Mention something in their profile which shows why you are messaging them, and what makes you different. You will probably leap from 1% read before deleted to a massive 2%. And some might get you a response! Keep being civilised. Good luck. |
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It doesn't matter what you send.
The majority of women will check out a profile before even reading the message.
If there's nothing of interest, or they don't like what they see, it'll get deleted, probably unread.
Make your profile, the best you can
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One that worked with me was an insult  it was done in a very crafty and amusing way. He got his reply...  but in all seriousness, it was very clever and I would've met him if I'd fancied him, unfortunately I didn't.
So no matter what the message is, it will still require an attraction. |
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This is my first time on this kind of site but i was open and honest with my very first message to a couple 2 weeks ago and happy to say we are meeting very soon. Yes we are here for fun and sex but honesty, integrity, and respect goes a long way.
Maybe I just got lucky? |
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"This is my first time on this kind of site but i was open and honest with my very first message to a couple 2 weeks ago and happy to say we are meeting very soon. Yes we are here for fun and sex but honesty, integrity, and respect goes a long way.
Maybe I just got lucky?"
Geordieboy, you are either very lucky or very skilled at first messages, or maybe a combination of the two. But I think you have been on fora and listened to advice offered. Wish I had done this when I first joined! |
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"It doesn't matter what you send.
The majority of women will check out a profile before even reading the message.
If there's nothing of interest, or they don't like what they see, it'll get deleted, probably unread.
Make your profile, the best you can
^^^ what she said
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"This is my first time on this kind of site but i was open and honest with my very first message to a couple 2 weeks ago and happy to say we are meeting very soon. Yes we are here for fun and sex but honesty, integrity, and respect goes a long way.
Maybe I just got lucky?
Geordieboy, you are either very lucky or very skilled at first messages, or maybe a combination of the two. But I think you have been on fora and listened to advice offered. Wish I had done this when I first joined!"
I took all the advice on board. Some knowledgeable people on here. |
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i like my first message to be polite and to the point without the porn style script if the first message is good then ill take the time to view the profile but sadly thats where most end as most dont have a profile or its again a porn script |
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"i like my first message to be polite and to the point without the porn style script if the first message is good then ill take the time to view the profile but sadly thats where most end as most dont have a profile or its again a porn script"
I never mention sex in the first Messages. Best to get to know the person first. |
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"What would be the first thing you send to a person you're trying to meet curious to see the way others approach it  "
Most people look at your profile first. If they don't like your profile your message gets ignored or deleted. |
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