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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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just looking for peoples opinions on this site we have been on and off fab for five years had amazing meets with some people and not so amazing meets with others so our overall view is its making the right choices who not to meet and who to meet |
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Nothing wrong with the site as with other things its the people on it ,most are genuine ,but there are the dreamers ,pic collectors etc ,if you have the knack and the patience to sort them out it can and will work ...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll buck the trend here as a man. Been here for a month or so, not that great tbh.
Forum's full of comedians and the status list is full of attention seekers and women asking for money  |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
I have been on this site since before it existed. Love it. Enjoy the forums and helping out newbies. I must admit most of my meets now are found at my local club, rather than via messages. There are lots of people who don't put any effort into their profile or thought into their messages.
Meeting face to face is so much easier. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Speaking as an older married man playing alone its been very disapointing. So many people have an upper age limit which is younger than I am & a lot won't meet a married man. If I was twenty years younger & my wife was involved things might be different. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
"I'll buck the trend here as a man. Been here for a month or so, not that great tbh.
Forum's full of comedians and the status list is full of attention seekers and women asking for money "
Report anyone asking for money to admin.
If it's not been great, then check how you can improve your experience. |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
I have been on/off since 2014ish, the site has it's purposes and to keep InTouch with freinds and stuff although messaging system could be better.
I however mainly meet with people in clubs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll buck the trend here as a man. Been here for a month or so, not that great tbh.
Forum's full of comedians and the status list is full of attention seekers and women asking for money "
I'm sure you'll think I'm a comedian for being on the forum but hey, that must make you one too. I've never once seen a status from anyone asking for money. I keep seeing guys saying this on the forum but genuinely I must be missing something. |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"I'll buck the trend here as a man. Been here for a month or so, not that great tbh.
Forum's full of comedians and the status list is full of attention seekers and women asking for money
I'm sure you'll think I'm a comedian for being on the forum but hey, that must make you one too. I've never once seen a status from anyone asking for money. I keep seeing guys saying this on the forum but genuinely I must be missing something."
It might be when single ladies and or couples ask for money to help pay for hotel rooms or maybe accounts linked to AW UKP etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll buck the trend here as a man. Been here for a month or so, not that great tbh.
Forum's full of comedians and the status list is full of attention seekers and women asking for money
I'm sure you'll think I'm a comedian for being on the forum but hey, that must make you one too. I've never once seen a status from anyone asking for money. I keep seeing guys saying this on the forum but genuinely I must be missing something."
Our locations differ so we won't see the same statuses.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Loving the site but we will only meet at clubs. It’s avoids the time wasters on here. So many fantasists love the idea of swinging but won’t actually do it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am new to the site compared to many of you. I can imagine it has changed a lot for some of you, but my impression is it is still centred around swinging couples so all is not lost for you 
Otherwise I like the site, some fit people on here and some characters too. I have learnt stuff being on here having been exposed to groups not normally would be, had opened my eyes a bit and I like the complex and varied mix of people and groups |
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"just looking for peoples opinions on this site we have been on and off fab for five years had amazing meets with some people and not so amazing meets with others so our overall view is its making the right choices who not to meet and who to meet"
It's great for keeping in touch with people we meet at clubs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Deeply ambiguous about it. Fab can introduce you to wonderful sexy people and opportunities, but it can be an addictive time sink and is heaving with fantasists and ego trippers. For me it feels like a lot of chaff to burrow through to find the wheat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I have been on this site for a bit now and it all depends on what the guy looks like gym fit 30 ish big cock .Well I'm not going to get any where then ??"
Every week some bloke posts this or similar. It's complete bollocks.
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As a couple for 6 years or so it was very 50/50, a lot of effort in for very little in return. Some good meets, some bad meets and lots of fakes/pic collectors.... As a single guy, it's an absolute nightmare. There certainly are more timewasters on here now !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As above a lot of effort for little return"
Again, if your getting little in return then look at how you go about things. Some obvious things stand out. Your profile is your shop window, if it looks a bit naff then no one will stop to browse.
Plenty of guys on here are successful, me included. I don't have a 6 pack or a chopper 10" long but I do ok.
It's all down to you and how you conduct yourself.
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I am very new to the scene although its been something i've had a yearning to do for many years. I'm still learning but finding all the info i can before i start looking for meets. I'm happy for any advice from anybody and hopefully i will fulfil my fantasy at some point.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get that a lot of women enjoy the experience because at the end of the day man are visual creatures and we will message and approach women we find attractive.
For men we have to get a women to open up and feel comfortable. Understandable, but that means lots of unread or unreplied messages.
For guys unless you are the visual enough stimulant for a woman, it’s difficult. I once made a thread with snog, fuck, drink. Funny enough all the women said drink.
Yet when I actually go out and meet women in night clubs, because it’s in person, and I can build that tension and flirtation easier than over messages, that never is the case.
Anywho that’s my two cent on the matter. |
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Well as a guy that wants to a nice lady or a couple for some sexy fun it is so very hard on this site to even have a chat with anyone even if you have pictures or a site membership it doesn't matter .So if any lady's or a nice couple that would like to have a chat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll buck the trend here as a man. Been here for a month or so, not that great tbh.
Forum's full of comedians and the status list is full of attention seekers and women asking for money "
Women asking for money? Seriously? Wow! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll buck the trend here as a man. Been here for a month or so, not that great tbh.
Forum's full of comedians and the status list is full of attention seekers and women asking for money "
Are you talking about site supporter membership fees? Lol
I now sound like a comedian  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you get out what you put in, as a single male it can be challenging but that's only because the amount of lazy men who see it as a way to get a quick shag |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"I get that a lot of women enjoy the experience because at the end of the day man are visual creatures and we will message and approach women we find attractive.
For men we have to get a women to open up and feel comfortable. Understandable, but that means lots of unread or unreplied messages.
For guys unless you are the visual enough stimulant for a woman, it’s difficult. I once made a thread with snog, fuck, drink. Funny enough all the women said drink.
Yet when I actually go out and meet women in night clubs, because it’s in person, and I can build that tension and flirtation easier than over messages, that never is the case.
Anywho that’s my two cent on the matter. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll buck the trend here as a man. Been here for a month or so, not that great tbh.
Forum's full of comedians and the status list is full of attention seekers and women asking for money
Are you talking about site supporter membership fees? Lol
I now sound like a comedian "
Well yes, I do see a lot of people asking for others to pay for their gold/silver. It's only £5 ffs haha |
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