Men of fab ..advice please. Had a fantastic meet on monday evening however - due to personal issues which I had mentioned to him - I went into over keen / over message mode. Anyway I'm guessing it can't be rectified as the above makes me appear crazy. Thoughts ? |
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"Men of fab ..advice please. Had a fantastic meet on monday evening however - due to personal issues which I had mentioned to him - I went into over keen / over message mode. Anyway I'm guessing it can't be rectified as the above makes me appear crazy. Thoughts ? "
Ok first thoughts yes to be honest with you babe...
But
If you said to the fella that you have x problem then just give it a few days before you message him again.
If after that there is no response then just wrote him off don't pester him.
Personally if I was in his shoes I wouldn't mind but I'd probably tell you to turn it down a notch lol.
Hope all works out for you hun and if you need to chat feel free I'm here x
Mo |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I think it's easy to get into over keen/over message mode especially if you've had a particularly good meet BUT the danger lies if the level of messaging/keenness isn't reciprocated - so is always best to take your cue from the other person - if they are messaging back just as keenly then go for it - if not it's time to rein things in a little.
Some people, particularly if they're meeting others too, will ramp up messages as a meet approaches and then when it's over ramp them down again as they move onto the next "bubble" until the next time they're ready to meet you - the key is finding a happy medium in the meantime  |
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If you feel like you have frightened him off by falling into a pattern which you explained to him ... he doesn't deserve your time. We all have issues if we've been through life's mill. Compassion costs nothing. |
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"Men of fab ..advice please. Had a fantastic meet on monday evening however - due to personal issues which I had mentioned to him - I went into over keen / over message mode. Anyway I'm guessing it can't be rectified as the above makes me appear crazy. Thoughts ? "
Don’t overthink it. You did mention it. How much is overkeen? |
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