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If someone was about to take control of you totally, sexually...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With Mr I’m totally submissive, but with anyone else it would be no. I’m not naturally submissive, am with him as it’s our dynamic, but anyone else I’d be likely to fight for dominance myself. It’s something that shocks some people, but that’s because they don’t get that just because you’re submissive to one person, doesn’t mean you are to anyone else x Viv x |
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Normally I prefer to be the more dominant one if that is the way the evening unfolds. However, I have been in the situation where a friend has taken control and she tied me down to the bed....it was unexpected but I trusted her and it led to a fantastic night!!
The key either way is trust |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Very much depends on the person and how much it had been discussed beforehand - trust and mutual respect would be major factors in making that decision if it were a spur of the moment thing |
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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago
Plymouth |
Depends on the person and the scene. Usually if anyone is taking control C is there as my Dom and to make sure I don't get badly hurt. I know my safe words and I know my limits. If I was playing that way with someone all limits, etc would be outlined first!! |
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By *icentious OP Couple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
Suppose I’m trying to establish what was it that allowed you to let go.
There is a series of steps on a “heroes journey”, mythology calls the first step the call to adventure.
Typical would be, princess playing ball by a pond.
Her ball lands in a lake, too far to reach.
She sits there crying when a frog comes out of the pond and says, ‘take my flipper and join me in the depths of the pond’.
What is the point you decide (or not) to take the choice to enter the pond.
At what point did you start living your own mythology of who you are? |
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By *manaWoman
over a year ago
Basingstoke |
"Total control means I have no say at all. That's never going to happen
You always have a say. "Total control" is never actually total if the sex is consensual. The sub is the one with the power."
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"Total control means I have no say at all. That's never going to happen
You always have a say. "Total control" is never actually total if the sex is consensual. The sub is the one with the power.
This "
Would You be the controller or controlled? |
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By *entonMan
over a year ago
Ayrshire |
"Suppose I’m trying to establish what was it that allowed you to let go.
There is a series of steps on a “heroes journey”, mythology calls the first step the call to adventure.
Typical would be, princess playing ball by a pond.
Her ball lands in a lake, too far to reach.
She sits there crying when a frog comes out of the pond and says, ‘take my flipper and join me in the depths of the pond’.
What is the point you decide (or not) to take the choice to enter the pond.
At what point did you start living your own mythology of who you are?"
my thoughts exactly |
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