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Couples - what sort of single men do you invite along?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I wonder if there's any consensus among those couples out there who want to add a man into the mix - which sort of men & messages turn your heads?
It's all academic, of course.
I seem to be as unexciting to couples as I am to single women on here. But you can't blame a man for trying to gain the advantage  |
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We aren’t the most experienced, but we don’t have a type. For us it’s a matter when the planets align; we need to have the time, be in the mood, have the opportunity and have someone we connect with.
I think guys think that just because one of us is online that we are looking for sex... but we are in our 40’s... I was just checking out a book review on the forum
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If me and my partner were looking for a single guy for me a big consideration is always the way they treat and respect My Girl. She is my everything and I would need to be happy that he was worthy of her and treat her right. Plus although I am straight it's still important that I get on with the guy and gel them as a person. At the end of the day we'd be working together to give My girl a great time, so getting on well together is a must. Team work between us all is the key. |
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"a guy who "gets it". "
This, for us, is the most important thing and comes before looks, cock size* or any of the other attributes that guys that don't get it think are important.
* Although that is important too. Debs doesn't like too big. |
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As a couple but hubby being bi ,we need to more than a normal couple as sharing me is one thing but playing with hubby is another and after a few questions we can tell if its worth going further or are they just saying what we want hear .. |
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By *issitCouple
over a year ago
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The message has to show some effort and show why you’re worth chatting to, it needs to engage the brain, that’s where it all starts, in the imagination. Conversation is so important as is good banter! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone with a sense of humour for starters after all its suppose to be fun,in reasonable shape and no porno sex! Get into it lusty and horny
Turn up
Be clean and smelling nice
And Respect!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"op what do single men look for in a couple?"
This one likes to find people he might get on with, who sound like they'd really enjoy my presence, and who want a mutually enjoyable experience. Those are all good signs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a couple we are interested in younger non hairy men, clean, polite and non pushy.
On my single female profile though, I am into hairy chested, non pushy older men with a good sense of humour..and some ear plugs coz I,ve been told I talk a lot..x
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As a couple we are interested in younger non hairy men, clean, polite and non pushy.
On my single female profile though, I am into hairy chested, non pushy older men with a good sense of humour..and some ear plugs coz I,ve been told I talk a lot..x
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Any love for non-pushy, hairy chested younger men? I hear they're really lovely. Apparently. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We look for light hearted, no porn based sex ideas, someone who’s not just looking to couples as a last ditch to get off but rather be involved in an experience. We like men who respect our bubble and that we are together.
It’s about everyone’s enjoyment for us, we aren’t a couple that likes the cuckold or sort of use my wife thing, just I like two sometimes.
Also a brain and an attractive face for me. Sometimes in person we have chosen someone based in part on looks but also gut instinct, some people feel gentle but confident which I really like. If you mean messages, I like when someone has read our profile and is on the same wavelength, it doesn’t have to be a long message, short funny ones get a reply whether we want a meet or not. I like when they attach a face pic and we can quickly see if there’s attraction there. I’m waffling this morning . Sorry  - Mrs |
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"We look for light hearted, no porn based sex ideas, someone who’s not just looking to couples as a last ditch to get off but rather be involved in an experience. We like men who respect our bubble and that we are together.
It’s about everyone’s enjoyment for us, we aren’t a couple that likes the cuckold or sort of use my wife thing, just I like two sometimes.
Also a brain and an attractive face for me. Sometimes in person we have chosen someone based in part on looks but also gut instinct, some people feel gentle but confident which I really like. If you mean messages, I like when someone has read our profile and is on the same wavelength, it doesn’t have to be a long message, short funny ones get a reply whether we want a meet or not. I like when they attach a face pic and we can quickly see if there’s attraction there. I’m waffling this morning . Sorry - Mrs "
We agree with all of this. It makes a huge difference if the guy smiles as well, moody pics do not work...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wonder if there's any consensus among those couples out there who want to add a man into the mix - which sort of men & messages turn your heads?
It's all academic, of course.
I seem to be as unexciting to couples as I am to single women on here. But you can't blame a man for trying to gain the advantage "
One where we think we won’t end up chopped up and dissolved into a bath of acid |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"a guy who "gets it". We like a man to understand that he's an equal in the dynamic and have a mature attitude."
This 
We prefer someone with veris from couples as while we were confident, having someone who knows the score means we dont have to worry about them. I imagine when we become pros we will entertain the thought of less experienced guys. |
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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago
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A great thread OP. You've got some awesome replies here. It's been exciting reading through them.
An academic approach can so apply to hold that base but is interestingly muddied somewhat by the fascinating nuances in each. This is why I love talking to couples, mainly, of course, with the person who holds most of the sexual power in the couple dynamic. A blank slate is needed everytime. |
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