It's probably more to do with people finding them self and their sexuality more with age and life experiance. Plus feeling a bit more empowered not to follow conversation or live by others stigmas. Life is to short not be yourself and explore. |
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The older i get the more i want lots of swx with lots of people, i do not look on it as a mid life crisis, but as a positive journey that I'm lucky enough to be on. You only live once so live life to the full, it's not a crisis but an adventure. |
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"I think lots of people hit an age where they think "if I don't do this now I never will".
I don't think its a crisis, I think its a very sensible way to approach life  "
agree with this at my age i could have been down on myself "oh im old and undesirable etc ) but no im more confidant and sexually aware now ./ |
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"Just a thought,do you think alot of singles come on here as part of a midlife crisis!
Thinking they may suddenly be too old for kink."
I think a lot of couples come on here as a mid life crisis! |
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"It's probably more to do with people finding them self and their sexuality more with age and life experiance. Plus feeling a bit more empowered not to follow conversation or live by others stigmas. Life is to short not be yourself and explore."
Precisely this! 
Do you mean "convention"? |
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"It's probably more to do with people finding them self and their sexuality more with age and life experiance. Plus feeling a bit more empowered not to follow conversation or live by others stigmas. Life is to short not be yourself and explore.
Precisely this!
Do you mean "convention"? "
Yes, convention, auto text is not my freind. |
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If you look at demographics, most people become parents in their late 20's early 30's.
So for those who want children that can put quiet a brake on their capacity and desire to swing.
So +16 years and people who are interested may start to get back on the horse between 36 and 46.
You can have kids and swing, but everyone has different childcare arrangements or some have none.
I know since May, if we were without children there were a few nights were we fancied playing with others but had no provision in place so you just wait till the next time. |
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"Just a thought,do you think alot of singles come on here as part of a midlife crisis!
Thinking they may suddenly be too old for kink."
I'm a bit older than you and I'm actually into kink more than swinging. I think people all have their reasons, some the same, some different 
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People start swinging for many different reasons and it covers multiple facets. We have our reasons for being on the scene today, but had different reasons in the past.
More often dynamics change, solo guys always gravitate to swinging cos they think it is easy and free NSA sex for them. Even back in the days of contact mags - yes old enough to remember them |
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"I think lots of people hit an age where they think "if I don't do this now I never will".
I don't think its a crisis, I think its a very sensible way to approach life "
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So true lol  |
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I was having a really tough time at work.
Looking back at it, it was probably a breakdown.
Recovered and re-evaluated my life.
It's been the best 3 years of my life |
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"It's probably more to do with people finding them self and their sexuality more with age and life experiance. Plus feeling a bit more empowered not to follow conversation or live by others stigmas. Life is to short not be yourself and explore.
Precisely this!
Do you mean "convention"?
Yes, convention, auto text is not my freind."
Ha ha. I thought as much, and we've all fallen victim to it's vagueries!  |
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