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By *apioman OP Man
over a year ago
Shipley |
Lots of people on here say they are Dom or Sub. I got to thinking about whether for most people is it an ongoing role, and are they similar in ‘real life’ situations or is it something which only happens in a sexual context? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I'd love a 24/7 D/s lifestyle. My busy life doesn't allow me to sadly.
I've been lucky to have had a taste of it with an ex Dominant. And it's definitely something that stays with you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am very much sub in the bedroom but in my work/home life is more dominant role, and I like to switch when in a sexual situation.. "
In "work life" i'am very much a leader & in control. It was such a release at the time to let go submit myself to my ex Dominant. As I've said in previous posts. You need a release & this is mine x |
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By *apioman OP Man
over a year ago
Shipley |
"I am very much sub in the bedroom but in my work/home life is more dominant role, and I like to switch when in a sexual situation..
In "work life" i'am very much a leader & in control. It was such a release at the time to let go submit myself to my ex Dominant. As I've said in previous posts. You need a release & this is mine x "
I know people who are very much in a similar situation. High powered jobs by day, submissive sex by night. |
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We used to live ds but once we had a child it became unpractical, you have to be sensible about it but it’s a lot of fun! We spent a lot of time in the scene chatting to other kinksters and as mentioned above, nearly every time the person wanting to be dominated had a high power/ control job and they needed it for balance almost! |
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We live it 24/7. Our D/s dynamic is the perfect platform to do this. For example, if we're out and have to eat something he will choose what I am to eat and drink.
Being a mother I have to make a lot of decsisions at home. So having him do little things like this for me, is another aspect of me giving him the power exchange. |
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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago
huddersfield/manchester |
For me it is just a sexual thing. In daily relationship I like it to be fairly equal. My job entails quite a Dom role so the contrast of being sub is a great release.
However, I do enjoy switching and being Dom in a sexual sense, I have quite a dark side which enjoys that kind of play! |
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