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Lack of real genuine bulls
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By *iclassy OP Couple
over a year ago
Manchester |
Speaking as my wifes cuck it never stops surprising me of the amount of guys who claim to have experience of a cuck /hotwife relationship who then message on and on without being able to meet.The amount of times heard of lost phones pet rabbit dying etc anything to avoid a meet.
Is fact all genuine good looking guys are taken and the quality of these so called bulls very poor.
A cuck /hotwife marriage does involve both partners and surprising how many so called bulls aren't confident performing in front of cuck |
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"Speaking as my wifes cuck it never stops surprising me of the amount of guys who claim to have experience of a cuck /hotwife relationship who then message on and on without being able to meet.The amount of times heard of lost phones pet rabbit dying etc anything to avoid a meet.
Is fact all genuine good looking guys are taken and the quality of these so called bulls very poor.
A cuck /hotwife marriage does involve both partners and surprising how many so called bulls aren't confident performing in front of cuck"
True, the best relationships evolve we found. From a one off, regular, to full on cuckold. Never met a bull who described himself as one. |
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By *iclassy OP Couple
over a year ago
Manchester |
If your a "bull" you shouldn't be bothered with cuck being there whist performing. Dont feel i need to be present at every meet but a very least once.
I am happy for hotwife to have her own time alone with "bull" also.. |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"If your a "bull" you shouldn't be bothered with cuck being there whist performing. Dont feel i need to be present at every meet but a very least once.
I am happy for hotwife to have her own time alone with "bull" also.."
Absolutely. |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
For me my location and very busy work life (I travel a lot so not easy to offer regular meets) proves a barrier.
I have met some great cuckold couples having spent the time to get all of the first before meeting. For me the build up is so important to ensuring a successful meet. I feel your pain OP as I too get frustrated not being free to meet more of the great cuckold couples that exist on here. |
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As with meets in general a lot of people like the idea but get cold feet at the reality - they may be exacerbated with meeting a couple especially a cuck couple where an understanding of the dynamic is required
However chatting before, I’d hope, would those out who genuinely have experience from those who haven’t? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m a bull and have no reservations whatsoever in performing in front of a cuck ,after all that is the job of the bull , "
Exactly, I’m very much experienced in this, check profile out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ive found the best guys who become bulls dont call themselves bulls in the first place ..hate the word bull anyway so when i see that word i avoid as 99% are in a porn fantasy and dont have a clue |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
For some reason this reminds me of the old bull and the young bull who enter a field of cows.
Young bull says, ‘let’s run down to those cows and shag a few’.
Old bull looks at him and says, let’s walk down to the ladies and do them all; properly’. |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"There are plenty about if you look. I would say though they should have a search facility for one. "
That may not be a bad idea. You would get to choose after viewing and reading profiles and verifications which guys may be if interest to you. Worth a try I think.
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"Speaking as my wifes cuck it never stops surprising me of the amount of guys who claim to have experience of a cuck /hotwife relationship who then message on and on without being able to meet.The amount of times heard of lost phones pet rabbit dying etc anything to avoid a meet.
Is fact all genuine good looking guys are taken and the quality of these so called bulls very poor.
A cuck /hotwife marriage does involve both partners and surprising how many so called bulls aren't confident performing in front of cuck"
my BF was a cuck bull we used to meet 3 Cpl and he liked the idear of the control and making the cuck watch but making them both enjoying it so if you are looking for a genuine bull you can contact him and chat to him your self |
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I understand the problem but let me speak from a bulls prospective i email lots of so called cuck couples and unless your a stunning ripped bull no one is interested
So if your fancy meeting genuine hung bi male who loves the idea of her cuck watching and helping I not a thousand miles away x |
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"I understand the problem but let me speak from a bulls prospective i email lots of so called cuck couples and unless your a stunning ripped bull no one is interested
So if your fancy meeting genuine hung bi male who loves the idea of her cuck watching and helping I not a thousand miles away x"
you have hit the nail on the head so toi say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This also happens to genuine bulls who are lead on by wonerbees its so annoying "
wannabes in all area's of fab /swinging thats always been and always will be a problem |
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"Speaking as my wifes cuck it never stops surprising me of the amount of guys who claim to have experience of a cuck /hotwife relationship who then message on and on without being able to meet.The amount of times heard of lost phones pet rabbit dying etc anything to avoid a meet.
Is fact all genuine good looking guys are taken and the quality of these so called bulls very poor.
A cuck /hotwife marriage does involve both partners and surprising how many so called bulls aren't confident performing in front of cuck"
I feel your frustration I really do, because I experience it the other way.
I’m a respectful genuine - yes, that awful word but true - gent who is experienced with couples but it’s frustratingly hard to meet new friends.
A chilled fun threesome meet with a Cuck couple is one of the most exciting experiences a man can enjoy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Speaking as my wifes cuck it never stops surprising me of the amount of guys who claim to have experience of a cuck /hotwife relationship who then message on and on without being able to meet.The amount of times heard of lost phones pet rabbit dying etc anything to avoid a meet.
Is fact all genuine good looking guys are taken and the quality of these so called bulls very poor.
A cuck /hotwife marriage does involve both partners and surprising how many so called bulls aren't confident performing in front of cuck"
One here. This one understands it’s more about the cuck and the hotwife than it is about the bull. The roll is a huge turn on for me, but it is a roll - it’s about you guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If your a "bull" you shouldn't be bothered with cuck being there whist performing. Dont feel i need to be present at every meet but a very least once.
I am happy for hotwife to have her own time alone with "bull" also.."
I have also chatted to a lot of 'Bulls' who strangely say they cannot perform if Dave was there to watch. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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being a bull is not just about fucking the wife in front of the husband ?? thats normal swinging for most something i did with my hubs for the best part of 20 yrs .... cuckold couples are more complex than that its a mental state as well as a psychical one its knowing the couple its knowing the cuck is as much involved as everyone else too ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All my meets here bar 1 has been with the hubby watching. One occasion despite making it clear I'm not bi he tried to suck me off. Had to put him in his place a bit then continued to please his wife. Funny he never invited me back....oh well. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me i think that being a bull ( as i have many years ago ) involves a connection with the hotwife and cuck.
Built up over a short period of time, whereby the cpl both look forward to meeting up with the bull again. The hotwife is full of sexual desire and the cuck hubby is put through a range of emotions over the full day, preparing his wife, bathing her dressing her, feeling butterflys in his stomach etc etc then having to watch and take part in some way and seeing the connection his wife and her bull have when together.
When the bull leaves, then the cuck and his wife can ressume their normal lives until the urge for cuck to text bull and ask him to pleasure is wife again happens. |
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"For me i think that being a bull ( as i have many years ago ) involves a connection with the hotwife and cuck.
Built up over a short period of time, whereby the cpl both look forward to meeting up with the bull again. The hotwife is full of sexual desire and the cuck hubby is put through a range of emotions over the full day, preparing his wife, bathing her dressing her, feeling butterflys in his stomach etc etc then having to watch and take part in some way and seeing the connection his wife and her bull have when together.
When the bull leaves, then the cuck and his wife can ressume their normal lives until the urge for cuck to text bull and ask him to pleasure is wife again happens. "
I think you've summed that up perfectly |
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"Speaking as my wifes cuck it never stops surprising me of the amount of guys who claim to have experience of a cuck /hotwife relationship who then message on and on without being able to meet.The amount of times heard of lost phones pet rabbit dying etc anything to avoid a meet.
Is fact all genuine good looking guys are taken and the quality of these so called bulls very poor.
A cuck /hotwife marriage does involve both partners and surprising how many so called bulls aren't confident performing in front of cuck"
Reliable,experienced bull here if your interested. PM me if your interested  |
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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago
south coast |
"being a bull is not just about fucking the wife in front of the husband ?? thats normal swinging for most something i did with my hubs for the best part of 20 yrs .... cuckold couples are more complex than that its a mental state as well as a psychical one its knowing the couple its knowing the cuck is as much involved as everyone else too ... "
Perfectly said and when your in this type of relationship.....all gain |
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"being a bull is not just about fucking the wife in front of the husband ?? thats normal swinging for most something i did with my hubs for the best part of 20 yrs .... cuckold couples are more complex than that its a mental state as well as a psychical one its knowing the couple its knowing the cuck is as much involved as everyone else too ... "
Yes this |
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"If your a "bull" you shouldn't be bothered with cuck being there whist performing. Dont feel i need to be present at every meet but a very least once.
I am happy for hotwife to have her own time alone with "bull" also..
I have also chatted to a lot of 'Bulls' who strangely say they cannot perform if Dave was there to watch. "
That’s something I wasn’t sure about when I joined Fab but I now love playing in front of a watching hubby. It’s very exciting to see him turned on watching me and his wife. |
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By *m3232Man
over a year ago
maidenhead |
Been a bull for a few couples it’s more about knowing what they want and what words to use and not at the beginning that make it great fun for all.
Some like different dynamics so always happy to play their way and happy to be watched no matter how close. |
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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago
chesterfield |
Many just want to chat about it and want pictures rather than actually do it , we got so fed up of bull"shitters" and dreamers that now we only arrange to meet guys at swingers clubs . We have a drink and chat and if all agreeable go on to play , you don't get to know the person over the internet as anyone can pretend to be anything when hiding behind a keyboard, that way if they don't turn up or aren't what they claim to be we haven't wasted an evening and can play at the club with genuine people attending the club. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes! It’s a real ball ache when ‘bulls’ mess couples around
Makes it a lot harder for us genuine guys to connect with the couples as I’ve heard time and time again people are fed up with being messed around!
That being said if you find a good connection with a couple don’t be surprised if it becomes a regular thing with them. I highly recommend!! |
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It is disappointing, Dee is a bit picky on the guys we choose to meet, but the last two she liked the look of messaged us for weeks and both failed to turn up when we were waiting in the hotel bars as arranged.
Frustrating for her and also knocks her confidence, frustrating for me as a cuck as there is nothing better than seeing the smile on your wife’s face after a good servicing !
I think some guys must be actually scared of the whole cuckolding thing, either that or we are just too old in the current climate of young gorgeous people ? |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"It is disappointing, Dee is a bit picky on the guys we choose to meet, but the last two she liked the look of messaged us for weeks and both failed to turn up when we were waiting in the hotel bars as arranged.
Frustrating for her and also knocks her confidence, frustrating for me as a cuck as there is nothing better than seeing the smile on your wife’s face after a good servicing !
I think some guys must be actually scared of the whole cuckolding thing, either that or we are just too old in the current climate of young gorgeous people ?"
Certainly not too old. From the picture you have in your profile your wife looks stunning. Hopefully you get the right guy you both need and deserve soon. |
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It’s rare to find a genuine cuck couple in here these days. Most seem to be either a guy pretending to be a couple, or the hubby of a couple where the wife is either unaware of his cuckold fantasies, or she went off the idea but he still likes the thought and looks for wank fodder.  |
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Personally, I hate the term "Bull" - dreadful connotations of BULLying and arrogance! I prefer "gentleman friend" because a proper cuckold arrangement (for me, anyway) should be long term, with my having a proper friendship with both halves of the couple. I love it when the husband watches - it is the breaking of taboos that makes it so deliciously exciting.... I also understand the incredible cocktail of conflicting emotions that the husband experiences - it is this that gives him the "high" that makes cuckoldry so addictive for him (again imho). I regard it as part of my job to enhance that buzz by identifying the things that especially excite him and play on them. Obviously pleasing the wife is also rather important!
I prefer an exclusive relationship because it permits the development of an intensity otherwise hard to achieve.
However, as a mature guy it is very hard to find real couples who are interested - putting aside the vast numbers of timewasters and wannabees so may people seem to want ripped, youngsters with improbably huge appendages and then complain that there are no "bulls" - speaking from my perspective and not seeking to offend!
Summing it up - it is incredibly hard to find a good match - but when it works - oh, it is marvelous.
Yes, I am "between couples" at present |
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We have found the exact same issue as OP. I’ve lost count how many times we’ve agreed to meet, only for something to pop up just in time to stop it.
I think a lot of guys like the idea of behind a bull, but the reality is either beyond their ability (no disrespect intended, I sure as hell am not able to fulfil that role), or don’t like the idea of the husband being involved too. |
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By *pank5000Couple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
"It’s rare to find a genuine cuck couple in here these days. Most seem to be either a guy pretending to be a couple, or the hubby of a couple where the wife is either unaware of his cuckold fantasies, or she went off the idea but he still likes the thought and looks for wank fodder. "
I was on a cuckold site several years ago, and a lot of other hubbies got chatting with me for advice etc. And yes, the situation you describe was pretty much the norm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Speaking as my wifes cuck it never stops surprising me of the amount of guys who claim to have experience of a cuck /hotwife relationship who then message on and on without being able to meet.The amount of times heard of lost phones pet rabbit dying etc anything to avoid a meet.
Is fact all genuine good looking guys are taken and the quality of these so called bulls very poor.
A cuck /hotwife marriage does involve both partners and surprising how many so called bulls aren't confident performing in front of cuck"
Would be more than happy to chat and see if we can’t sort something...
Genuine young man here, have travelled up and down the UK for meets, no problems performing. |
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By *omis.69Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
There has been numerous posts on this subject and I still remain with my standard answer.
The cuckold relationship is based on three peoples idea, wants, enjoyment.
All three have to match otherwise it will never materialise into a full relationship.
The bull has to understand that the cuck needs enjoyment in whatever way it manifests itself be it watching, humiliation, submission etc
To be a true bull I believe is understanding the couples wants and needs and tailoring your approach accordingly.
But hey I’m a single guy what do I know lol |
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"Speaking as my wifes cuck it never stops surprising me of the amount of guys who claim to have experience of a cuck /hotwife relationship who then message on and on without being able to meet.The amount of times heard of lost phones pet rabbit dying etc anything to avoid a meet.
Is fact all genuine good looking guys are taken and the quality of these so called bulls very poor.
A cuck /hotwife marriage does involve both partners and surprising how many so called bulls aren't confident performing in front of cuck"
Maybe we should be asking for recommendations off couples who have found genuine ones |
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"Speaking as my wifes cuck it never stops surprising me of the amount of guys who claim to have experience of a cuck /hotwife relationship who then message on and on without being able to meet.The amount of times heard of lost phones pet rabbit dying etc anything to avoid a meet.
Is fact all genuine good looking guys are taken and the quality of these so called bulls very poor.
A cuck /hotwife marriage does involve both partners and surprising how many so called bulls aren't confident performing in front of cuck"
I am on the opposite. I can't find a proper cuck and hotwife couple. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
somerset |
best way to find a ''bull'' is to not look for bulls on here ... the guys i call bulls that i meet have evolved into that role for asertive guys to bulls ... the problem with on here is 80/90% of those who call themselves bull just dont have a clue ... the other 10% who have been bulls for others are only as good a bull as the couple they were last with and we all know that couples are different in wants ...let alone the normal stuff like attraction / personality so for us as 30 + years on the scene the best way to find a bull is not to look for a bull just look for assertive guys and you'll find a bull that fits you and not a bullshitter /oh ill be a bull if it means i get a shag /porn dreamers  |
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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago
Lincolnshire |
"Speaking as my wifes cuck it never stops surprising me of the amount of guys who claim to have experience of a cuck /hotwife relationship who then message on and on without being able to meet.The amount of times heard of lost phones pet rabbit dying etc anything to avoid a meet.
Is fact all genuine good looking guys are taken and the quality of these so called bulls very poor.
A cuck /hotwife marriage does involve both partners and surprising how many so called bulls aren't confident performing in front of cuck"
Im surprised your surprised Lad , your last verificaton was at least 6 years ago , you need to get out more !!! |
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