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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They have a bad rep on here for some reason. But if you ask me it's a good tool.. You wink, they wink back, you send a message. Perhaps the site should make it so we are unable to message unless there's a mutual wink. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Perhaps the site should make it so we are unable to message unless there's a mutual wink. "
It would be more fun if we are unable to massage unless there's a mutual wank. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good for guys. Bad for girls. I mean let’s face it. Girls get messages and winks by the dozen ( at lest my wife does ) therefore they don’t really respond to them. Where as the numbers are lower for dudes. So a gentle wink from a woman is very inviting. |
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"A lot of ‘straight’ men seem to use it I find"
I never wink first. Very lazy for a single guy not to be able to send a message. But I do like getting them, even from guys (which I ignore without getting offended) and a recent one did lead to a very delicious meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t understand why people get so triggered by them. It’s a wink for heavens sake! An ice breaker to see if there’s a mutual attraction.
What I don’t understand is when someone winks, you return the wink to show you like what you see and ......nothing! If someone returns our wink we will always follow it up with a message.
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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago
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I love the feature, I know most women and couples don’t check theirs but a fair few utilise the feature when searching. From my perspective their interest prompts a response from me... this means they’re familiar with my profile and like the look of it and my message will be read and their decision will come from the contents of it. No time wasted on anyone’s end and no hurt feelings. Win win |
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By *ickCal OP Couple
over a year ago
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"They have a bad rep on here for some reason. But if you ask me it's a good tool.. You wink, they wink back, you send a message. Perhaps the site should make it so we are unable to message unless there's a mutual wink. "
Good idea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me too it's a good way of breaking the ice x it saves you from asking what was the weight of the polar bear and when they say don't know you say neither me i just thought it would break the ice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes it works for us at times but some people think it’s perceived as lazy , we don’t look at it that that but a way of breaking the ice "
its not lazy it's a good thing xx it's better than blanking them i hate that it's ignorant
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes it works for us at times but some people think it’s perceived as lazy , we don’t look at it that that but a way of breaking the ice its not lazy it's a good thing xx it's better than blanking them i hate that it's ignorant "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i usually dont notice i have them, i never wink but understand its useful for couples and women who get a lot of messages but that kinda tells me they wont have time to get to know me so not much point   |
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