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over a year ago
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We have a night out planned in Colchester in a couple of weeks our ultimate fantasy is a confident woman / couple to approach hubby introducing etc buying is a drink and chatting us up essentially think he would deal with an approach in public better than me...
do people think this is something that would even happen or just pure fantasy ?? |
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"we've been approached twice in public by couples, so it does happen"
And how did they first approach you as I would love to have this happen on a night out. To bump into a couple who turn out to be swingers too.
Molly
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"we've been approached twice in public by couples, so it does happen
And how did they first approach you as I would love to have this happen on a night out. To bump into a couple who turn out to be swingers too.
Molly
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Both times its been when we were on holiday, they just walked up to us and started chatting. It was obvious to both of us by their conversation and general demeanour that they were chatting us up. To be honest we weren't interested either time and that can make things a bit awkward. I think you stand much more chance of realising your fantasy if you arrange to meet someone from here who's willing to indulge in a bit of role play |
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"Personally I think it is highly unlikely to happen. I think you would have a far better chance in a club.
Not to play with just chat really more social just not planned
Molly
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oh I didn't realise that . There are organised socials you can go to, have you ever considered that and we always meet socially first with no playing ever on a first meet.  |
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"we've been approached twice in public by couples, so it does happen
And how did they first approach you as I would love to have this happen on a night out. To bump into a couple who turn out to be swingers too.
Molly
xX"
Glad we aren’t the only ones lol |
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"I think you stand much more chance of realising your fantasy if you arrange to meet someone from here who's willing to indulge in a bit of role play
That's a good suggestion"
That’s a good idea maybe go down that route x |
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"Personally I think it is highly unlikely to happen. I think you would have a far better chance in a club.
Not to play with just chat really more social just not planned
Molly
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oh I didn't realise that . There are organised socials you can go to, have you ever considered that and we always meet socially first with no playing ever on a first meet. "
Yes we help with the Gloucester Social that’s on every month, it’s more the randomness I like the idea off 
Molly
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"Personally I think it is highly unlikely to happen. I think you would have a far better chance in a club.
Not to play with just chat really more social just not planned
Molly
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oh I didn't realise that . There are organised socials you can go to, have you ever considered that and we always meet socially first with no playing ever on a first meet.
Yes we help with the Gloucester Social that’s on every month, it’s more the randomness I like the idea off
Molly
XX"
Well good luck, it happened twice to us so it could happen to you
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"Personally I think it is highly unlikely to happen. I think you would have a far better chance in a club.
Not to play with just chat really more social just not planned
Molly
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oh I didn't realise that . There are organised socials you can go to, have you ever considered that and we always meet socially first with no playing ever on a first meet.
Yes we help with the Gloucester Social that’s on every month, it’s more the randomness I like the idea off
Molly
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Well good luck, it happened twice to us so it could happen to you
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You never know, just need to fit it in now. As when we do go out it’s usually to a club lol
Molly
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"We have a night out planned in Colchester in a couple of weeks our ultimate fantasy is a confident woman / couple to approach hubby introducing etc buying is a drink and chatting us up essentially think he would deal with an approach in public better than me...
do people think this is something that would even happen or just pure fantasy ?? "
You could always set something up loosely on here, then it’ll feel quite spontaneous but you’ve at least it’s not a complete stranger |
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"Personally I think it is highly unlikely to happen. I think you would have a far better chance in a club.
Not to play with just chat really more social just not planned
Molly
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oh I didn't realise that . There are organised socials you can go to, have you ever considered that and we always meet socially first with no playing ever on a first meet.
Yes we help with the Gloucester Social that’s on every month, it’s more the randomness I like the idea off
Molly
XX
Well good luck, it happened twice to us so it could happen to you
You never know, just need to fit it in now. As when we do go out it’s usually to a club lol
Molly
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I genuinely don't know why these people approached us, neither of us think we look like swingers (whatever they're supposed to look like) except I think I might dress slightly differently maybe. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We have a night out planned in Colchester in a couple of weeks our ultimate fantasy is a confident woman / couple to approach hubby introducing etc buying is a drink and chatting us up essentially think he would deal with an approach in public better than me...
do people think this is something that would even happen or just pure fantasy ??
You could always set something up loosely on here, then it’ll feel quite spontaneous but you’ve at least it’s not a complete stranger"
Think that is going to try and be the plan fingers crossed |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It is an excellent fantasy but once achieved, it's no longer as such...then back to the 'drawing board'..."
Won’t take long to come up with more so that’s not an issue   |
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"Personally I think it is highly unlikely to happen. I think you would have a far better chance in a club.
Not to play with just chat really more social just not planned
Molly
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oh I didn't realise that . There are organised socials you can go to, have you ever considered that and we always meet socially first with no playing ever on a first meet.
Yes we help with the Gloucester Social that’s on every month, it’s more the randomness I like the idea off
Molly
XX
Well good luck, it happened twice to us so it could happen to you
You never know, just need to fit it in now. As when we do go out it’s usually to a club lol
Molly
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I genuinely don't know why these people approached us, neither of us think we look like swingers (whatever they're supposed to look like) except I think I might dress slightly differently maybe. "
I have noticed swingers are a lot more confident in their selfs with the way they dress, well I know I am since we started swinging, so maybe that comes across.
Molly
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