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First time nerves

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I thought I was mr.confident but 1st time chats with someone about meeting has sent me Into a bit of a Tumble and suddenly I kind've nervous, everyone been the same?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It happens to many people you will get over it.

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By *BWandhusbandCouple over a year ago

Midlands

"I thought I was mr.confident but 1st time chats with someone about meeting has sent me Into a bit of a Tumble and suddenly I kind've nervous, everyone been the same?"

I completely bottled it after we'd arranged our first meet. I cancelled it and hid our profile for a year.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I thought I was mr.confident but 1st time chats with someone about meeting has sent me Into a bit of a Tumble and suddenly I kind've nervous, everyone been the same?

I completely bottled it after we'd arranged our first meet. I cancelled it and hid our profile for a year. "

Oh god lol I think I need to stick to my guns and just do it, it'll be worth it at the end I'm sure and it'll open up plenty more opportunities for me if I'm meet verified I'm sure!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

First ever meet on old profile I was almost sick with nerves waiting for my couple to turn up.

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By *oldyoudown41Man over a year ago

caledonian

You could just have a drink to settle the nerves, but just the one

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By *BWandhusbandCouple over a year ago

Midlands

"I thought I was mr.confident but 1st time chats with someone about meeting has sent me Into a bit of a Tumble and suddenly I kind've nervous, everyone been the same?

I completely bottled it after we'd arranged our first meet. I cancelled it and hid our profile for a year.

Oh god lol I think I need to stick to my guns and just do it, it'll be worth it at the end I'm sure and it'll open up plenty more opportunities for me if I'm meet verified I'm sure!

I'm sure you'll be fine. The second guy we met was really nervous but after 20 mins or so he'd relaxed. Just don't overthink it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It happens, but you’ll forget all about when you arrive for your meet. Take a deep breath, they’re interested in you, otherwise they wouldn’t have arranged a meet.

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By *adetMan over a year ago

South of Ipswich

It's never as bad as you imagine it to be i promise. And you'll feel sooo much better afterwards

Good luck!

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I get mad nerves every single time, you've just got to push through it, and when you meet, it all disappears.

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