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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

How did it do you introduce your partner to swinging? Looking to hear from people who slowly like to introduce their partners to swinging.. how did you do it?

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By *atisfying jackMan  over a year ago

Hereford


"How did it do you introduce your partner to swinging? Looking to hear from people who slowly like to introduce their partners to swinging.. how did you do it? "

Just ask, communication is key, once underhand tactics start getting involved trust is gone and trust is the biggest thing in swinging.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"How did it do you introduce your partner to swinging? Looking to hear from people who slowly like to introduce their partners to swinging.. how did you do it?

Just ask, communication is key, once underhand tactics start getting involved trust is gone and trust is the biggest thing in swinging.

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That's the long and the short of it.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan  over a year ago

Luton

Yep, communication. You can't persuade someone over time. They're either excited by the idea or they're not.

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By *isa2018Couple  over a year ago

East Northamptonshire

Open talk about your fantasies first. Then it's a discussion on whether you'd actually like to indulge them and, finally, how you go about ding so.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How did it do you introduce your partner to swinging? Looking to hear from people who slowly like to introduce their partners to swinging.. how did you do it?

Just ask, communication is key, once underhand tactics start getting involved trust is gone and trust is the biggest thing in swinging.

That's the long and the short of it. "

Absolutely agree. If they believe or even think they're being manipulated in any way, shape or form then trust and respect will be lost.

They'll more than likely question motives about everything else from that point too, including stuff from the past and who things really benefit no matter how they're put across.

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By *ynecplCouple  over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

It was, believe it or not a joint decision made on a Sunday morning walking along a beach discussion our fantasies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Thanks for the feedback people

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I dont share my things

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We just talked about it openly and here we are hay presto

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By *andb69Couple  over a year ago

leeds

If you aren't comfortable having a straightforward conversation about swinging then I don't think you're at all ready to even contemplate swinging: It relies on openness, honesty, trust, and of course a mutual desire to try it. You have blown the openness, honesty and trust part by having your own profile on Fab so good luck to you.

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By *unsters66Couple  over a year ago

Newport


"If you aren't comfortable having a straightforward conversation about swinging then I don't think you're at all ready to even contemplate swinging: It relies on openness, honesty, trust, and of course a mutual desire to try it. You have blown the openness, honesty and trust part by having your own profile on Fab so good luck to you."

And that has told him...quite right too...

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By *eakcoupleCouple  over a year ago

peak district

We were watching a porno of amateurs in La Chambre and I asked her "Would you like to do that?" She said "Yes!" so we went the next Saturday (couples) night. Agree with the others - keep talking, before and after each meet or club visit. Respect her pace - R took it slowly before doing a full swap.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How did it do you introduce your partner to swinging? Looking to hear from people who slowly like to introduce their partners to swinging.. how did you do it?

Just ask, communication is key, once underhand tactics start getting involved trust is gone and trust is the biggest thing in swinging.

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Yes pretty much this , nothing else to add .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Thankfully we met on here, so no introduction needed.

However, communication is vital. We regularly talk about what we enjoy or don't enjoy.

Honestly is also very important.

P.

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