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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When can you say that you are Bi or Staright or Gay. As a sex lover do we really have to put ourselves into boxes or it’s great not to mention anything and just keep having fun.
What are your thoughts ?? |
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Interests are complex and may not be static either, like much of human personality. Trying to fit billions of people into some simple labels, that different people interpret differently anyway, doesn't do justice to the brilliance that is humankind.
Some people, perhaps often those who have a simple understanding of themselves, demand or expect it of others. It's better that you work out how to explain yourself, preferably without just using narrow labels Imo. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When can you say that you are Bi or Staright or Gay. As a sex lover do we really have to put ourselves into boxes or it’s great not to mention anything and just keep having fun.
What are your thoughts ?? "
I have given up with the term Bi ... prefer sexually liberated. It's a shame they can't include that in your stats.
Gay there has to be a preference and I guess an emotional attachment. Bi is more difficult as it has a much broader context. In the end its down to perception and social conditioning - if you are a guy receiving a BJ and you were blindfolded does it matter who's giving it the result is hopefully the same. Same for the ladies does it really matter who’s giving ?????? if you couldn't see
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By *osmicRobMan
over a year ago
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I think we've all got a bit of 'bi-ness' in us whether you call it natural curiosity, penis fixation, subcontious desires or simply being turned on by seeing others being horny around you.
I guess everyone needs to draw a line for themselves.
Would I kiss a man, no!
Would I have oral sex, no!
Would I have intercourse with one, no!
Would I have a mfm and be turned on by the other guy sharing and pleasing a woman together, even if it involves touching his cock, yes!
Would I enjoy watching him wanking and cumming over her, yes! |
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This is a swinging site. I have no interest in your favourite food, which football team you support etc.
However t is not unreasonable to expect some honesty when describing your sexual inclinations.
Honesty is always the best. If you are bi or gay then stand up proud. It will get the best response. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a swinging site. I have no interest in your favourite food, which football team you support etc.
However t is not unreasonable to expect some honesty when describing your sexual inclinations.
Honesty is always the best. If you are bi or gay then stand up proud. It will get the best response."
100% agree with this and I keep saying it on here and in private to my fellow bi and gay men  |
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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago
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"So no labels just sex.. right?"
You sound like a man who is desperate not to admit he's bi despite being attracted to TVs. A quick check of your profile confirms this. Straight but wants to meet TV/TS!  |
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I consider myself straight with bi tendencies, I don't fancy guys, I'm physically attracted to females and convincing tv, Ts, tg but not attracted to guys physically, however I have played alone with guys and enjoyed mutual fun ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When can you say that you are Bi or Staright or Gay. As a sex lover do we really have to put ourselves into boxes or it’s great not to mention anything and just keep having fun.
What are your thoughts ?? "
I would prefer if the sexuality tick box on profiles didn't exist. It's irrelevant and people lie anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So no labels just sex.. right?
You sound like a man who is desperate not to admit he's bi despite being attracted to TVs. A quick check of your profile confirms this. Straight but wants to meet TV/TS! "
Fab straight?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I state bi, but in reality I’m open to experiences, I wouldn’t want to rule out anything (except anything illegal or poo) if it felt right for everyone involved and made everyone happy! |
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I’ve always said, why can’t the human population just have the label, “sexual”? Then whatever people do to act on that is between them and the other(S) involved. Doesn’t have to be more complicated than that! |
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You need to be fully honest, I don’t want any gay men thinking they want to try a woman after a decade or 2 of being gay or be the first one ever had sex with even! it’s horrendous and I’ve had 2 guys do exactly that in the last 10 years it was so awkward and I felt like I was some experiment that went wrong
Being honest is the decent thing and sexuality open people attract others of the same mindset
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I’ve been ‘Straight’ for 20 years but recently sucked a guys cock and absolutely loved it. I’ve no idea if this makes me bi or curious or gay even, I’m still the same person just I’ve tried something new which I happened to like.
Labels are stupid, we just like what we like |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve been ‘Straight’ for 20 years but recently sucked a guys cock and absolutely loved it. I’ve no idea if this makes me bi or curious or gay even, I’m still the same person just I’ve tried something new which I happened to like.
Labels are stupid, we just like what we like "
I have made a few posts on the subject lol. I would simply say you are sexualy liberated. If you decide that you only want to date guys from this day on then say gay.  |
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By *adetMan
over a year ago
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"I’ve been ‘Straight’ for 20 years but recently sucked a guys cock and absolutely loved it. I’ve no idea if this makes me bi or curious or gay even, I’m still the same person just I’ve tried something new which I happened to like.
Labels are stupid, we just like what we like "
Just makes you cock curious. Feels good tho hey |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You need to be fully honest, I don’t want any gay men thinking they want to try a woman after a decade or 2 of being gay or be the first one ever had sex with even! it’s horrendous and I’ve had 2 guys do exactly that in the last 10 years it was so awkward and I felt like I was some experiment that went wrong
Being honest is the decent thing and sexuality open people attract others of the same mindset
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Had a lot of women on here wanting to pop my cherry though, they know the score it is all in my profile. You may feel like that and that is definitely your right, other women not so much. |
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
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I don’t mind how guys describe themselves - that’s up to them, if they want to be discreet. It’s a bit annoying when a guy looks at your profile and then you find he’s blocked all men, but if that’s how they want it then it’s fine by me |
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"You need to be fully honest, I don’t want any gay men thinking they want to try a woman after a decade or 2 of being gay or be the first one ever had sex with even! it’s horrendous and I’ve had 2 guys do exactly that in the last 10 years it was so awkward and I felt like I was some experiment that went wrong
Being honest is the decent thing and sexuality open people attract others of the same mindset
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Exactly my mindset. Once I realised I had a bi side I embraced it. Some advised me not to be open about it but I thought "to hell with the backlash" and stopped describing myself as straight in my profile. |
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"I’ve always said, why can’t the human population just have the label, “sexual”? Then whatever people do to act on that is between them and the other(S) involved. Doesn’t have to be more complicated than that! "
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