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By *ung Dom OP Man
over a year ago
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After spending a morning on the forum it seems there is a huge amount of single guys moaning about how it’s difficult for them to get a meet.
My point is, the odds are stacked against you and even if they weren’t, you only get out of life what you put in.
Improve your text, put up pics that generate interest.
And prep for being trolled 
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Agreed. So many profiles on here that suggest very little effort has been made or no thought. Hurriedly put together with one or two dick pics.
As far as punctuation and spelling, don't get me started. |
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"After spending a morning on the forum it seems there is a huge amount of single guys moaning about how it’s difficult for them to get a meet.
My point is, the odds are stacked against you and even if they weren’t, you only get out of life what you put in.
Improve your text, put up pics that generate interest.
And prep for being trolled
HD"
Totally agree. The only kind of moaning we like to hear is in the bedroom  |
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over a year ago
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"After spending a morning on the forum it seems there is a huge amount of single guys moaning about how it’s difficult for them to get a meet.
My point is, the odds are stacked against you and even if they weren’t, you only get out of life what you put in.
Improve your text, put up pics that generate interest.
And prep for being trolled
HD"
I have left that insecure stage behind me and am happy with observing forums, LL |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why do some men feel the need to offer advice to other men, I couldn’t give a shit what anyone else does with their profile, that’s up to them, if they can’t be bothered to put a bit of effort in then bollocks to them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many of them make no effort with profile text or pictures.
Or they moan you have to be gym trained to get noticed while doing nothing to improve their looks.
A lot of people like a fit body, that is the reality. Stop moaning and get your self-defeating lazy arses down the gym, it will pay off  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have the body of a god but I don't brag about it. Ok that god might be fat Thor from Avengers Endgame but it's still a God's body... "
Exactly. I sometimes rock a dad bod, even though I don’t have kids.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some women/ men like Mr Average, some like dad bods, but most in reality like a toned or muscled body. You only have to look at hot pictures section to see that |
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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago
Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire |
"Some women/ men like Mr Average, some like dad bods, but most in reality like a toned or muscled body. You only have to look at hot pictures section to see that "
I've found most women like men with intelligence and a sense of humour to be honest.
A toned and muscled body cannot make up for an empty head |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some women/ men like Mr Average, some like dad bods, but most in reality like a toned or muscled body. You only have to look at hot pictures section to see that
I've found most women like men with intelligence and a sense of humour to be honest.
A toned and muscled body cannot make up for an empty head"
This ^^^ for me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some women/ men like Mr Average, some like dad bods, but most in reality like a toned or muscled body. You only have to look at hot pictures section to see that
I've found most women like men with intelligence and a sense of humour to be honest.
A toned and muscled body cannot make up for an empty head"
What if they have intelligence, humour and a nice body? There seems to be a perception that gym trained men have empty heads, that is not my experience of them over the years. They seem to have an above average drive in them in all areas of their lives I find. |
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"Some women/ men like Mr Average, some like dad bods, but most in reality like a toned or muscled body. You only have to look at hot pictures section to see that
I've found most women like men with intelligence and a sense of humour to be honest.
A toned and muscled body cannot make up for an empty head
What if they have intelligence, humour and a nice body? There seems to be a perception that gym trained men have empty heads, that is not my experience of them over the years. They seem to have an above average drive in them in all areas of their lives I find. "
I work with fit guys and they're no different to anyone lol but relying solely on looks/fitness isn't always that attractive |
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By *ung Dom OP Man
over a year ago
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"Some women/ men like Mr Average, some like dad bods, but most in reality like a toned or muscled body. You only have to look at hot pictures section to see that
I've found most women like men with intelligence and a sense of humour to be honest.
A toned and muscled body cannot make up for an empty head
What if they have intelligence, humour and a nice body? There seems to be a perception that gym trained men have empty heads, that is not my experience of them over the years. They seem to have an above average drive in them in all areas of their lives I find.
I work with fit guys and they're no different to anyone lol but relying solely on looks/fitness isn't always that attractive "
I would say it’s down to confidence and intelligence.
How and what you present will always be different for everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some women/ men like Mr Average, some like dad bods, but most in reality like a toned or muscled body. You only have to look at hot pictures section to see that
I've found most women like men with intelligence and a sense of humour to be honest.
A toned and muscled body cannot make up for an empty head
What if they have intelligence, humour and a nice body? There seems to be a perception that gym trained men have empty heads, that is not my experience of them over the years. They seem to have an above average drive in them in all areas of their lives I find.
I work with fit guys and they're no different to anyone lol but relying solely on looks/fitness isn't always that attractive "
No one is saying relying solely on good looks is attractive, I do not rely purely on it for those I go with. But good looks and fit body certainly increase your choices, no denying it |
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"Many of them make no effort with profile text or pictures.
Or they moan you have to be gym trained to get noticed while doing nothing to improve their looks.
A lot of people like a fit body, that is the reality. Stop moaning and get your self-defeating lazy arses down the gym, it will pay off
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some women/ men like Mr Average, some like dad bods, but most in reality like a toned or muscled body. You only have to look at hot pictures section to see that
I've found most women like men with intelligence and a sense of humour to be honest.
A toned and muscled body cannot make up for an empty head
What if they have intelligence, humour and a nice body? There seems to be a perception that gym trained men have empty heads, that is not my experience of them over the years. They seem to have an above average drive in them in all areas of their lives I find.
I work with fit guys and they're no different to anyone lol but relying solely on looks/fitness isn't always that attractive
No one is saying relying solely on good looks is attractive, I do not rely purely on it for those I go with. But good looks and fit body certainly increase your choices, no denying it "
Of course, with people the are looking for that and especially on fab where looks are much more sort after, but sorry it's intelligence, humour and a fun personality that I find attractive in all ways  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some women/ men like Mr Average, some like dad bods, but most in reality like a toned or muscled body. You only have to look at hot pictures section to see that
I've found most women like men with intelligence and a sense of humour to be honest.
A toned and muscled body cannot make up for an empty head
What if they have intelligence, humour and a nice body? There seems to be a perception that gym trained men have empty heads, that is not my experience of them over the years. They seem to have an above average drive in them in all areas of their lives I find.
I work with fit guys and they're no different to anyone lol but relying solely on looks/fitness isn't always that attractive
No one is saying relying solely on good looks is attractive, I do not rely purely on it for those I go with. But good looks and fit body certainly increase your choices, no denying it
Of course, with people the are looking for that and especially on fab where looks are much more sort after, but sorry it's intelligence, humour and a fun personality that I find attractive in all ways "
That is fair enough if that is your approach |
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"Some women/ men like Mr Average, some like dad bods, but most in reality like a toned or muscled body. You only have to look at hot pictures section to see that
I've found most women like men with intelligence and a sense of humour to be honest.
A toned and muscled body cannot make up for an empty head"
Absolutely this! |
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"Some women/ men like Mr Average, some like dad bods, but most in reality like a toned or muscled body. You only have to look at hot pictures section to see that
I've found most women like men with intelligence and a sense of humour to be honest.
A toned and muscled body cannot make up for an empty head
What if they have intelligence, humour and a nice body? There seems to be a perception that gym trained men have empty heads, that is not my experience of them over the years. They seem to have an above average drive in them in all areas of their lives I find. "
I had a crush on my old gym instructor so it's not that I'm against muscley bodies (though when they're super bulging and veiny it can be a little off putting). Simply that for a lot of us we can be attracted to a variety of body types depending on how the person behind it tickles your brain. |
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I’ve said it before and will again. When playing football at school, some kids weren’t good enough to make the team. It’s the same rules as an adult but the games changed. If you aren’t desirable on the street, you won’t be here either. There’s someone for everyone but know your limits before messaging a premier league woman, then getting upset when she says no. |
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"I’ve said it before and will again. When playing football at school, some kids weren’t good enough to make the team. It’s the same rules as an adult but the games changed. If you aren’t desirable on the street, you won’t be here either. There’s someone for everyone but know your limits before messaging a premier league woman, then getting upset when she says no. "
Brutal but true |
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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago
Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire |
"Some women/ men like Mr Average, some like dad bods, but most in reality like a toned or muscled body. You only have to look at hot pictures section to see that
I've found most women like men with intelligence and a sense of humour to be honest.
A toned and muscled body cannot make up for an empty head
What if they have intelligence, humour and a nice body? There seems to be a perception that gym trained men have empty heads, that is not my experience of them over the years. They seem to have an above average drive in them in all areas of their lives I find. "
Some do, I expect the ones that do to lead with their best traits. If their best traits are their toned bodies, then, they've got problems.
I used to play rugby and I'm still toned but not as muscular as I used to be. In time, you will realise the mind is far more attractive |
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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago
Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire |
"I’ve said it before and will again. When playing football at school, some kids weren’t good enough to make the team. It’s the same rules as an adult but the games changed. If you aren’t desirable on the street, you won’t be here either. There’s someone for everyone but know your limits before messaging a premier league woman, then getting upset when she says no. "
What constitutes a Premier League woman?
We all have different tastes, some people may be attractive to some people and some may not.
It's not an exact science and it is amusing reading some of these comments.
I've walked away from "stunners" because they have empty heads.
Its not about looks but about what you bring to the "party" so to speak in my humble opinion.
Shallow people are of zero interest to me. |
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"Some women/ men like Mr Average, some like dad bods, but most in reality like a toned or muscled body. You only have to look at hot pictures section to see that
I've found most women like men with intelligence and a sense of humour to be honest.
A toned and muscled body cannot make up for an empty head
What if they have intelligence, humour and a nice body? There seems to be a perception that gym trained men have empty heads, that is not my experience of them over the years. They seem to have an above average drive in them in all areas of their lives I find.
I work with fit guys and they're no different to anyone lol but relying solely on looks/fitness isn't always that attractive
No one is saying relying solely on good looks is attractive, I do not rely purely on it for those I go with. But good looks and fit body certainly increase your choices, no denying it "
So just to get this absolutely clear -
Be Intelligent, handsome, charming, funny, fit, muscly and charismatic. That’s all yeah? |
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"Why do some men feel the need to offer advice to other men, I couldn’t give a shit what anyone else does with their profile, that’s up to them, if they can’t be bothered to put a bit of effort in then bollocks to them. "
Because then the women know that they’re one of the good ones and they get messages. In this competition I think it’s one way |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some women/ men like Mr Average, some like dad bods, but most in reality like a toned or muscled body. You only have to look at hot pictures section to see that
I've found most women like men with intelligence and a sense of humour to be honest.
A toned and muscled body cannot make up for an empty head
What if they have intelligence, humour and a nice body? There seems to be a perception that gym trained men have empty heads, that is not my experience of them over the years. They seem to have an above average drive in them in all areas of their lives I find.
Some do, I expect the ones that do to lead with their best traits. If their best traits are their toned bodies, then, they've got problems.
I used to play rugby and I'm still toned but not as muscular as I used to be. In time, you will realise the mind is far more attractive "
Agreeing with all your comments here -Mrs |
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"I’ve said it before and will again. When playing football at school, some kids weren’t good enough to make the team. It’s the same rules as an adult but the games changed. If you aren’t desirable on the street, you won’t be here either. There’s someone for everyone but know your limits before messaging a premier league woman, then getting upset when she says no. "
I don’t think it’s that you shouldn’t message anyone you fancy just because they’re potentially out of your league. People have different preferences and no one should label themselves a 2 and seek out twos. It’s about respecting and being polite and accepting that you aren’t for everyone. I believed Mr.Cagey was out of my league and we have been together almost 20 years now, he believes I’m out of his. Perfect match. But I’d hate to think someone who’s lovely with a gsoh and can hold a conversation would think “nah she’s/he’s/they’re better than me”. Life is nothing without taking leaps and knowing sometimes it doesn’t work. |
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By *ung Dom OP Man
over a year ago
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"I’ve said it before and will again. When playing football at school, some kids weren’t good enough to make the team. It’s the same rules as an adult but the games changed. If you aren’t desirable on the street, you won’t be here either. There’s someone for everyone but know your limits before messaging a premier league woman, then getting upset when she says no.
I don’t think it’s that you shouldn’t message anyone you fancy just because they’re potentially out of your league. People have different preferences and no one should label themselves a 2 and seek out twos. It’s about respecting and being polite and accepting that you aren’t for everyone. I believed Mr.Cagey was out of my league and we have been together almost 20 years now, he believes I’m out of his. Perfect match. But I’d hate to think someone who’s lovely with a gsoh and can hold a conversation would think “nah she’s/he’s/they’re better than me”. Life is nothing without taking leaps and knowing sometimes it doesn’t work. "
I agree with everything that is being said, but feel we have moved away from the initial point.
Men who get it, put their best attributes first and are polite when speaking to others.
My point is that I’m fed of of reading about guys who don’t make the effort then feel they are being dealt with unfairly. |
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"Some women/ men like Mr Average, some like dad bods, but most in reality like a toned or muscled body. You only have to look at hot pictures section to see that
I've found most women like men with intelligence and a sense of humour to be honest.
A toned and muscled body cannot make up for an empty head
What if they have intelligence, humour and a nice body? There seems to be a perception that gym trained men have empty heads, that is not my experience of them over the years. They seem to have an above average drive in them in all areas of their lives I find.
I work with fit guys and they're no different to anyone lol but relying solely on looks/fitness isn't always that attractive
No one is saying relying solely on good looks is attractive, I do not rely purely on it for those I go with. But good looks and fit body certainly increase your choices, no denying it
So just to get this absolutely clear -
Be Intelligent, handsome, charming, funny, fit, muscly and charismatic. That’s all yeah? "
You forgot well endowed |
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"I’ve said it before and will again. When playing football at school, some kids weren’t good enough to make the team. It’s the same rules as an adult but the games changed. If you aren’t desirable on the street, you won’t be here either. There’s someone for everyone but know your limits before messaging a premier league woman, then getting upset when she says no.
I don’t think it’s that you shouldn’t message anyone you fancy just because they’re potentially out of your league. People have different preferences and no one should label themselves a 2 and seek out twos. It’s about respecting and being polite and accepting that you aren’t for everyone. I believed Mr.Cagey was out of my league and we have been together almost 20 years now, he believes I’m out of his. Perfect match. But I’d hate to think someone who’s lovely with a gsoh and can hold a conversation would think “nah she’s/he’s/they’re better than me”. Life is nothing without taking leaps and knowing sometimes it doesn’t work.
I agree with everything that is being said, but feel we have moved away from the initial point.
Men who get it, put their best attributes first and are polite when speaking to others.
My point is that I’m fed of of reading about guys who don’t make the effort then feel they are being dealt with unfairly."
I agree!! |
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By *ung Dom OP Man
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Some women/ men like Mr Average, some like dad bods, but most in reality like a toned or muscled body. You only have to look at hot pictures section to see that
I've found most women like men with intelligence and a sense of humour to be honest.
A toned and muscled body cannot make up for an empty head
What if they have intelligence, humour and a nice body? There seems to be a perception that gym trained men have empty heads, that is not my experience of them over the years. They seem to have an above average drive in them in all areas of their lives I find.
I work with fit guys and they're no different to anyone lol but relying solely on looks/fitness isn't always that attractive
No one is saying relying solely on good looks is attractive, I do not rely purely on it for those I go with. But good looks and fit body certainly increase your choices, no denying it
So just to get this absolutely clear -
Be Intelligent, handsome, charming, funny, fit, muscly and charismatic. That’s all yeah?
You forgot well endowed "
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It got pointed out in a thread the other and I do agree, that so.etimes all this profile advice can be counter productive.. everyone suggests to change a pic..change text...add this take out that. Sometimes I think it would be better not to...if a guy/gal cant be bothered to write a profile or it consists of just one line or " I'll fill this in later" when theory profile been I for months, or they just go on about what they want..personally that's the profile of theirs I'd want to see...profile is to sell yourself...if you csnt be arsed to make an effort with that what does it say about them in general... |
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By *ung Dom OP Man
over a year ago
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"It got pointed out in a thread the other and I do agree, that so.etimes all this profile advice can be counter productive.. everyone suggests to change a pic..change text...add this take out that. Sometimes I think it would be better not to...if a guy/gal cant be bothered to write a profile or it consists of just one line or " I'll fill this in later" when theory profile been I for months, or they just go on about what they want..personally that's the profile of theirs I'd want to see...profile is to sell yourself...if you csnt be arsed to make an effort with that what does it say about them in general..."
I think that pretty much says everything.
Happy fabbing and enjoy the rest of your day. |
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"Why do some men feel the need to offer advice to other men, I couldn’t give a shit what anyone else does with their profile, that’s up to them, if they can’t be bothered to put a bit of effort in then bollocks to them. "
He isn't offering advice to other men. Like most he couldn't give a damn about other men. What he's doing is the same as all these men who start posts condemning barebackers etc etc. He is using the forum to advertise himself to possible female partners with his supposed virtues and morals. I find these types of posts quite pathetic tbh, they are merely saying most men on here are crap but look at me, aren't I great? Na na nana naaaaaaa |
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By *ung Dom OP Man
over a year ago
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"Why do some men feel the need to offer advice to other men, I couldn’t give a shit what anyone else does with their profile, that’s up to them, if they can’t be bothered to put a bit of effort in then bollocks to them.
He isn't offering advice to other men. Like most he couldn't give a damn about other men. What he's doing is the same as all these men who start posts condemning barebackers etc etc. He is using the forum to advertise himself to possible female partners with his supposed virtues and morals. I find these types of posts quite pathetic tbh, they are merely saying most men on here are crap but look at me, aren't I great? Na na nana naaaaaaa"
Almost correct on some points.
Unfortunately, by responding and adding your comments you are keeping the post live.
I really don’t need to advertise to be fair, but Thankyou anyway
(The post came about as part of private conversations with other fabbers)
Bitter and twisted guys Do make the rest of us look good though.
Happy fabbing |
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"Why do some men feel the need to offer advice to other men, I couldn’t give a shit what anyone else does with their profile, that’s up to them, if they can’t be bothered to put a bit of effort in then bollocks to them.
He isn't offering advice to other men. Like most he couldn't give a damn about other men. What he's doing is the same as all these men who start posts condemning barebackers etc etc. He is using the forum to advertise himself to possible female partners with his supposed virtues and morals. I find these types of posts quite pathetic tbh, they are merely saying most men on here are crap but look at me, aren't I great? Na na nana naaaaaaa
Almost correct on some points.
Unfortunately, by responding and adding your comments you are keeping the post live.
I really don’t need to advertise to be fair, but Thankyou anyway
(The post came about as part of private conversations with other fabbers)
Bitter and twisted guys Do make the rest of us look good though.
Happy fabbing"
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"Some women/ men like Mr Average, some like dad bods, but most in reality like a toned or muscled body. You only have to look at hot pictures section to see that
I've found most women like men with intelligence and a sense of humour to be honest.
A toned and muscled body cannot make up for an empty head
What if they have intelligence, humour and a nice body? There seems to be a perception that gym trained men have empty heads, that is not my experience of them over the years. They seem to have an above average drive in them in all areas of their lives I find.
I work with fit guys and they're no different to anyone lol but relying solely on looks/fitness isn't always that attractive
No one is saying relying solely on good looks is attractive, I do not rely purely on it for those I go with. But good looks and fit body certainly increase your choices, no denying it
So just to get this absolutely clear -
Be Intelligent, handsome, charming, funny, fit, muscly and charismatic. That’s all yeah?
You forgot well endowed "
Oh, tall as well. Yes that’s about it I think? |
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"Some women/ men like Mr Average, some like dad bods, but most in reality like a toned or muscled body. You only have to look at hot pictures section to see that
I've found most women like men with intelligence and a sense of humour to be honest.
A toned and muscled body cannot make up for an empty head"
This.
I met a young man in a club a few yrs back, he was stunning absolutely stunning. Looked like Greek God yet there was so little between his ears I was amazed he had the brains to breathe. |
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Good post OP, yes man up is right ,
I’ve text a few and a few reply and some don’t , even though we communicate on the forum they don’t chat outside of that and that’s fine .
They don’t know me and I don’t know them and life goes on , strap on a pair and walk talk . |
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"Some women/ men like Mr Average, some like dad bods, but most in reality like a toned or muscled body. You only have to look at hot pictures section to see that
I've found most women like men with intelligence and a sense of humour to be honest.
A toned and muscled body cannot make up for an empty head
What if they have intelligence, humour and a nice body? There seems to be a perception that gym trained men have empty heads, that is not my experience of them over the years. They seem to have an above average drive in them in all areas of their lives I find.
I work with fit guys and they're no different to anyone lol but relying solely on looks/fitness isn't always that attractive
No one is saying relying solely on good looks is attractive, I do not rely purely on it for those I go with. But good looks and fit body certainly increase your choices, no denying it
So just to get this absolutely clear -
Be Intelligent, handsome, charming, funny, fit, muscly and charismatic. That’s all yeah?
You forgot well endowed
Oh, tall as well. Yes that’s about it I think? "
You described my ideal man |
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"After spending a morning on the forum it seems there is a huge amount of single guys moaning about how it’s difficult for them to get a meet.
My point is, the odds are stacked against you and even if they weren’t, you only get out of life what you put in.
Improve your text, put up pics that generate interest.
And prep for being trolled
HD"
Yes well said ?? |
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By *ung Dom OP Man
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Ive done the opposite of "manning up"
Probably the better option. I hate the phrase "man up" anyway."
A cynic would say the phrase “man up” had been used to catch your attention when looking through the forum and to generate maximum interest.
Good job none of us are cynics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After spending a morning on the forum it seems there is a huge amount of single guys moaning about how it’s difficult for them to get a meet.
My point is, the odds are stacked against you and even if they weren’t, you only get out of life what you put in.
Improve your text, put up pics that generate interest.
And prep for being trolled
HD"
There are also quite a few moaning about others moaning too they really really need to man up! |
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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago
North of Okehampton, South of Bideford |
"Why do some men feel the need to offer advice to other men, I couldn’t give a shit what anyone else does with their profile, that’s up to them, if they can’t be bothered to put a bit of effort in then bollocks to them. "
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By *mJamsCouple
over a year ago
Staffordshire |
"Some women/ men like Mr Average, some like dad bods, but most in reality like a toned or muscled body. You only have to look at hot pictures section to see that
I've found most women like men with intelligence and a sense of humour to be honest.
A toned and muscled body cannot make up for an empty head"
This ^ intelligence and a sense of humour goes way further. The nice body is an added bonus but I’d far rather a guy know how to talk to me first! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve said it before and will again. When playing football at school, some kids weren’t good enough to make the team. It’s the same rules as an adult but the games changed. If you aren’t desirable on the street, you won’t be here either. There’s someone for everyone but know your limits before messaging a premier league woman, then getting upset when she says no. "
I have to disagree. If I put half as much effort in on the street I would be getting laid. But here nothing. |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
Sandwich |
"I’ve said it before and will again. When playing football at school, some kids weren’t good enough to make the team. It’s the same rules as an adult but the games changed. If you aren’t desirable on the street, you won’t be here either. There’s someone for everyone but know your limits before messaging a premier league woman, then getting upset when she says no.
I have to disagree. If I put half as much effort in on the street I would be getting laid. But here nothing. "
So why not just put half as much effort in on the street? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve said it before and will again. When playing football at school, some kids weren’t good enough to make the team. It’s the same rules as an adult but the games changed. If you aren’t desirable on the street, you won’t be here either. There’s someone for everyone but know your limits before messaging a premier league woman, then getting upset when she says no.
I have to disagree. If I put half as much effort in on the street I would be getting laid. But here nothing.
So why not just put half as much effort in on the street?"
I do. I'm a little shy in reality but when I put my mind to it.. I've found it a lot better than trying to make connections online.
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By *iss-louWoman
over a year ago
Cardiff |
"Agreed. So many profiles on here that suggest very little effort has been made or no thought. Hurriedly put together with one or two dick pics.
As far as punctuation and spelling, don't get me started."
This this this
"Looking for sexy fun"
Noo.. never could have guessed |
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