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By *lex46 OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Near Wells |
Ladies, I need some help if you don't mind.
If you decline a meeting politely and respectively and they keep coming back to you with "just a quickie" or "Why not" etc, etc. Plus every time you log on there's another message from the same person.
How long before you get fed up and block them? |
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"Ladies, I need some help if you don't mind.
If you decline a meeting politely and respectively and they keep coming back to you with "just a quickie" or "Why not" etc, etc. Plus every time you log on there's another message from the same person.
How long before you get fed up and block them? "
Straight away... |
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The first time they message with anything other than a polite message of acceptance of me declining a meet. I haven't got the time or the patience to be dealing with wombats that can't understand the word no. |
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Tbh, it depends on my mood, and how annoying they are
Usually, if they message again after I've said no, then a block
But there's a couple, I haven't.
It probably irritates them more they never get a reply, than just being blocked.
Ones currently on 49 & no reply |
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By *lex46 OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Near Wells |
"The last message reads :
"car meet, I'll pick you up £50 blow job drop you back. Plezzz.
So block him.
Bloody hell why let it get to that  "
Part of me just wanted to see how far it would go. But that was a lot of effort and time wasted on my part. I think in future it will be after the second message. |
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
In a sleepy little village |
"The last message reads :
"car meet, I'll pick you up £50 blow job drop you back. Plezzz.
So block him.
Bloody hell why let it get to that
Part of me just wanted to see how far it would go. But that was a lot of effort and time wasted on my part. I think in future it will be after the second message. "
Good decision. Men like that never stop. Far nicer people around to spend your time chatting too  |
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By *lex46 OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Near Wells |
"The last message reads :
"car meet, I'll pick you up £50 blow job drop you back. Plezzz.
So block him.
Bloody hell why let it get to that
Part of me just wanted to see how far it would go. But that was a lot of effort and time wasted on my part. I think in future it will be after the second message.
Good decision. Men like that never stop. Far nicer people around to spend your time chatting too "
Very true, thanks. |
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By *lex46 OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Near Wells |
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Thanks
Trouble is you want to be nice and friendly and try and give a positive vibe. But not everyone is like that. I need to toughen up a bit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies, I need some help if you don't mind.
If you decline a meeting politely and respectively and they keep coming back to you with "just a quickie" or "Why not" etc, etc. Plus every time you log on there's another message from the same person.
How long before you get fed up and block them? "
After the first "but why" kinda message! |
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I block immediately for two reasons
- if they can't take rejection on a simple message, then things could escalate if I met them in person
- if I did meet, and I withdrew consent, I doubt they would stop
So essentially both for my safety |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree. Second message = block
Life is too short to waste reading drivel like that!"
 this. Ignoring / no response is a polite no. A second message and I block.
They can tell you’ve read the message so no need for it. |
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By *lex46 OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Near Wells |
"I block immediately for two reasons
- if they can't take rejection on a simple message, then things could escalate if I met them in person
- if I did meet, and I withdrew consent, I doubt they would stop
So essentially both for my safety"
I never even gave that situation a thought.  |
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"Ladies, I need some help if you don't mind.
If you decline a meeting politely and respectively and they keep coming back to you with "just a quickie" or "Why not" etc, etc. Plus every time you log on there's another message from the same person.
How long before you get fed up and block them? "
If you've no interest in meeting them, what are you losing by blocking them? |
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By *lex46 OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Near Wells |
"Ladies, I need some help if you don't mind.
If you decline a meeting politely and respectively and they keep coming back to you with "just a quickie" or "Why not" etc, etc. Plus every time you log on there's another message from the same person.
How long before you get fed up and block them?
If you've no interest in meeting them, what are you losing by blocking them?"
Very true but sometimes it's a "no not tonight" not a "no, never".
As I discovered you can quickly loose interest.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We block one liners like nice tits etc, anyone too local, bi or curious males.
If they arent what we looking for but are polite we will send a short reply saying thanks but no thanks etc, if they cant take no then block.
Time wasters also. Eg had a bloke say he wanted to meet seemed great but he was 150 miles away. He said oh no I'm staying about 25 minutes away so we said ok your on! Then said it was too far! Instant block lol. |
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