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By *amsi OP Man
over a year ago
Hanworth |
Hi I am looking for a local couple to introduce my wife to the lifestyle, we have been to VA and Hellfire together but didn't get to play with another couple, we put this down to nerves at VA and at Hellfire we recognised a couple from our private life (bit of a quick exit lol) I did explain that they were there for the same reasons.
In a nutshell I feel that a social meet at a bar would relax her more, if she feels that its not for her then i am ok with that, then again we could end up going further.
No need for silly comments or sarcasm as we are genuinely interested.
I have played and still meet occasionally and yes she does know. |
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We wouldn't meet a couple, even for a social, from a sing person's profile (man or woman). If your wife would prefer a gentle introduction with a social drink in a bar why not set up a couples profile and arrange a social meet from that? |
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"We wouldn't meet a couple, even for a social, from a sing person's profile (man or woman). If your wife would prefer a gentle introduction with a social drink in a bar why not set up a couples profile and arrange a social meet from that?"
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By *amsi OP Man
over a year ago
Hanworth |
"We wouldn't meet a couple, even for a social, from a sing person's profile (man or woman). If your wife would prefer a gentle introduction with a social drink in a bar why not set up a couples profile and arrange a social meet from that?"
Fully understand, we will probably set up a couples profile and see what happens, undoubtedly going to be inundated with single men but still worth doing, thanks for your input much appreciated. |
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"We wouldn't meet a couple, even for a social, from a sing person's profile (man or woman). If your wife would prefer a gentle introduction with a social drink in a bar why not set up a couples profile and arrange a social meet from that?
Fully understand, we will probably set up a couples profile and see what happens, undoubtedly going to be inundated with single men but still worth doing, thanks for your input much appreciated. "
Just block single men from messaging |
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By *bzcoupleCouple
over a year ago
Aberdeenshire |
"We wouldn't meet a couple, even for a social, from a sing person's profile (man or woman). If your wife would prefer a gentle introduction with a social drink in a bar why not set up a couples profile and arrange a social meet from that?
Fully understand, we will probably set up a couples profile and see what happens, undoubtedly going to be inundated with single men but still worth doing, thanks for your input much appreciated. "
You can block single guys from messaging you, so no need to worry there.
We were both very keen to meet a single female but ended up meeting a couple for a social. I say “social”, ended up a bit more!
A social is a good love to start. She’s obviously interested if you’ve been to a club or two but the privacy of a two couple social may be a good place to discuss the lifestyle.
Don’t plan on or expect to do anything other than chat. If more happens fair enough, but best to not expect it.
Above all, set up a couples account, you won’t then look like a guy trying To “persuade” his wife to get into swinging! |
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