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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Whats with people in clubs who go into group play rooms and just stand around watching/chatting not getting involved. It totally ruins the mood and is very off putting  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There called wankers
They weren't even doing that! And it was couples too not single guys. "
Some people just like to watch, yes it is off-putting to some but if you are very much into Exhibitionism then you wouldn't bother you. Horses for courses |
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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago
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"There called wankers
They weren't even doing that! And it was couples too not single guys.
Some people just like to watch, yes it is off-putting to some but if you are very much into Exhibitionism then you wouldn't bother you. Horses for courses"
I disagree. We love people ‘watching’, but people sat around talking loudly, laughing and seeming disinterested is very distracting and takes away from the mood |
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Some people enjoy voyeurism
It goes hand in hand with exhibitionism
If you don't like to be watched then use private rooms. If you have sex in public/social areas you're going to be watched you don't really have a right to complain.
If they touch you or get too close without an invite then you have a right to complain.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don’t mind being watched, we mind people having chatty loud conversations about all sorts, that ruins the mood for us to hear about if someone knows steve’s brother or some nonsense. Watching is to be expected, many go to clubs just to watch  |
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"Some people enjoy voyeurism
It goes hand in hand with exhibitionism
If you don't like to be watched then use private rooms. If you have sex in public/social areas you're going to be watched you don't really have a right to complain.
If they touch you or get too close without an invite then you have a right to complain.
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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago
Biggleswade |
"We don’t mind being watched, we mind people having chatty loud conversations about all sorts, that ruins the mood for us to hear about if someone knows steve’s brother or some nonsense. Watching is to be expected, many go to clubs just to watch "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There called wankers
They weren't even doing that! And it was couples too not single guys.
Some people just like to watch, yes it is off-putting to some but if you are very much into Exhibitionism then you wouldn't bother you. Horses for courses
I disagree. We love people ‘watching’, but people sat around talking loudly, laughing and seeming disinterested is very distracting and takes away from the mood"
Everyone is different but I'm not quite sure what your disagreeing with. If you are into exhibitionism that's fine but if you go into a club in a public room you are going be in that situation "talking loudly, laughing and seeming disinterested is very distracting" then you are not going to be bothered, else you wouldn't put yourself in that situation  |
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"There called wankers
They weren't even doing that! And it was couples too not single guys.
Some people just like to watch, yes it is off-putting to some but if you are very much into Exhibitionism then you wouldn't bother you. Horses for courses
I disagree. We love people ‘watching’, but people sat around talking loudly, laughing and seeming disinterested is very distracting and takes away from the mood
Everyone is different but I'm not quite sure what your disagreeing with. If you are into exhibitionism that's fine but if you go into a club in a public room you are going be in that situation "talking loudly, laughing and seeming disinterested is very distracting" then you are not going to be bothered, else you wouldn't put yourself in that situation "
Yep
Not everyone’s going to be that interested by watching a couple or group playing, Especially I’d its already happened 10 mins previous so chatting and laughing might be more appealing but it’s not going to be the greatest feeling for the ones playing
See that in kink play at events too
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There called wankers
They weren't even doing that! And it was couples too not single guys.
Some people just like to watch, yes it is off-putting to some but if you are very much into Exhibitionism then you wouldn't bother you. Horses for courses
I disagree. We love people ‘watching’, but people sat around talking loudly, laughing and seeming disinterested is very distracting and takes away from the mood
Everyone is different but I'm not quite sure what your disagreeing with. If you are into exhibitionism that's fine but if you go into a club in a public room you are going be in that situation "talking loudly, laughing and seeming disinterested is very distracting" then you are not going to be bothered, else you wouldn't put yourself in that situation
Yep
Not everyone’s going to be that interested by watching a couple or group playing, Especially I’d its already happened 10 mins previous so chatting and laughing might be more appealing but it’s not going to be the greatest feeling for the ones playing
See that in kink play at events too
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Agreed but at any kind of public event you'll get that. The annoying people who talk through a film. The ones that sing out of tune at a musical event. Annoying and distracting ... two choices go and accept it or get dvd/CD. same with a club ..its going to happen unfortunately accept it or don't put yourself in that situation. That's all until clubs put up Polycarb screens and sound proof the public room lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whats with people in clubs who go into group play rooms and just stand around watching/chatting not getting involved. It totally ruins the mood and is very off putting "
Maybe for you but not for many others as many like to be watched its their thing also many people like to watch.
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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago
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"Whats with people in clubs who go into group play rooms and just stand around watching/chatting not getting involved. It totally ruins the mood and is very off putting "
So are you saying that everyone in the club has to behave exactly as you wish..even if they are not involved ?? |
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We are usually OK with watchers, they come in handy when she's in Greedy Girl mode!
BUT we stopped going to one club because they allowed clothed men to stand inside public playrooms, making comments such as "Give her a good shagging mate!" "Look at the arse on that!" and other off-putting comments. |
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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago
Wiltshire and London |
"There called wankers
They weren't even doing that! And it was couples too not single guys.
Some people just like to watch, yes it is off-putting to some but if you are very much into Exhibitionism then you wouldn't bother you. Horses for courses"
And they bring their horses too? That’s a special kind of wanker! |
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"We are usually OK with watchers, they come in handy when she's in Greedy Girl mode!
BUT we stopped going to one club because they allowed clothed men to stand inside public playrooms, making comments such as "Give her a good shagging mate!" "Look at the arse on that!" and other off-putting comments."
Omg that is so wrong |
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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago
Wiltshire and London |
"We are usually OK with watchers, they come in handy when she's in Greedy Girl mode!
BUT we stopped going to one club because they allowed clothed men to stand inside public playrooms, making comments such as "Give her a good shagging mate!" "Look at the arse on that!" and other off-putting comments."
Good grief. You could go to the football if you wanted that. |
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We are total exhibishionsts, love to be watched, even better if watchers join in. Polighly asking, or we've invited. Hate hate hate if watchers are chatting loudly about the the best roll back offer in Asda, or uncle Johns, daughters, nextdoor neighbour, cat had his op  .
Either don't talk or comment on the play, " oh shes a cock sucker" ect. In keeping with the mood of play.
In kink clubs, no chatting is aloud round play. Unless it's the players, and they are involving watchers in a sceane.
We have been known to play on the sofas in club bar areas. If people chat around us then, fair enough we're in the public area. Not when we're in a play room. |
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I’d you don’t like being watched then either stick to private meets or go to rooms that don’t involve watching.
I do take your point. It’s sexy watching for me but when you have 12 guys stood there even for me I find that very off puttting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you find it off putting to be watched, why are you playing in public?
If you put on a show in a public area expect to be watched."
^^^
Some places have closed spaces for you to play. Some don’t. Don’t play if you don’t want to be watched. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My other half and I would love to watch another couple, really hope it isn’t frowned upon because it really appeals to us both."
No and you are not alone in that so enjoy but don't talk about screen wash or wiper blades - that is |
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"My other half and I would love to watch another couple, really hope it isn’t frowned upon because it really appeals to us both.
No and you are not alone in that so enjoy but don't talk about screen wash or wiper blades - that is"
We promise to get all automotive servicing chat out of our systems before we arrive at the club, honestly, it’s the least we could do |
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We’re often watched doesn’t bother us at all, it’s a public space if we’re with another couple or woman we may use a private room. We’ve only really had the chance to watch one couple so far and we made it a very horny experience for them |
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"There called wankers
They weren't even doing that! And it was couples too not single guys.
Some people just like to watch, yes it is off-putting to some but if you are very much into Exhibitionism then you wouldn't bother you. Horses for courses
I disagree. We love people ‘watching’, but people sat around talking loudly, laughing and seeming disinterested is very distracting and takes away from the mood"
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There called wankers
They weren't even doing that! And it was couples too not single guys.
Some people just like to watch, yes it is off-putting to some but if you are very much into Exhibitionism then you wouldn't bother you. Horses for courses
I disagree. We love people ‘watching’, but people sat around talking loudly, laughing and seeming disinterested is very distracting and takes away from the mood
This "
I bet they're the sort of people who talk at the cinema, too. |
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By *oonloverWoman
over a year ago
bognor regis |
"There called wankers
They weren't even doing that! And it was couples too not single guys.
Some people just like to watch, yes it is off-putting to some but if you are very much into Exhibitionism then you wouldn't bother you. Horses for courses
I disagree. We love people ‘watching’, but people sat around talking loudly, laughing and seeming disinterested is very distracting and takes away from the mood
Everyone is different but I'm not quite sure what your disagreeing with. If you are into exhibitionism that's fine but if you go into a club in a public room you are going be in that situation "talking loudly, laughing and seeming disinterested is very distracting" then you are not going to be bothered, else you wouldn't put yourself in that situation
Yep
Not everyone’s going to be that interested by watching a couple or group playing, Especially I’d its already happened 10 mins previous so chatting and laughing might be more appealing but it’s not going to be the greatest feeling for the ones playing
See that in kink play at events too
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so if you don't want to watch go chat in the bar or something |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Whats with people in clubs who go into group play rooms and just stand around watching/chatting not getting involved. It totally ruins the mood and is very off putting "
Most clubs have private rooms if you don't want to be watched. Personally we don't mind drawing an audience, particularly an appreciative one. Rather than putting us off it can be a turn on and even encourages us to "perform" for the crowd. No complaints from us? |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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We were in an open dungeon with two other ladies.
The dynamic escalated and when things eased down there was possibly 50 people watching.
Can’t remember it distracting or spoiling the mood. |
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