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Age, a barrier?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well at 52 I am beginning to feel that my playing days are drawing to an end.
couples/singles age requirements (which they are obviously quite right to request) means that some times I am too old for them, whilst many couples/singles of my age are looking for a younger stud.
Middle age it’s would appear, is a curse!
Do any of you similarly aged people still get genuine invites to play, Or is age the restriction I am experiencing?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm now the wrong side of 60 (though I've been told I look younger) & it seems a lot of people have an upper age limit of 55 or 60,which does limit the number of potential play mates somewhat. |
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At 73 I have a few friends on here but mostly hit the age barrier. A few moments ago I wanted to contact a couple, who live quite close but their age limit was 68...? How can you be that 'precise' almost pedantic... I am healthy and fitter than many even half age. Attraction, respect and skills are more important than age! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes yes, sometimes no.
I'm 55 (56 soon) and come up against the 50 deadstop more often than not. Never had age restrictions myself and have had some great sex with older women.
Ones that slightly niggle are the 54yr limit, I'm 1 year older, 54 seems a random age to choose. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are a bit older than the OP and yes, as you get older meeting new people gets less easy, but if you persist there's always people out there."
Wish I was in the Peak District  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well at 52 I am beginning to feel that my playing days are drawing to an end.
couples/singles age requirements (which they are obviously quite right to request) means that some times I am too old for them, whilst many couples/singles of my age are looking for a younger stud.
Middle age it’s would appear, is a curse!
Do any of you similarly aged people still get genuine invites to play, Or is age the restriction I am experiencing?
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63 in body 28 in mind works for me also an open accepting attitude to others needs helps. Mr |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have age guidelines but no restrictions but tbh much older isn't really for me because the connection just doesn't seem to be there, plus more often than not they're in a relationship which also doesn't work for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are a bit older than the OP and yes, as you get older meeting new people gets less easy, but if you persist there's always people out there."
Great that you persist and yes I believe you get there in the end . Shame British Rail lost the contracts lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a simple fact that men on here far outnumber couples and women so the odds are stacked anyway.
Age most definitely makes the odds much worse for guys over sixty - messages simply get ignored or worse, deleted with no acknowledgement |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My age isn't a barrier here.
No but you also have a very precise and narrow age limit on your profile - is there really a difference between 67 and say 73 (my age)?"
Yes there's a big difference as 73 is the same age as my in laws and i would/have found that akward and offputting. My lower age limit is because otherwise its close to my childrens age. Anyone can message me though.
My own age causes me no problems on Fab .... that was the question asked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Age is just a number as long as we all get on and have fun who cares! We both have a thing for those more mature than us "
100% agree with you on that one.
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Yes, it does get more difficult as you get older, but don't give up entirely.
I had a great meet with a couple last week, have played as a couple with a 40s woman, and have had some lovely times over the last few years in clubs, including being invited into a private room with a young couple.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We find we get practically no interest from couples. But we always get interest from single males.
Mrs looks late 30s and in better shape than most so it’s got to be clubs for us and then see if people can guess our ages. |
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