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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all as a single guy I get messages from couples that sometimes want an extra..perform and go type of thing. This isnt or hasn't been my thing. I have mostly stayed away from the couples thing as a single because of this. I used to be in a couple myself and the dynamic between couples and other couples was nice r...more chatting/ social etc.
Are there couples out there looking for guys who want to chat be social perhaps build friendship etc first. Any thoughts or advice would be much appreciated.  |
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That's what we look for. Our ideal is to have three or four friends who we can chat with, have an occasional coffee or beer with and of course more.
Our advice would be to look for couples who want to have a social meet first but he prepared for it to go no further than that. |
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We like to meet single guys sometimes....we need to like the person we meet and feel some connection to be able to go on to play .....because we are fussy and entertain at home we have to be sure we we are all on the same page  |
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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago
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We're not meeting single guys at the moment due to a few reasons but one being a guy we struck up a friendship with being a tad overbearing!!
Like he used to ring me every day!!
Hence we would rather go for one offs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"That's what we look for. Our ideal is to have three or four friends who we can chat with, have an occasional coffee or beer with and of course more.
Our advice would be to look for couples who want to have a social meet first but he prepared for it to go no further than that. "
thanks I will look out for those wanting a social first x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We're not meeting single guys at the moment due to a few reasons but one being a guy we struck up a friendship with being a tad overbearing!!
Like he used to ring me every day!!
Hence we would rather go for one offs"
..yes i guess thats the problem one bad egg etc.
Its just nice to actually like the people too |
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"We're not meeting single guys at the moment due to a few reasons but one being a guy we struck up a friendship with being a tad overbearing!!
Like he used to ring me every day!!
Hence we would rather go for one offs"
Had something very similar end up having to change phone number...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We're not meeting single guys at the moment due to a few reasons but one being a guy we struck up a friendship with being a tad overbearing!!
Like he used to ring me every day!!
Hence we would rather go for one offs
Had something very similar end up having to change phone number... "
... yes i imagine its a bit frightening. I was part of a couple and we only played with couples so i guess i have no experience of it x |
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"We're not meeting single guys at the moment due to a few reasons but one being a guy we struck up a friendship with being a tad overbearing!!
Like he used to ring me every day!!
Hence we would rather go for one offs"
We dont give out our phone numbers for that reason ...most successful meets have been with married guys (well behaved and respectful).. |
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"We're not meeting single guys at the moment due to a few reasons but one being a guy we struck up a friendship with being a tad overbearing!!
Like he used to ring me every day!!
Hence we would rather go for one offsWe dont give out our phone numbers for that reason ...most successful meets have been with married guys (well behaved and respectful).. "
i guess the verifications are the best guide x  |
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"We're not meeting single guys at the moment due to a few reasons but one being a guy we struck up a friendship with being a tad overbearing!!
Like he used to ring me every day!!
Hence we would rather go for one offsWe dont give out our phone numbers for that reason ...most successful meets have been with married guys (well behaved and respectful).. "
We were meeting so swooped whatsapp before kiks was a thing. |
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"We dont give out our phone numbers for that reason ...most successful meets have been with married guys (well behaved and respectful).. "
As a married guy who enjoys meetings with couples, I've been told a number of times that my being married was the main reason for being chosen...
....largely because of the knowledge that I'd be discreet - but also because of the lesser risk of becoming too involved... |
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"We dont give out our phone numbers for that reason ...most successful meets have been with married guys (well behaved and respectful)..
As a married guy who enjoys meetings with couples, I've been told a number of times that my being married was the main reason for being chosen...
....largely because of the knowledge that I'd be discreet - but also because of the lesser risk of becoming too involved... "
Totally agree ..and unlike some single lads (not all) they know how to treat a lady ..and dont think its all about them ... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We dont give out our phone numbers for that reason ...most successful meets have been with married guys (well behaved and respectful)..
As a married guy who enjoys meetings with couples, I've been told a number of times that my being married was the main reason for being chosen...
....largely because of the knowledge that I'd be discreet - but also because of the lesser risk of becoming too involved... Totally agree ..and unlike some single lads (not all) they know how to treat a lady ..and dont think its all about them ... "
we aren't all like that hence my post |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer to chat for a while first where possible, but I have done the quick chat and meet which has been fun 
I think if you get for a while first it can make a meet go really well as you have almost talked through the expectations |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to play with a lovely couple from the Rhondda but I left here for 2 months and they have gone also... Gutted. Would love to find another couple like them |
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