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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What kind of things immediately turn you off a profile? For me it's the phrase "young dumb and full of cum" as a profile header and statuses along the lines of "NEED my balls drained/cock sucked/to lick some pussy right now". No. You don't NEED these things right now, you want them. Also profiles that basically demand a reply should they message you and any sort of whining about not being able to get meets (especially when teamed with a one sentence profile and 10 different angles of a penis over the toilet).
Would be interesting to see what turns men off women's profiles too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some might find mine off-putting for simply having maaaa penis on it. I’m proud of him - I grew it all by myself!
No - but an instant turn off is having lots of veri’s! Club veri’s are different from actual meet veri ‘s. It’d Maybe be nice to be able to separate the club veri’s from the meet ones.
Ohh and an untidy house in pictures! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some might find mine off-putting for simply having maaaa penis on it. I’m proud of him - I grew it all by myself!
No - but an instant turn off is having lots of veri’s! Club veri’s are different from actual meet veri ‘s. It’d Maybe be nice to be able to separate the club veri’s from the meet ones.
Ohh and an untidy house in pictures! "
You've got it balanced out with pictures of yourself though. There are plenty of profiles with literally photo after photo of just the same cock. Also what counts as "lots" of veris? 10? 20? 30 etc ? |
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"Some might find mine off-putting for simply having maaaa penis on it. I’m proud of him - I grew it all by myself!
No - but an instant turn off is having lots of veri’s! Club veri’s are different from actual meet veri ‘s. It’d Maybe be nice to be able to separate the club veri’s from the meet ones.
Ohh and an untidy house in pictures! "
Why are club veris differant from meet veris? |
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"Bad spelling and grammar, or using text speak.
Referring to women in a derogatory manner.
Loads of dick pics. One or two is more than enough.
Explicit action photos.
Maybe I'm just a prude.
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This, some of the usernames make us cringe as well! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some might find mine off-putting for simply having maaaa penis on it. I’m proud of him - I grew it all by myself!
No - but an instant turn off is having lots of veri’s! Club veri’s are different from actual meet veri ‘s. It’d Maybe be nice to be able to separate the club veri’s from the meet ones.
Ohh and an untidy house in pictures!
Why are club veris differant from meet veris? "
Because club veri’s are more than likely just veri’s saying you met the person that night & exchanged conversation... in most cases anyway.
& personally, I don’t want to be sleeping with someone that half the site has shared also. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Bad spelling and grammar, or using text speak.
Referring to women in a derogatory manner.
Loads of dick pics. One or two is more than enough.
Explicit action photos.
Maybe I'm just a prude.
This, some of the usernames make us cringe as well!"
Agree with all these. So many people seem to think that because fab is a place for the more kinky of us it means we're gonna judge our attraction to others based on their genitals or how they've fucked others. It literally has never or will never work that way.
I actually saw someone with the status "so many idiotic women on here" last night. As if that's gonna help him get a meet!  from a blank profile as well. Some people are beyond saving...
And yeah I usually tend to stay away from usernames such as pussylicker69, bigdick69 etc etc |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some might find mine off-putting for simply having maaaa penis on it. I’m proud of him - I grew it all by myself!
No - but an instant turn off is having lots of veri’s! Club veri’s are different from actual meet veri ‘s. It’d Maybe be nice to be able to separate the club veri’s from the meet ones.
Ohh and an untidy house in pictures!
Why are club veris differant from meet veris?
Because club veri’s are more than likely just veri’s saying you met the person that night & exchanged conversation... in most cases anyway.
& personally, I don’t want to be sleeping with someone that half the site has shared also. "
But if you met someone on the outside would you care about what their number is? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some might find mine off-putting for simply having maaaa penis on it. I’m proud of him - I grew it all by myself!
No - but an instant turn off is having lots of veri’s! Club veri’s are different from actual meet veri ‘s. It’d Maybe be nice to be able to separate the club veri’s from the meet ones.
Ohh and an untidy house in pictures!
Why are club veris differant from meet veris?
Because club veri’s are more than likely just veri’s saying you met the person that night & exchanged conversation... in most cases anyway.
& personally, I don’t want to be sleeping with someone that half the site has shared also.
But if you met someone on the outside would you care about what their number is? "
There’s a difference - on the outside it isn’t advertised. HI-5 i’ve had sex with her also! |
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Anyone using the word "need". The inevitable "fill in later". Poorly written unless it looks like the person has dyslexia. A sterile list of likes rather than some imagination. "witty" quotes which have been cut and pasted from elsewhere not backed up with some more personal writing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What kind of things immediately turn you off a profile? For me it's the phrase "young dumb and full of cum" as a profile header and statuses along the lines of "NEED my balls drained/cock sucked/to lick some pussy right now". No. You don't NEED these things right now, you want them. Also profiles that basically demand a reply should they message you and any sort of whining about not being able to get meets (especially when teamed with a one sentence profile and 10 different angles of a penis over the toilet).
Would be interesting to see what turns men off women's profiles too "
Nice one OP - might set the cat amongst the pigeons I guess - both men and women alike say things that are not necessarily what they want, but say them to get out attention, if you then connect, that the time to work if they are dickheads or not - I think ???  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some might find mine off-putting for simply having maaaa penis on it. I’m proud of him - I grew it all by myself!
No - but an instant turn off is having lots of veri’s! Club veri’s are different from actual meet veri ‘s. It’d Maybe be nice to be able to separate the club veri’s from the meet ones.
Ohh and an untidy house in pictures!
Why are club veris differant from meet veris?
Because club veri’s are more than likely just veri’s saying you met the person that night & exchanged conversation... in most cases anyway.
& personally, I don’t want to be sleeping with someone that half the site has shared also.
But if you met someone on the outside would you care about what their number is?
There’s a difference - on the outside it isn’t advertised. HI-5 i’ve had sex with her also! "
I really don't understand what the issue is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some might find mine off-putting for simply having maaaa penis on it. I’m proud of him - I grew it all by myself!
No - but an instant turn off is having lots of veri’s! Club veri’s are different from actual meet veri ‘s. It’d Maybe be nice to be able to separate the club veri’s from the meet ones.
Ohh and an untidy house in pictures!
Why are club veris differant from meet veris?
Because club veri’s are more than likely just veri’s saying you met the person that night & exchanged conversation... in most cases anyway.
& personally, I don’t want to be sleeping with someone that half the site has shared also.
But if you met someone on the outside would you care about what their number is? "
Or even know the truth? |
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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago
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"What kind of things immediately turn you off a profile? For me it's the phrase "young dumb and full of cum" as a profile header and statuses along the lines of "NEED my balls drained/cock sucked/to lick some pussy right now". No. You don't NEED these things right now, you want them. Also profiles that basically demand a reply should they message you and any sort of whining about not being able to get meets (especially when teamed with a one sentence profile and 10 different angles of a penis over the toilet).
Would be interesting to see what turns men off women's profiles too "
Profiles with cum in pussies, profiles that read like a Tolkien movie.
Also profiles with no photos demanding face pics in first message |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What kind of things immediately turn you off a profile? For me it's the phrase "young dumb and full of cum" as a profile header and statuses along the lines of "NEED my balls drained/cock sucked/to lick some pussy right now". No. You don't NEED these things right now, you want them. Also profiles that basically demand a reply should they message you and any sort of whining about not being able to get meets (especially when teamed with a one sentence profile and 10 different angles of a penis over the toilet).
Would be interesting to see what turns men off women's profiles too
Profiles with cum in pussies, profiles that read like a Tolkien movie.
Also profiles with no photos demanding face pics in first message"
10/10 for the second line bro |
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Profile turn offs:
No profile information about the person or lazily written profiles containing lots of abbreviations and text speak.
Cocks measured against various items like TV remotes or deodorant cans.
pictures of guys involved in any form of BDSM (each to their own but not for me)
Pierced cocks and scrotum (each to their own but not my thing)
Unprotected anal sex pics and anal cream pies
pictures of guys sat on the bog whilst photographing their cock.
pictures with messy backgrounds
Explicit pictures of guys where kids toys, baby equipment etc can be seen in the background. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it's the photo of a guy holding his cock and he is either squeezing the life out of it or ( gags) has really dirty finger nails!
I'm sorry, I know, I'm a fat fussy fucka
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No pictures or spunk pics just not for us "
What... blank profile picture with the one cock picture with cum running down it not do it for you!? That’s a lot of single men pissed off right now
Hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me it's the photo of a guy holding his cock and he is either squeezing the life out of it or ( gags) has really dirty finger nails!
I'm sorry, I know, I'm a fat fussy fucka
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Awk - sometimes our penises have a mind of their own as most people know. So we have to grab them xtra tight so they don’t run away again! It’s a challenge daily  |
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"For me it's the photo of a guy holding his cock and he is either squeezing the life out of it or ( gags) has really dirty finger nails!
I'm sorry, I know, I'm a fat fussy fucka
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We actually have a giggle at the cock squeeze pics, it’s like their trying to wring every last mm out for the pic... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any that say No married or attached, they get blocked so I don't stumble across them again.
Loads of bare back pics with different people.
Ok if with their partner but not half of fraggle rock as well.
Really demanding profiles that effectively narrow down what they're looking for to 1 person on the planet who may or may not be on fab anyway.
All of which might I add is entirely up to them and what they want it don't want
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No pictures or spunk pics just not for us
What... blank profile picture with the one cock picture with cum running down it not do it for you!? That’s a lot of single men pissed off right now
Hahaha "
It rules most of them out think pics should be teasing and make you want to see more if you give it all up to easy there’s no challenge, but pics of cum turns us both off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Turn off list below
Separate room swapping in a couples profile,
Tasteless pics,leave something to imigination,
Male or female can play alone,on a couples profile
Those are our main three thats a definate no no from us |
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"Any that say No married or attached, they get blocked so I don't stumble across them again.
Loads of bare back pics with different people.
Ok if with their partner but not half of fraggle rock as well.
Really demanding profiles that effectively narrow down what they're looking for to 1 person on the planet who may or may not be on fab anyway.
All of which might I add is entirely up to them and what they want it don't want
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fraggle rock
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Also statuses that say "ran out of messages, send me your kiks/numbers". The fact they've sent out that many messages that they've run out makes them seem as if they're desperate and they'll fuck anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Poor spelling (dude everyone has predictive text on their phones these days)
Poor grammar
Derogatory language
Text speak
No profile pics or info
Close up penetration shots (ew!)
Pussy pictures (they are not pretty to look at)
Dick pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also statuses that say "ran out of messages, send me your kiks/numbers". The fact they've sent out that many messages that they've run out makes them seem as if they're desperate and they'll fuck anything. "
Never knew that one could run out of messages on here. But your right. |
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Poor spelling (dude everyone has predictive text on their phones these days)
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Sometimes predictive text and then not checking can be the problem, however, when you type anything on this site be it profile information or forum posts, the site has the ability to highlight spelling mistakes (underlined in red) so no real excuse. |
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Poor spelling (dude everyone has predictive text on their phones these days)
Sometimes predictive text and then not checking can be the problem, however, when you type anything on this site be it profile information or forum posts, the site has the ability to highlight spelling mistakes (underlined in red) so no real excuse."
How does one do that? |
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"What kind of things immediately turn you off a profile? For me it's the phrase "young dumb and full of cum" as a profile header and statuses along the lines of "NEED my balls drained/cock sucked/to lick some pussy right now". No. You don't NEED these things right now, you want them. Also profiles that basically demand a reply should they message you and any sort of whining about not being able to get meets (especially when teamed with a one sentence profile and 10 different angles of a penis over the toilet).
Would be interesting to see what turns men off women's profiles too "
Yes and yes to this |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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All of the above pretty much and also any profile where it appears that the owner/s of said profile have obviously spent less than 10 minutes on the wording of their profile.
It’s your only advertisement, so make some effort!
Although it’s another way I filter. Minimum effort on profile = minimum effort in playtime. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bad spelling and grammar, or using text speak.
Referring to women in a derogatory manner.
Loads of dick pics. One or two is more than enough.
Explicit action photos.
Maybe I'm just a prude.
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
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"What kind of things immediately turn you off a profile? For me it's the phrase "young dumb and full of cum" as a profile header and statuses along the lines of "NEED my balls drained/cock sucked/to lick some pussy right now". No. You don't NEED these things right now, you want them. Also profiles that basically demand a reply should they message you and any sort of whining about not being able to get meets (especially when teamed with a one sentence profile and 10 different angles of a penis over the toilet).
Would be interesting to see what turns men off women's profiles too
Yes and yes to this "
I go with the negative and fussy attitude...Now do I get the blindfolded for the firing squad or not.  |
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Lots of veris discourage me from making contact but only on a practical level because those who are more active and have already made lots of fab friends usually don't have time to chat to anyone new.
As to what turns me off a woman's profile, an aggressive attitude which tars all men with the same brush or a condescending one. Hypocritical profiles which say they don't want to see dick pics but have equally explicit pics of their own sometimes of them sucking a dick.
I'm always respectful so I avoid profiles which are not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The "Sidney University" legal notice,
ladies that openly insult guys based on their race.
And the ones that "will only answer if you are xx tall or above, muscular and hung like a horse" while the owner of said profile looks like a blob. |
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"All of the above pretty much and also any profile where it appears that the owner/s of said profile have obviously spent less than 10 minutes on the wording of their profile.
It’s your only advertisement, so make some effort!
Although it’s another way I filter. Minimum effort on profile = minimum effort in playtime."
Agree totally.
Lazy profiles and especially those which simply say " I'm an x yrs old woman and I'm looking to meet men"
All that tells me is you are either fake or have zero interest in conversation.
Just seen one which says " If I'm interested I'll reply"
Treat people with respect and you'll earn it in return.
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ladies that openly insult guys based on their race.
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Define openly insult based on race? I'm sure racist remarks are against the rules, however if by insult you mean they just are not in to guys of certain ethnic backgrounds, then that's personal choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What kind of things immediately turn you off a profile? For me it's the phrase "young dumb and full of cum" as a profile header and statuses along the lines of "NEED my balls drained/cock sucked/to lick some pussy right now". No. You don't NEED these things right now, you want them. Also profiles that basically demand a reply should they message you and any sort of whining about not being able to get meets (especially when teamed with a one sentence profile and 10 different angles of a penis over the toilet).
Would be interesting to see what turns men off women's profiles too "
Women/Couples
- No ...... or .....
- Then read verifications and they are mostly from..... or ....
Looking for Bi females to share!
Clearly couple wanting to meet the female of the couple only
Guys
Cock pics - and/or lots of them
Cock pics against objects a rulers
Cock pics
General
Arrogance
Hypocrisy
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One line profile text
No public photos at all - who can’t put up a body shot with no face showing?
Guys who are obviously builders in hi-vis vests.
Dirty or messy backgrounds in pics
All big turn offs. |
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Poor spelling (dude everyone has predictive text on their phones these days)
Sometimes predictive text and then not checking can be the problem, however, when you type anything on this site be it profile information or forum posts, the site has the ability to highlight spelling mistakes (underlined in red) so no real excuse.
How does one do that? "
If you spell something wrong sometimes the site autocorrects it, however if you get a dotted red line under the word, put the cursor over the word and right click the mouse, you will get a list of suggested correct spellings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Seems like mine put off a lot of people as well
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Beautiful torso...face pic would be very beneficial...I always look at a profile before I read the message. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Some might find mine off-putting for simply having maaaa penis on it. I’m proud of him - I grew it all by myself!
No - but an instant turn off is having lots of veri’s! Club veri’s are different from actual meet veri ‘s. It’d Maybe be nice to be able to separate the club veri’s from the meet ones.
Ohh and an untidy house in pictures! "
And what about organised social veris? |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Some might find mine off-putting for simply having maaaa penis on it. I’m proud of him - I grew it all by myself!
No - but an instant turn off is having lots of veri’s! Club veri’s are different from actual meet veri ‘s. It’d Maybe be nice to be able to separate the club veri’s from the meet ones.
Ohh and an untidy house in pictures!
And what about organised social veris? "
Some are also repeat meets too. I agree, would be nice to categorise them. |
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Poor spelling (dude everyone has predictive text on their phones these days)
Sometimes predictive text and then not checking can be the problem, however, when you type anything on this site be it profile information or forum posts, the site has the ability to highlight spelling mistakes (underlined in red) so no real excuse.
How does one do that?
If you spell something wrong sometimes the site autocorrects it, however if you get a dotted red line under the word, put the cursor over the word and right click the mouse, you will get a list of suggested correct spellings. "
I suspect that is your browser, and not the site? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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'No cock pics!' on a profile.
How can swingers be offended by the sight of cocks?
And how can you decide if you want sex with a man without knowing what their erection is like?
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By (user no longer on site)
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'No cock pics!' on a profile.
How can swingers be offended by the sight of cocks?
And how can you decide if you want sex with a man without knowing what their erection is like?
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Hoping this thread is just sarcasm can't your serious |
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By *t8880Couple
over a year ago
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We are looking for a threesome at the minute and as expected we have received lots of messages from single men (no ladies yet though ??)
We are currently working through the messages and trying to reply. But a short crude message, not addressing both of us or a cock profile pic they usually get deleted. Some single men really don’t help themselves. |
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One I've noticed recently is a profile that a couple seem to use statuses to communicate with one another with things such as "Miss you babe x" and "Can't wait to be inside of you"
Each to there own but it's not something I find very attractive.
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By *t8880Couple
over a year ago
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Oh yeah another one, first message saying they are businessmen. Why are you trying to show off we don’t care what your occupation is if we all get along. Just seams these people think they are better than everyone else.
Sorry for the rant, getting a bit fed up of the numpties! But we know patience will pay off. |
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