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Whats your greatest hesitation b4 a meet?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So , recently had the experience of being contacted by a couple arranged a meet and hours b4 their profile disappeared and no contact? Cold feet maybe but whats your hesitation when arranging a meet? |
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"So , recently had the experience of being contacted by a couple arranged a meet and hours b4 their profile disappeared and no contact? Cold feet maybe but whats your hesitation when arranging a meet?"
We have always have a bit of a wobble before go on a meet - well ok - more me than him! My biggest worry is that I'm not what they're going to expect and they're going to feel let down because I ain't a looker that's for sure although he'd disagree with me.
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By *iBooBooCouple
over a year ago
Kettering |
Our worry is what do you talk about, talking too much about yourself isn't good, same as going in and saying who wants who first lol.
Where is the happy medium, myself and hubby can both talk for England in the right situation but I always find it abit strange when you first meet someone from here, it's like a first date I think as you are meeting to possibly get naked one day.
so when you first meet do you go in for a kiss on the cheek just say hi how are you etc? X |
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"So , recently had the experience of being contacted by a couple arranged a meet and hours b4 their profile disappeared and no contact? Cold feet maybe but whats your hesitation when arranging a meet?"
That sort of thing is not at all uncommon...
I've lost count of the number of times I've exchanged messages/emails over anything from a few hours to a few months, and then when it comes to actually arranging to meet, it all goes silent...
....in the majority of cases, I suspect it's nothing to do with cold feet - the harsh reality is that there are a lot of timewasters out there, who've never any intention of meeting or playing...
....quite often, the female - if she even exists - doesn't know anything about it; it tends to be males who are fantasising about other men with their partners...
....I'd say in your case, with the profile disappearing, it was most probably a dreamer/wannabee...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Their hygene
If it’s at theirs - the state of the house
I like clean and tidy.
The question / pressure / encouragement to go bareback!! As a single man meeting couples.....it’s very very common! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So , recently had the experience of being contacted by a couple arranged a meet and hours b4 their profile disappeared and no contact? Cold feet maybe but whats your hesitation when arranging a meet?"
Have I dressed well enough, will they turn up, are they in that car that has just left the car park when I came in??  |
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"So , recently had the experience of being contacted by a couple arranged a meet and hours b4 their profile disappeared and no contact? Cold feet maybe but whats your hesitation when arranging a meet?
We have always have a bit of a wobble before go on a meet - well ok - more me than him! My biggest worry is that I'm not what they're going to expect and they're going to feel let down because I ain't a looker that's for sure although he'd disagree with me.
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I (mrs) tend to think this too, especially if Iv changed my hair colour / style since pics were taken but Having had a peek at your pics, I have to say you have a great figure and great taste In lingerie |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sometimes walking into someones home is a bit nervy. Is it gonna be a dump. Will someone jump out of the closet. Will i wake up with a kidney missing. Lol |
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By *entleRMan
over a year ago
Telford |
"So , recently had the experience of being contacted by a couple arranged a meet and hours b4 their profile disappeared and no contact? Cold feet maybe but whats your hesitation when arranging a meet?"
Just had so many no shows when playing as a couple always made us nervous as a single M now a lot older always worry how you will be received  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First time I got approached by a couple I was really nervous about meeting them at their home. They refused to meet at a hotel even after I offer to pay so it didn't happen. |
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Agreed 