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Tv/Ts verifications
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I just wanted to ask what peoples thoughts are on tv/ts verifications.
If you see them on a male or couples profile does it put you off?
Just wondering who its an issue for and why?
i've had a fair few say they don't wan't a verification.... Kinda a kick in the teeth after a good meet  |
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I refuse to meet anyone that wouldn't be prepared for me to verify them and verify back.
These men always say "it'll spoil my chances with women and couples", well apart from making me feel second rate I can't stand deceit. |
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"I refuse to meet anyone that wouldn't be prepared for me to verify them and verify back.
These men always say "it'll spoil my chances with women and couples", well apart from making me feel second rate I can't stand deceit. "
nor can i |
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I'm happy to get verified by whomever I meet.
I dont tend to display verifications unless asked but still why would you meet someone and then not let them post something about you.
Definitely disrespectful |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
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Out of the meets I have, more people don't verify than do.
The people that don't either didn't like me or probably too embarrassed to say they've met a Tv. I'm hoping it's the second reason.
I'm not fussy if they do or don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's because they won't admit their bisexuality, because of prejudice, and ruin their chances with genetic females. Heteronormative society, pressures people to conform, to these ideas,and conventions,.Men are under great pressure to conform to conventional ideas about sexuality and behaviour, hence the power of homophobia even today |
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Original question was would it put off a woman or a couple if they had Tgirl veris? The answer is always going to be some will, some won't. But I have so many women and couples as friends on the swinging scene and some like bi men, some don't but I just have a thing about "straight" men who won't verify and deceiving them and others. Just the way I am xx |
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I long since lost count of the many men who won't verify me after a good meet , they all say it puts the women and couples off meeting them , i believe it is treating us like 2nd class humans and personally I've decided if they won't verify then there not welcome |
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"I long since lost count of the many men who won't verify me after a good meet , they all say it puts the women and couples off meeting them , i believe it is treating us like 2nd class humans and personally I've decided if they won't verify then there not welcome "
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"I long since lost count of the many men who won't verify me after a good meet , they all say it puts the women and couples off meeting them , i believe it is treating us like 2nd class humans and personally I've decided if they won't verify then there not welcome "
This is the road i am gonna be going down for exactly that reason |
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"I long since lost count of the many men who won't verify me after a good meet , they all say it puts the women and couples off meeting them , i believe it is treating us like 2nd class humans and personally I've decided if they won't verify then there not welcome
This is the road i am gonna be going down for exactly that reason "
you do right Chrissy , there's a good few that won't even accept a friend invite lol , I ask them why do they let themselves get bullied by others |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just wanted to ask what peoples thoughts are on tv/ts verifications.
If you see them on a male or couples profile does it put you off?
Just wondering who its an issue for and why?
i've had a fair few say they don't wan't a verification.... Kinda a kick in the teeth after a good meet "
I wouldn't worry, the couple are priming for the next meet and it's about improving the odds. I dont get female meets on fabswingers because me being bi is not everyone's cuppa. |
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"I think that's extremely rude not to want a verification because it might put others off.
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I completely agree but i guess thats just the way it is.
I guess couples or females that cause the situation don't wanna talk about it though  |
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I think that some men think they will be judged in some way..
Whether that's from embarresment or because they think it will put others off I am not sure.. seen some veris on straight profiles from TVs which always seem strange to me
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
We have been verified by a Tv, they were great fun and at one point a forum queen.
Shame Tina doesn’t do the forums anymore.
Read into the veri what you want, fun doesn’t always mean sexual. |
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For me, I find verifications an important part of this site. It determines if I would consider meeting a person. Someone who has no verifications or chosen not to display them does make me wonder about them. My preferred meets is that I would rather meet someone who is clear about their sexuality and someone who has experience with who I am. As a trans person, I don't want to put myself in a situation that could possibly become uncomfortable. Verifications for me are a means of giving me an insight of the person I may possibly be meeting. If I did have a meet and they didn't give me a verification, I would find it slightly hurtful. I guess as someone who is trans, acceptance and any verification of such is always a bonus. |
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"For me, I find verifications an important part of this site. It determines if I would consider meeting a person. Someone who has no verifications or chosen not to display them does make me wonder about them. My preferred meets is that I would rather meet someone who is clear about their sexuality and someone who has experience with who I am. As a trans person, I don't want to put myself in a situation that could possibly become uncomfortable. Verifications for me are a means of giving me an insight of the person I may possibly be meeting. If I did have a meet and they didn't give me a verification, I would find it slightly hurtful. I guess as someone who is trans, acceptance and any verification of such is always a bonus. "
us tgirls need to be extra careful inviting strangers into our home , hate crimes etc ,I like to see men verified by other gurls it gives confidence |
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By *ransBoiTV/TS
over a year ago
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"For me, I find verifications an important part of this site. It determines if I would consider meeting a person. Someone who has no verifications or chosen not to display them does make me wonder about them. My preferred meets is that I would rather meet someone who is clear about their sexuality and someone who has experience with who I am. As a trans person, I don't want to put myself in a situation that could possibly become uncomfortable. Verifications for me are a means of giving me an insight of the person I may possibly be meeting. If I did have a meet and they didn't give me a verification, I would find it slightly hurtful. I guess as someone who is trans, acceptance and any verification of such is always a bonus. "
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