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By *rank40 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"In all honesty we try and open and answer all messages even if it's just a polite sorry not interested
Unless it's a rude message "
Okay fair play, but what isit about a profile or message that makes you say yeah his worth a try? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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anything that shows the whole message before you looklike hi ,hows you ,sexy, fancy a fuck ...all just deleted with out opening that 50 to 60% gone in an instant.
then i open to see what there is left delete the porn dreamers then if there's a decent message ill look at profile first no profile or very little then delete again then ill be left with a handful of messages to look at and reply to |
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By *rank40 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"anything that shows the whole message before you looklike hi ,hows you ,sexy, fancy a fuck ...all just deleted with out opening that 50 to 60% gone in an instant.
then i open to see what there is left delete the porn dreamers then if there's a decent message ill look at profile first no profile or very little then delete again then ill be left with a handful of messages to look at and reply to"
Makes sense  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know single men are the bottom of the bunch on fab as we are so many!
But when you have 100s messages to open how do you select which one to open and which one to reply to?  "
I open them all. I reply to the ones I'm interested in only. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they have a nice smiling face pic for their profile which also has their torso. That catches my attention and then I look at the profile and message text to see how much of a gentleman they appear to be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We try to read all until it becomes to much and then we mass delete  I'm sorry to say,
But we select someone firstly by what they look like, and reading their profile and verifications and then we read the message, after that it comes down to sending messages and what we receive back ie sence of humour likes dislikes, and if it all clicks we meet |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
We dont get hundreds from guys as you are all blocked, but there are many couples that are pretty much run by or are just a guy too.
No pics, no veries, obvious professional pics (probably stolen) straight to sex talk etc.
All these put you straight on the delete list no matter who you are.
As do pics of you playing with others & yet you have no veries? so one can assume they are not on this site, ergo we don't even know if they know you have them on here. really? & you want us to meet you? Nah thanks...
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I read them all unless I have a huge influx. Or at least the message preview. Most of the time the message preview tells me if I want to keep reading or not.
I answer if they've read and addressed my profile, and they interest me. |
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Reply to all but men often then require a reason which is bullshit no is no there is no requirement for anybody to even open a message so no long open them as if they take to mine's to look at porfile there they will see there answer and save everybody's time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I (female) look at the profile first. If it's a possible fit I read the message. I usually respond to say no thank you unless it's really obvious they have not read our profile then I just delete. |
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As others have said I always look at the profile and pics first.
A profile which is well written and humorous gets my attention,esp if they have a good selection of pics and I like their verifications.
If the profile is lazy ie ask or fill in later and had just cock pics or pics of other women ,I wouldn't even open the message.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have 166 unopened now. I havent got a system. Ones that are not rude are opened usually. Any that mention kik I open and send a fake kik name.
I more than likely miss some really hot guys but i haven't got the patience to go through them all |
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You have some good veries
My advice would be to lose the sunglasses and hat in a couple of pics and also the heavy cummer part won't appeal to everyone.
Some may question you not accomodating,if you are single maybe pop on why you can't don't accommodate.
Miss |
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By *rank40 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I have 166 unopened now. I havent got a system. Ones that are not rude are opened usually. Any that mention kik I open and send a fake kik name.
I more than likely miss some really hot guys but i haven't got the patience to go through them all "
Haha, why do you give them a fake kik? , you don’t like using that app or is there a deeper reason ? |
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By *rank40 OP Man
over a year ago
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"You have some good veries
My advice would be to lose the sunglasses and hat in a couple of pics and also the heavy cummer part won't appeal to everyone.
Some may question you not accomodating,if you are single maybe pop on why you can't don't accommodate.
Miss"
Very nice feedback I was looking for thanks |
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"anything that shows the whole message before you looklike hi ,hows you ,sexy, fancy a fuck ...all just deleted with out opening that 50 to 60% gone in an instant.
then i open to see what there is left delete the porn dreamers then if there's a decent message ill look at profile first no profile or very little then delete again then ill be left with a handful of messages to look at and reply to"
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"In all honesty we try and open and answer all messages even if it's just a polite sorry not interested
Unless it's a rude message
Okay fair play, but what isit about a profile or message that makes you say yeah his worth a try?"
The latest ones are opened first as if you open one half way down and delete its the latest one that pops up. If you are after a magic method there isn't one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"anything that shows the whole message before you looklike hi ,hows you ,sexy, fancy a fuck ...all just deleted with out opening that 50 to 60% gone in an instant.
then i open to see what there is left delete the porn dreamers then if there's a decent message ill look at profile first no profile or very little then delete again then ill be left with a handful of messages to look at and reply to"
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No face pic in message - delete
Dick pic in message - delete
Not physically attracted - delete
Loads of action photos on profile - delete
Hi/Hey/How's you/You're close wanna fuck/Etc - delete
Obviously copied and pasted - delete (especially annoying when they send the same copy and paste message every week or so, then they get a block)
Obviously haven't read my profile - delete
Too far away - delete
Poor spelling and grammar - delete
It goes on...
I reply to maybe 2% of messages. If I'm in a good mood. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know single men are the bottom of the bunch on fab as we are so many!
But when you have 100s messages to open how do you select which one to open and which one to reply to? "
If we were receiving messages from solo guys - would have to be interesting, show you have read profile and understood it.
You don't have cock pics all over your profile. If your came across of being full of yourself - delete |
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