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On and off but no joy

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I’ve been on and off here for few years. Did have verified on past profile, but it got hacked and I deleted it.

When I notice a profile I like, I send a message. Trying to show iv looked and understood the profile, but don’t get anywhere?

Most deleted, some are kind enough to say no thanks.

So going wrong somewhere!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Most ladies look at profiles before even reading the message

Do you think yours would inspire a lady to read what you send?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You say you could accommodate but won't.

Maybe the women you message don't enjoy going to clubs. ?

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By *hubarbandcustard1000Couple over a year ago

Dudley

"Could accommodate but dont want the mess or the hassle" I'd really lose that bit to start. But dont say cant accomadate because that means you're married normally.

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By *ycallMan over a year ago

Dorking

Your profile doesn’t read well.

Saying you could accommodate but don’t want the “mess or hassle” gives the impression that you don’t think much of people on this site. Doubt many women would take it as a compliment.

The rest of the profile reads as you want to be able to use someone to help you get into clubs as part of a “couple” but are otherwise not interested.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

I think you've got it about right with your profile. It's basically "does what it says on the tin" profile, realistic and seems honest.

We don't accommodate for the same reason as you lol.

I think it's just a question of time and patience

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

"You say you could accommodate but won't.

Maybe the women you message don't enjoy going to clubs. ?"

Or can't /don't want to go through the week

Miss

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I think he gets the MESSage. Lol

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yes the accommodating bit would put me off,I used to accommodate when I met so my train of thought is if you're not going to accommodate me then I won't accommodate you.

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