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Home Meets, Hotels or Clubs?
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By *irtySekrets OP Couple
over a year ago
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This question is more directed at Couples but can also be applicable to Male Swingers also.
Where do you have your main sexy fun?
For us, it now seems to be in Clubs. Not sure why? But having people in our home seems too risky.
Thought please ?
S&N xxxxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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House & hotel meets are the best, no distractions, no non swingers, meet up and play.
The clubs are full of the no kissers, voyeurs, non mutual players, selfish who go in a open room get what they want and bugger off, clubs seem to attract a lot of the socially inept too |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I used to enjoy going to clubs and the vibe there but haven't been to one in over a year now, and have found I much prefer a meet that includes some social time, maybe a bite to eat and then retiring to a hotel room where you can take your time and be relaxed and comfortable without fear of interruptions or the club closing, and just enjoy that time for what it is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having done all 3...
we would meet at a club to find couples or singles to meet either as a one off or to build a regular "thing"..
Hotel meet for mmf, cpl play or mff scenarios, and at home for trusted regulars (but very rare as kids are usually about).
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Private meets in hotels are my preferred option, love the intimacy, comfort, and no-rush atmosphere. I also enjoy outdoor fun in the ‘fuck truck’ (those who know, know lol).
Clubs have their place, and can be fun, especially if you ‘click’ with someone, but they’re very much a hit or miss affair, and for me personally, have rarely lived up to the hype in these forums  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This question is more directed at Couples but can also be applicable to Male Swingers also.
Where do you have your main sexy fun?
For us, it now seems to be in Clubs. Not sure why? But having people in our home seems too risky.
Thought please ?
S&N xxxxxxxx"
I mainly meet at clubs now,and occasionally hotels or outdoor/car/dogging.I prefer clubs as for the last couple of years or so Fab has been very hit and miss when it comes to meets,both in frequency and quality.With a club,if the initial meet doesn't go well,there's still a great social evening to be had with the potential of play with others at the club,whereas with a home or hotel meet if it's a disaster the entire evening is usually lost.
I only ever meet people I have met previously and trust at my house,I like to keep a certain degree of distance between my private life and my swinging life due to previous bad experiences involving meets and my home.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting quandary... I really don't like hotels... But going to someones home seems pretty risky, well for a first meet anyway...
And I can't ever imagine inviting people to my home...
What if you don't like them.. I find it really awkward cutting the cord lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Playing as a single or with my wife its clubs and hotels only. We like the annonimity and safety of doing it that way as life and swinging are kept firmly apart. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Organised larger mansion or club parties best...more choice and if none 1 can enjoy socialising or dancing..a good base too for initial chat and meet another time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After a few socials then hotel meets only
I once was bitten to almost death by fleas at a blokes house, he had cats walking around us on the bed ... duly brought some of the mites back and infested my pets. They took forever to get rid of.
Would never got back to a guys house again
I feel safer in hotels, they’re clean, no mixed DNA on the bedsheets, clean towels to shower, no unexpected friends or family callers etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This question is more directed at Couples but can also be applicable to Male Swingers also.
Where do you have your main sexy fun?
For us, it now seems to be in Clubs. Not sure why? But having people in our home seems too risky.
Thought please ?
S&N xxxxxxxx"
home meets, hotels, clubs and the beach why limit your options   |
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Club/social first then hotel meets after. For us, home is a safe place and wouldn’t want that ruined with the chance of inviting a weirdo round.
Also, this is something we do in our down time and prefer the thought of a naughty evening out. |
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"This question is more directed at Couples but can also be applicable to Male Swingers also.
Where do you have your main sexy fun?
For us, it now seems to be in Clubs. Not sure why? But having people in our home seems too risky.
Thought please ?
S&N xxxxxxxx"
We definately prefer the intimacy of private meets, home or hotels. We find we are more relaxed and comfortable allowimg us to explore. Clubs can be fun but sometimes they can be very hit and miss with regards to the people that attend xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve not been to a club yet but I would absolutely feel safer as there would be more accountability with all the other swingers. That’s my thought at least. With that said I’m working up my nerve to go.
However, I’ve set up a hotel meet which I think is a great in-between of the extremes. And I always feel awkward going to someone else’s flat as you never know what could happen really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We always meet a potential buddy in a public environment under the strict understanding that no sexual play will take place on that evening whatsoever.
This keeps everyone safe, it prevents potential awkward moments and we all leave having enjoyed a nice evening.
Afterwards we might suggest meeting again in public or if really keen we might suggest a more private meet. Either way, we will know a lot more about the individual. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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At home - only with people I have met before, socially or in a club.
Hotel - I'm not as relaxed as I'm a squirter. Even with the recent discovery of puppy pads, it's still not the same.
Clubs - yes, but I never go on my own (I don't drive, but also wouldn't feel comfortable enough).
At other people's place - only if I'm really comfortable with them and we have met a few times. |
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I loved it when had own place and had lots of action as a TV and some regular guys and Tgirls too. Have tried clubs and to be fair agree with Coco's comments they do seem to be filled with those that want to look or cliques who just play together. I like being watched but not always feel comfortable in club situation. Also you can have good nights busy etc other times quiet. I do arrange hotel meets often with other Tgirls and that brings people who really want to enjoy themselves.
But enjoy whatever xxx |
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First play meets normally club, or hotels. If it goes well and we all become regular playmates then, Hotel and or home. Clubs offer sexy environment and allows for everyone to opt for fun. Hotels for daring flirts and public seduction with private comfortable play. Home for long slow sensual play and adventures mmmmm luv it all.   |
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What kind of guys are you people meeting with shabby mite infested hobbles for home jesus, ask for a picture of the home your going too first lol but I mainly meet people in clubs as a first meet since I go clubs mainly for the social side of things and if play happens then let the fun begin or if you click you can invite them bk or they invite you b. I live no pressure no problems and a cleanliving area ( no creaturey little friends of any sort) I can understand the risk but there's a risk in everything in the swinging world it the risks we all take, I thought that's part of the thrill and fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Clubs. Easiest and quickest way to see if theres an attraction and we all click. If we do, then no messing around trying to plan anything, just straight to a play room.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We much prefer hotels, for lots of different reasons. No family, no nosey neighbours. It's nice to have uninterrupted time in a lovely environment, there are some beautiful hotels around.
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I’m a rare thing on here because I’m genuinely single ( not fab single) lol
So I can accom, my home is modern and clean .
Always a social first ( because we know most are Atleast 2 stone heavier than their pics) ..
Not a fan of hotels as I’m conscious the staff know exactly what’s going on lol ..
Clubs are ok to go with someone once you know them a bit better .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hotel every time, such a sect feel about hotels, can be as vocal as you like, can have drink in bar too, can get the sheets as wet as you like ha x list goes on xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This question is more directed at Couples but can also be applicable to Male Swingers also.
Where do you have your main sexy fun?
For us, it now seems to be in Clubs. Not sure why? But having people in our home seems too risky.
Thought please ?
S&N xxxxxxxx"
Usually arrange local meet in a pub social. We only meet in hotels to play. Choose nice hotel with restaurant maybe some facilities gym pool etc. Never invite back to ours cos have had some serious, potentially dangerous problems in the past |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hotel or Clubs or meet at theirs.
Do not accommodate myself (not because I`am attached)reason 2 adult children that have keys call in unannounced,nosey neighbours.
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Currently me and my partner only meet in clubs. Well I say meet, we never arrange anything really but we always tend to find people we enjoy. And on occasion run into people we've enjoy before for a repeat. Sort of adds to the anticipation of the evening not knowing who we're going to bump into.
As for home we are both single parents so this is difficult. But I we are open to a classic meet for drinks and then uptown the hotel room scenario sometime. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I prefer to go to a nice hotel for fun x i accommodate sometimes but you never know who might appear at your door lol. With the right company you can't beat a good hotel for comfort and a bit of luxury  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Only clubs. It could be awkward if other people’s standards of hygiene at home don’t match ours (we are very fussy!) or vice versa!
And, we like our fun to be our ”other” life, so at home doesn’t work for us. Like someone above, we like to go with the flow and see how the evening and the people unfold. |
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If you do not have any extra requirements- club is the only option because you do not not need to be worried that someone will not show. You will always find someone to play with.
Second - if someone is not who/what you expect - you can turn around and walk away.
Home - never !
Hotel - we do time to time with trusted people, mainly when we plan photo sessions.
Not worth to setup meetings with new people. No show ratio is over 50% (learned from experience)
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
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In no particular order I prefer meeting anywhere other than a house. Wether it's a club, outside, vehicle or hotel I don't mind.
It's awkward having strangers to my house and walking around in the dark wearing sexy ladies clothes looking for the correct house number is not much fun |
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"Clubs or when we're out in camper van. Never at home x
How does the camper van work out? We have one (bit shabby) but have never entertained inside"
Ours is a long wheel base Sprinter. The fixed bed is kingsize+.  |
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"This question is more directed at Couples but can also be applicable to Male Swingers also.
Where do you have your main sexy fun?
For us, it now seems to be in Clubs. Not sure why? But having people in our home seems too risky.
Thought please ?
S&N xxxxxxxx"
Home meets? Never have and never will.
Hotels? Only once in a hotel but we do occasionally invite someone back to the apartment but only when in Cap d'Agde.
Clubs? Absolutely. In just over 10 years we have done over 50 different clubs in 5 countries.  |
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