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over a year ago
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"I have a few things I am looking to try but have not had much luck. (Pegging, watersports for example) I am considering paying for it and wondered if anyone else had?"
Personally I'd be perfectly happy to pay for the basics, if there was a suitable market operating in my area.
Given that you're looking to explore and indulge aspects of your sexuality, not form deep meaningful relationships, I don't see what's wrong with a commercial arrangement. As long as the person providing the service is legal and not coerced. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a few things I am looking to try but have not had much luck. (Pegging, watersports for example) I am considering paying for it and wondered if anyone else had?
Personally I'd be perfectly happy to pay for the basics, if there was a suitable market operating in my area.
Given that you're looking to explore and indulge aspects of your sexuality, not form deep meaningful relationships, I don't see what's wrong with a commercial arrangement. As long as the person providing the service is legal and not coerced."
Pay for the basics? So is that like Sainsbury’s basics? So a lower standard of fantasy fulfilment?
So you could pay more for taste the difference? I’d look at that, if you are going to pay to fulfil a fantasy pay for the better quality!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Prostution is not for us. We want players to be there cos they want to, for the pure fun and enjoyment.
Don't forget Fabs, frowns upon paid services between members. "
Exactly this! This is fun and a naughty hobby, I think if it was a transaction it would put me off and ruin the fun
I want people to want to play, that’s why it never bothers me when people say I am not for them |
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For me personally (Mrs) it depends, if it was a fantasy we were both really into and felt it was really high on the bucket list I’d rather pay than die not experiencing it, he might feel differently, we haven’t come across it yet. |
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I can totally understand why people with niche kinks may pay for the experience as finding compatible partners can be difficult. If it helps OP I have met some truly wonderful and lovely professional dominatrixes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think paying for sex these days is just very normal and popular. Some people pay to fulfil fantasies and i cant see a problem with it. My partner would accept money for certain things  |
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"For me it's the journey from fantasy to reality that makes it special. Paying for it would never work for me, it would feel like a cheat. K"
I am with you on that one, I feel exactly the same way.. |
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"I have a few things I am looking to try but have not had much luck. (Pegging, watersports for example) I am considering paying for it and wondered if anyone else had?"
Hey OP I can't msg you due to your filter stung can you msg me please re the above |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a few things I am looking to try but have not had much luck. (Pegging, watersports for example) I am considering paying for it and wondered if anyone else had?"
I paid a transsexual prostitute once; money well spent as far as I'm concerned. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have seen pro dommes in the past with mixed results. Have paid for other services to experience things but often found did not work. Appreciate there is a market there for it but prefer people doing it because they want to and not because they get paid. And know this place does not allow but does not stop people advertising |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't pay.
I like the idea of meeting someone who is like minded and would actually like to explore fantasies with ME because they want to, not because there's some sort of financial incentive. |
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By *ita7Man
over a year ago
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I did this quite recently for a cpl off fab. It was their fantasy for hubby to pimp his wife. Agreed what my requirements were & met them in local pub where I picked her up & took her to hotel. She was already wearing lingerie u underneath a big coat. We didn't hang around for my first requirement which was a golden shower as you can imagine she had been drinking quite a bit for me & needed to let it go. Filmed it for hubby still sat in pub. It was very horny for us all. Took some pics with a note in her bra for posterity, hubby later joined us after I had my monies worth!
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