FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > Soft Swing or Full
Soft Swing or Full
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"We are a soft swing couple by choice ..how many on here stay soft swing or move on to full over time .....??"
We went the opposite, we find soft swing more erotic and requires more imagination, ultimately more fulfilling.
To be blunt also says in our profile. Why swap to do what we do anyway. Who actually gets the most out of swapping?
Horses for courses as they say |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Me and my partner sort of regard ourselves as soft swap/swimg. We've done everthing with others apart from have penatrative sex with each others partners. We found you set out in this game with ideas of how things will go down. But as you go on things evolve naturally. So I wouldn't say we'll stay soft swing as thing's are always evolving and you find yourselves breaking new ground all the time. As long as your communication is good, you read each other well and you go at your own speed you find your way together whatever you do or don't do. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
We are soft swing. We considered going full swing but it was not for us. But you never know what the future holds. Our younger selfs never considered swinging at all, but as you mature your outlook changes.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
We found that it depends on how we and the other couple get on. We thought we would never do a full swap and then decided we wanted to do that with a particular couple. Things evolve in surprising ways! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"we started full and moved to soft. "
We did, we and had some amazing sex with others without traditional swapping. So is soft swing all the way  As said in previous thread we found it triggers imagination and exploration. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ackal1Couple
over a year ago
Manchester |
We started soft and have dabbled with hard .
The risk is you end up getting more and more hard core to get your fix.
We now enjoy thinking up naughty, imaginative soft swing fun because it’s all about the fun and thrills or you just become fuck and go merchants..
However we do have the optional hard core fun if we desire.
Don’t be a sheep basically . Have fun your way!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
our first meet was a soft meet purely because we knew nothing about swinging it was 3 couples and us we played soft they all swapped still one of the best nights ever when i think back but the 2nd and from there on was full on ... but i can understand why some like soft swing and the benefits it can bring to a couple stay true you what you want that way everyone is happy |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"our first meet was a soft meet purely because we knew nothing about swinging it was 3 couples and us we played soft they all swapped still one of the best nights ever when i think back but the 2nd and from there on was full on ... but i can understand why some like soft swing and the benefits it can bring to a couple stay true you what you want that way everyone is happy"
It is is always down to personal choice not a critism, it is about what works for individuals.
We simply found it was just repetitive almost ritualistic and found you were going from meet to meet and going through the same motions and it was no longer working for us.
You can understand why a lot of partners stop playing, end up being solo on couples profiles.
Through soft swing we found it really did become quality and not quantity and explore new experiences and possibilities. We have had one or two try and force full swap on us after saying they are happy with soft swing.
Ultimately it works better for us and we can actually enjoy when we do, and clearly states our interest and intent on our profile
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
We can do both and happy with both it really depends on the people and the meet as to what we do. Communication is the key with all parties involved. Mr |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ensual 2 OP Couple
over a year ago
Blackpool |
Nice to see we are on the same page as may on here ...........we have done many things on our journey .....mostly enjoyable ...had many a laugh....for us its made us even closer as a couple ..fun times be it soft or maybe more with the right people ......nice to be open to any saucy ideas ..... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago
Birmingham |
We're have done both soft swap and full swap. We tend to go with the flow and see how the mood on the night takes us. Of course we respect others boundaries and wouldn't push them to go further than they wanted.
Mr2  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I think handling the emotional side of swinging is still an issue in this case because despite the fact that swinging looks simple, it throws up a lot of emotional issues that you must handle.
There are people who will never be able to handle this because it will tap into every stored up negative emotion that occurred in the past with a past partner with regards to fidelity, the aim is to neutralise those negative emotions and remove the stored up energy in them.. If soft swing helps you do this that's fine. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Done both but carnt really see the point of soft swing so we decided full swop is the way everyone got there own choices "
Ultimately it's what you want to get out of if. Personal choice - we just find that swaping does nothing for us. We have been called many things including wasters, fakes, amongst others simply because enjoy soft swing and won't swap, for all the reasons stated in previous threads. It is each to their own. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
We are just starting down this road (early 60s), looking to start with being in the same room another couple but only playing with own partner and watching/being watched. Is this something people do or is not allowing touching going far enough ? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"We are just starting down this road (early 60s), looking to start with being in the same room another couple but only playing with own partner and watching/being watched. Is this something people do or is not allowing touching going far enough ? "
It's your boundaries just make them clear before a meeting that's all. People do just like same room sex nothing wrong and don't let others pressure you.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"We are just starting down this road (early 60s), looking to start with being in the same room another couple but only playing with own partner and watching/being watched. Is this something people do or is not allowing touching going far enough ?
It's your boundaries just make them clear before a meeting that's all. People do just like same room sex nothing wrong and don't let others pressure you. "
Thanks |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
