Because they are fantasies and wannabes lol, lots of people not just men think they would like to make there fancys come true ,but most carnt in real life and cannot admit it to themselves never mind the people they are letting down  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You never know, they might have a good reason for not turning up. Like they fell off a ladder and broke their clavicle (3rd time this month  ), or they've been in an accident, their dog/cat/hamster etc are their phone etc. Or, as the previous poster stated, they're just fantasists who can't face the reality. Or they changed their minds |
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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago
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Had a guy arrange a pub meet we waited around got message that he had been called into work ...ok no probs these things happen rearranged week later did the same again and blocked us ....thankyou if your still on here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Usualy its because there isn't trust or confidence its always better to chat a couple of times on the phone before people feel more of a commitment to someone they have spoken to. |
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"This site is full of fantasists who talk a good game and nothing more, gonna boot this site off soon and just stick to clubs. "
We don't have a problem with this site but we do prefer club meets too. After getting our own fingers burnt with no shows we are not prepared to risk wasting our time and money on travelling and hotels etc when we can go to a club we like   |
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over a year ago
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I had to cancel this week right at the last minute due to Mother Nature paying me an early visit.
I was so angry at myself because I’ve never let anyone down before but I did message him as soon as I could |
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"Had a guy arrange a pub meet we waited around got message that he had been called into work ...ok no probs these things happen rearranged week later did the same again and blocked us ....thankyou if your still on here "
If I was lucky enough to be invited to meet up with you both, even just for a drink and a chat, I certainly wouldn't cancel.
If I was lucky enough to be given the chance to meet, even just for a drink and a chat, I certainly wouldn't cancel.  |
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over a year ago
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Honestly don't get it not done it personally but instead of actually agreeing to the meet it's pretty easy to say NO!! Instead of actually wasting boths time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are at the point due to fakers, fantasists and no shows where it's just much easier to go to a club and eliminate the no show problem.
It seems reading threads that we are not alone in this which is a shame because there are decent guys on her that are genuine and don't let people down. The more couples, females who stop using fabs for actual meets just makes it harder for those genuine guys.
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over a year ago
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Actually been there waiting and they’ve messages to say there there waiting where am I? I knew they weren’t as no one else there - time wasters I can do without but sadly it happens  |
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"Actually been there waiting and they’ve messages to say there there waiting where am I? I knew they weren’t as no one else there - time wasters I can do without but sadly it happens "
I had one last week said he was leaving spoke on phone. I was all ready sat waiting and never turned up. He was online all evening. And read my messages just blanked. |
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"Actually been there waiting and they’ve messages to say there there waiting where am I? I knew they weren’t as no one else there - time wasters I can do without but sadly it happens
I had one last week said he was leaving spoke on phone. I was all ready sat waiting and never turned up. He was online all evening. And read my messages just blanked. "
I’ve reported them but all that happens is the profile get blocked for you to see |
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"Maybe some are fake profiles?
Again that’s something I don’t get why waste peoples time??'"
Could be a whole load of reasons why they do it but it is definitely wide spread. That is why I insist on a live camera interaction to ensure I am not speaking and arranging with a fake profile, veris alone are not enough in my eyes  |
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"Maybe some are fake profiles?
Again that’s something I don’t get why waste peoples time??'
Could be a whole load of reasons why they do it but it is definitely wide spread. That is why I insist on a live camera interaction to ensure I am not speaking and arranging with a fake profile, veris alone are not enough in my eyes "
Good for you, I hate cam but will talk in the phone and giving my number is t something I do lightly as already had to change it due to a stalker  |
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"Maybe some are fake profiles?
Again that’s something I don’t get why waste peoples time??'
Could be a whole load of reasons why they do it but it is definitely wide spread. That is why I insist on a live camera interaction to ensure I am not speaking and arranging with a fake profile, veris alone are not enough in my eyes
Good for you, I hate cam but will talk in the phone and giving my number is t something I do lightly as already had to change it due to a stalker "
I hear you on that, I never wanted to give my phone number out but KIK and snapchat are easy to use, they are the apps I use to verify people |
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"Maybe some are fake profiles?
Again that’s something I don’t get why waste peoples time??'
Could be a whole load of reasons why they do it but it is definitely wide spread. That is why I insist on a live camera interaction to ensure I am not speaking and arranging with a fake profile, veris alone are not enough in my eyes
Good for you, I hate cam but will talk in the phone and giving my number is t something I do lightly as already had to change it due to a stalker
I hear you on that, I never wanted to give my phone number out but KIK and snapchat are easy to use, they are the apps I use to verify people "
Totally with you there. I dont do snap chat For some reason I can’t fathom how it works lol but kik yes (for now!) just wish there was an easier way to keep in contact outside the site |
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"Maybe some are fake profiles?
Again that’s something I don’t get why waste peoples time??'
Could be a whole load of reasons why they do it but it is definitely wide spread. That is why I insist on a live camera interaction to ensure I am not speaking and arranging with a fake profile, veris alone are not enough in my eyes
Good for you, I hate cam but will talk in the phone and giving my number is t something I do lightly as already had to change it due to a stalker
I hear you on that, I never wanted to give my phone number out but KIK and snapchat are easy to use, they are the apps I use to verify people
Totally with you there. I dont do snap chat For some reason I can’t fathom how it works lol but kik yes (for now!) just wish there was an easier way to keep in contact outside the site "
I learnt snapchat after googling how to so things haha, it is easy once you know how |
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"Had a guy arrange a pub meet we waited around got message that he had been called into work ...ok no probs these things happen rearranged week later did the same again and blocked us ....thankyou if your still on here "
I love the old “been called into work”.
What about the lady who asked me a month ago if I was free to meet on Sunday lunchtime. She’s not been back online to check my answer. Been offline four weeks lol.
I’m waiting for the everyone has a right to change their mind brigade. I’m just an entitled man after all.
Entitled to not be messed about. |
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"Actually been there waiting and they’ve messages to say there there waiting where am I? I knew they weren’t as no one else there - time wasters I can do without but sadly it happens "
I had one of these too. Brilliant. No your not there. |
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"Maybe some are fake profiles?
Again that’s something I don’t get why waste peoples time??'
Could be a whole load of reasons why they do it but it is definitely wide spread. That is why I insist on a live camera interaction to ensure I am not speaking and arranging with a fake profile, veris alone are not enough in my eyes
Good for you, I hate cam but will talk in the phone and giving my number is t something I do lightly as already had to change it due to a stalker
I hear you on that, I never wanted to give my phone number out but KIK and snapchat are easy to use, they are the apps I use to verify people
Totally with you there. I dont do snap chat For some reason I can’t fathom how it works lol but kik yes (for now!) just wish there was an easier way to keep in contact outside the site
I learnt snapchat after googling how to so things haha, it is easy once you know how "
Haha thanks I may just do that |
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"Had a guy arrange a pub meet we waited around got message that he had been called into work ...ok no probs these things happen rearranged week later did the same again and blocked us ....thankyou if your still on here
I love the old “been called into work”.
What about the lady who asked me a month ago if I was free to meet on Sunday lunchtime. She’s not been back online to check my answer. Been offline four weeks lol.
I’m waiting for the everyone has a right to change their mind brigade. I’m just an entitled man after all.
Entitled to not be messed about. "
Shame they don’t see it that way isn’t it. Some think it’s all a game and people have all this fre time in their hands to get ready and drive about and sit and wait for - nothing to happen! |
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over a year ago
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"I view no shows as there loss"
Indeed. I've had a couple this week. Chatting fine an hour or so before meet due and then mysteriously off line and no attempt to contact |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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I always half assume a new meet won’t show. I usually meet somewhere I am happy to go alone anyway and just enjoy myself anyway.
I have had to let people down in the past either for family reasons or because I have become ill and have then been accused of being a timewaster. I have always given as much notice as humanly possible on those occasions. Sometimes life does just get in the way.
I think some people do get off on the thought that you are dressed up and waiting for them. Others just get cold feet. There are probably a multitude of reasons. |
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By *Xtriple7Couple
over a year ago
N Peterborough. |
We agree with KJ, it's got to the point that clubs are looking like the most efficient way to play.
Tried to arrange something for this morning. We had loads of messages from guys that were at least an hour's drive away. Any local guys bottled it. Same for couples, they get as far as kik then go quiet. Despite them being the ones initially contacting us. |
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