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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We ahve decided to play with other couples now and experiment furhter. Whats the rules around playing with couples and are there any here who want to help us out |
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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago
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You all make your own rules. We always meet socially on a separate occasion first, and, if you all click, we have a very frank chat about what our boundaries, hopes and expectations are, and ask them the same. It's worked pretty well so far.. only one 'jealousy' event when the other female took exception to Mrs2Bi playing with her fella (mutual oral) even though I was doing the same with her, and at no stage had she told us, or as it turns out, her fella, that she did not want to go that far.
Be open and honest with yoruselves and the people you intend to play with and you should have a good time.  |
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as has been said, there are no fast and set rules for playing with anyone as everyone is different.
some dont fuck others (us)
others dont kiss
others just want to watch and be watched.
thats what profiles are for, so you can find those that are compatably with yourselves and your own boundaries.
the meet on a serperate occasion is also something we do, however, if there is a spark there and we all want it, we wont rule out first night play, otherwise we all go away happy and organise something for a later date. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You all make your own rules. We always meet socially on a separate occasion first, and, if you all click, we have a very frank chat about what our boundaries, hopes and expectations are, and ask them the same. It's worked pretty well so far.. only one 'jealousy' event when the other female took exception to Mrs2Bi playing with her fella (mutual oral) even though I was doing the same with her, and at no stage had she told us, or as it turns out, her fella, that she did not want to go that far.
Be open and honest with yoruselves and the people you intend to play with and you should have a good time. "
We would go along with that and a social meet is always better first as there are 4 of you who have to get along together. |
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There are two options as we see it. Either make up agreed rules before the meet (which most people do) and stick to them, or do what we do and have a general idea of what we'd like to do and what we definitely don't and then just see what feels comfortable at the time when it gets to it.
If something isn't fun, just say so. No-one will shout at you for raising their expectations or anything and at the end of the day isn't fun what we'e all here for?
R&C x |
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