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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve generally steered clear of men younger than 40, but lately I’ve been getting a hankering...
I’ve had bad experiences when chatting from young guys who seem to think they’re doing me some kind of favour..
Are there any older women out there who enjoy meeting younger men (I’m thinking late twenties to mid thirties)? What do you enjoy and how respectful do you find guys when you are arranging meets? |
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"I’ve generally steered clear of men younger than 40, but lately I’ve been getting a hankering...
I’ve had bad experiences when chatting from young guys who seem to think they’re doing me some kind of favour..
Are there any older women out there who enjoy meeting younger men (I’m thinking late twenties to mid thirties)? What do you enjoy and how respectful do you find guys when you are arranging meets?"
I’ve found the young men I’ve met very respectful and fun. It’s the older men I have found to be disrespectful and vile in language. Can get any type in any age. That’s just been my experience  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve generally steered clear of men younger than 40, but lately I’ve been getting a hankering...
I’ve had bad experiences when chatting from young guys who seem to think they’re doing me some kind of favour..
Are there any older women out there who enjoy meeting younger men (I’m thinking late twenties to mid thirties)? What do you enjoy and how respectful do you find guys when you are arranging meets?
I’ve found the young men I’ve met very respectful and fun. It’s the older men I have found to be disrespectful and vile in language. Can get any type in any age. That’s just been my experience "
Sorry had to chuckle at your post after spotting your username  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’ve generally steered clear of men younger than 40, but lately I’ve been getting a hankering...
I’ve had bad experiences when chatting from young guys who seem to think they’re doing me some kind of favour..
Are there any older women out there who enjoy meeting younger men (I’m thinking late twenties to mid thirties)? What do you enjoy and how respectful do you find guys when you are arranging meets?
I’ve found the young men I’ve met very respectful and fun. It’s the older men I have found to be disrespectful and vile in language. Can get any type in any age. That’s just been my experience "
True nuff. The respect question was a bit silly in retrospect. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"I’ve generally steered clear of men younger than 40, but lately I’ve been getting a hankering...
I’ve had bad experiences when chatting from young guys who seem to think they’re doing me some kind of favour..
Are there any older women out there who enjoy meeting younger men (I’m thinking late twenties to mid thirties)? What do you enjoy and how respectful do you find guys when you are arranging meets?"
I've met a few younger guys, a couple have been far too immature but I've mostly had good experiences with them, in fact, in my top 3 fucks, 2 of them are younger guys. |
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I work with a lot of younger people now, and in general they seem very self aware and certainly more in touch with how they view others and themselves. I suppose in short, very empathetic and open.
So if the emotional intelligence is apparent, I'd certainly be interested in a 25-35 year old age bracket. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had more younger men be respectful to me saying I'm not interest than older men. Majority of older men, as soon as I say no, call me a prick tease and send me constant a abusive messages until I block them, while younger men seem to just go away calmly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get a lot of messages from young guys and I'm sure it's just to fulfill some kind of MILF fantasy of theirs, which is a total turn off to me - who wants to be reminded that they're getting old!
I generally find their approach a little trigger happy and selfish and feel this may be reflected in the bedroom, hence not going there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We have been joined by men younger than us and found them to be respectful and kind.
At their age (28-35) I owned a house, was on my second marriage and knew how to have sex. I find we get more gross behaving men over 40 who are in some midlife crisis/second teenage thing. Rude men are of all ages but we have done quite well with men 28-35  . - Mrs
( oh but if they call me a milf or a cougar I don’t like them anymore) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get a lot of messages from young guys and I'm sure it's just to fulfill some kind of MILF fantasy of theirs, which is a total turn off to me - who wants to be reminded that they're getting old!
I generally find their approach a little trigger happy and selfish and feel this may be reflected in the bedroom, hence not going there "
I get called daddy a lot by younger guys and know exactly what you mean lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fine line between a boy and a man, if you can find a guy younger than you that fucks and eats you like a man then you’ve hit the jackpot, I’m the opposite I want an older woman, don’t really go for any younger than me (I’m 25) |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"Fine line between a boy and a man, if you can find a guy younger than you that fucks and eats you like a man then you’ve hit the jackpot, I’m the opposite I want an older woman, don’t really go for any younger than me (I’m 25)"
I've found some younger men that are a much better fuck than some older guys I've played with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fine line between a boy and a man, if you can find a guy younger than you that fucks and eats you like a man then you’ve hit the jackpot, I’m the opposite I want an older woman, don’t really go for any younger than me (I’m 25)
I've found some younger men that are a much better fuck than some older guys I've played with. "
Exactly, some of my best fucks have been women older than me, a couple terrible fucks have been girls my age |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As a younger guy as long as someone's within my age range and there's mutual attraction I'd say: Why not?
Though being fetishised for my age is a big turn off. I don't want to be someone's "toyboy" or cub. |
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"As a younger guy as long as someone's within my age range and there's mutual attraction I'd say: Why not?
Though being fetishised for my age is a big turn off. I don't want to be someone's "toyboy" or cub."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a younger guy as long as someone's within my age range and there's mutual attraction I'd say: Why not?
Though being fetishised for my age is a big turn off. I don't want to be someone's "toyboy" or cub."
I guess the fetishising works both ways |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve generally steered clear of men younger than 40, but lately I’ve been getting a hankering...
I’ve had bad experiences when chatting from young guys who seem to think they’re doing me some kind of favour..
Are there any older women out there who enjoy meeting younger men (I’m thinking late twenties to mid thirties)? What do you enjoy and how respectful do you find guys when you are arranging meets?
I’ve found the young men I’ve met very respectful and fun. It’s the older men I have found to be disrespectful and vile in language. Can get any type in any age. That’s just been my experience "
I agree. I have also found older men disrespectful |
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"Are there any older women out there who enjoy meeting younger men (I’m thinking late twenties to mid thirties)? What do you enjoy and how respectful do you find guys when you are arranging meets?"
We only meet with younger guys, and it can be a minefield at times. However, in general most are let down by the minority. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love an older woman they speak their mind and usually don't play games. I'm withing that age bracket and I find the lack of respect men of any age show women to be disgraceful tbh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve generally steered clear of men younger than 40, but lately I’ve been getting a hankering...
I’ve had bad experiences when chatting from young guys who seem to think they’re doing me some kind of favour..
Are there any older women out there who enjoy meeting younger men (I’m thinking late twenties to mid thirties)? What do you enjoy and how respectful do you find guys when you are arranging meets?"
I’ve heard 35 is a great age to sample. Especially Londoners. Worth sampling, I reckon. |
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"I’ve generally steered clear of men younger than 40, but lately I’ve been getting a hankering...
I’ve had bad experiences when chatting from young guys who seem to think they’re doing me some kind of favour..
Are there any older women out there who enjoy meeting younger men (I’m thinking late twenties to mid thirties)? What do you enjoy and how respectful do you find guys when you are arranging meets?"
Fuck it why not |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a younger guy as long as someone's within my age range and there's mutual attraction I'd say: Why not?
Though being fetishised for my age is a big turn off. I don't want to be someone's "toyboy" or cub."
I agree I’m no one’s cougar or Milf.
Just if there’s attraction and everyone agrees it’s ok to play. I don’t like the implications that anyone is hunted or objectified. - Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess there is a lot of time wasters out there, who ruin it for the likes of younger people like who then don't get a chance to prove otherwise or change opinions |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve generally steered clear of men younger than 40, but lately I’ve been getting a hankering...
I’ve had bad experiences when chatting from young guys who seem to think they’re doing me some kind of favour..
Are there any older women out there who enjoy meeting younger men (I’m thinking late twenties to mid thirties)? What do you enjoy and how respectful do you find guys when you are arranging meets?
I’ve found the young men I’ve met very respectful and fun. It’s the older men I have found to be disrespectful and vile in language. Can get any type in any age. That’s just been my experience
I agree. I have also found older men disrespectful "
We have actually blocked more older men than younger and the older ones have been very lewd and rude.
Good ones all ages and bad but we have had many around our age (45) who are entitled and pushy. -mrs |
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A lot of generalisations on here
I think it is relative to the individual rather than age.
There are good and bad in all areas of society regardless of whether they are male or female, old or young, fat or thin, black or white etc etc etc I'm sure you get the idea...
Block those you don't have anything in common with and chat/meet those you do. Simple really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well I’ve been chatting to a couple of much younger guys and they’ve been respectful and great fun.... Missing the filth that older guys know how to bring into the conversation though  |
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I meet younger guys but spend most of my time with people just over 18, so they're standar to be aroun.
Just ensure that you are as selectivwith them as you would be with anyone else. Poor matches exist at any age. |
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I've come across loads of mature 18-30 year old's and loads of 30-50 immature people, Its the individual not their age,
Its a bit of a turn on when someone has their mind focused whatever their age |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my personal experience a lot of younger people seem to be very nice and down to earth. As well as a lot of the elder on this site. I find it’s more of the individual, rather than the age. |
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Feel similar, that they are doing me a favour. Sex with someone in their 20s is the same as when I had sex when I was in my 20s, not great. 40s plus, smoother, less mechanical, and doesn't have to 'perform' every position. Stamina better, but frankly I start doing a mental food shopping list if all they are doing is banging at me |
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By *xpertiMan
over a year ago
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I have been swinging since I was eighteen. I've been on and off of fab both as a single guy and as a couple.
I've had people play with me at clubs that I can't message on fab due to their age ranges. Despite me being open and honest about it.
I've noticed older women with rude tendacies, blokes that lack any decorum or sense of etiquette.
There is no set rule of thumb to judge personality other than to not judge a book by its cover.
Happy hunting you filthy animals. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Prefer older, when you have kids the age and old than many on here. No Stiffler's mum. Age gives a certain sophistication and definable maturity . Too many immature guys on these sites |
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"I’ve generally steered clear of men younger than 40, but lately I’ve been getting a hankering...
I’ve had bad experiences when chatting from young guys who seem to think they’re doing me some kind of favour..
Are there any older women out there who enjoy meeting younger men (I’m thinking late twenties to mid thirties)? What do you enjoy and how respectful do you find guys when you are arranging meets?"
can’t beat a bit of younger meat |
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"I’ve generally steered clear of men younger than 40, but lately I’ve been getting a hankering...
I’ve had bad experiences when chatting from young guys who seem to think they’re doing me some kind of favour..
Are there any older women out there who enjoy meeting younger men (I’m thinking late twenties to mid thirties)? What do you enjoy and how respectful do you find guys when you are arranging meets? can’t beat a bit of younger meat "
Surely we are more than just our meat!!! I feel objectified!! |
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"I’ve generally steered clear of men younger than 40, but lately I’ve been getting a hankering...
I’ve had bad experiences when chatting from young guys who seem to think they’re doing me some kind of favour..
Are there any older women out there who enjoy meeting younger men (I’m thinking late twenties to mid thirties)? What do you enjoy and how respectful do you find guys when you are arranging meets? can’t beat a bit of younger meat
Surely we are more than just our meat!!! I feel objectified!! "
Sorry so fella lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I find younger men do not understand or tend to my needs as much as elder, but I allow exceptions in my age brackets;-)
It's good to follow your natural inclination at the time. Go for it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All of my regulars are younger ..... I find them more attractive and they have better stamina "
Bit of a generalisation there. Defending the older guy here, that some have far more stamina and ability to please than every younger guy I have ever met over years |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All of my regulars are younger ..... I find them more attractive and they have better stamina
Bit of a generalisation there. Defending the older guy here, that some have far more stamina and ability to please than every younger guy I have ever met over years"
I'm only going by my experiences tbf |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve generally steered clear of men younger than 40, but lately I’ve been getting a hankering...
I’ve had bad experiences when chatting from young guys who seem to think they’re doing me some kind of favour..
Are there any older women out there who enjoy meeting younger men (I’m thinking late twenties to mid thirties)? What do you enjoy and how respectful do you find guys when you are arranging meets?"
How does the "think they're doing you a favour" usually manifest itself? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not really into people much younger or older than me.
I dont really get on that well with young people we usually have nothing in common- and I'm over the whole fuck and go thing.
Unsatisfactory and empty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a younger guy as long as someone's within my age range and there's mutual attraction I'd say: Why not?
Though being fetishised for my age is a big turn off. I don't want to be someone's "toyboy" or cub.
I agree I’m no one’s cougar or Milf.
Just if there’s attraction and everyone agrees it’s ok to play. I don’t like the implications that anyone is hunted or objectified. - Mrs "
Exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As with everything else it depends on the person. Some men are mature for their age and some are far younger than their years.
All of the worst messages and behaviour i recieved or witnessed however has come from men nearing or over 40.
Younger men these days are alot more self aware and respectful than you might otherwise realise by just writing off all younger men. |
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"I’ve generally steered clear of men younger than 40, but lately I’ve been getting a hankering...
I’ve had bad experiences when chatting from young guys who seem to think they’re doing me some kind of favour..
Are there any older women out there who enjoy meeting younger men (I’m thinking late twenties to mid thirties)? What do you enjoy and how respectful do you find guys when you are arranging meets?"
I’ve had some amazing experiences with younger chaps on here! Most I’ve had one off’s with - a few who ‘have it all’ ie great looks, sexual experience and personality have become regulars!
If you’re not looking for any kind of relationship on here then I’d definitely recommend younger men - as it’s much easier to ‘keep it simple’ I find!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find younger men do not understand or tend to my needs as much as elder, but I allow exceptions in my age brackets;-)
It's good to follow your natural inclination at the time. Go for it x"
Depends entirely on the person and their sexual experience. I find alot of older aswell as younger men just want to get their end away and thats it. There are however others that like foreplay and do it very well. If a guy is just pounding away at you like a jack hammer then hes not a younger or immature guy hes just a selfish lover which more often these days tends to be the older men.
The younger guys are alot more likely to succumb to the influence of social media and porn and one of the big influences is equality between men and women. Especially in the bedroom where woman can, will and should orgasm if possible more than once.
Its also the reason alot mpre younger people are openly admiting to enjoying role reversal in the bedroom where the woman takes charge.
All in all its about communication. If you want a guy to lick your clit a certain way then you have to tell him not just expect him to do it because all women are different and enjoy different things in different styles as do men |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve generally steered clear of men younger than 40, but lately I’ve been getting a hankering...
I’ve had bad experiences when chatting from young guys who seem to think they’re doing me some kind of favour..
Are there any older women out there who enjoy meeting younger men (I’m thinking late twenties to mid thirties)? What do you enjoy and how respectful do you find guys when you are arranging meets?
I’ve found the young men I’ve met very respectful and fun. It’s the older men I have found to be disrespectful and vile in language. Can get any type in any age. That’s just been my experience "
I completely agree with you having had the same experiences myself. |
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"I find younger men do not understand or tend to my needs as much as elder, but I allow exceptions in my age brackets;-)
It's good to follow your natural inclination at the time. Go for it x"
Have you tried telling them what you like or do you expect them to read your mind? |
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"I’ve generally steered clear of men younger than 40, but lately I’ve been getting a hankering...
I’ve had bad experiences when chatting from young guys who seem to think they’re doing me some kind of favour..
Are there any older women out there who enjoy meeting younger men (I’m thinking late twenties to mid thirties)? What do you enjoy and how respectful do you find guys when you are arranging meets?
I’ve found the young men I’ve met very respectful and fun. It’s the older men I have found to be disrespectful and vile in language. Can get any type in any age. That’s just been my experience
Sorry had to chuckle at your post after spotting your username "
A bit of pot an kettle |
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"I find younger men do not understand or tend to my needs as much as elder, but I allow exceptions in my age brackets;-)
It's good to follow your natural inclination at the time. Go for it x
Have you tried telling them what you like or do you expect them to read your mind? "
You’ve told all the men here you are straight twice on your profile an yet I bet you still get an inbox full of cock
That’s what it’s like as a woman telling a man what she wants |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find younger men do not understand or tend to my needs as much as elder, but I allow exceptions in my age brackets;-)
It's good to follow your natural inclination at the time. Go for it x
Have you tried telling them what you like or do you expect them to read your mind?
You’ve told all the men here you are straight twice on your profile an yet I bet you still get an inbox full of cock
That’s what it’s like as a woman telling a man what she wants"
Thats because women speak woman and men speak man |
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"I find younger men do not understand or tend to my needs as much as elder, but I allow exceptions in my age brackets;-)
It's good to follow your natural inclination at the time. Go for it x
Have you tried telling them what you like or do you expect them to read your mind?
You’ve told all the men here you are straight twice on your profile an yet I bet you still get an inbox full of cock
That’s what it’s like as a woman telling a man what she wants
Thats because women speak woman and men speak man "
I’m sorry what did you say |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As with everything else it depends on the person. Some men are mature for their age and some are far younger than their years.
All of the worst messages and behaviour i recieved or witnessed however has come from men nearing or over 40.
Younger men these days are alot more self aware and respectful than you might otherwise realise by just writing off all younger men. "
I would agree with this. - Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve generally steered clear of men younger than 40, but lately I’ve been getting a hankering...
I’ve had bad experiences when chatting from young guys who seem to think they’re doing me some kind of favour..
Are there any older women out there who enjoy meeting younger men (I’m thinking late twenties to mid thirties)? What do you enjoy and how respectful do you find guys when you are arranging meets?"
I think because younger men are tarnished with a predisposed view, it actually makes them try alot harder than most men in their late 30s/40s as the level of competition is so high, and the level of opportunity is so low.
It's almost like sex-onomics in a capitalist format lol x |
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"I find younger men do not understand or tend to my needs as much as elder, but I allow exceptions in my age brackets;-)
It's good to follow your natural inclination at the time. Go for it x
Have you tried telling them what you like or do you expect them to read your mind?
You’ve told all the men here you are straight twice on your profile an yet I bet you still get an inbox full of cock
That’s what it’s like as a woman telling a man what she wants"
Completely different.
One's pushy gay/bi men seeking a fantasy that doesn't exist.
Another's men you've actually met. Surely if you've made the effort to meet up you have a chat beforehand to discuss likes and dislikes?
Nothing to do with men not being able to listen |
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"I’ve generally steered clear of men younger than 40, but lately I’ve been getting a hankering...
I’ve had bad experiences when chatting from young guys who seem to think they’re doing me some kind of favour..
Are there any older women out there who enjoy meeting younger men (I’m thinking late twenties to mid thirties)? What do you enjoy and how respectful do you find guys when you are arranging meets?
I’ve had some amazing experiences with younger chaps on here! Most I’ve had one off’s with - a few who ‘have it all’ ie great looks, sexual experience and personality have become regulars!
If you’re not looking for any kind of relationship on here then I’d definitely recommend younger men - as it’s much easier to ‘keep it simple’ I find!
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"I’ve generally steered clear of men younger than 40, but lately I’ve been getting a hankering...
I’ve had bad experiences when chatting from young guys who seem to think they’re doing me some kind of favour..
Are there any older women out there who enjoy meeting younger men (I’m thinking late twenties to mid thirties)? What do you enjoy and how respectful do you find guys when you are arranging meets?"
I’m the complete opposite of yourself in my vanilla dating life.....
All the women that are 32 - 25 , I have nothing in common with... they basically want to date via the internet.... having a conversation on the phone is a useless form of communication.... they want you to follow them on IG and Snap... and they really care about followers and who likes their pics..... like they really get anxiety over this....
Now all the women that are my lovers , range in age from 35 - 46 we get along perfectly...
They never text unnecessarily in the morning, always plan a date with advanced notice, never flaky with plans , actually likes to look you in the eyes during a conversation, not have some food allergies, or on some new fad diet , and lastly but very important...... you can have a conversation on any topic but disagree and still understand/respect each other’s point of view without it ruining the whole night.....
The point of this very long post is ....... just have sex with younger guys and keep the talking to a minimum...... |
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"I find younger men do not understand or tend to my needs as much as elder, but I allow exceptions in my age brackets;-)
It's good to follow your natural inclination at the time. Go for it x
Depends entirely on the person and their sexual experience. I find alot of older aswell as younger men just want to get their end away and thats it. There are however others that like foreplay and do it very well. If a guy is just pounding away at you like a jack hammer then hes not a younger or immature guy hes just a selfish lover which more often these days tends to be the older men.
The younger guys are alot more likely to succumb to the influence of social media and porn and one of the big influences is equality between men and women. Especially in the bedroom where woman can, will and should orgasm if possible more than once.
Its also the reason alot mpre younger people are openly admiting to enjoying role reversal in the bedroom where the woman takes charge.
All in all its about communication. If you want a guy to lick your clit a certain way then you have to tell him not just expect him to do it because all women are different and enjoy different things in different styles as do men "
I think you might be mistaking women who grew up in the eighties with women who grew up in the 1950s. We’re perfectly capable of expressing what we enjoy in bed. |
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"I’ve generally steered clear of men younger than 40, but lately I’ve been getting a hankering...
I’ve had bad experiences when chatting from young guys who seem to think they’re doing me some kind of favour..
Are there any older women out there who enjoy meeting younger men (I’m thinking late twenties to mid thirties)? What do you enjoy and how respectful do you find guys when you are arranging meets?
I think because younger men are tarnished with a predisposed view, it actually makes them try alot harder than most men in their late 30s/40s as the level of competition is so high, and the level of opportunity is so low.
It's almost like sex-onomics in a capitalist format lol x"
I don’t understand this. Are there fewer women in their 20s than men? Or are they all into lady play? |
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"I've met a few younger guys, a couple have been far too immature but I've mostly had good experiences with them, in fact, in my top 3 fucks, 2 of them are younger guys. "
2 out of 3 top fucks are younger. Truly hilarious |
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"I've stayed away from much younger so far who have contacted me.
Maybe seems from comments should be giving some a chance x"
Heartily recommend sweetie!!
Giving an older lady such as myself so much pleasure...can't beat it xx |
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The only single guy we’ve ever met was in his mid 20’s. He was Asian, very smart, very curious and very very respectful. Eventually he had enough experience here to know the lifestyle wasn’t for him and so he left.
Age is no indicator of respect or intelligence, so don’t let their age put you off. |
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I am 25 and I think that some of my fondest experiences have been with a more mature woman and I agree slot of people around my age are very immature and Tigger happy and want to plant their seed wherever they can but I don't think that means all "younger" guys should be tarred with the same brush |
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"I get a lot of messages from young guys and I'm sure it's just to fulfill some kind of MILF fantasy of theirs, which is a total turn off to me - who wants to be reminded that they're getting old!
I generally find their approach a little trigger happy and selfish and feel this may be reflected in the bedroom, hence not going there "
I’m keen to get to know a woman in her 40s, not because I want to fulfil a milf fantasy but just because I think they would bring a whole new look at life and experience to the bedroom. I get how you’d be offended by the milf talk. |
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By *s.FrostWoman
over a year ago
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"I’ve generally steered clear of men younger than 40, but lately I’ve been getting a hankering...
I’ve had bad experiences when chatting from young guys who seem to think they’re doing me some kind of favour..
Are there any older women out there who enjoy meeting younger men (I’m thinking late twenties to mid thirties)? What do you enjoy and how respectful do you find guys when you are arranging meets?"
Definitely younger. |
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"The only single guy we’ve ever met was in his mid 20’s. He was Asian, very smart, very curious and very very respectful. Eventually he had enough experience here to know the lifestyle wasn’t for him and so he left.
Age is no indicator of respect or intelligence, so don’t let their age put you off. "
this |
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I have met some very arrogant older males and some lovely younger males. It all depends on the person and not the age. You can generally get a good idea of their personality through chat followed by a social. |
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Hard to believe I've been on this site for 10 years now apart from a 3 year break due to relationship
I try to remember what I was like meeting at 23, nervous I suppose but still respectful.
Min still like to meet couples who are older than myself. I find they are very settled in what they want and what they enjoy and it makes for a more enjoyable time but of course there's always exceptions.
One thing I have found difficult is trying to enter a normal relationship away from fab. That's a whole new thread though xxx |
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up til about 5 years ago i refused to meet younger guys i alway felt not right about it but now i have no problems in meeting them ..had and still having some cracking meets with younger guys |
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"Fine line between a boy and a man, if you can find a guy younger than you that fucks and eats you like a man then you’ve hit the jackpot, I’m the opposite I want an older woman, don’t really go for any younger than me (I’m 25)
I've found some younger men that are a much better fuck than some older guys I've played with. "
The other advantage is the ability to go more than once in a night for that younger men are definitely an advantage |
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"I’ve generally steered clear of men younger than 40, but lately I’ve been getting a hankering...
I’ve had bad experiences when chatting from young guys who seem to think they’re doing me some kind of favour..
Are there any older women out there who enjoy meeting younger men (I’m thinking late twenties to mid thirties)? What do you enjoy and how respectful do you find guys when you are arranging meets?
I’ve found the young men I’ve met very respectful and fun. It’s the older men I have found to be disrespectful and vile in language. Can get any type in any age. That’s just been my experience "
I've had the same experience... |
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"I’ve generally steered clear of men younger than 40, but lately I’ve been getting a hankering...
I’ve had bad experiences when chatting from young guys who seem to think they’re doing me some kind of favour..
Are there any older women out there who enjoy meeting younger men (I’m thinking late twenties to mid thirties)? What do you enjoy and how respectful do you find guys when you are arranging meets?
I’ve found the young men I’ve met very respectful and fun. It’s the older men I have found to be disrespectful and vile in language. Can get any type in any age. That’s just been my experience
I agree. I have also found older men disrespectful "
Same here, when I meet its guys 34-50 - not young but, younger than me. |
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For all you ladies, I would say read the veries and check the age of their meets, because I certainly adore my more life weathered ladies/couples hence learning how to behave and talk around them. HONNOR, RESPECT AND LOVE. Anyone that isn't sure about meeting people my age range throw me a message would like to open you eyes and range and show you we're not all like your bad experiences  |
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"I’ve generally steered clear of men younger than 40, but lately I’ve been getting a hankering...
I’ve had bad experiences when chatting from young guys who seem to think they’re doing me some kind of favour..
Are there any older women out there who enjoy meeting younger men (I’m thinking late twenties to mid thirties)? What do you enjoy and how respectful do you find guys when you are arranging meets?"
I think they are worth a shot |
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