a previous poster, explaining the purpose of this site. It’s here to suit a whole array of sexual tastes. Pot calling kettle black. | |||
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"I'm thinking about it. I'm thinking about 20+ years of creepers making me feel uncomfortable or unsafe. I'm thinking about, to this day, the compromise I make between correct form in the gym and what might accidentally be a provocative pose. About how I wore baggy clothes to the gym for a long time because of creeps. I get out plenty. To the gym, to swinging clubs, to private sex parties. And I'm sick and tired of oh love it's just a joke/ compliment! I'm not a sex object, I'm a person. You can express your sexuality. You're doing so! But I'm entitled to respond. And if it goes out of your head it affects more than just you. Like I’ve said, I can only apologise if my post has some how offended you but I will not be held accountable or be answerable for another person misdeeds towards you. It is a site open to all and caters for everyone’s sexual preference no matter how distasteful that may seem to you or others. Please feel free to express your disdain for my post but don’t make inferences that I am a creep or my actions are creepy. I wouldn’t judge your sexual preferences. What you do is your business. If individuals in your private life have overstepped the mark then hold them directly to account. Next you’ll be judging white gals on this site that like black clock only, Your OP comes across as sexualising the gym which is a public space and ogling ladies isn't cool and not all (most in my experience) don't like it ... you've compared it to this site but it isn't it's public ... my daughter goes to the gym, and its, quite frankly, horrible to think about! We are all responsible for our own behaviour ... how do you think yours comes across? I wonder what your daughter would think of her mother if she knew you were on this site. I’ve already went into long winded explanation to a previous poster, explaining the purpose of this site. It’s here to suit a whole array of sexual tastes. Pot calling kettle black. " Whyyyyy do you keep mentioning this site? It's about ogling women at a gym. Not ogling women on this site. If a woman is on here it doesn't mean she wants at stared at outwith it! | |||
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"OP, if you're looking at women sexually in the gym, you're being creepy, and you are part of the problem. Even if you've never made me feel uncomfortable specifically. I think everyone here would like more sexually liberated women. Part of that is allowing us to have spaces to express ourselves, *and* spaces where we can be just regular people, rather than pieces of arse. You are wanting to make this personal now. I have explained my rational and even apologised to you directly. You either have not read through my response to you or you’ve chosen to disregard it. Go to the fantasy story section and tell every poster on it to withdraw all their stories and comments because you have a problem with their take on their sexual habits and fantasies. This site exists for people who want to indulge their sexual fantasies or physically participate in real sex. It’s their choice. Don’t judge others by your standards, sexual tastes or self perceived unwanted attention. Would you go onto an openly gay site and tell the participants that their habits were wrong. Would you openly judge them. Would you complain because they never found you attractive. I Think not. Listen, have a nice weekend and go enjoy life. Stop taking yourself so serious. Oh, and if a guy over steps the mark with you then call him out. Honestly you are making no sense. Your argument seems to be "I'm on a swingers site I can sexualise any situation however mundane and shouldn't be criticised". Or am I missing something? Love this guy haha x" Well explain to me the reason you are on this site and what you expect to get from it. I love you too | |||
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"I'm thinking about it. I'm thinking about 20+ years of creepers making me feel uncomfortable or unsafe. I'm thinking about, to this day, the compromise I make between correct form in the gym and what might accidentally be a provocative pose. About how I wore baggy clothes to the gym for a long time because of creeps. I get out plenty. To the gym, to swinging clubs, to private sex parties. And I'm sick and tired of oh love it's just a joke/ compliment! I'm not a sex object, I'm a person. You can express your sexuality. You're doing so! But I'm entitled to respond. And if it goes out of your head it affects more than just you. Like I’ve said, I can only apologise if my post has some how offended you but I will not be held accountable or be answerable for another person misdeeds towards you. It is a site open to all and caters for everyone’s sexual preference no matter how distasteful that may seem to you or others. Please feel free to express your disdain for my post but don’t make inferences that I am a creep or my actions are creepy. I wouldn’t judge your sexual preferences. What you do is your business. If individuals in your private life have overstepped the mark then hold them directly to account. Next you’ll be judging white gals on this site that like black clock only, Your OP comes across as sexualising the gym which is a public space and ogling ladies isn't cool and not all (most in my experience) don't like it ... you've compared it to this site but it isn't it's public ... my daughter goes to the gym, and its, quite frankly, horrible to think about! We are all responsible for our own behaviour ... how do you think yours comes across? I wonder what your daughter would think of her mother if she knew you were on this site. I’ve already went into long winded explanation to a previous poster, explaining the purpose of this site. It’s here to suit a whole array of sexual tastes. Pot calling kettle black. " What's also interesting is the way you repeatedly imply swinging is something to be ashamed about which seems at odds to your only argument which is "but I'm on a swingers site". Weird | |||
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"I'm thinking about it. I'm thinking about 20+ years of creepers making me feel uncomfortable or unsafe. I'm thinking about, to this day, the compromise I make between correct form in the gym and what might accidentally be a provocative pose. About how I wore baggy clothes to the gym for a long time because of creeps. I get out plenty. To the gym, to swinging clubs, to private sex parties. And I'm sick and tired of oh love it's just a joke/ compliment! I'm not a sex object, I'm a person. You can express your sexuality. You're doing so! But I'm entitled to respond. And if it goes out of your head it affects more than just you. Like I’ve said, I can only apologise if my post has some how offended you but I will not be held accountable or be answerable for another person misdeeds towards you. It is a site open to all and caters for everyone’s sexual preference no matter how distasteful that may seem to you or others. Please feel free to express your disdain for my post but don’t make inferences that I am a creep or my actions are creepy. I wouldn’t judge your sexual preferences. What you do is your business. If individuals in your private life have overstepped the mark then hold them directly to account. Next you’ll be judging white gals on this site that like black clock only, Your OP comes across as sexualising the gym which is a public space and ogling ladies isn't cool and not all (most in my experience) don't like it ... you've compared it to this site but it isn't it's public ... my daughter goes to the gym, and its, quite frankly, horrible to think about! We are all responsible for our own behaviour ... how do you think yours comes across? I wonder what your daughter would think of her mother if she knew you were on this site. I’ve already went into long winded explanation to a previous poster, explaining the purpose of this site. It’s here to suit a whole array of sexual tastes. Pot calling kettle black. " My daughter knows I'm on this site as there is nothing wrong with being on this site whatsoever, we all have open and honest relationships in this household but she would get, quite rightly so, very upset with your behaviour in a public gym. | |||
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"I enjoy going to my gym swimming pool so I can slobber over some hot male bodies. Even better when we are next to eachother in sauna and steam room " Start a thread about it, see if you get the same reaction as this OP | |||
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"Just like to thank you all for your feed back. I take on board all your points. The world would be a boring place if we all did the same, thought the same. Respect to you all Have a nice weekend " You too OP. X | |||
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"I enjoy going to my gym swimming pool so I can slobber over some hot male bodies. Even better when we are next to eachother in sauna and steam room Start a thread about it, see if you get the same reaction as this OP " Nah, can't be asked | |||
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"I changed gyms,so I could hopefully meet a woman for a life long relationship. I know...that sounds weird but hear me out: I go to train and I train hard. I don’t ogle,I don’t perve. I just have it in my head that one day,I’ll meet that certain lady whilst swapping machines or small talk on the cross trainer. My last gym was full of sted heads and old guys. I’d like to meet someone that looks after herself and shared my love for the gym. Sad-maybe but you never know where you’ll meet your forever love. " Makes perfect sense to try and find someone with similar interests. I completely detest guys ogling at gyms and can completely understand why female only gyms are such a success. | |||
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"I do tend to check out other girls at the gym but mainly because seeing a great body exercising makes me work so much harder on my session. So it’s purely motivational " I highly doubt they see it as that lol | |||
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"I do tend to check out other girls at the gym but mainly because seeing a great body exercising makes me work so much harder on my session. So it’s purely motivational I highly doubt they see it as that lol " Maybe I’ll start wearing sunglasses to work out lol | |||
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"I do tend to check out other girls at the gym but mainly because seeing a great body exercising makes me work so much harder on my session. So it’s purely motivational I highly doubt they see it as that lol Maybe I’ll start wearing sunglasses to work out lol" Or just work out | |||
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"Wow there goes all the advice I've been given that "no one cares what you look like at the gym, you're just there to exercise". I feel incredibly self conscious at the gym for obvious reasons as it is. Guess I'll have to keep going at 3am when I have the whole cardio room to myself... " I like to go at 3am aswell less people About and can do what you like | |||
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"Wow there goes all the advice I've been given that "no one cares what you look like at the gym, you're just there to exercise". I feel incredibly self conscious at the gym for obvious reasons as it is. Guess I'll have to keep going at 3am when I have the whole cardio room to myself... I like to go at 3am aswell less people About and can do what you like " Yeah but would be nice if I felt comfortable enough to go at a more conventional time. After reading this thread I'm not sure that'll ever happen haha. | |||
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"Wow there goes all the advice I've been given that "no one cares what you look like at the gym, you're just there to exercise". I feel incredibly self conscious at the gym for obvious reasons as it is. Guess I'll have to keep going at 3am when I have the whole cardio room to myself... I like to go at 3am aswell less people About and can do what you like Yeah but would be nice if I felt comfortable enough to go at a more conventional time. After reading this thread I'm not sure that'll ever happen haha. " I sometimes get anxiety and paranoid people are looking at me and I don’t really like it I’m just working out so I put on my headphones and blast some music, recently it’s been the moana sound track and that helps calm me down and relax and forget about people | |||
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"Wow there goes all the advice I've been given that "no one cares what you look like at the gym, you're just there to exercise". I feel incredibly self conscious at the gym for obvious reasons as it is. Guess I'll have to keep going at 3am when I have the whole cardio room to myself... I like to go at 3am aswell less people About and can do what you like Yeah but would be nice if I felt comfortable enough to go at a more conventional time. After reading this thread I'm not sure that'll ever happen haha. I sometimes get anxiety and paranoid people are looking at me and I don’t really like it I’m just working out so I put on my headphones and blast some music, recently it’s been the moana sound track and that helps calm me down and relax and forget about people " Thankfully my gym completely empties out late night/early morning. I've only had one occasion where there was someone else there. Although I completely freaked out, turned around and went home haha. I was trying to do home based stuff for a while for this exact reason but it's not the same. | |||
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