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"I've seen both men and women shamed for it before. Women do tend to get it far more often though. The amount of people a person meets doesn't matter to me, how they go about it does." Gorgeous pic Meli x | |||
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"I've seen both men and women shamed for it before. Women do tend to get it far more often though. The amount of people a person meets doesn't matter to me, how they go about it does. Gorgeous pic Meli x" Thank you Nora. | |||
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"Generally women who are shamed in this way, blokes seem to get a pat on the back. " This is true, annoys me this attitude | |||
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"My original profile had a lot of verifications on it .. when I was first single I was a child in a sweet shop, most were clubs or repeat meets and some were people I’d met who left and returned so verified me again . I noticed that showing so many verifications or Atleast the summary worked against me . So I started a new profile and I’m now very selective.. But if someone has a lot of verified meets it would put me off nowadays x" Why would it put you off? | |||
"My original profile had a lot of verifications on it .. when I was first single I was a child in a sweet shop, most were clubs or repeat meets and some were people I’d met who left and returned so verified me again . I noticed that showing so many verifications or Atleast the summary worked against me . So I started a new profile and I’m now very selective.. But if someone has a lot of verified meets it would put me off nowadays x Why would it put you off?" In all honesty I’m not sure .. I suppose as a guy I’d feel under pressure to perform and live upto what the lady is used to . Us guys are fickle and like to think we’re the best or got the biggest cocks or the best bodies .. | |||
"My original profile had a lot of verifications on it .. when I was first single I was a child in a sweet shop, most were clubs or repeat meets and some were people I’d met who left and returned so verified me again . I noticed that showing so many verifications or Atleast the summary worked against me . So I started a new profile and I’m now very selective.. But if someone has a lot of verified meets it would put me off nowadays x Why would it put you off? In all honesty I’m not sure .. I suppose as a guy I’d feel under pressure to perform and live upto what the lady is used to . Us guys are fickle and like to think we’re the best or got the biggest cocks or the best bodies .. " Each to their own I guess. | |||
"My original profile had a lot of verifications on it .. when I was first single I was a child in a sweet shop, most were clubs or repeat meets and some were people I’d met who left and returned so verified me again . I noticed that showing so many verifications or Atleast the summary worked against me . So I started a new profile and I’m now very selective.. But if someone has a lot of verified meets it would put me off nowadays x Why would it put you off? In all honesty I’m not sure .. I suppose as a guy I’d feel under pressure to perform and live upto what the lady is used to . Us guys are fickle and like to think we’re the best or got the biggest cocks or the best bodies .. Each to their own I guess. " Exactly that’s the beauty of this .. I’m lucky and can afford to be choosey.. | |||
"Thoughts. Does it still happen ? Does it colour your opinion of someone how often they’ve ADMITTED to meeting? Is it only women who are judged ? Enquiring mind needs to know ? Xx " People try to judge and people do make assumptions | |||
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"My original profile had a lot of verifications on it .. when I was first single I was a child in a sweet shop, most were clubs or repeat meets and some were people I’d met who left and returned so verified me again . I noticed that showing so many verifications or Atleast the summary worked against me . So I started a new profile and I’m now very selective.. But if someone has a lot of verified meets it would put me off nowadays x Why would it put you off? In all honesty I’m not sure .. I suppose as a guy I’d feel under pressure to perform and live upto what the lady is used to . Us guys are fickle and like to think we’re the best or got the biggest cocks or the best bodies .. " I've had this, men intimidated by your "experience level". Honestly after about 5 it's all the same. The best people in bed are always the ones who listen to you and want to get to know what works for you. It's not about size or body. | |||
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"I won't meet people with more than 4 sex veris on their profile. Some people seem to think that's slut shaming. That's their problem, not mine. I think both men and women get judged the same way. Men may be more open and say they wouldn't meet someone woth lots of veris. Women would say no thanks but not give the reason. " Why no more than 4? Just curious. | |||
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" Why no more than 4? Just curious." I imagine most true swingers have more than 4 verifications. | |||
" Why no more than 4? Just curious. I imagine most true swingers have more than 4 verifications. " Yeah, that's why I'm curious, most couples and single females have more than 4 lol. | |||
"I won't meet people with more than 4 sex veris on their profile. Some people seem to think that's slut shaming. That's their problem, not mine. I think both men and women get judged the same way. Men may be more open and say they wouldn't meet someone woth lots of veris. Women would say no thanks but not give the reason. Why no more than 4? Just curious." jealousy simple | |||
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"Thoughts. Does it still happen ? Does it colour your opinion of someone how often they’ve ADMITTED to meeting? Is it only women who are judged ? Enquiring mind needs to know ? Xx " I'm pleased to see girls boldly declaring themselves more nowadays. After all we're on a swingers site??? On the other hand as individuals we have the choice to message or not? Another reason to READ THE PROFILE!)???? | |||
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"Thoughts. Does it still happen ? Does it colour your opinion of someone how often they’ve ADMITTED to meeting? Is it only women who are judged ? Enquiring mind needs to know ? Xx " as in a guy saying oh your such a slut in bed i love it ... or saying to a guy no thanks and him say well fuck off the you dirty slut... i no longer care either way as im happy with who i am if being a woman and on swinging/sex/dating site make me a slut then im hardly alone as there are zillions of us sluts (including male wanna be ones (fake profiles lol) | |||
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"I won't meet people with more than 4 sex veris on their profile. Some people seem to think that's slut shaming. That's their problem, not mine. I think both men and women get judged the same way. Men may be more open and say they wouldn't meet someone woth lots of veris. Women would say no thanks but not give the reason. Why no more than 4? Just curious." No more than 4 showing on their profile. Because me and they are not compatible. | |||
"I won't meet people with more than 4 sex veris on their profile. Some people seem to think that's slut shaming. That's their problem, not mine. I think both men and women get judged the same way. Men may be more open and say they wouldn't meet someone woth lots of veris. Women would say no thanks but not give the reason. " Does that mean when/if you meet 5 people and get verified by them all you would be leaving Fab? | |||
" No more than 4 showing on their profile. Because me and they are not compatible. " I could display only 3 verifications but have had sex with hundreds. How would you know ? | |||
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"It makes no difference what people think of how many verifications I have, I’m too busy having fun to care " | |||
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" Why no more than 4? Just curious. I imagine most true swingers have more than 4 verifications. " I imagine most people beyond their early twenties have had sex with more than four people, verified on a sex site or not. It’s an fascinatingly unrealistic criteria for a swinging site. | |||
" Why no more than 4? Just curious. I imagine most true swingers have more than 4 verifications. I imagine most people beyond their early twenties have had sex with more than four people, verified on a sex site or not. It’s an fascinatingly unrealistic criteria for a swinging site." People are so judgemental | |||
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"Thank you people for your responses. Educating read, very enlightening. Much appreciated as a newbie, who recently had someone who doesn’t know me imply I was making poor choices. Safe, sane, consensual, legal, over 21 so kickers to it ! " You do you, I have loads of verifications and if people think it makes me a slut, so be it, I'll wear that crown with pride! | |||
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"Absolutely let’s just reclaim the word. I am a slut and proud to be one. I am a very choosy slut because I can be " | |||
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"Thank you people for your responses. Educating read, very enlightening. Much appreciated as a newbie, who recently had someone who doesn’t know me imply I was making poor choices. Safe, sane, consensual, legal, over 21 so kickers to it ! " It's funny when people who don't know you make assumptions. Whether you're meeting 1 person or 1,000 people a year, as long as you're happy that's all that matters. | |||
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"I don't think you can win as different people are looking for different things. I've been told I have too many previously (even though they were very kind about me) and don't think I have all that many, but I've also been told I don't have any recent enough. You have to accept you can't be all things to everyone. Personally I'd like to be judged on the content rather than the quantity. " What difference would it make if they didn't like the content of your veris rather than the quantity? You have too many showing for me, but that just means we're not compatible. | |||
"I don't think you can win as different people are looking for different things. I've been told I have too many previously (even though they were very kind about me) and don't think I have all that many, but I've also been told I don't have any recent enough. You have to accept you can't be all things to everyone. Personally I'd like to be judged on the content rather than the quantity. What difference would it make if they didn't like the content of your veris rather than the quantity? You have too many showing for me, but that just means we're not compatible. " Yes, agreed, based in your personal way of viewing things, which makes my point I think. Some will judge by photos, some by what others say from personal in the flesh meeting and others by numbers one way or the other. All that really matters is to be who you are and accept with grace that it won't be what everyone finds attractive for whatever reason. | |||
"Absolutely let’s just reclaim the word. I am a slut and proud to be one. I am a very choosy slut because I can be " Love the word slut ,,, definitely reclaim the word but not the negative judgement thrown with it. Also a very choosy slut x | |||
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"I don't think you can win as different people are looking for different things. I've been told I have too many previously (even though they were very kind about me) and don't think I have all that many, but I've also been told I don't have any recent enough. You have to accept you can't be all things to everyone. Personally I'd like to be judged on the content rather than the quantity. What difference would it make if they didn't like the content of your veris rather than the quantity? You have too many showing for me, but that just means we're not compatible. Yes, agreed, based in your personal way of viewing things, which makes my point I think. Some will judge by photos, some by what others say from personal in the flesh meeting and others by numbers one way or the other. All that really matters is to be who you are and accept with grace that it won't be what everyone finds attractive for whatever reason. " I agree. I think people get too annoyed when they are excluded. I don't care how many veris people have, I just don't want to meet them if they have them showing. I prefer private people. People have their own reasons for not wanting to meet, and they should be respected. | |||
"Absolutely let’s just reclaim the word. I am a slut and proud to be one. I am a very choosy slut because I can be Love the word slut ,,, definitely reclaim the word but not the negative judgement thrown with it. Also a very choosy slut x " Choosy how? | |||
"I don't think you can win as different people are looking for different things. I've been told I have too many previously (even though they were very kind about me) and don't think I have all that many, but I've also been told I don't have any recent enough. You have to accept you can't be all things to everyone. Personally I'd like to be judged on the content rather than the quantity. What difference would it make if they didn't like the content of your veris rather than the quantity? You have too many showing for me, but that just means we're not compatible. Yes, agreed, based in your personal way of viewing things, which makes my point I think. Some will judge by photos, some by what others say from personal in the flesh meeting and others by numbers one way or the other. All that really matters is to be who you are and accept with grace that it won't be what everyone finds attractive for whatever reason. I agree. I think people get too annoyed when they are excluded. I don't care how many veris people have, I just don't want to meet them if they have them showing. I prefer private people. People have their own reasons for not wanting to meet, and they should be respected. " Totally. I've always figured that for me it shows people that I'm genuine and caring about the feelings of those I meet, as well as their needs. Some might say that hiding veris. suggests something to hide. If we can't respect that others see things differently this probably isn't the place to be. I've never really understood those who take the rejection of people they've never met so badly. It's a gut instinct - you either like what you see or you don't. It can't be personal if it's from a complete stranger. | |||
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"Absolutely let’s just reclaim the word. I am a slut and proud to be one. I am a very choosy slut because I can be Love the word slut ,,, definitely reclaim the word but not the negative judgement thrown with it. Also a very choosy slut x Personality. Integrity. Warmth. Safe play. Respect. Intelligence. Humour. Compassion. Physical attraction plays a small part to be honest x Choosy how?" | |||
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"That’s how I’m choosy " Bravo you! We all have to be who we are and not try to please everyone. Nice feeling when we do mind! | |||
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"I love being a dirty slut for all to fuck,love men knowing that. " Which really shows there’s a diversity even among us sluts because I would hate that feeling. Wouldn’t it be boring if we were all the same though?! | |||
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"I won't meet people with more than 4 sex veris on their profile. Some people seem to think that's slut shaming. That's their problem, not mine. I think both men and women get judged the same way. Men may be more open and say they wouldn't meet someone woth lots of veris. Women would say no thanks but not give the reason. " I've had 2 long term parters, I'm currently on my 3rd (forever one). I'm a swinger so I've uses up my 4 chances. Please feel free to block us. We're obversly not compatible with you. We prefer exsprianced players who can tease and simulate the mind as well as the body duing sex. | |||
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"That’s how I’m choosy " Do you think that people who meet based purely on physical attraction are sluts? | |||
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"That’s how I’m choosy Do you think that people who meet based purely on physical attraction are sluts? " astute observation | |||
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"I find it interesting that there's a noticable hierarchy. " I'm never sure who is at the top. | |||
"I think shaming happens across all genders, but women probably get it more. I had a message on here from a much older man who told me I shouldn’t be such a whore at my young age because nobody will want to marry me. It did make me laugh! " Lol! They say that like we all want to get married in the first place | |||
"I find it interesting that there's a noticable hierarchy. I'm never sure who is at the top. " | |||
"I won't meet people with more than 4 sex veris on their profile. Some people seem to think that's slut shaming. That's their problem, not mine. I think both men and women get judged the same way. Men may be more open and say they wouldn't meet someone woth lots of veris. Women would say no thanks but not give the reason. " Even i have more than 4 veris Something tells me you're in the wrong place | |||
"I won't meet people with more than 4 sex veris on their profile. Some people seem to think that's slut shaming. That's their problem, not mine. I think both men and women get judged the same way. Men may be more open and say they wouldn't meet someone woth lots of veris. Women would say no thanks but not give the reason. Even i have more than 4 veris Something tells me you're in the wrong place " Why? | |||
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" Why no more than 4? Just curious. I imagine most true swingers have more than 4 verifications. " | |||
"I won't meet people with more than 4 sex veris on their profile. Some people seem to think that's slut shaming. That's their problem, not mine. I think both men and women get judged the same way. Men may be more open and say they wouldn't meet someone woth lots of veris. Women would say no thanks but not give the reason. Even i have more than 4 veris Something tells me you're in the wrong place " It is not a place. It is an open Internet resource. | |||
"From a tgurl perspective I get called a slut merely because I enjoy giving men sexual pleasures,it doesn't really bother me but I do get tired of hearing it from men on here " I get this too, it's very common. | |||
"I won't meet people with more than 4 sex veris on their profile. Some people seem to think that's slut shaming. That's their problem, not mine. I think both men and women get judged the same way. Men may be more open and say they wouldn't meet someone woth lots of veris. Women would say no thanks but not give the reason. Even i have more than 4 veris Something tells me you're in the wrong place Why?" Because this a place where the whole aim is to interact with the community in order to make friends and have sexual relations with said friends. Swinging is actually the opposite of monogamy. | |||
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"I won't meet people with more than 4 sex veris on their profile. Some people seem to think that's slut shaming. That's their problem, not mine. I think both men and women get judged the same way. Men may be more open and say they wouldn't meet someone woth lots of veris. Women would say no thanks but not give the reason. Even i have more than 4 veris Something tells me you're in the wrong place It is not a place. It is an open Internet resource." An open or closed internet source is a place..... Its a place on the internet. a particular position, point, or area in space; a location. Is the definition of a place. This site is located at the web address. By definition a place is not limited to geographical use. | |||
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"I couldn't give a toss realy... Do what you want for me" I think youre clearly the winner here! | |||
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"That's rich saying no more than 4 when you are hiding your profile or thinks she's precious lol " Bit two faced with your comment I think. You're standing on one side of this debate and slipping snide remarks about another. Isn't this what those with loads of veris have been complaining about and you go and do it for someone who doesn't. Sounds like those on both sides are as bad as each other with putting others down due to their veris. I'd have expected those with copious veris would have been more, not less understanding. | |||
"Bugger, I read that as "Slut Sharing" " I'd be up for that.... | |||
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"I won't meet people with more than 4 sex veris on their profile. Some people seem to think that's slut shaming. That's their problem, not mine. I think both men and women get judged the same way. Men may be more open and say they wouldn't meet someone woth lots of veris. Women would say no thanks but not give the reason. Even i have more than 4 veris Something tells me you're in the wrong place Why? Because this a place where the whole aim is to interact with the community in order to make friends and have sexual relations with said friends. Swinging is actually the opposite of monogamy. " Each to their own! People come on fab for various reasons so your aim is most definitely not everyone else's. Not everyone wants to fuck their way through the site and shouldn't be told they're in the wrong place just because they don't want to do that. | |||
"I think shaming happens across all genders, but women probably get it more. I had a message on here from a much older man who told me I shouldn’t be such a whore at my young age because nobody will want to marry me. It did make me laugh! " I am waaaay older than you and have received similar. ‘You don’t want to be on here too long or no one normal will want you.’ The double standard is alive and thriving in fabland. | |||
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"Women will always be called sluts Men will always be called studs Sad but true" It takes zero skill for women to sleep around that's why your shamed it's really that simple | |||
"Women will always be called sluts Men will always be called studs Sad but true It takes zero skill for women to sleep around that's why your shamed it's really that simple " And that makes it acceptable? There are men who equally don’t have to put in any effort to have sex, and yet they still don’t get slut shamed. | |||
"I think shaming happens across all genders, but women probably get it more. I had a message on here from a much older man who told me I shouldn’t be such a whore at my young age because nobody will want to marry me. It did make me laugh! I am waaaay older than you and have received similar. ‘You don’t want to be on here too long or no one normal will want you.’ The double standard is alive and thriving in fabland." Ugh, how rude! | |||
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"I won't meet people with more than 4 sex veris on their profile. Some people seem to think that's slut shaming. That's their problem, not mine. I think both men and women get judged the same way. Men may be more open and say they wouldn't meet someone woth lots of veris. Women would say no thanks but not give the reason. Even i have more than 4 veris Something tells me you're in the wrong place Why? Because this a place where the whole aim is to interact with the community in order to make friends and have sexual relations with said friends. Swinging is actually the opposite of monogamy. Each to their own! People come on fab for various reasons so your aim is most definitely not everyone else's. Not everyone wants to fuck their way through the site and shouldn't be told they're in the wrong place just because they don't want to do that. " | |||
"I receive horrendously insulting messages all the time....because I’ve “met far too many people” Supposedly you shouldn’t actually meet people on here.....just chat online!" See it as a positive. They've shown how nasty they are and you don't need to waste time meeting them. I wouldn't give the real reason why I wouldn't meet them, I don't see any need. Always be polite. | |||
"Women will always be called sluts Men will always be called studs Sad but true It takes zero skill for women to sleep around that's why your shamed it's really that simple " Trust me it takes an awful lot of skill. Contrary to popular opinion it takes discernment, taste and maturity to seek out skilled lovers who truly understand a woman's sexuality. Only men who understand that are truly confident with a promiscuous woman and not threatened by her. | |||
"Women will always be called sluts Men will always be called studs Sad but true It takes zero skill for women to sleep around that's why your shamed it's really that simple " Not understanding. It takes no skill for either sex to have plentiful shit shags. Slut shaming is more to do with men needing to know who the father of their partners child is, at a basic almost subconscious level. | |||
"Women will always be called sluts Men will always be called studs Sad but true It takes zero skill for women to sleep around that's why your shamed it's really that simple Trust me it takes an awful lot of skill. Contrary to popular opinion it takes discernment, taste and maturity to seek out skilled lovers who truly understand a woman's sexuality. Only men who understand that are truly confident with a promiscuous woman and not threatened by her." Well said. I’m surprised (and saddened) how many men on here have been intimidated by plentiful veris and female sexual confidence. They seem to think that they have to compete with all the previous meets, which is absolutely not the case. My memory isn’t that good, lol. | |||
"Women will always be called sluts Men will always be called studs Sad but true It takes zero skill for women to sleep around that's why your shamed it's really that simple Trust me it takes an awful lot of skill. Contrary to popular opinion it takes discernment, taste and maturity to seek out skilled lovers who truly understand a woman's sexuality. Only men who understand that are truly confident with a promiscuous woman and not threatened by her. Well said. I’m surprised (and saddened) how many men on here have been intimidated by plentiful veris and female sexual confidence. They seem to think that they have to compete with all the previous meets, which is absolutely not the case. My memory isn’t that good, lol." | |||
"Women will always be called sluts Men will always be called studs Sad but true It takes zero skill for women to sleep around that's why your shamed it's really that simple " | |||
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"I receive horrendously insulting messages all the time....because I’ve “met far too many people” Supposedly you shouldn’t actually meet people on here.....just chat online!" Goliath don't that make you an Internet slut | |||
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"I was shamed as well just rode it out and told the guys mates he had a small dick couldnt get hard " What happened? How did you know his mates? How did he call you a slut? | |||
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"Women will always be called sluts Men will always be called studs Sad but true It takes zero skill for women to sleep around that's why your shamed it's really that simple And that makes it acceptable? There are men who equally don’t have to put in any effort to have sex, and yet they still don’t get slut shamed. " Actually in my friends group im the slut and im shamed for it quite often but in a man slut so swings and round abouts | |||
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"Women will always be called sluts Men will always be called studs Sad but true It takes zero skill for women to sleep around that's why your shamed it's really that simple Trust me it takes an awful lot of skill. Contrary to popular opinion it takes discernment, taste and maturity to seek out skilled lovers who truly understand a woman's sexuality. Only men who understand that are truly confident with a promiscuous woman and not threatened by her." Your conclusions are a tad unrelated. The first statement I completely agree with. The later total bs. 1. Because someone may choose not to meet with someone who's fucked the site doesn't in anyway imply he's threated by her. His choice may have no bearing whatsoever with her confidence in her self or lack of judgement in who she meets. 2. They can be confident with an overtly promiscuous women without wanting to meet them too There reasons can be more about, availability, interested in meeting a person regularly, not feeling the need to battle to get a piece of their time, increase in health risks, reducing the chances of meeting someone who also isn't into bed post notching. 3. There's a lot of men who do not understand your first statement who will meet anyone who opens their legs to them. It's not about who or what the woman is for some of these guys, but rather they just need to get off and it can be with anyone. It's not always about threatened as you too easily assume. | |||
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"Women will always be called sluts Men will always be called studs Sad but true It takes zero skill for women to sleep around that's why your shamed it's really that simple Trust me it takes an awful lot of skill. Contrary to popular opinion it takes discernment, taste and maturity to seek out skilled lovers who truly understand a woman's sexuality. Only men who understand that are truly confident with a promiscuous woman and not threatened by her. Your conclusions are a tad unrelated. The first statement I completely agree with. The later total bs. 1. Because someone may choose not to meet with someone who's fucked the site doesn't in anyway imply he's threated by her. His choice may have no bearing whatsoever with her confidence in her self or lack of judgement in who she meets. 2. They can be confident with an overtly promiscuous women without wanting to meet them too There reasons can be more about, availability, interested in meeting a person regularly, not feeling the need to battle to get a piece of their time, increase in health risks, reducing the chances of meeting someone who also isn't into bed post notching. 3. There's a lot of men who do not understand your first statement who will meet anyone who opens their legs to them. It's not about who or what the woman is for some of these guys, but rather they just need to get off and it can be with anyone. It's not always about threatened as you too easily assume." You’re right it’s not always about being threatened. But a lot of the time it actually is. Not all verifications on someone’s profile are shown, and verifications likely aren’t given for every meet, so nobody is going to know for a fact how many people someone has met. Someone with 10 verifications may well have met 10 people and someone with 1 verification may well have met 20 people but has asked not to be verified. Nobody would know for sure. | |||
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"I haven't seen actual shaming on here but some peoples profiles beggar belief! On here 9 months and 80 verifications is a meet every 3 or 4 days! Do you need to post every verification? I dont! So some people are their own worst enemies. But there does seem to be doible standards, a Woman posts 50 verifications its "whoa, not going there good knows what id catch!" a Guy Though and the theory is "oh he must be good!!" " Many people in relationships have sex every 3 or 4 days. Or more often. They display the veris to attract similar people. And to put off incompatible people. It only takes one fuck to catch something. People who fuck more tend to be more aware of testing. They may be more safe that the types who fuck less often but never get tested. | |||
"And to the opposite i would rather meet someone with plenty of gpod veris, theyre more likely to be good in bed because lets face it who wants someone with a princess complex who just starfishes in bed? " what is a princess complex ? | |||
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"And to the opposite i would rather meet someone with plenty of gpod veris, theyre more likely to be good in bed because lets face it who wants someone with a princess complex who just starfishes in bed? what is a princess complex ?" A girl who feels that they don't have to do anything in the bedroom and just takes it, as if the other person is lucky to just be there so has to do all the work | |||
"And to the opposite i would rather meet someone with plenty of gpod veris, theyre more likely to be good in bed because lets face it who wants someone with a princess complex who just starfishes in bed? what is a princess complex ? A girl who feels that they don't have to do anything in the bedroom and just takes it, as if the other person is lucky to just be there so has to do all the work" is there lots of princesses on this site then ? | |||
"I quite like being called a slut etc but only when it's appropriate and in context " No issues with that at all, often adds a bit dimension to play. Also a term of affection lol | |||
"Call me a slut, I'll look at you with a blank face walk off and sleep with someone else that is interested that makes me laugh and smile" Would you have a tear in your eyes as you were walking away? If anyone dared call me a slut I would thrown them on the bed and give them the ploughing if their life | |||
"Call me a slut, I'll look at you with a blank face walk off and sleep with someone else that is interested that makes me laugh and smile Would you have a tear in your eyes as you were walking away? If anyone dared call me a slut I would thrown them on the bed and give them the ploughing if their life" Exactly my friend | |||
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