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over a year ago
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Hi fabbers...we are fab virgins wanting to try out our fantasy of the cuckold scenario...we want to meet males or couples but not sure if we meet socially in a pub etc or go to a proper club for our first experience? Never done it but we are now ready to get into it |
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My advice would be to search on here for a good bull, meet for a social, at a pub or coffee place etc to check everything over.
Then discuss the scenario from there.
And if everybody is happy, go nuts. |
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over a year ago
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I would go with whatever you feel most comfortable with.
I have met 3 or 4 couples for cuckold meets and each time we met in a pub or coffee shop after messaging in here.
It’s quite chilled that way, no one expects anything other than a chat etc to get to know each other.
Also if you don’t get the right vibes it’s only cost you a coffee or a beer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi fabbers...we are fab virgins wanting to try out our fantasy of the cuckold scenario...we want to meet males or couples but not sure if we meet socially in a pub etc or go to a proper club for our first experience? Never done it but we are now ready to get into it"
My personal preference is for socials to get to know people cost to us that makes things more relaxed but despite the usual reteric of no pressure most meet with an expectation so club my work for you. Just need to be clear on what you are both looking for out of a meeting either club or from here |
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"Hi fabbers...we are fab virgins wanting to try out our fantasy of the cuckold scenario...we want to meet males or couples but not sure if we meet socially in a pub etc or go to a proper club for our first experience? Never done it but we are now ready to get into it"
Definitely go for a social if its a 1st time , unless you think it will end up not happening.
If you go to a club pick your guy & tell him exactly what you require.
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Social first definitely but also my advise is to forget about the whole cuckolding thing until you both know you want it.
I will assume with you guys being fab virgins that the male has never seen the female with another guy before. In famtasy land its all great but in reality it could be a complete disaster.
Maybe find a nice respectful guy that is happy with a 3some first and then you guys can talk it over after.
Good luck. |
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"Social first definitely but also my advise is to forget about the whole cuckolding thing until you both know you want it.
I will assume with you guys being fab virgins that the male has never seen the female with another guy before. In famtasy land its all great but in reality it could be a complete disaster.
Maybe find a nice respectful guy that is happy with a 3some first and then you guys can talk it over after.
Good luck."
I think that's very good sensible advice. When you first get on fab it can all be massively exciting and you charge head first and miss the toe in the water stage. Well you cant un ring a bell. So slow progress and discussion between yourselves is best for the relationship. That's my experience anyway. |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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"Social first definitely but also my advise is to forget about the whole cuckolding thing until you both know you want it.
I will assume with you guys being fab virgins that the male has never seen the female with another guy before. In famtasy land its all great but in reality it could be a complete disaster.
Maybe find a nice respectful guy that is happy with a 3some first and then you guys can talk it over after.
Good luck." Some very good advice. Jumping straight into cuckolding can be tricky. A normal relaxed 3sum might work better and as the meet progresses it may naturally lead to some cuckold fun. |
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As above, 100% social first. See if you all get on, see if you all have the same sense of humour then on the next get together you can look into what direction to go down....cuckolding can be very mental as well as physical and to enjoy it takes time . Above all enjoy yourselves as a couple |
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cuckolding is something couple do after being together a while as you need to be a real stong together couple to do this ... if you are new to the scene maybe work up to cuckolding by starting of as a hotwife couple.
we did hotwife couple for 20 years ++ before health probs for him had us looking at cuckold fun and we love it but we are a very open to each other type couple.
if you do decide to jump in to cuckolding its the same rules as any other part of the scene its your rules no point in asking other's only you two can set the rule and look for what you both want talk talk and talk more ... it can work anyway you want it to from social /clubs/private its about what you want not what others want you to want.
most importantly no 2 cuckold couples are the same but most guys will see cuckold couples as the same they see the porn version and not the real life version thats where you will get every single guy saying they are a bull (hate that term) as every guy will think its as easy as just fucking the woman and saying goodnight so thats the hardest bit finding the right guys.... my only bit of real advice when picking guys is dont ever have an exclusive guy you here for fun not a lockdown |
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"cuckolding is something couple do after being together a while as you need to be a real stong together couple to do this ... if you are new to the scene maybe work up to cuckolding by starting of as a hotwife couple.
we did hotwife couple for 20 years ++ before health probs for him had us looking at cuckold fun and we love it but we are a very open to each other type couple.
if you do decide to jump in to cuckolding its the same rules as any other part of the scene its your rules no point in asking other's only you two can set the rule and look for what you both want talk talk and talk more ... it can work anyway you want it to from social /clubs/private its about what you want not what others want you to want.
most importantly no 2 cuckold couples are the same but most guys will see cuckold couples as the same they see the porn version and not the real life version thats where you will get every single guy saying they are a bull (hate that term) as every guy will think its as easy as just fucking the woman and saying goodnight so thats the hardest bit finding the right guys.... my only bit of real advice when picking guys is dont ever have an exclusive guy you here for fun not a lockdown" this sounds like good advice |
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