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I’m very excited to have been invited to join a merry band of horny gents tonight for my first gangbang, organised for a lovely Fab ladyfriend by her partner.
What was your first gangbang experience like?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You won't know how experienced everyone else is. Some are quite shy about getting stuck in some are more than happy to lead the way but unfortunately there can be greedy sods who just want to hog the action. Don't be shy in making a move, touching, feeling, feeding her your cock etc... She's the one who wants lots of cock so unless the hubby sets ground rules eg no kissing or no anal.. Assume she wants it. |
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"You won't know how experienced everyone else is. Some are quite shy about getting stuck in some are more than happy to lead the way but unfortunately there can be greedy sods who just want to hog the action. Don't be shy in making a move, touching, feeling, feeding her your cock etc... She's the one who wants lots of cock so unless the hubby sets ground rules eg no kissing or no anal.. Assume she wants it. "
The evening is all about her and she has hand-picked the guys, so we’ve all had the pleasure of her company before.
I’m actually looking forward to watching as much as I am participating  |
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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago
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I can’t remember much about it as I fell asleep after the first group of 10 I know they had to call industrial cleaners in afterwards to get my hair off the floor and prise me off the sheepskin rug but I did eventually manage to walk out after about a week somewhat limp if I recall I wore tenna for 10 days after. Wasn’t all bad though. I did get a gold star badge  |
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The best ones are when the guys all work together. Take turns, talk to each other, talk to her.
Someone prepared to observe and look out for the lady is always welcome too (doesn't mean you can't play as well, just, wingmen are important). |
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"The best ones are when the guys all work together. Take turns, talk to each other, talk to her.
Someone prepared to observe and look out for the lady is always welcome too (doesn't mean you can't play as well, just, wingmen are important). "
Teamwork. What a good idea. Another lady friend is going to be there as ‘winglady’ to keep an eye on proceedings and keep the guys fed and watered.
As usual, prepare to succeed |
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"The best ones are when the guys all work together. Take turns, talk to each other, talk to her.
Someone prepared to observe and look out for the lady is always welcome too (doesn't mean you can't play as well, just, wingmen are important).
Teamwork. What a good idea. Another lady friend is going to be there as ‘winglady’ to keep an eye on proceedings and keep the guys fed and watered.
As usual, prepare to succeed "
Indeed!
I had some where guys kept an eye on me anyway. I definitely appreciated it. Guys who look after the guest of honour look good, if you see what I'm saying. |
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"The best ones are when the guys all work together. Take turns, talk to each other, talk to her.
Someone prepared to observe and look out for the lady is always welcome too (doesn't mean you can't play as well, just, wingmen are important).
Teamwork. What a good idea. Another lady friend is going to be there as ‘winglady’ to keep an eye on proceedings and keep the guys fed and watered.
As usual, prepare to succeed
Indeed!
I had some where guys kept an eye on me anyway. I definitely appreciated it. Guys who look after the guest of honour look good, if you see what I'm saying. "
I can assure you I shall be very attentive to her every need |
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"The best ones are when the guys all work together. Take turns, talk to each other, talk to her.
Someone prepared to observe and look out for the lady is always welcome too (doesn't mean you can't play as well, just, wingmen are important).
Teamwork. What a good idea. Another lady friend is going to be there as ‘winglady’ to keep an eye on proceedings and keep the guys fed and watered.
As usual, prepare to succeed
Indeed!
I had some where guys kept an eye on me anyway. I definitely appreciated it. Guys who look after the guest of honour look good, if you see what I'm saying.
I can assure you I shall be very attentive to her every need "
I don't just mean sexually! Everyone wants to be a sex god in that scenario. But being the one to offer water etc... Invaluable. |
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"The best ones are when the guys all work together. Take turns, talk to each other, talk to her.
Someone prepared to observe and look out for the lady is always welcome too (doesn't mean you can't play as well, just, wingmen are important).
Teamwork. What a good idea. Another lady friend is going to be there as ‘winglady’ to keep an eye on proceedings and keep the guys fed and watered.
As usual, prepare to succeed
Indeed!
I had some where guys kept an eye on me anyway. I definitely appreciated it. Guys who look after the guest of honour look good, if you see what I'm saying.
I can assure you I shall be very attentive to her every need
I don't just mean sexually! Everyone wants to be a sex god in that scenario. But being the one to offer water etc... Invaluable. "
I meant that too. She is a lovely lady and I for one will only be happy and excited if she’s as comfortable as she is turned on too |
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My advise would be to hold back a while. Unless you’ve got a time limit set, then there’ll be plenty of time to have your turns. In my experience the numbers will dwindle after a while, as some guys like to cum and go or just sit back and watch for a while. Some times they feed the guys in a few at a time, and sometimes they all start together. Don’t be worried if you don’t get first dibs. |
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"My advise would be to hold back a while. Unless you’ve got a time limit set, then there’ll be plenty of time to have your turns. In my experience the numbers will dwindle after a while, as some guys like to cum and go or just sit back and watch for a while. Some times they feed the guys in a few at a time, and sometimes they all start together. Don’t be worried if you don’t get first dibs. "
Yeah. Don't be aggressive or shovy. You'll get there. |
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"You sound lovely op really nice and respectful. Im sure you will have no problems go and enjoy yourself"
You’re very kind. I chose my name carefully. The fun is preferably sensual and sometimes kinky, but always with respect and a friendly smile Fab is much more Fab that way! |
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"The best ones are when the guys all work together. Take turns, talk to each other, talk to her.
Someone prepared to observe and look out for the lady is always welcome too (doesn't mean you can't play as well, just, wingmen are important). "
Very True. I’ve a female friend whom is into gangbangs I’ve arranged a few. It was my role to verify the guys, arrange location etc. On the day I meet the guys in hotel lobby and explained the ground rules. I.e a lot of talking and confirms. There after my role was to
Meet and great the guys. Ensure condoms worn and that she’s “ok”. The watching and being a facilitator is hot!! I actually enjoy it. |
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"The most important thing is too make sure you turn up."
This is way more important than a lot of guys think. I’ve been to a couple which 15 men had been booked and we ended up with 3-5. If you can be there on time and remain respectful and fun (and hard!), and understand the dynamic, then you’ll often stay on people’s lists as a reliable fella and get further invites. Do swap your details, because chances are you’ll be remembered. |
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"My experience is that it's way harder to organise one for my wife than I ever imagined it would be! "
Does your wife have a profile here? If not, people may not believe that she exists or knows about it. |
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"The most important thing is too make sure you turn up.
This is way more important than a lot of guys think. I’ve been to a couple which 15 men had been booked and we ended up with 3-5. If you can be there on time and remain respectful and fun (and hard!), and understand the dynamic, then you’ll often stay on people’s lists as a reliable fella and get further invites. Do swap your details, because chances are you’ll be remembered. "
Definitely! |
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"My experience is that it's way harder to organise one for my wife than I ever imagined it would be!
Does your wife have a profile here? If not, people may not believe that she exists or knows about it. "
I had this problem when I organised one for Debs. Trying to keep it a secret and also reassure the attendees was a nightmare. It ended up being mainly friends and friends of friends. TBH I wouldn't bother again. |
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over a year ago
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The main thing in any gangbang is teamwork and communication. If you dont communicate with each other it often just ends in a disorganised chaos which is fun for nobody. Make sure you swap roles regularly and rotate and dont forget to rest to keep stamina, large gangbangs have been known to go for a 30 mins or 3 hours and more bit most importantly enjoy it  |
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"My experience is that it's way harder to organise one for my wife than I ever imagined it would be!
Does your wife have a profile here? If not, people may not believe that she exists or knows about it.
I had this problem when I organised one for Debs. Trying to keep it a secret and also reassure the attendees was a nightmare. It ended up being mainly friends and friends of friends. TBH I wouldn't bother again. "
That does sound stressful. The guys tonight are already freinds of the lady so she even got to choose the shortlist. Her partner organised it and another lady friend is going to be the hostess. From everything I’m reading in the thread this seems like the best combination |
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over a year ago
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My one and only experience involved three women and 15 men. Most of th other men were well known to the hosts who invited me. It was very exciting. I was nervous as hell, but once my kit was off I was first to dive in. It was a really good experience and spent quite a bit of time with one of the women. It was great seeing all the different approaches and some of it was seriously arousing.
Sadly I’ve never received an invitation since. However it was a different time (12 years ago) and before I joined Fab.
Would I do it again, yes for sure |
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Ultimately it is all about the pleasure for the lady, take her lead, don't be pushy and make sure you all work together to ensure she has an amazing time. Respect any boundaries, respect if she needs a break and enjoy yourself. |
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"Never had one and never seen the appeal of being little more than a set of holes for a bunch of guys. Hope it goes well. Stay safe. "
I couldn’t agree more. This though feels a lot different to me and, more importantly, I know it does to the lady too. This is a group of friends who know like and respect the lady who all want to help her enjoy this fantasy in the comfort and safety of her own home. |
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over a year ago
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Funny things gang bangs 
As a woman i found there was almost an unspoken protective attitude from the men involved.
I felt very safe and very respected, depends how she's looking to be treated i supppose x |
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"Funny things gang bangs
As a woman i found there was almost an unspoken protective attitude from the men involved.
I felt very safe and very respected, depends how she's looking to be treated i supppose x"
I hope and expect it’s going to be exactly like that tonight. We all know her and what she enjoys and I’m sure we’ll all take our lead from her.
It is absolutely her choice of evening and her pleasure at the centre of our attention. |
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Not sure the dividing line between group sex and a gangbang. So being subjective a super sexy hot wife at my local club dressed as a sexy santa. After that no looking back
Watching is very exciting too ! |
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By *orruptedWoman
over a year ago
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Always need at least a couple of guys that have done it before. Some inexperienced will hang back a bit, almost as if waiting for an invite.
I find after a few, it just flows naturally and works itself out.
Just remember, it should be fun. If it isn't, stop |
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The event you've described OP sounds well organised, and all the right factors seem lined up to make it enjoyable for everyone. I've participated in good and indifferent gangbangs but the good ones were as you're describing, ie relaxed, communicative, cooperative and downright fun. For me there's nothing more arousing than seeing a highly sexed woman being served by a nice group of friendly, rampant and respectful men. The sight of all that hard cock, the woman at the centre of it all and losing herself to pure pleasure, the sounds of great sex and the rich cocktail of smells all combine to be an assault on the senses. I have vivid memories of the events I've taken part in and it sounds like you'll have a mind-blowing time. Please let us know how it went. |
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"The event you've described OP sounds well organised, and all the right factors seem lined up to make it enjoyable for everyone. I've participated in good and indifferent gangbangs but the good ones were as you're describing, ie relaxed, communicative, cooperative and downright fun. For me there's nothing more arousing than seeing a highly sexed woman being served by a nice group of friendly, rampant and respectful men. The sight of all that hard cock, the woman at the centre of it all and losing herself to pure pleasure, the sounds of great sex and the rich cocktail of smells all combine to be an assault on the senses. I have vivid memories of the events I've taken part in and it sounds like you'll have a mind-blowing time. Please let us know how it went. "
All of the above is the intention and the attraction TJ. I promise I’ll write a full report tomorrow. |
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Well. What a night that was
Brilliantly organised by her friend and hosted by another, it was the perfect set up for a fun sexy gangbang. The gents all made sure the lady enjoyed the attention she hoped for and the intensity of seven hungry cocks to play with.
An amazing first gangbang experience. For me and for a very happy lady. |
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"My experience is that it's way harder to organise one for my wife than I ever imagined it would be!
Does your wife have a profile here? If not, people may not believe that she exists or knows about it. "
Yes. We also have a couple's profile.
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