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Are you a local swinger?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Are you a local swinger for local people? Or do you travel? Is travelling for sex desperate and sad? Or does it just keep your playmates at a safe distance? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Made the mistake of going too local once and found out after sex that our sons were in the same year at the same secondary school! Also seen her a couple of times in Sainsbury’s and she was married as well!  |
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I go where the mood and appealing people take me.
On a few occasions that has been up to three or four hours away!
I've met one person from the same town in Suffolk, but since moving out of London, I try not to meet too locally as I like to keep things separate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Either it all depends on who id be meeting, some locals i wouldnt want to meet but on the other hand theres people who are or appear to be worth the travel for |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mind local meets, also I don't drive and I'm not prepared to travel on public transport to a meet.
If a guy wants to meet elsewhere I'd expect him to pick me up and drop me back home. |
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We normally travel fifteen miles in either direction, to clubs and still bumped into my partners ex who lives round the corner and he didn’t know she was into swinging. So much for avoiding the locals |
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I as a single have to travel just to get to clubs since there's non in Stockport, for meets I don't know about locals because I must look dodgy or something because I don't really do or get them lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are quite happy to travel, it adds to the excitement for us.
We repeat meet a couple every 6 to 8 weeks and have meet up with them in various different cities, resulting in great nights out, daytime activities and awesome naughtiness.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you a local swinger for local people? Or do you travel? Is travelling for sex desperate and sad? Or does it just keep your playmates at a safe distance?"
i enjoy travelling and meeting people, it would be very sad even extremely judgemental to call someone desperate because they were prepared to travel distance for a meet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"10 or 15 miles minimum for us
People have to be at least that far away? So you have a sexclusion zone?"
It just works in our head as mrs works in a job facing a lot of public in a smallish town. 10-15 miles means that they will have somewhere else closer to shop 
Wouldn't care so much but all our family live in the same town too and would rather they didn't know
Ps Sexclusion zone, love it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I try to keep it within an hour. Late night travel after a meet hangs over me a bit. I can have my arm twisted with offers of food though."
You sound just like Mrs, "offers of food". We are gluttons in every sense.  |
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Initially we wouldn't meet local for fear of being outed. Now we don't really mind who knows and will do both travel and local although there is such a thing had too far to travel for a first meet. We drove three and a half hours to a repeat meet once! |
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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago
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"Are you a local swinger for local people? Or do you travel? Is travelling for sex desperate and sad? Or does it just keep your playmates at a safe distance?"
local and travel for me... well ill mainly only travel if there person (s) are interested in me and my Fb  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am mainly interested in local meets, (unless it’s at a club, which I have no problem travelling to) although if someone were willing to travel to me, I’d have zero qualms. |
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We're not fans of meeting within a 3 to 5 mile radius of home as Mrs works in town. Happy to travel or entertain within the south west. Any further and it's unrealistic to think anything will happen unless its a spur of the moment thing and they happen to be near by at the time. |
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I like travel, I like sex so doing both works well. It's been nice in the past to use meeting a lady friend some distance away as an excuse to have a little break away. These days me and My Girl often mix a little break away with a visit to a club. Personally I think the to two mix nicely. Granted it's also handy to have some local friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are you a local swinger for local people? Or do you travel? Is travelling for sex desperate and sad? Or does it just keep your playmates at a safe distance?"
It's all about connection and affection, what if person stays far, but you have establish connection and felt he/she is right one to take thing further and willing to travel... I would give it go and travel to meet... Unless you try you won't know... And I would try and gain from experience  |
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"Are you a local swinger for local people? Or do you travel? Is travelling for sex desperate and sad? Or does it just keep your playmates at a safe distance?"
We travel... never play locally as we want to stay discrete |
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"10 or 15 miles minimum for us
People have to be at least that far away? So you have a sexclusion zone?"
I’ve been very wary of people being too close. There’s a lady almost around the corner from me. We’ve chatted on here but it made me very wary as I have issues about privacy and really fucking nosy neighbours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I travel a lot with my business. I dont mind travelling to the nearest town or city if they dont want to meet local. Normally I take care of all my partners expenses if we were meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I meet around my home town AND when I am on business away, when I am lucky enough to find someone. Equally happy to meet for a simple social or a play meet too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I try to keep it within an hour. Late night travel after a meet hangs over me a bit. I can have my arm twisted with offers of food though."
Cake is a great allure.  |
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so have to travel! 