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What age where you when you opened your mind to this amazing lifestyle ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What age where you when you opened your mind to this amazing lifestyle ?
I just think it is an amazing lifestyle, I just wish it didn’t take people so many years to be try it out |
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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago
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I was 19 gf at time was bit older and introduced me so much more hard work then contact mags self addressed envelopes letters and poloriods searching out clubs that never advertised but throu word of mouth lol so much better thou as you had to make effort and nearly all were genuine into lifestyle whom did
Lol showing my age now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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42. I dipped my little toe with my ex years ago. Met MrDub last Christmas and we talked about getting into it together...he was in the scene years ago.
So far...so good!! |
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By *harmanMan
over a year ago
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I was 20, I was delivering a dvd, after work, from the video rental I worked for, the woman, a hot cougar, invited me to come inside, try to seduce me, after the things got hot her husband came over, they explain everything to me, since then I love the lifestyle  |
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Bobby started around 25yrs ago, dabbling in stuff, started doing the clubs about 21yrs ago, did have a 7yr break when we got together, very honest from the beginning but wasnt for me...forward 7 yrs later, and now, for the past 4 mths, we have been visiting our local club and i am enjoying it so far.
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"What age where you when you opened your mind to this amazing lifestyle ?
I just think it is an amazing lifestyle, I just wish it didn’t take people so many years to be try it out "
Mid thirties - when was secured by married lady ! Who then suggested her husband liked to watch! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbh I would love a bit of help here I am a newbie and find it virtually impossible to even talk to anybody on here I'm respectful I don't just ask for sex or send dick pics I'm not that sad where am I going wrong lol  |
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First time round we were probably to young 22/21 ...Young and naive some
Stuff happened that put us off ....Now we have decided 20years later to give it another try we are older wiser and so far the stuff we witnessed in our 20,s men thinking it was ok to grope you in clubs without even saying hello is a thing of the past...We are definitely having more fun this time round.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tbh I would love a bit of help here I am a newbie and find it virtually impossible to even talk to anybody on here I'm respectful I don't just ask for sex or send dick pics I'm not that sad where am I going wrong lol "
Youve only been here a week .........  |
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Probably mid 20s. My ex wife occasionally talked about when she would go as a teenager to swingers clubs with a male friend. It got me thinking. Deep down in the back of my mind I never understood sexual monogamy, even though relationship wise I was monogamous (if that makes sense). It kind of felt like cutting off your nose to spite your face. I never really understood why you had to stop the enjoyment of sexual variety because enjoying that doesn't mean you love your partner less and them likewise. So I'd come across it on TV and a brief look at it on the internet. In a different life I knew that is what I'd like to enjoy. I always thought me and my ex would end up swinging. We would talk about going to a club sometime (normally she brought it up). Anyway I never pushed the point, as far as I was concerned we were married for life and it would just happen naturally when we were ready, no rush. Turns out it never happened, which turned out to be for the best as she turned out to be a woman I couldn't trust (hence why she's my ex wife).
Roll on a few years ago, I was single again and a single parent. No real appetite or time for dating but a real hunger for sex and exploring my sexual horizons. Got curious about swinging and found this site. Moved from just having causal sex to getting into the lifestyle and club scene. The lifestyle is for me. Better still met my fiancee on here. So now I get to share it with a woman I completely love and who I can completely trust. So I'm glad I started doing it as a couple with her and not my ex wife. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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26 by my then landlady and her husband, it was absolutely mindblowing for a rampant, recently divorced lad, and so much fun, that has provided some very happy memories. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I (J) was 21 with a much older GF who had enjoyed swinging for a number of years she introduced me to the scene at a party. I told O about it when we met and now she has joined the scene |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What age where you when you opened your mind to this amazing lifestyle ?
I just think it is an amazing lifestyle, I just wish it didn’t take people so many years to be try it out "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know I’ve led a sheltered life so making up for lost time and ticking some of my bucket list off through the swinging circle. I only started two years ago so still relatively new |
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