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What do you wear in the hot tub?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ladies what do you usually wear in the hot tub at a club?
I'm a bigger girl and don't have a huge amount of body confidence so I wouldn't go in naked but equally wouldn't rock up in my cozzie.
Going to VA this weekend and want to try out the hot tub. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We are always naked.
Be proud and confident of your very beautiful body and throw those clothes aside."
I wish I could. I've recently had a baby and it's totally knocked that confidence |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m a bigger girl sans go in naked. You can always just wear some high waisted 50’s style bikini bottoms. They are cute x "
I think this might be a good plan. Tuck my tum in lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hold your head high, put your best foot forward, be proud of yourself after all you are out and about enjoying life not sat at home. People will like you, love you for being you xx
Enjoy your trip to VA  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Go naked.
Do not allow others to knock your confidence.
Most people will love you for who you are.
If you have just had a baby WELL DONE.
Nic xx"
No one else is knocking my confidence. It's how I feel about myself |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Once your in no one sees below you neck due to the bubbles so whatever is under the water line is hidden anyway
^^this ^^
Congratulations on the birth of you baby  "
Thank you. First night out post baby. Think I'd feel the same even if I was going to a pub in town lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know how you feel about post baby body. I went in hot tub with high waisted bikini bottoms on.
I only did that until I felt comfortable again with myself.
Congratulations on new addition  xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I know how you feel about post baby body. I went in hot tub with high waisted bikini bottoms on.
I only did that until I felt comfortable again with myself.
Congratulations on new addition xx "
Thank you. Think I'll have to do some shopping lol.
The other drama, squirting someone by accident with milk lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Go naked believe me I have seen all shapes and sizes and never heard ananyone say a bad comments man or lady"
I'm not worried about anyone saying anything bad. I don't doubt for a second no one else will give a rats. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont go to clubs but we have our own hot tub and when we invite people we expect everyone to be naked. I'm a big woman too but if people dont like it its their problem not yours. Enjoy yourself. X |
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Congrats on the bubba
I to was like that use to be a size 26 now 14 years of working what I looked like but you know what I went to pleasures and did stripped naked in front of a few couples that were in the pool and jumped in felt amazing hun just got for it did it again the next week head up high your beautiful good for it |
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"We are always naked.
Be proud and confident of your very beautiful body and throw those clothes aside.
I wish I could. I've recently had a baby and it's totally knocked that confidence "
Bet you look fantastic young lady x |
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By *j JonesMan
over a year ago
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"Naked, always. A costume does not keep you warm, it does not keep you dry, what's the point?
does anything ever happen in club hot tubs?.. Oh yes "
looks like i need to visit a club with a hot tub then!!... |
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"Naked.
Clubs have people of all shapes and sizes, and it's in many ways very body positive to be in that environment. I know it's easier said than done, but try not to be self conscious.
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Totally agree! I'm self conscious as have recently gained weight but am always naked. Try to be confident! Confidence is sexy! Have fun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Embrace it - if someone doesn’t find you attractive who cares!? You certainly shouldn’t!
Not everyone finds everyone attractive - we all have our own ‘type’ even if some don’t admit that. Embrace it - go naked! Show it all off & im sure you’ll get a lot of compliments.
Now go enjoy your night |
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By *JohnMan
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
There's never an issue with anyone of any size or shape getting naked, but you shouldn't feel under pressure to do that just because others are comfortable with it. You can't enjoy yourself properly if you're not comfortable.
I've seen women in the hot tub in bikinis and lingerie. Just the bottoms, or both parts. It's not a problem. Just bring something you don't mind getting wet, and something dry to change into after. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I usually wear bikini bottoms, but my first time in a hot tub I was bodyshamed, which unfortunately stayed with me. I've been in since, but have remained wary. "
That's sad. No excuse for that. I've never been shamed but my body isn't where I want it to be at the moment so really self conscious. |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
Maybe a May West (life vest) - just te the other folk that you're a poor swimmer.
Seriously though; the only real exposure of your body is the point where you take of whatever clothing/covering you have on you body and climb in. So maybe a take of your clothes in the club changing area, put a towel around you and then climb in with it and then discard it to one side for when you get out.
Let's face it, once your in, all that's visible is your head and shoulders. |
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