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By *kbrad OP Man
over a year ago
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Hey Guys
Meeting a girl this week whose fantasy is to be dominated, do you have have any tips? Brought some underbed straps so she can be tied up. I've been assertive in bed but never really dominated so wondered if you guys had advice? |
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If it's her fantasy and needs that you are satisfying, your best option is to ask her about what she needs. You should cover safety and control aspects, only staying within agreed boundaries.
Restraining someone who you do not know is potentially something that many of us could be uncomfortable about, as it requires levels of trust that potentially aren't going to be established quickly.
See if there are any role play ideas that she'd like and also find what she needs to be fully sexually satisfied. Taking control to an extent can be about leading things, introducing some elements of surprise and so much more. It could for some be about giving up much of their selves to someone who is unknown but you ideally will be talking to get about things. It's the mental as much or more potentially than the physical things you do, they're the expression of it. |
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over a year ago
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If your asking for tips you clearly don't have a clue.
Domination isn't something to do in a matter of fact way.
It takes trust and time to develop that trust.Strapping a girl to your bed isn't Domination. |
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By *kbrad OP Man
over a year ago
thurrock |
Thanks for the advice everyone  she's keen to experiment and being tied up was her idea! But we both agreed that we want to ease into it, and have it as an option, not necessarily something that we will jump I to straight away. It's something we are both very keen to explore but want to do it in the safe and right way. |
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hi mate I have a fully bi sub she is a really nice girl and we have safe fun and don't forget the safe word you both have for when she hits her limit.
and you will both find out and explore more as you learn |
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"Hey Guys
Meeting a girl this week whose fantasy is to be dominated, do you have have any tips? Brought some underbed straps so she can be tied up. I've been assertive in bed but never really dominated so wondered if you guys had advice?"
These are generally just lazy birds, best to avoid..  |
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Plenty of info online.
You need to talk to her to make sure you are both on the same page.
Have clear boundaries of what is acceptable and what is a definite no.
Heath issues, allergies and safe word all need to be discussed.
One persons idea of domination might be a total turn off to someone else.
Communication beforehand is the key thing here.
Good luck! |
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