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over a year ago
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As a TV, I often get messages from guys who are in a couple, ( which is great by the way and I always answer ) but “my question is” why do a majority of couple’s profiles always have only the women on show ? I’m puzzled |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think because the woman is the draw and the centre of things a lot in couples.
If there’s none at all of the man we are not interested.
G is terrible for being photographed but we manage a few!! - Mrs |
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They usually give one of four reasons. He can't have photos because of his job, she's no good with a camera, he doesn't like having his photo taken, they're only looking for singlemen\women.
It's up to them but we don't meet people unless we've seen photos of both |
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We've often wondered about the same.
Is it that women are used as the fish worm to catch the attention?
And/or men are cucks, enjoying a passive role?
It will be interesting to hear the views of others, especially from those with such profiles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We’ve tried but how do we make hubby look alluring?  "
I have learnt to always take the picture above your head looking down, it’s very flattering and good light
Never look down into the lens xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a couples profile because I'm in a long term relationship, he fully supports and encourages me but I do play on my own, with women 1:1. We do from time to time meet couples but are only interested in same partners. We do exchange further photos then. I don't have a single profile as I wouldn't want to lead people to believe I was single or a 'unicorn' looking for a threesome with them. So photos are of me as that's who plays x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We’ve tried but how do we make hubby look alluring? "
We have gotten some of our best couples pics by taking a short video and then screenshotting. Way more natural as Mr Cagey is uncooperative with photos and pulls faces hahahaha -Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is really off putting to have no or limited photos of the male half. We try but scooby is not photogenic or pulls faces which can make things difficult. Luna is the main draw of anyones attention at best of times which shadows any other attention. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a TV, I often get messages from guys who are in a couple, ( which is great by the way and I always answer ) but “my question is” why do a majority of couple’s profiles always have only the women on show ? I’m puzzled "
Most couple profiles are written by the guy and pictures of women draw in both guys and other ladies where guys do not draw the same attention. Often the picture of the guy may put others off, sad but true. You'd be surprised how many messages get asking to meet alone from couples.
We have both been singles and we know how it works. Why do solo guys have pictures of ladies on their profiles?
If you want to ask why we only have 1 pic on our profile in public |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think confidence is a big factor. Peach, being a natural extrovert, exudes confidence, so lots of pics. Me, not so much but I do have moments when I do feel confident and try my best to express my 'sexy'. We also get a fair share of couple profiles, that look at or message us, where it's the reverse; lots of dick pics and a couple of the female.
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"As a TV, I often get messages from guys who are in a couple, ( which is great by the way and I always answer ) but “my question is” why do a majority of couple’s profiles always have only the women on show ? I’m puzzled "
mine only has me on show because im looking for a female to play with |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We have both on show.
I think most couples only show the woman or very few Male pics due to the attention a male pic gets?
On our old profile which we had for 2 years the male got about 50 fabs the female 1000 plus  X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a TV, I often get messages from guys who are in a couple, ( which is great by the way and I always answer ) but “my question is” why do a majority of couple’s profiles always have only the women on show ? I’m puzzled
mine only has me on show because im looking for a female to play with"
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"We have both on show.
I think most couples only show the woman or very few Male pics due to the attention a male pic gets?
On our old profile which we had for 2 years the male got about 50 fabs the female 1000 plus X"
I'm not bothered about the amount of fabs a man's photos have but if I'm going to meet him I want to know what he looks like |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have both on show.
I think most couples only show the woman or very few Male pics due to the attention a male pic gets?
On our old profile which we had for 2 years the male got about 50 fabs the female 1000 plus X
I'm not bothered about the amount of fabs a man's photos have but if I'm going to meet him I want to know what he looks like"
But that I would hope would come as a dialogue progressed. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think confidence is a big factor. Peach, being a natural extrovert, exudes confidence, so lots of pics. Me, not so much but I do have moments when I do feel confident and try my best to express my 'sexy'. We also get a fair share of couple profiles, that look at or message us, where it's the reverse; lots of dick pics and a couple of the female.
Fuzz"
You both look bloody great x |
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"We have both on show.
I think most couples only show the woman or very few Male pics due to the attention a male pic gets?
On our old profile which we had for 2 years the male got about 50 fabs the female 1000 plus X
I'm not bothered about the amount of fabs a man's photos have but if I'm going to meet him I want to know what he looks like
But that I would hope would come as a dialogue progressed."
We've met couples where we've waited for photos of the guy until the dialogue is established. Without exception when it comes to the actual meet the guy has very obviously not been interested. We just don't do it any more |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have both on show.
I think most couples only show the woman or very few Male pics due to the attention a male pic gets?
On our old profile which we had for 2 years the male got about 50 fabs the female 1000 plus X
I'm not bothered about the amount of fabs a man's photos have but if I'm going to meet him I want to know what he looks like
But that I would hope would come as a dialogue progressed.
We've met couples where we've waited for photos of the guy until the dialogue is established. Without exception when it comes to the actual meet the guy has very obviously not been interested. We just don't do it any more"
Wow. Maybe the guys are just too shy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a TV, I often get messages from guys who are in a couple, ( which is great by the way and I always answer ) but “my question is” why do a majority of couple’s profiles always have only the women on show ? I’m puzzled "
Personally speaking their are more of my partner because I’m less confident about what I look like naked |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have both on show.
I think most couples only show the woman or very few Male pics due to the attention a male pic gets?
On our old profile which we had for 2 years the male got about 50 fabs the female 1000 plus X
I'm not bothered about the amount of fabs a man's photos have but if I'm going to meet him I want to know what he looks like
But that I would hope would come as a dialogue progressed.
We've met couples where we've waited for photos of the guy until the dialogue is established. Without exception when it comes to the actual meet the guy has very obviously not been interested. We just don't do it any more
Wow. Maybe the guys are just too shy. "
Wow also, don't think we have ever met when the guy isn't the one can't wait to get the action going. It's has always been the lady in a lot of cases has been the less enthusiastic one.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think confidence is a big factor. Peach, being a natural extrovert, exudes confidence, so lots of pics. Me, not so much but I do have moments when I do feel confident and try my best to express my 'sexy'. We also get a fair share of couple profiles, that look at or message us, where it's the reverse; lots of dick pics and a couple of the female.
Fuzz
You both look bloody great x "
Thanking you. Not bad yourself, you blonde bombshell 
Fuzz |
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"We have both on show.
I think most couples only show the woman or very few Male pics due to the attention a male pic gets?
On our old profile which we had for 2 years the male got about 50 fabs the female 1000 plus X
I'm not bothered about the amount of fabs a man's photos have but if I'm going to meet him I want to know what he looks like
But that I would hope would come as a dialogue progressed.
We've met couples where we've waited for photos of the guy until the dialogue is established. Without exception when it comes to the actual meet the guy has very obviously not been interested. We just don't do it any more
Wow. Maybe the guys are just too shy. "
No. One guy revealed when we got there that he was only interested in watching his wife with another woman, given that I'm straight I'm not sure how either of them thought it was going to pan out. The others were just clearly going along with it to keep their partner happy. There's very little more depressing than realising someone's willing to take one for the team and you're the one being taken  |
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"We have both on show.
I think most couples only show the woman or very few Male pics due to the attention a male pic gets?
On our old profile which we had for 2 years the male got about 50 fabs the female 1000 plus X
I'm not bothered about the amount of fabs a man's photos have but if I'm going to meet him I want to know what he looks like
But that I would hope would come as a dialogue progressed.
We've met couples where we've waited for photos of the guy until the dialogue is established. Without exception when it comes to the actual meet the guy has very obviously not been interested. We just don't do it any more
Wow. Maybe the guys are just too shy.
Wow also, don't think we have ever met when the guy isn't the one can't wait to get the action going. It's has always been the lady in a lot of cases has been the less enthusiastic one.
Live and learn "
That's our experience...now . |
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We have a couple of pics of jake on our profile but the majority of pics are of me.
Jake is the one that uploads most of them though x
I guess it's just that most of the pics are taken by him and its hard to get pics of the 2 of us together x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have a couple of pics of jake on our profile but the majority of pics are of me.
Jake is the one that uploads most of them though x
I guess it's just that most of the pics are taken by him and its hard to get pics of the 2 of us together x "
Statistically guys are more likely to want to share pictures of their partners than woman are. Just throw that one in |
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By (user no longer on site)
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To make a choice of taking it to a fab meet then we like to see both people we don't need face or cock pictures just a general body shot clothed is fine. Without this we don't connect further. Just our rules for us not something others need to follow. Mr |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To make a choice of taking it to a fab meet then we like to see both people we don't need face or cock pictures just a general body shot clothed is fine. Without this we don't connect further. Just our rules for us not something others need to follow. Mr "
Do need really to see pictures of both if heading for a meeting, again they have to be recent ones lol. How often do you get to a meet and find a very different people.
Just if having them on your profile or not detracts from initial contact..... is it the ladies that actually attract the attention and the guys are kinda superfluous. |
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We find this frustrating
As a straight woman, a profile full of just the lady does nothing for me,I need to see the male.
If such a profile contacts us and doesn't attach a pic of the male,we don't respond.Spent too long chatting in the past ,to find there is then no attraction.
I get why couples do this when only the female plays ,but you often find threads from couples asking why they only get male attention ,not much mail from couples when they have an all female profile.
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"We find this frustrating
As a straight woman, a profile full of just the lady does nothing for me,I need to see the male.
If such a profile contacts us and doesn't attach a pic of the male,we don't respond.Spent too long chatting in the past ,to find there is then no attraction.
I get why couples do this when only the female plays ,but you often find threads from couples asking why they only get male attention ,not much mail from couples when they have an all female profile.
Miss"
yep! I actually think its insulting that they imagine I will just have sex with whoever turns up on the night but the women on their profile has seen what Mr N looks like. To me it show a lack of respect for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have both on show.
I think most couples only show the woman or very few Male pics due to the attention a male pic gets?
On our old profile which we had for 2 years the male got about 50 fabs the female 1000 plus X
I'm not bothered about the amount of fabs a man's photos have but if I'm going to meet him I want to know what he looks like
But that I would hope would come as a dialogue progressed.
We've met couples where we've waited for photos of the guy until the dialogue is established. Without exception when it comes to the actual meet the guy has very obviously not been interested. We just don't do it any more
Wow. Maybe the guys are just too shy.
Wow also, don't think we have ever met when the guy isn't the one can't wait to get the action going. It's has always been the lady in a lot of cases has been the less enthusiastic one.
Live and learn
That's our experience...now . "
I'm just a little slow on the uptake sometimes. Too polite, working on it though as certainly not shy. |
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"As a TV, I often get messages from guys who are in a couple, ( which is great by the way and I always answer ) but “my question is” why do a majority of couple’s profiles always have only the women on show ? I’m puzzled "
coz the woman looks sexy and the guy doesn't  |
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