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It does! Just the men outnumber the women by a huge amount, we can get bombarded!
You just have to have a tough skin and be prepared to put the work in.
I certainly don't envy guys on here, if I had to put that amount of effort in I'd never get laid #lazybitch  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This site is so frustrating
It seems impossible to meet couples or females
Does it ever happen?"
It does and you've only been on here a very short time ... it'll happen  |
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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago
Surrey |
Nope never, ever happens...
Maybe revise your strategy, I know when we look for an extra M we actively search rather than rely on them finding us. So interesting profile, good verifications and pics that don't solely consist of disembodied cocks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's the same for couples looking for other couples. We all have rules and ideas of whom the other sexual partners should be and perform like, so it really is frustrating and does take a long time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It does! Just the men outnumber the women by a huge amount, we can get bombarded!
You just have to have a tough skin and be prepared to put the work in.
I certainly don't envy guys on here, if I had to put that amount of effort in I'd never get laid #lazybitch "
Easy to see why you are bombarded. Stunning. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This site is so frustrating
It seems impossible to meet couples or females
Does it ever happen?"
It is frustrating. For women too. You put in the time. Weed through all the one liner messages and silouette profiles pics trying to figure out whose worth meeting and still end up getting cancelled on or stood up 80% of the time.
It happens but I wouldn't want to be depending on fab to get laid |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
It happens.....we've met guys from here and have more lined up. We probably delete over half the messages we get unread due to having no profile pic or awful subject line/first part of message. Most of the rest get polite no thanks after looking at the profile (especially if it's all cock pics). We maybe get 40 messages each day, possibly one per day interests us. It's hard for you single guys.
Bry (and Charlotte) |
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By *Jones19Man
over a year ago
Evesham, Worcester, Pershore |
It happens but it's rare. The numbers arent in our favour and the couples/ladies can be picky, and rightly so. If it's something you really want to do and enjoy, you just have to hang in there and something will come up. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"This site is so frustrating
It seems impossible to meet couples or females
Does it ever happen?
It is frustrating. For women too. You put in the time. Weed through all the one liner messages and silouette profiles pics trying to figure out whose worth meeting and still end up getting cancelled on or stood up 80% of the time.
It happens but I wouldn't want to be depending on fab to get laid "
I know this is gonna sound a bit cliche, but what guy in his right mind would stand you up? |
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"This site is so frustrating
It seems impossible to meet couples or females
Does it ever happen?
It is frustrating. For women too. You put in the time. Weed through all the one liner messages and silouette profiles pics trying to figure out whose worth meeting and still end up getting cancelled on or stood up 80% of the time.
It happens but I wouldn't want to be depending on fab to get laid
I know this is gonna sound a bit cliche, but what guy in his right mind would stand you up?"
You do know it's a long, long way to Tipperary?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This site is so frustrating
It seems impossible to meet couples or females
Does it ever happen?
It is frustrating. For women too. You put in the time. Weed through all the one liner messages and silouette profiles pics trying to figure out whose worth meeting and still end up getting cancelled on or stood up 80% of the time.
It happens but I wouldn't want to be depending on fab to get laid
I know this is gonna sound a bit cliche, but what guy in his right mind would stand you up?
You do know it's a long, long way to Tipperary? "
Ah but the views make it worth the trip. |
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By *niper oneMan
over a year ago
DERBY/Notts border |
"This site is so frustrating
It seems impossible to meet couples or females
Does it ever happen?"
Women are the comodity mate not men.Ask yourself how many women have messaged you first then eork it out from there....easier on pof mate the end product is the same if not better. |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
Hull |
OP.
You've only been on here for 2 weeks! It's NOT Instantshag!
Look at the other similar threads in the Forum index for advice and tips to improve your search.
Above all, it's a numbers game as you compete against so many other guys, all seeking the same thing.
It can take months to get success, so Patience, more Patience and Perseverance are key elements!
It does work, but success is only mirrored by your input.
Good luck.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This site is so frustrating
It seems impossible to meet couples or females
Does it ever happen?Women are the comodity mate not men.Ask yourself how many women have messaged you first then eork it out from there....easier on pof mate the end product is the same if not better."
As a female I hated POF.
Lots and lots of messages but nothing of quality, and the abuse sometimes was shocking.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swinging isn’t just about getting a shag... try the social side first, club visits etc... get to know people ... treat people with the upmost respect and don’t message anyone just for the sake of it.. clubs are definitely the easiest way to make friends... |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
"Swinging isn’t just about getting a shag... try the social side first, club visits etc... get to know people ... treat people with the upmost respect and don’t message anyone just for the sake of it.. clubs are definitely the easiest way to make friends... "
Exactly - it requires quite a bit more effort than writing a few "wanna fuck" messages on Fab, but is invariably successful. |
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"Swinging isn’t just about getting a shag... try the social side first, club visits etc... get to know people ... treat people with the upmost respect and don’t message anyone just for the sake of it.. clubs are definitely the easiest way to make friends... "
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By *aneyyMan
over a year ago
london |
"Swinging isn’t just about getting a shag... try the social side first, club visits etc... get to know people ... treat people with the upmost respect and don’t message anyone just for the sake of it.. clubs are definitely the easiest way to make friends...
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Club visits as a single guy is a tricky one, I would suggest keep trying on here build a bit of a rapport with couples. As for singles that’s all about what the woman wants. She holds all the power |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Clubs on your own are tricky, I’m not a swinging god but this is what I find...
Towels.. I’d never go and put a towel on and wander around aimlessly, I get dressed up.. waistcoat.. skinny jeans.. tie.. nice aftershave etc..
If your being invited to play or want to go in the wet room then I understand it.. but if you went out on a night out you would want to look your best...
Talk to the hosts! They will introduce you to people..
Couples and single ladies can have a pick of singles .. so if they talk to you , don’t presume they want to fuck you! Just be yourself.. relax and ask questions
Like I said I’m probably talking absolute nonsense but I find it works for me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks
The Billy no mates at the club sounds a nightmare but here goes
I live in Wakefield can travel hull, Leeds or Sheffield which is the best club to join? |
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"Nope never, ever happens...
Maybe revise your strategy, I know when we look for an extra M we actively search rather than rely on them finding us. So interesting profile, good verifications and pics that don't solely consist of disembodied cocks."
It's a vicious circle, if you can't get a meet you can't get verifications !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks
The Billy no mates at the club sounds a nightmare but here goes
I live in Wakefield can travel hull, Leeds or Sheffield which is the best club to join?"
I’m more over Manchester pal, isn’t one called Quest in Leeds? Why not put a meet up asking for someone to join? But in advance so people have notice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have never looked at fab as a way of getting meets but more as a tool to get information on clubs and a way to talk to the people I meet there.
Most the single woman and couples on here are in a dream world talking shit about how hot they think they are but in the real world average at best or just plane mingers.
Fuck I'm mate they look nothing like there photos anyway lol |
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