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which of you brought of the topic of swinging and how did you or the other half feel
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We wanted outdoor fun, we wanted people to watch so we tried dogging not realizing that too many ugly builders would turn up...
Then we thought what if we could go dogging and really sexy people turn up so we looked at swinging...
Then we started being 100% with each other about what we would like to do and see and Mrs Manwidge shared the same fantasy as me.
I wanted to see her get fucked by other guys and watch or maybe join in.
Her eye's popped out of her head and said "Ok then..lol"
That was three years ago but this last year we had to take a break because the kids are so young and we have no family support.
How i found this site on the other had is a long story but it's the best swinging site in the UK, some great people hear too.
I don't usually come on hear as Mrs Manwidge arranges everything and chats to the guys on the phone but this year i thought i would have a look for myself because we have got some new ideas... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We were talking about anything and everything and I had mentioned to the Mrs that I had tried swinging in the past. She asked me what I did and I was very honest at the end of it she said that she would love to try it. She said that her biggest fantasy was to be with another woman so we put our profile up her fantasy has been fulfilled and she absolutely loves it we both do.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we were talking about fantasies one day and i said mine was for her to have another man. after a while this became reality but the guy isnt very reliable so i mentioned going dogging ,to which she replied that she would feel safer at a swingers club and we havent looked back ..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We both shared our ultimate sexual fantasy, they were the same one... Gangbangs....
So now we bring our fantasy to reality, everytime has been a fantastic experience...
and we have met a few idiots along the way....
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
Norfolk |
we kinda grew in to it, members of various adult chat rooms and one bored boxing day K was on chat and got talking to a swinger who ran a website, that wasn't for us but there was a link to a 'soft' swing site, we discussed it and joined the chat room and after a couple of days the chat went along the lines well if we take small steps we can always stop. Remember once you have seen something you can't unsee it. So our first experience was a trip to Chams! Only soft swapped for about 9 months and then met the couple who we knew we would be comfortable with (they are still great friends) and as they say the rest is history lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We live near a well known dogging site and it came up as we drove past it most days . One day I said to her that maybe we should try it out and was surprised that she didn't go mad at me ! We tried it out and it was exciting but we felt it wasn't ideal from a cleanliness perspective so we ended up joining fab and over a year later we are still loving it !
Ps we are getting married in a few months too so swinging doesn't affect our vanilla life at all !  |
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It grew naturally out of our sharing of fantasies, although we never called it swinging.
We both fancied the same bloke...a threesome was the inevitable next step.
There was also an aspect for kev of being aware i was far less sexually experienced than him and knew i was bi without ever having done anything about it. So we came to our same sex doesnt count agreement many years ago...not very pc but we were making it up as we went along...there werent forums to start threads on in those days.
The rule (which i took far more advantage of then him) was that if one of us pulled someone of the same sex while out we could go home with them, so long as the other one knew where we were. |
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He suggested it not long after we'd met - we had both been married before and had enjoyed quite a lot of extramarital sex, so it was unlikely either of us was going to be conventionally 'faithful' during our relationship. He suggested trying La Chambre, so we went and liked what we saw. We;ve been swinging regularly for 10 years now, it allows us to have the sexual variety we both need without deceit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was very open with my wife from the get go, no secrets. I found being honest and open helped. Talking about fantasies, and such eventually paid off, but at no time did I try and coerce her to do what she didn't want to. Yes it was what I wanted, but I never said that to her and let her make up here own mind and make her own choices as to who when and where. At the end of the day it was her her choice. |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
Had been seeing a guy for a few weeks and had discussed having a 3sum, told him about the site then joined up as a couple. We've since had a few meets as a couple and both really enjoy it.
We both get what we want out of it and still have a really good relationship too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have done swinging in the past.I met my B/f and we were talking one night about our past so the topic of swinging cropped up.He was fascinated and asked if id do it again. We joined fab as a couple but he works loads so he asked me if id like to swing on my own as he loves the thought of me with other guys.It works really well for us both and when we get the chance we want to broaden our horizons even more.   |
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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago
edinburgh |
Neither of us brought it up really. It kind of evolved from discussing fantasies (me (F) with another fem), how we could go about doing it, looking at a couple of sites. All over quite a long time really.
I think we, like a lot of people, came looking for a single fem, it grew into couples and even the single men we thought we had no interest in.
We didn't really realise it was swinging we were into! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We pregressed from dogging, which was his fantasy to start off with. Although l've always had a bi curious side so swapping seemed the perfect answer for me to explore it mmmmmm mmmmmm.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I heavenly wanted to experience a female after been quietly curious for some time. I broached the subject during a naughty sex session where we had discussed fantasasies. We arranged it a threesome for a month later. Was a amazing and horny experience . Been almost 5 years ago and never looked back. Our advice is talk and be honest and open at all times. It's the key to succesful swinging. |
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