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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
Leeds |
Fabsteroos,
Musing again...
Whilst looking through numerous profiles today I wonder what puts you off messaging someone from viewing their profile?
For me it’s entitled bossy stuff, comes across as nasty.
Bhubaysi x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fabsteroos,
Musing again...
Whilst looking through numerous profiles today I wonder what puts you off messaging someone from viewing their profile?
For me it’s entitled bossy stuff, comes across as nasty.
Bhubaysi x
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Being genetically related. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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people with sense of entitlement
beards
people who try to deceive to get meets
beards
people who send pics 10 years out of date
beards
bullies
beards
snobs
beards |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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people with sense of entitlement
beards
people who try to deceive to get meets
beards
people who send pics 10 years out of date
beards
bullies
beards
snobs
beards "
Don't shave please some of us love the feel of a beard or stubble |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who sound like they are pro swingers, part of the elite, and only the select view are worthy of joining them. People who lists of rules you must obey, criteria you must meet, hoops you must jump through. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who sound like they are pro swingers, part of the elite, and only the select view are worthy of joining them. People who lists of rules you must obey, criteria you must meet, hoops you must jump through."
^^^^ This  |
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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago
Wiltshire and London |
"People who sound like they are pro swingers, part of the elite, and only the select view are worthy of joining them. People who lists of rules you must obey, criteria you must meet, hoops you must jump through.
^^^^ This "
Seconded. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a woman directing the crap out of me to do things to him and when i went to kiss him she nearly ripped our throats out, so im going for people with a list of rules!
messy dirty rooms
No social skills
Crass articulation
And someone who has missinf teeth that look like they wouldn't be out of place in the set of boys from the black stuff!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who sound like they are pro swingers, part of the elite, and only the select view are worthy of joining them. People who lists of rules you must obey, criteria you must meet, hoops you must jump through.
^^^^ This
Seconded."
Glad it's not just me thinking this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fabsteroos,
Musing again...
Whilst looking through numerous profiles today I wonder what puts you off messaging someone from viewing their profile?
For me it’s entitled bossy stuff, comes across as nasty.
Bhubaysi x
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I think looks can be deceiving in a good way...I am more for how they are when they talk with me
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know it's silly but I dont tend to message men who have a fuck load of pics of their penis stuck in various holes of a variety of women "
its not silly I have to agree with you
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Status's that say 'P0**ers and Porn
The use of legal or illegal highs
Sat on toilet pictures
pictures that have children's toys and baby related stuff in the background.
BDSM
Guys who either clearly haven't read my profile or think I'll make them the exception. |
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Gormless looks, like shocked they took a selfie.
Various angles of their dick.
With another girl on a singles account.
“Fill this in later” on a profile over a year old.
Promises of multiple orgasms and squirting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who sound like they are pro swingers, part of the elite, and only the select view are worthy of joining them. People who lists of rules you must obey, criteria you must meet, hoops you must jump through."
Yes. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
Smokers
Happy to meet people up to age 99
Lots of dick pics
That daft legal waffle that takes up half the profile text and is nonsense
"I am new here", when they have been on fab over a year
Bareback pics when they say they have safe sex ( no doubt it's the ex and he doesn't have her permission to display the photo)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fabsteroos,
Musing again...
Whilst looking through numerous profiles today I wonder what puts you off messaging someone from viewing their profile?
For me it’s entitled bossy stuff, comes across as nasty.
Bhubaysi x
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feet, narcotics, inebriation and uncoordinated tattoos, pungent odours and obnoxiousness  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Names like “pussysmasher”
Profiles that say cliched things like “I don’t bite unless you want me to” or “just ask”
Profiles that ask for people to teach them or lead them, it depends how that’s worded, but it generally means to me that they just want people for themselves not for giving and sharing.
Profiles that say the site is full of timewasters and fakes and go into a full rant asking if there’s anyone even real.
Probably other little things put me off too, but those are the general things - Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gormless looks, like shocked they took a selfie.
Various angles of their dick.
With another girl on a singles account.
“Fill this in later” on a profile over a year old.
Promises of multiple orgasms and squirting."
Excellent list. I agree lol - Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Exceptional males only 
MUST display verifications
420
No snow no blow (Really!?)
Under 5ft 11 don't bother
I'm owned 
Just my personal preference of course! I'm sure there's more.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fabsteroos,
Musing again...
Whilst looking through numerous profiles today I wonder what puts you off messaging someone from viewing their profile?
For me it’s entitled bossy stuff, comes across as nasty.
Bhubaysi x
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Judging by the views to message ratio in our case, quite a lot  lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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- Not covering faces of others on photos (if not their profile) 
- Barebacking (clearly different people)
- 100 cock shots; one damaged me enough! Please stop!
- No photos
- nasty status updates |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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- Untidy house in background of photos
- Out of control pubic hair.
- A list of verifications from people who fit into my first two points.
That’s just my personal preference though, and people have their own personal choices. Happy swinging x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dirty fingernails, in your face cock pics, gaping arseholes, same pictures being re-uploaded every other week/month, genitals showing health issues, no pictures at all as they need to be discreet. |
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Bad tattoos
Verifications that say ‘he has a really suckable cock’ (what does this even MEAN?!) or that make it obvious that they rock up to strangers’ houses for a first meet
Moaning about the site- I usually ask how people find it on here and if the reply is all negative I usually lose all motivation to carry on chatting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bad tattoos
Verifications that say ‘he has a really suckable cock’ (what does this even MEAN?!) or that make it obvious that they rock up to strangers’ houses for a first meet
Moaning about the site- I usually ask how people find it on here and if the reply is all negative I usually lose all motivation to carry on chatting "
Moaning about the site is a turn off for us, there is plenty of action here if you put in the effort... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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people with sense of entitlement
beards
people who try to deceive to get meets
beards
people who send pics 10 years out of date
beards
bullies
beards
snobs
beards "
Also professional in there profile
To many dick pics
Feet
Hairy
Arrogance
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"
people with sense of entitlement
beards
people who try to deceive to get meets
beards
people who send pics 10 years out of date
beards
bullies
beards
snobs
beards
Also professional in there profile
To many dick pics
Feet
Hairy
Arrogance
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Awwww......I like feet!! Lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"
people with sense of entitlement
beards
people who try to deceive to get meets
beards
people who send pics 10 years out of date
beards
bullies
beards
snobs
beards
Also professional in there profile
To many dick pics
Feet
Hairy
Arrogance
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This^^^^
Beards |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People that don’t seem to understand what local means 
I get some very nice messages and then realise they’re 100 miles away.
It’s never gonna happen. "
Very true, had that problem when I was on dating sites... nobody was close |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People that don’t seem to understand what local means
I get some very nice messages and then realise they’re 100 miles away.
It’s never gonna happen. "
guys will always be guys we don't read the manuals/instructions/bios and then we wonder where we went wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People that don’t seem to understand what local means
I get some very nice messages and then realise they’re 100 miles away.
It’s never gonna happen. guys will always be guys we don't read the manuals/instructions/bios and then we wonder where we went wrong "
do you not pal? I read everything before I message including Veris |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dick pics in a message with no text... haha like mate, you sure you’ve read my profile? Lololol #dyslexicdicks"
I've actually never understood the dick pic, like I don't understand how a guy can be like ladies here's my dick I know you want me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dick pics in a message with no text... haha like mate, you sure you’ve read my profile? Lololol #dyslexicdicks I've actually never understood the dick pic, like I don't understand how a guy can be like ladies here's my dick I know you want me "
I think it boils down to self confindence. Alot of people on this site dont intend to meet, just collect pics and wank over them.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Smellfies.... selfies next to the toilet - especially if unflushed.
Haha who would do that  toilet technicians 
Never seen a TT on here lol"
ive seen an audi |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People that don’t seem to understand what local means
I get some very nice messages and then realise they’re 100 miles away.
It’s never gonna happen. guys will always be guys we don't read the manuals/instructions/bios and then we wonder where we went wrong do you not pal? I read everything before I message including Veris "
I read everything too. Would never reply to someone without checking them out first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dick pics in a message with no text... haha like mate, you sure you’ve read my profile? Lololol #dyslexicdicks I've actually never understood the dick pic, like I don't understand how a guy can be like ladies here's my dick I know you want me "
Ha Ha
Mentioned this in chat the other day. Few years ago (with my ex just for clarity) met a couple, after the male kept sending me myriad of his cock pics, sure is wife didn't know lol, but I'd already seen in - wasn't that impressed the first time.
After many years on the scene I still don't get what the thing about guys and their cock pics. what they think they will achieve |
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"Dick pics in a message with no text... haha like mate, you sure you’ve read my profile? Lololol #dyslexicdicks I've actually never understood the dick pic, like I don't understand how a guy can be like ladies here's my dick I know you want me
Ha Ha
Mentioned this in chat the other day. Few years ago (with my ex just for clarity) met a couple, after the male kept sending me myriad of his cock pics, sure is wife didn't know lol, but I'd already seen in - wasn't that impressed the first time.
After many years on the scene I still don't get what the thing about guys and their cock pics. what they think they will achieve "
The funny thing is that many female & couples profiles are littered with close up pussy & tits shots, Yet have nothing else. I want to see what the whole person looks like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dick pics in a message with no text... haha like mate, you sure you’ve read my profile? Lololol #dyslexicdicks I've actually never understood the dick pic, like I don't understand how a guy can be like ladies here's my dick I know you want me
Ha Ha
Mentioned this in chat the other day. Few years ago (with my ex just for clarity) met a couple, after the male kept sending me myriad of his cock pics, sure is wife didn't know lol, but I'd already seen in - wasn't that impressed the first time.
After many years on the scene I still don't get what the thing about guys and their cock pics. what they think they will achieve
The funny thing is that many female & couples profiles are littered with close up pussy & tits shots, Yet have nothing else. I want to see what the whole person looks like."
True seen a few pussies close up, don't know why need close-ups in pics, ??? maybe that's a question for another post |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Blimey...my list is long...
Anything drug related,
Barebacking, I mean wtf!?
Really aggressive language,
Really bad grammar,
Really untidy house,
Chavs,
Think that's about it!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Statuses that say something like "I'm fed up with this site, I may as well delete my account".
And statuses that are obviously a passive aggressive coded rant at somebody who's pissed them off.
Both smack of emotional immaturity, which for me is a huge turn off.
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